Greatness lies in the hearts and the behaviou aspects!

If one has to say that the greatness lies in the heart and the behaviour aspects then it could be certainly said to be an inbuilt process which one learns from his own family and people around you. The personality traits are something which reflects your own personality and there are times when the parents just could not find their children on the right path or direction.

I was more privilege as because most of the time was under strict parental guidance and the same could be said for my teachers who kept me under their strict supervision apart from the few who had some indigenous problem according to their own beliefs. 

Now, getting to the thought which says that greatness lies in the hearts and the behaviour aspects one could say that what we learn we speak and the life terms which we follow. If I remember any of my uncle and aunts who use to visit at our home for any purpose always use to give me all kinds of blessings. Their words were so soothing for me that at times even if I was in some bad mindset it just helped me to overcome any distress and trouble leading me to be healthier from inside and giving immense courage in my life. 

In particular if I have to speak few names then they were Mr. T.N. Pandey Ji, My Giri Ji and many others but on the other hand my uncle and aunts who were especially from my Maternal background were creating all kinds of furor in life but their children who could understand the society well according to their own understandings were good with me which again helped me to feel better in their presence.

So, what one learns during childhood is the reflection of our society which is just the outer cover in life just like a Saturn rings which helps the planets from all kinds of meteor attacks or just akin to earth atmosphere.

now, thinking about being a person with humility and humbleness atleast during the childhood and also overcoming few shortcomings did not made me bad at any point of time. One could say that if few of the people who are bad from the clan of Dubey or Pandey which could be said the brahminical society then the entire blame could not reach on the Brahmins. 

There are many people all around us as an example in life such as V.V. Giri ji and many other such as Brahmins such as Mahamana Madan Mohan Malviya who has lifted the Indian society through their important contribution in lifting the poor and the needy irrespective of the caste and creed system which was the base of the Indian society during the era of independence and followed for many years later.

What one could learn from the today's perspective in social behaviour is that somewhere down the line your own maternal uncles and aunts in many homes try to disrupt you and make you a pawn in the society. Many a times the parent just do not give an eye to the advances done by mausi and many other such relationship who try to indulge you into irregular behaviour which is akin to sodomizing you or destroying your inner sense by dragging you into various sexual aspect.

Remember, that having sex is not only enjoying the gift of the nature but also get into the act of supremacy where at most of the time the male could be found superior across any species and then having sex with the right person lifts you up while following the degraded one makes you feel low before the society and then it may give an inner guilt.

After all if you learn the basic of life from your father, mother and grandparents then it is easy for you to reply to this world which always try to overpower you while if you believe in understanding the world through your own eyes at the age which is just a kids age then you could also learn a lot by understanding life but if you are under the supervision of any woman at the early age of life then you will reach only at the blackholes which are the stars who eat up the bigger part of the universe and then your potential will not become a charismatic play which is necessary according to the generation which governs the world today.