In India women is known by her degree in a blunt way!

India as a country has seen a surge in women's education in the relevant field of her choice. The woman is not only pursuing the basic education till Class Xii but putting all her efforts to do graduation and post graduation. She is also putting her all efforts in learning new skills and joining very fast into public domain such as IPS, IAS and many other trade such as Air Force and Indian Army.

But what is disheartening is that in India women is known by her degree in a blunt way. I have learned this as in the year 2015 when I was returning from my job as a Digital Marketing Content Writer few of the boys who were ahead of me on bike were speaking that Shikha Mehra M.A. kar gayi...aur ye laga hua hai...!!!

I did not took it just with a pinch of salt but immediately started finding a way to do M.A. in a relevant subject. So, I reach Bharati Vidyapeeth as a Punjabi girl helped me to know about the University at Ropar Road, Paschim Vihar.

There i contacted the School of Distance learning department as I have to earn my own bread and butter while learning  as the reason behind is taht for me earning my own bread and butter is as equivalent as it helps me to earn pride and love from the society.

I never took any offence in the name of any girl colleague who worked with me at any of the office but always become angry when the fun is made in my name by attaching any particular name as I just do not feel it to be justified. 

I believe that while I have been staying away from any controversial thought process it is good for me to keep my eyes either at the level or a bit low so that I could understand the land while running as it will not give any hurt in my legs.

Also, the childhood thought of arrey aap to mere inspiration has has been overcome in me and my mindset says that I have to become my own inspiration apart from my parents and dear ones as most of the time such words are made mockery for many years to come.

The second thought is about not having any Godfather but primarily considering every elder as a father figure gives me solace. So, as i was saying that although I was nowhere in thought of any conspiracy or poor love angle with this particular name but the persistent anger just put me a thought to understand that while we as a person do not reach any particular achievements in life such as any Masters or any other awarding studies we just point a finger towards any girl by stating her name with her degree and feel that we have conquered her.

On the other hand I never had any thought to get near to her and nor had any plan to spend some time but a little bit of motivation of my own helped me to complete my Post Graduation as M.A in Sociology and the number turned out to be Second Higher Class which is rewarding in it's own and thus made me dear in the eyes of many people around me!