Life cannot remain at the mercy of others!

Life cannot remain at the mercy of others whether near or far ones and that is the reason I always believed that it is better to lead your own life under any circumstances rather than having the belief of staying with the limited resources and more expectations. It is also true that when you start caring and loving too much in relationship then the person on the other end starts feeling strangulated  and feels to break free leading to chaos.

Now, if we see the relationship traits unless and until we are not capable enough to do something on our own that is having enough knowledge to earn through better ways then it does not make sense to get away from the person who is the superior in your family.

The worst trait in life is of fatherhood as a person who becomes a father wants to remain a father or nurturer forever and with all love and efforts he puts in his family a little bit of deviation makes him to revolt against his own family and then he certainly breaks the shackles in every possible ways and moves away.

If the Indian mindset is to be understood then the caring personality is given much respect and he or she is lauded by all the person around him thinking of a family traits in him or her whis true to some extent. 

With today's kids who are very much aggressive with their super tones and with few years after taking birth start indulging in the family matters it becomes difficult to carry own with the love and respect for a person who has been trying to adjust in the world on his own ways.

Also, by those people around who understand the meaning of breaking the family and considering to keep as many people in their life as a lady from different house by showing enough in terms of the booty could be making much of difference in family life.

With all the family where the young boys could be found the opportunist is always in the lookout for the breaking homes syndrome and try to persuade woman to get more out of her in terms of sex, money and many other aspects of life.

In this particular life scenario it is very much necessary to understand the family first and then carry on with any big steps in life as the society all around tries to make out of everyone under circumstance and once you start doing for any person whether considering it your own good deeds or maybe a way to increase your familiar ties then all it remains is that you have to remain nurturer for a long more time.

With that comes a situation where your own family members move away and then your life remains of a shunting engine moving from one place to another. In my case scenario I always believed to stay away from the trouble makes at least in my life making me independent to some extent and make the other person to understand my own traits and behaviour making them to understand my views.

In this way, whether staying away or staying in their thoughts apart from many apprehensions by the society people by far and large could understand me thta my life cannot remain on the mercy of others and to gain respect first I have to become something good on my own and then carry the burden of al the necessities which I have been doing throughout my life but i understood one important aspect that the more you are good to others the more people believe in overpowering you and the more you are on your own and neglected people's expectation gets over and you lead a life of peaceful existence within your own limitations making you feel better in life for many more years to come!