People with better educated minds could not transfer wisdom to children!

Everywhere we see that the parents who honk too much about themselves being educated and from the superior race at times fail when it comes to giving education to their children. It could be said that the days are not the same when generation after generation use to be studious and hampering the education of a person with better thoughts is not disrupted by the society.

Before reaching any point what a person will become in life people become weak in their own eyes by creating road blocks for others and at times it leads to hampering the education of their own children. There are many families where people do not have their own children and they go on adapting different kids and it also gives them a shameful thought but still it is very much necessary to puff up their own ways of life and then have the goons all around to hamper the educated and the thinkers who tend to understand things quickly.

Now, think about the time when generation after generation use to become either Doctor, Lawyer or Scientists as the scope was limited. But with the global expansion of education and people finding new ways to get educated along with Internet thankfully, people are understanding the value of education and the life is changing at a faster pace.

Also, education is not limited to any particular caste, creed and religion but still India is a country where caste based education system is still a matter which helps the people to judge more about the education of people.

If we understand deeply it is not necessary that the Scheduled Castes which has been the only matter to be discussed among the parliamentarians to uplift them but the moment any particular person gets ahead in his life he or she does not wish to get the society of theirs to carry on with the education.

The matter is their own dissatisfaction with the education because they feel that education has deprived them of their freedom. 

On the other hand the upper caste believes that with education they could overpower each other and they try multiple ways to overpower each other in the name of education. The most foolish way is to say that Saraswati Ji was a courtesan and a consort and once the girl gets educated she believes in baring all and feels that the education has given her the power to get into overcoming various obstacles which could be getting into overexposure.

It could be said that the behavioral traits do change but things become bad when people start changing their names to take advantage of every single way in the society. Now, if I ask myself with every way to get educated where it has taught you to have five official names where one can put their name into every religion including Muslims, Hindu and also Christians.

It is easy in India to reach with different names but thankfully when their official name is concerned then the certificate name just cannot get changed and from their on the truth just remains rather to feel sorry rather than satisfied.

Now, getting back to the thought that people with better educated minds could not transfer wisdom to children as they believe that the way they take advantage out of the society their children could be seen getting wayward and then before making mockery of others they themselves could be seen having a feet of clay which is all about getting into destruction of their community along with themselves. So by and large they become the mockery for the entire nation with the only solace gives them some happiness is trying to overpower the boy or girl who is meek but understand their lifestyle through better understanding!

Sansani: A rumour monger way to make the children afraid!

In the year 2004 when I was staying at New Delhi all alone and was trying my luck at various Call Center jobs after a short stint with jobs at Shelters my father Mr. Upendra Vidyarthi joined a new fad. When I use to visit him at Bokaro Steel City which was my home town my father in his hush-hush tone use to say me "Agar kuch bhi galat kiya to bas name de denge tumhara Sansani mein...!

I could say myself a grown up kid even after being an adult as I was not into any mode of having any kind of explicit relationship whether sexual or platonic. So, all alone in my flat which was a rented one I always use to keep in mind that when my father reaches me at New Delhi I should not be found with any guilt.

Now, think about the serial Sansani: A rumour monger way to make the children afraid...as the parents take advantage by terrifying the well-cultured boy in it's name. I do not point towards the serials way to find the criminals and curb them but a boy from a small town when he reaches New Delhi all he thinks is that latakle Beta...to gayle beta...!

So, most of the time during the school days life was under the scrutiny of parents and the teachers along with Mr. Gupta and Miss Shagufta ji who keeps in mind that the lad should not do any kind of mischiefs.

On the other hand there are people from Gorakhpur who are from the peshewar Munna or Chuunna gang and they have a great influence on girls and women. What makes me feel bad is the inclination of women and girls who feel great attachments with Gangsters like Sri Prakash Shukla who are like an eternal pests in the society.

What such person do by getting themselves involved into crime and talking odd language of Beta tum hamko abhi pehchane nahi ho..and few bullets making you bite the dust and the semi-literate woman dancing over their tunes. If the serials like Sansani and Crime patrol just help us to find such people and expose them to the society it gives us a reprieve as for me they are just a kind of bully who could be taken with both hands and one can easily put them down.

Frankly speaking such people should never ge encouraged and if they point gun towards any person one could ask them to fight with bare hands and one could say that fight with the same weight person.

It is not necessary that at every point of time Police will be standing y your side but if one has to see the future of our children and a true India then we have to fight the evils in a more daring way which will not only teach them a lesson but will make the society crime free forever.

As one see that at any time during the crisis like COVID-19 such persons or any other could not be seen any help to the society but they will be the first one to run away to save their ass with their selected woman in tow and one has to remember that any kind of monetary help from them has to be paid back in the form of Criminal Offence and on the contrary a help by Police gives a justification for the society about the good deeds attached with your life and glory forever!

My classmates have done so much for me without asking for Payback!

If I say that my classmates at Holy Cross, Bokaro Steel City irrespective of section which was Section-A, B & C where-in I was in Section B has done so much for me that I can never payback to them. Irrespective of my father being a bit harsh on me at times only and far better than those fathers  who just let their son and daughters set free in life where they took all the evil paths and probably degraded themselves my father was always better in-front of such Mai-Baap.

My father was good in terms with making me feel good and at times took the entire family to Cinema hall and even we enjoyed a good picnic on 1st of January. The small gesture of his has given me enough strength in life at times and that was enough for me to get into the mode of being self-reliant in every possible ways.

Now, getting back to the thought as my classmates have done so much for me without asking for payback that I never felt alone at school premises and as it happens that sometimes boys and girls are single out during the games period and any other co-curricular activities but it never happened with me. 

Their encouraging words which use to come in the form of applause to make me feel like a Hero and that use to give me some ecstatic moment of joy which just cannot be explained. Their lifestyle could be said something very much of flamboyance and style and many of the girls and boys were akin to the style divas and models. 

Although, I was of a mediocre height but it never weighed on my mind on the other hand the neighborhood was full of those Uncle, Aunts and their children who had a permanent grudge against me. They just never feel delighted about my presence and the constant murmuring and the pranks which was bad on my part had always given me a deep scar in my thoughts and at times I sue to feel heartbroken.

The entire life during the childhood at any of the Sectors of Bokaro Steel City was a feeling of getting fucked left, right and center and it use to seem to me as an endless trauma where neither I sue to feel good about the presence of people around me and neither ever tried to get pally with them.

It could be said that most of the time my life was within a good breathing space at my school and at home I was feeling only good within the company of my parents and the only sister.

Although, one could say that as a children before Class Xth we were not into any particular star studded performance in the class and neither care about anybody getting some good or bad marks into any subject as we were all into a good mode of learning sports along with other co-curricular activities.

Also, the school bus which use to carry us to the school use to take at least one hour as the school was on the outskirts of the city but it never made us feel bore as the entire fun was a part of the travel and the only demarcation was between the girl and the boys seat which made less interaction with girls.

So, one could say that in spite of the neighbors being bad towards me as because even when I tried to get near to them related to any sports all they could do is that fight with me creating utter sense of dissatisfaction and most of the time there way of life was to make me a target of all jokes which made an unnecessary pressure on me.

On the other hand my lifestyle at home was fulfilled with good food and fruits which gave me enough happiness and their was less of issues apart from the complains of my mother who always expected me to be good in terms of studies which could make me feel bad at times.

The other great thing was that my father never use to drink in front of us and was not a habitual drinker that has given us some better ways to enjoy the life as a drinker husband, fighter wife creates much of the pain in life.

So, all in all I remain thankful to my friends at school who stood thick and thins in my life and because of them I never felt any way to be small or neglected on the other hand I always feel that if only the neighborhood would have been good then it would have added more better aspect to the life but as it is said that God does not give fruits in both hands to make us understand the world better and lead a fulfilling life!    

  

In India women is known by her degree in a blunt way!

India as a country has seen a surge in women's education in the relevant field of her choice. The woman is not only pursuing the basic education till Class Xii but putting all her efforts to do graduation and post graduation. She is also putting her all efforts in learning new skills and joining very fast into public domain such as IPS, IAS and many other trade such as Air Force and Indian Army.

But what is disheartening is that in India women is known by her degree in a blunt way. I have learned this as in the year 2015 when I was returning from my job as a Digital Marketing Content Writer few of the boys who were ahead of me on bike were speaking that Shikha Mehra M.A. kar gayi...aur ye laga hua hai...!!!

I did not took it just with a pinch of salt but immediately started finding a way to do M.A. in a relevant subject. So, I reach Bharati Vidyapeeth as a Punjabi girl helped me to know about the University at Ropar Road, Paschim Vihar.

There i contacted the School of Distance learning department as I have to earn my own bread and butter while learning  as the reason behind is taht for me earning my own bread and butter is as equivalent as it helps me to earn pride and love from the society.

I never took any offence in the name of any girl colleague who worked with me at any of the office but always become angry when the fun is made in my name by attaching any particular name as I just do not feel it to be justified. 

I believe that while I have been staying away from any controversial thought process it is good for me to keep my eyes either at the level or a bit low so that I could understand the land while running as it will not give any hurt in my legs.

Also, the childhood thought of arrey aap to mere inspiration has has been overcome in me and my mindset says that I have to become my own inspiration apart from my parents and dear ones as most of the time such words are made mockery for many years to come.

The second thought is about not having any Godfather but primarily considering every elder as a father figure gives me solace. So, as i was saying that although I was nowhere in thought of any conspiracy or poor love angle with this particular name but the persistent anger just put me a thought to understand that while we as a person do not reach any particular achievements in life such as any Masters or any other awarding studies we just point a finger towards any girl by stating her name with her degree and feel that we have conquered her.

On the other hand I never had any thought to get near to her and nor had any plan to spend some time but a little bit of motivation of my own helped me to complete my Post Graduation as M.A in Sociology and the number turned out to be Second Higher Class which is rewarding in it's own and thus made me dear in the eyes of many people around me!

Jharkhand has grown leaps & bounds in Athletics!

There was a time when the Athletics was only known because of P.T. Usha and Sri Milkha Singh in India but rest of the many athletics did not dare to bring accolades to India. Few other states which saw the emergence of athletics were Kerala and Punjab but soon the resources dried up and the country saw a loss of medals into various games such as Asiad and Commonwealth.

The Commonwealth games in India saw Sri Suresh Kalmadi pulling out huge amount of money in the name of scam and the Congress (I) was found primarily responsible for the entire saga which build up the Commonwealth Games village and later the houses were auctioned in crores.

If you visit the Stadium which was built during Commonwealth Games in 2012 you will find that the people just do not only make mockery of the athletes practicing over there but give weird statements about every other person and the laughter is all about the various women and other such wild behavior where people do not tell the exact way to enter and exit.

On the other hand the so called Cricket and various other sports have also become a matter of fight where the emerging players are not given due importance and if you are watching closely the cricket matches at stadiums certainly you will find that the players even shoo away the ball while fielding with their legs making mockery of the captain.

One thing could be certainly said that we make mockery of our resources put all the amount into various ways and if the return is not to be found to be good we just give a pale thought about destroying each other even in the name of pandemic.

If we look at the state which was made a bigger mockery in the film of Sri Shah Rukh Khan by the title of Chak De India where Jharkhand was said to be a state with little education and people moving on elephants and horses and called to be Jungli or wild which was in poor taste, the state has emerged as the new hub for the athletes along with various other sports activities.

Jharkhand has grown leaps and bounds as with the newly built Morang Gomke Jaipal Singh Sports Village and stadium has given the athletes and the various other sports enthusiasts to get into the mode of getting into the medal tally and in the year 2015 the state has emerged with better medal tally and ahead of Uttar Pradesh with the number 13.

The details could be found at the weblink: https://statisticstimes.com/sports/national-games-of-india.php

In this way, one could find that gradually the state has come up with good terms but should not go wayward in organizing various sports activities and follow the life mantra of being clear and achieving the goals with respect that will fetch more in terms of finding the best from the people who resemble to be athlete but are found nowhere near such games. The influence of Bollywood should be less as new talents could be found from various schools and college for any opening or closing ceremony program rather than  calling the expensive bollywood singers and many other such actors who charge more and develop less talents apart from giving people a nightmare by destoying the career.

Here is the weblink to know more about the stadium complex:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kI77FvUOypk

Student should avoid controversies to gain edge in life!

During early childhood where one is given all the guidance by a father and mother as one grows up it seems that the life has got wings. It is true that the life has got it's own way to manage you but flying high on your own gives some straightforward returns which could be never be understood by remaining at the land.

It is not about bungee jumping or having a balloon or air-plane ride but it is all about working with the mind which is always up above the world so high. Earlier, people who were our grandparents or parents sue to speak about the limitations of life and said student should avoid controversies to gain edge in life.

But if we see in today's date and time it is all gaining a super edge over every other person and come out to be extra-sassy so that the person themselves become a name as compared to others whose name are given a golden glow or a golden name plate which si akin to showering rose petals over them.

Now, think about deviation as a myth which is a very popular terminology in Sociology where it is said that the little bit of deviation could topple you down but in today's context deviation in life within the limit of not being a criminal takes you within the societal norms.

It is always good not to get into different kind of tangles from where you can never look up such as an extra marital affairs or becoming bad in the eye of law but then surpassing the limitations set by people across various industry verticals will take you to the real path which will make you the single star rather than many other kind of stars whose behavior is akin to the chameleon (with due regards to the species which is known to change it's color according to the land and surroundings.)

Now, think about many people who are termed not to be sporty in nature at office or maybe not studious at school and many of the players who leave the game early in life because the coach does not give them importance.

Man is such an animal that he has an inbound super-ego and whether he is a teacher, coach or a manager at office he or she never loves that his compatriot or the person working under him should grow in life as his own chair is always at stake.

So, in that case it is the  man or the woman himself or herself who has to define the career goals and then make himself strong enough to get ahead of every debacle from where the person could grow in life and at the same time look back to see his path which has treaded him in life to reach the destination decided by him.

And, if after reaching his or her set goals if still the world finds fault in him or he then certainly the blame is not on the person but the world needs to think how the person has reached at a certain point on his own apart from the shackles of caste, creed and religion which is found to be in India since the Imperial Raj and remains till date for all including SC, ST, OBC & General!  

P.S: How good is the thought when the whole world blabbers about you and speak ill-fated word but using a little bit of their own methods and your superior knowledge you turn the table still all they could do is to continue laughing without any particular reason as it is easy to laugh on oneself but hard on others or vice-versa!

Jeopardize the system and laugh on it is common traits!

If I remember the year 2003 while I was at Connaught Place a lady similar to our school history teacher Miss Archana Bhatnagar was suddenly found to be under the bus tyre but because of my constant shouting just could get out of it before the bus could move.

That was the first time in my life when I was scared but soon I took control over my thoughts and the lady was offered some juice at the nearest juice stall. The place was Shivaji Stadium and later I came to know that it was a part of her social activist behavior. It is very funny to know that the woman whom we give respect in the form of teachers or fellow classmates are actually most of the time behind all kinds of conspiracies but are never get caught by the police as they have some better weapon in their armor which is akin to their using the beautiful body to a great extent.

Now, think about the male on the other hand who puts lots of stress in his life to earn bread and butter or at times reach some higher position in life with all his efforts but due to some constant nagging of the woman finds himself to be alone and better thinking prevails in his life many a times when he is all alone.

On the other hand their are many other kind of personality who believe that their has to be woman in their life and they suddenly go berserk in their life although they lead the life of luxury because of some woman behind them.

So, if we think about the behavior of some particular male who are found mostly from some other pervert nature or rather say the downgraded society so does the woman also are a part of such special rings. There are many a times when the woman put all the efforts in their life to destroy the male psyche and it is just a way of life to destroy as many humans while reaching a certain pivotal point from where they could declare themselves as Cleopatra.

Although, the society by and large has become very open minded and much of the relationship which is all about fulfilling each others needs has become a way to satisfy the love and lust. But, still the person in you will never know that while any person who maybe behind the circuit which carries a hordes of woman could lure you to a different kind of business which is akin to flesh trade.

But one thing could be said that the person who learns most of the life experiences by earning his own bread and butter and put the extra effort everywhere whether in studies or job has to face a lot more difficulty in life rather than those who immediately are found near the pillow of a woman or beneath the blanket.

Once, the people who compromise in life could be seen to be flashy and with all the better bank balance and also it is their easy way to jeopardize the system and then laugh on it. It is just akin to using all the ways to remain superior and also took to a bigger camouflage in showcasing themselves to be some other better person who has given back much to the society.

At last the thought is that it is easy to do things in life with no efforts but it is more easier to laugh on other efforts to become something which could be said a simple bread earning person after all however powerful the anus is vagina always fetches a better price!

Cricket always an English game adapted by Indians!

With IPL making a comeback at Dubai which has been informed by BCCI it makes us understand that such a big cricket extravaganza will be confined to 30,000 or more spectators at only three stadiums at UAE. When the Indian soil is used to get the match played then it is given much of importance and almost every state gets dragged with different venues.

Now, think about the amount of revenue it generates for the masses through various advertisement rights and also the income of stadiums along with the taxes but at the same time the various expenses incurred on it which is of managing the stadiums along with involvement of various other agencies creates a good amount of pressure.

If one thinks about developing the other such games and athletics then we find less of involvement but if we compare the same cricket which is played at England then most of the matches there are only the day matches and no day-night matches are played there. 

Also, think about the world cup winning team which is most number of winning goes to West-Indies and Australia which shows that in-spite of spending huge amount of money on this game still we as a country and it's players were never able to carry the winning momentum for many years to come. If we remember the country winning ratio or rather the two times win then it was during 1983 and then in the year 2011.

The same could be said about England which won the world cup only last time so are we creating the pool of players who can give the winning performance for many years to come or we are just making the huge amount which is gathered by BCCI through it's venture getting to the countries like Afghanistan and also Nepal which may get introduced after few years into Cricket.

Let us think about the days when Cricket always an English game adapted by Indians only to get the boost of certain cricketing families which are near to each other and for them Cricket is a game which has become a way to give a breath of fresh air within inside and outside of their own household.

If cricket is a team game then why Sri Saurabh Chandidas Ganguly refused to carry the water for his teammates and why the entire tantrums like slapping Mr. Harbhajan Singh was done during one of the IPL matches.

Why Mr. Andrew Symonds has to face the monkeygate scandal during the  test matches at Australia and why Mr. Raman Lamba expired at the cricketing field. Think about the various other incidents where the cricket is considered as an English game or rather a gentleman game but it took almost many years to shape the career of Sri Sachin Tendulkar who is still considered to be less educated than any of his teammates.

So, before putting your heart and soul into cricket and thinking it as a national game it is always better to spend some time with all those games which could lift the mood of the nations better and it could help to understand you as a person rather than the politically stigma game which could give you performance based incentives for few years and then a free auto from Bajaj or TVS to drive across the streets making you the mockery for many years to come! 

Having none of the addiction helped me to stay healthy financially!

Financial health is somethin which is all about having the money to fulfill the basic needs of a person although few think it about having a huge amount of money. With investment comes opportunity and the best way is to put it in mind and flourish it for many more years to come taking the best advantage out of it.

Now, the way things work today is that with people immediately becoming a spendthrift and then putting much of the resources behind one or many other person sometimes lose the life path and could be found getting astray in life.

If I talk about my own ways where I take the path of having none of the addiction helped me to stay healthy financially and it has helped me in more than one ways. Think about the person in you or anyone else who maybe prone to having a beer everyday or let us say cigarette as a chain smoking addiction which does not stop abruptly.

Now, the other way is to put a passion of eating tobacco, guthkha or paan and then certainly spend a very higher amount behind it. Once it becomes a necessity rather than a way to get into the thought of spending a huge amount on some useful ways of life we put a substantial amount in drinking and other ways of getting addicted towards various measures which are rather called heavy drugs addiction.

The students who are a fresh entrant into the college become the first victim of such ways where they try to use cocaine, morphine and many other types of addictive measures and the thought process is about looking and staying fresh. It maybe true that for the time being a person could look and feel fresh with various addictive ways but once a person becomes habitual then he or she has to spend a huge amount to buy the various drugs.

Once the person starts feeling enough ways to enjoy the drugs then the various drug lords who first give you small dose as a way to enjoy the narcotics substance suddenly increase the dose and so is the price of the drugs. 

This may look a very common scenario but it is very true among the youngsters who just do not dare to speak against any particular ways of injecting drugs into their system and then the best of the way is to get into the ring of Police which stays alert and keep an eye on various such people who are into the primary aspect of drug dealing.

Most of the time it is the small time drug pedlar and a ring of prostitutes and pimps who give a new way to enjoy life and from there on nobody but all the person in you has to be blamed for various types of mishappening in life.

So, all one could understand is that if one has to stay ahead and stay healthy then it becomes better in every possible ways to stay away from drugs and also eating healthy and staying alert could make the difference making you free from any kind of addiction and finding better ways of life could help to grow rather than making an excuse of using narcotics to overcome life difficulties will lead to get an open way to enjoy the addiction!

Every roti(Bread) counts and so does the exam results!

The world has changed and so does the teachers perspective but to some extent what has not changed is the way to check the answers. If we talk about any board, universities or exams for any particular exams related to competitive papers the result is checked without taking the analytical perspectives.

I have given the exam for GRE in the year 2018, November and my result in analytical writing was 2.5 or 7th percentile points and the meter was between 1 to 6.

Now, there is nothing to explain in this but if I write that Bihar has the highest number of slums then people feel bad about it. Now, let me think in this way that if half of the Bihari population which lives in Dharavi at Mumbai or Yamuna Pushta in Delhi and feel nothing unfamiliar about it then does not it make a bigger chunk of Bihar living in slums.

This was a thought by us in common discussion between our school mates at Holy Cross, Bokaro Steel City and the thought was propagated by Sri Shinto Augustine and many others including Sri Rewati Kant Raju. 

Now, getting back to the thought that when it comes to caste based politics the people of Bihar talk about uplifting the upper caste and then think about any other caste but what we see is that the four prominent upper caste such as Brahmins, Bhumihars, Rajput and Kayastha along with Baniya fight among themselves to take advantage of every possible situation whether it is the promotion in Police or Politics including ministeries.

On the other hand many a times the upper caste people immediately either change their title to become shudra or OBC's and then say that body will remain pure from the heart and the soul will be very much of the same but title hardly matters.

It becomes very funny when a person from upper caste could be seen dangling a Cross and becoming Christian either to earn the large tract of land from Adivasis and once it is done after few years get back to his own religion which is not a joke but the grim truth.

Now, getting back to the thought that every roti (bread) counts and so does the exam results or the numbers what we steel see in analyzing the answer sheet is to follow the answer pattern from the guides esp. in cities of Bihar and many other states.

The result before 1996 was provided with the pattern of teachers like Sri Naag Sir, Sri Mohapatra for mathematics, Sri Swapan da for English and Mr. Thakur for Science in C.B.S.E Board and the numbers could be jokingly good for the students who use to rush from one tutorial classes to another after spending the entire day at school.

Still when the result was concerned then either few of them got very high marks while the few got mediocre results and few got marks with lesser numbers. My thoughts and perspective believe that one should not follow any quick pattern of finding better results but the answers should be according to the thought process which should be from the books rather than a tution teacher making you things mug up and then throw the same over the answer papers.

If people say that every student is a different piece of flower then every student needs to have his own thought process which should reflect in his or her answers. The teachers should have enough time to read all the answers and then give the result which makes the honest marking system and it will give a very good result for the entire board and university and will create scholars from the beginning which is the first step of board exams!

Indian Government should understand Bollywood & the actors!

With the world changing every other day and the people who are into Bollywood gaining strength through the huge amount of money which they are possessing through various investment methods the current Indian Government should get beware of the Bollywood as well.

The sad demise of Sri Lalji Tandon and the state level mourning in Uttar Pradesh for three days should not be taken lightly as the movie Khiladi which was the first supehit movie of Sri Akshay Kumar has some verbiage related to Sri Lalji Tandon as a spoof character.

Now, think about such movies which got hit during the Congress era or the rule could be a part of some conspiracy which is akin to be a part of some decisive actions over the bigger politicians who are from the base structure of VHP or many other pro-hindutava party.

Think about the demise of the political figure where the BJP is going to relaunch the structural building for the Sri Ram Mandir at Ayodhya and although the person himself was at an age of 85 years still the actors who were from the well known pack of flops such as Akshay Kumar and others who have returned to be with few hits could be a part of some cauldron which should not be stated to be akin to a Khiladi who ruled the masses because of their positive frame of mind earlier.

Maybe, the actor must be trying to give some warning signals that such kind of mishappening could happen with some bigger politician due to taking advantage of the age factor as nobody can exactly decide someone's demise to be as accurate.

Now, think the way the Indian Medical Association which could not control the pandemic Corona virus or Covid-19 could suddenly see the common to uncommon people getting over and the same could be said about a large number of Police personals even from Mumbai Police. The Mumbai Police which is very near to actors like Sri Shah Rukh Khan and many others did not get any special attention by Bollywood but when it comes to celebrating the Umang Utsav then the actors come and dance by applauding the police.

So, one could clearly state that Indian Government should understand Bollywood and the actors and their closeness to the public will create another worst case scenario as they are just flashy and so is their behavior. They believe that money can make them over every one else and once the actors who become hit then the behavior is to fight among themselves for the supremacy and then they also give a bad name on their producers who spend a huge amount in making their movies which most of the time see the return on investment by the public who is from the common masses and spend their hard earned money on watching their films!  

I never enjoyed my wife's company as she was an overhype personality!

I never enjoyed my wife's company as she was an overhype personality- If this is my thought for the day then it is very true in my life. Most of the time in my life she was very much like a character akin to a devdasi from any Bengal village. The way she use to behave as if she is born to do all the sewa or sacrifices for me and no much of an asking personality who have to get all the things bright and beautiful for me.

She was good with me for the first two years of marriage but never had a wish to settle down in my life and all I could say is that she created much of void and a sense of trauma in my life. She was good when it comes to sex but was always over the phone maybe due to some personal or professional commitments and her stipulated time frame in my life was only for the three months after which she use to runaway to her village.

It was difficult to cope with her for me and my mother and in spite of making the home a better place to live I just could not find a comfort in her arms. It was more or less like a life full of suffocation where I thought to be a person with less significance in her life and it felt as if the family of hers must be having some ulterior motives which was not understood by me.

The brother and sisters of the wife were more or less the same who thought of making me feel smaller or pygmies which is called dwarf before them and for them education or an educated mind was insignificant.

They were neither good in terms of behaviour and if ever I visited her house at Arrah, Bihar which was known to be her native village and also it was my own native village still I could not find any better match between us. There I used to feel all alone and it use to seem that she has lots of extra marital affairs and I was aghast to see that my respectful neighbour also visited her home at Arrah on the pretext of having some ulterior kind of relationship which was not to be understood by me.

So, with all these thoughts I could feel that even after having a kid with her things just could not change in our life and the way things wind up was a separation from where she got much of the benefits from our better family as it turned out to be her purpose of life. But what I could make out was the way the same set of friends from my school, earlier city where I stayed during childhood and various other uncles who were near to me got into sexual relationship with her and that completely made me feel bad about myself and I could never get into any other affairs making me feel relationship status between man and woman to feel redundant without any love in between the souls. 

Bihar Elections will remind the people & understand about the past deeds!

This year Bihar Elections in the October 2020 will be surely a fight which is between the parties looking to gain an upper edge above each other. During the 1990's Sri Lalu Prasad Yadav become famous with arresting the BJP President Sri Lal Krishna Advani during the Rath Yatra for Ram Mandir.

But instead of gaining popularity he took his own ways to destroy the mindset of youth along with women and many others during any of the marriage in his house. He tried his best to rob jewelry, vehicles from showrooms and many other possessions while the merchants were left at the mercy of the party workers.

One thing has to be understood that while the party such as RJD and many others give a propaganda to help the people most of the time it is their near and dear ones. The other side of such party is to loot from the rich and show themselves as pro-poor. The various ways where Bihar got exploited under Sri Lalu Prasad Yadav was not only in the name of Chara Ghotala or Animal Husbandry Scam but he also took a large number of amount through various programs by Central Government in the name of Ganga Bachao Aandolan.

His way of thinking was to destroy the common household and talk smooth but most of the time favor few of the actors in the name of serving the bollywood. Also, his language was always into a tone which could be considered somethin akin to please the people who are said to be very commoner.

He did not left any stone upturn in destroying the heroines who are not to be named but especially Mamta Kulkarni ji has to face his ire and any actor who was ruling the charts got destroyed by him. One thing is to be known that in-spite of his talks over the internet which was about his words of speaking the name in particular which is my own along with my mother Kiran Bala Devi we did never had any personal affinity with him.

If the current election personality who could be Mr. Nitish Kumar along with many others such as Sri Ram Vila Paswan anyone of them fare far better as compared to any person from Rajad which is not the very popular party among the masses whether the common people, industrialists or merchants.

So, before casting the vote to any party in Bihar elections one should think for the past thirty years of ruling parties of Bihar.

Also, the Bihar elections will remind the people and understand about the past deeds of senior party supremo and understanding the current scenario one should cast the vote in the favor of right political party as the casting of vote to parties which are not worth will take the state to another downfall! 

Life cannot remain at the mercy of others!

Life cannot remain at the mercy of others whether near or far ones and that is the reason I always believed that it is better to lead your own life under any circumstances rather than having the belief of staying with the limited resources and more expectations. It is also true that when you start caring and loving too much in relationship then the person on the other end starts feeling strangulated  and feels to break free leading to chaos.

Now, if we see the relationship traits unless and until we are not capable enough to do something on our own that is having enough knowledge to earn through better ways then it does not make sense to get away from the person who is the superior in your family.

The worst trait in life is of fatherhood as a person who becomes a father wants to remain a father or nurturer forever and with all love and efforts he puts in his family a little bit of deviation makes him to revolt against his own family and then he certainly breaks the shackles in every possible ways and moves away.

If the Indian mindset is to be understood then the caring personality is given much respect and he or she is lauded by all the person around him thinking of a family traits in him or her whis true to some extent. 

With today's kids who are very much aggressive with their super tones and with few years after taking birth start indulging in the family matters it becomes difficult to carry own with the love and respect for a person who has been trying to adjust in the world on his own ways.

Also, by those people around who understand the meaning of breaking the family and considering to keep as many people in their life as a lady from different house by showing enough in terms of the booty could be making much of difference in family life.

With all the family where the young boys could be found the opportunist is always in the lookout for the breaking homes syndrome and try to persuade woman to get more out of her in terms of sex, money and many other aspects of life.

In this particular life scenario it is very much necessary to understand the family first and then carry on with any big steps in life as the society all around tries to make out of everyone under circumstance and once you start doing for any person whether considering it your own good deeds or maybe a way to increase your familiar ties then all it remains is that you have to remain nurturer for a long more time.

With that comes a situation where your own family members move away and then your life remains of a shunting engine moving from one place to another. In my case scenario I always believed to stay away from the trouble makes at least in my life making me independent to some extent and make the other person to understand my own traits and behaviour making them to understand my views.

In this way, whether staying away or staying in their thoughts apart from many apprehensions by the society people by far and large could understand me thta my life cannot remain on the mercy of others and to gain respect first I have to become something good on my own and then carry the burden of al the necessities which I have been doing throughout my life but i understood one important aspect that the more you are good to others the more people believe in overpowering you and the more you are on your own and neglected people's expectation gets over and you lead a life of peaceful existence within your own limitations making you feel better in life for many more years to come!

 

Greatness lies in the hearts and the behaviou aspects!

If one has to say that the greatness lies in the heart and the behaviour aspects then it could be certainly said to be an inbuilt process which one learns from his own family and people around you. The personality traits are something which reflects your own personality and there are times when the parents just could not find their children on the right path or direction.

I was more privilege as because most of the time was under strict parental guidance and the same could be said for my teachers who kept me under their strict supervision apart from the few who had some indigenous problem according to their own beliefs. 

Now, getting to the thought which says that greatness lies in the hearts and the behaviour aspects one could say that what we learn we speak and the life terms which we follow. If I remember any of my uncle and aunts who use to visit at our home for any purpose always use to give me all kinds of blessings. Their words were so soothing for me that at times even if I was in some bad mindset it just helped me to overcome any distress and trouble leading me to be healthier from inside and giving immense courage in my life. 

In particular if I have to speak few names then they were Mr. T.N. Pandey Ji, My Giri Ji and many others but on the other hand my uncle and aunts who were especially from my Maternal background were creating all kinds of furor in life but their children who could understand the society well according to their own understandings were good with me which again helped me to feel better in their presence.

So, what one learns during childhood is the reflection of our society which is just the outer cover in life just like a Saturn rings which helps the planets from all kinds of meteor attacks or just akin to earth atmosphere.

now, thinking about being a person with humility and humbleness atleast during the childhood and also overcoming few shortcomings did not made me bad at any point of time. One could say that if few of the people who are bad from the clan of Dubey or Pandey which could be said the brahminical society then the entire blame could not reach on the Brahmins. 

There are many people all around us as an example in life such as V.V. Giri ji and many other such as Brahmins such as Mahamana Madan Mohan Malviya who has lifted the Indian society through their important contribution in lifting the poor and the needy irrespective of the caste and creed system which was the base of the Indian society during the era of independence and followed for many years later.

What one could learn from the today's perspective in social behaviour is that somewhere down the line your own maternal uncles and aunts in many homes try to disrupt you and make you a pawn in the society. Many a times the parent just do not give an eye to the advances done by mausi and many other such relationship who try to indulge you into irregular behaviour which is akin to sodomizing you or destroying your inner sense by dragging you into various sexual aspect.

Remember, that having sex is not only enjoying the gift of the nature but also get into the act of supremacy where at most of the time the male could be found superior across any species and then having sex with the right person lifts you up while following the degraded one makes you feel low before the society and then it may give an inner guilt.

After all if you learn the basic of life from your father, mother and grandparents then it is easy for you to reply to this world which always try to overpower you while if you believe in understanding the world through your own eyes at the age which is just a kids age then you could also learn a lot by understanding life but if you are under the supervision of any woman at the early age of life then you will reach only at the blackholes which are the stars who eat up the bigger part of the universe and then your potential will not become a charismatic play which is necessary according to the generation which governs the world today.

Contingency fund is always needed in life!

Success is akin to a bigger crown of thorn in life and many of us who have achieved it found not to be persistent in life. With the meaning of success changing in everybody's own spectrum or level, one thing is sure that the world is changing and so does the aspect of remaining success.

If we talk about India and Indian we are very much into getting overwhelmed very soon and that's why there was an advertisement few years back...Romesh Babu...naya Ghar, Nayi Gaddi, Nayi Dulhan Badhiya hai...!!!

So, once we get everything in life we try to show off too much and this may lead to sometimes getting the life into all the possibility of finding some unfortunate incident in life. Now, think about the case of many film stars and players from yesteryears who have died penniless in life as they become all the way to be spendthrift and the way was to spend much of the money without thinking about tomorrow. 

One should never ever rely in life on someone else part from the close family members as the sweetest of us immediately turn down the back when the person is not left with any resource in life. Also, the friends who turn their back never get back to you apart from the near and dear ones who just move away from your life and then get back to see you n the happier times and getting back into their thoughts is good in one way or other.

Now, think about those people who were Olympians in the past and in various articles in the magazine they use to show their medals won in various Olympic and Asiad games and once they come out in the real life the Sports Authority of India never showed any interest in giving any type of resources or money and their was no Government jobs for them.

So, many of the wrestlers, hockey players and various athletes have to lead a life of very difficult ways and all they could do is to sell their medals to pawn dealers and then the photograph use to feature in various newspapers and magazines.

This was the reason that the Olympic Games and various other Athletic Meets were considered to be with negative traits and people were not allowing their children to participate in games. Since, the cable T.V. took to India and channels like Zee News esp. under the patronage of  Sri Subhash Chandra Goenka tried to change the perception and this lead to the various sports indoor and outdoor stadium esp. at Gurugram and Panchkula making it a great place to help the person into various kinds of athletics and wrestling.

It is good that the perception has changed and even in cricket the IPL has bought huge cash which helps to rope in various players at different level but all they could do is that the small level players who are emerging should invest wisely as the contingency or emergency fund is always needed in life for the better results and getting flashy may kill the much needed fizz which is necessary in sports and athletics! 

The only thing COVID-19 has given is mistrust!

COVID-19 which is a large scale Pandemic all over the world could be more or less a very heartening situation all over the world. The situation remained out of control and for all the past 4 months since April, the world over lockdown added to the pressure.

Nobody either tried to identify the reason which could be behind it and no concrete solution is provided but it could be said that the world suddenly saw the disappearance of many people and then few who were financially weak died unnatural deaths which could be termed as suicide.

Now, the other way related to such large scale deaths which could be my thought is the only thing which COVID-19 has given is mistrust for the hospitals and medical facilities which will last long in life. People who were trying to overpower each other just find an excuse is through relating many such deaths to COVID.

Sometimes, the transition could be seen around the world but relying too much on a statutory body like WHO or World Health Organization, which immediately declared it as a pandemic, and the whole world went into a fury.

Now, think about the hospitals where people go for treatment, and once you are out of the COVID disease or pandemic they or pledge you to donate your plasma. After spending some time at any hospital does it make sense to donate the plasma which is the most important part of the blood parts. It is just like giving all your important fluid without any reason for the medical team and then move without remaining healthier in life. 

If people use to say that donating the blood can give a mild weakness how much does donating the plasma will affect in life. It will be more or less like giving all without understanding the value of your own body. 

Now, thinking about the other impact of the UK emerging as a country where the people are not sending their children to school anymore and are asking them to work at a young age for the livelihood. It could be the result of countries in Asia and Africa getting richer in terms of agricultural outputs.

Remember, I said that 90% of issues pertaining to poverty will get over in Africa if they grow their own food which is called indigenous or superfood. It is very much necessary that any country should follow their food habits which will directly lead to the growth of the nation.

Once Africa and Asia become much dependent on their own land for growing the foods and development of Agriculture even the company like Google put all their attention on developing the agriculture inputs and artificial intelligence development into agricultural methods. 

With that thinking, Sri Sundar Pichai put an investment plan for developing various pet projects for another five years in India giving a boost to the country mega-development plans. In this way, one could understand that if the countries like India and China which were primarily known for the hub into education are getting back into the same aspect and the countries like USA and UK which were more of a country where the people believe in hard work and labor intensified programs are taking into the aspect of getting back to their routes which are akin to getting into the jobs and developing their nation as per their own behavioral traits.

Now, as India has been a part of a mixed economy where Capitalism, Socialism were combined together to develop the nation so all those who believe in working with limited thoughts of education and think about their wheat and flour first could believe in the same while the others who believe in getting the education as per their mind capability should continue with the same aspect and the others who are believed to be of a culture which is about earning own and educating oneself which could earn while you earn will get into the best form of reputation which is given the best regards by nature and humans alike!

Can Indians with a little more fit structure turn tables at the Olympics!

With fitness bug biting fast in spite of Coronavirus pandemic one could make a great moolah out of the Olympics and various Asiad trials by little efforts. One could think that football and cricket are a part of our life regime but as we see that since morning and evening people move all around their societies which has a circumference of not less than 2000 meters of an even track of athletics stadium.

With average Indian lady and male, they at least take 10 rounds out of it to stay fit and look fab across any age. Now, think about 2000 meter * 10 times which makes 10,000 meters which is the biggest event in the Olympics, and Indians find it the most difficult to participate in it.

The advantage is that if some of us who run around society since childhood can drastically improve our timings per lap and with 10,000 meters having 24 laps one could find to go for at least some similar laps as the racing track is of 400 meters only.

Now, think about all those who have a swimming pool in the society, a badminton court, volleyball and basketball court with self-help coaching manuals over internet esp, on Youtube one could make an understanding and learn fast through quick videos program.

In this way, the young kids will not only be able to perform well but could be selected at the State Level and District level Khelo India Programme. Remember during the school days how much pressure was on us to perform better with the nearest competitor and in every competition such as singing, dancing and painting along with many other prospects it was a rule to come first. ( Although I kept myself away from such thoughts and for me, it was to understand things better rather than thinking about those who were not my schoolmates and thus I never stood as an obstacle in their path making me a true wellwisher for them.)

Now, getting back to the point can Indians with a little more fit structure turntables at the Olympics may not only be a thought but it could come true because after USA the China and Russia are the biggest gainers in the Olympics. 

With the Indian understanding, the value of good food and fitness and a better standard of living one could easily change things in life and States like Uttar Pradesh can produce as many stars as compared to Haryana, Punjab, and Kerela making it a place to get recognized not only at the world level but will attract more foreign investments in terms of coaching and multiple athletic meets which will make the country feel proud at the world level!

Book writing as a hobby reflects your inner thought!

In today's time when book publishers do not give importance to big-name and role models to publish the book but anybody who loves to pen down their thoughts could produce a best-selling book. Earlier, the well-known name was Miss Tasleema Nasreen, Mr. Salman Rushdie and many other people in the recent past whose books only were a controversy that has to be found all over the world with people burning the copies of the books, the countries all over the world coming to a halt and even the parliaments getting adjourned.

It seems that all those who were not even aware of what the testimonials were written in the book but people use to get an opportunity to showcase their anger and frustration by the moment the books got published. Both writers whom I have mentioned above were even banned in their respective countries and they have to flee from their homeland to find a better place to live which at times was India.

Now, if one sees the internet through publishers apart from Penguin Books even the Amazon has come up in selling the books in the hard form so that the books could reach the person within few days, and then anybody could take interest in reading the books.

With Kindle being a website where one could download numerous books of their own choice and read the books and the best thing to do is to download many kinds of books from the internet and keep a soft copy within the computer files to go through the book at the time when you love reading the most.

With the mobile apps helping to download the books of all kinds of MB Files it makes it easy to download the book and read it even during the flight or bus journey when a person most of the time is lost in his own thoughts.

Now, getting back to the thoughts as book writing as a hobby reflects your inner thought one could believe that a time will come soon when people will pen down one's own thoughts and experiences in life whether they are big or small in their presence.

In today's world, everybody is significant in his own ways and most of us have traveled to many countries, places and destinations have also gone through our own experiences whether weird or good at times.

Also, if we see ourselves as compared to many other people whether in sports, study, or political thoughts we are miles ahead although it is not necessary that the opportunity would have come to us immediately and we could have become a big sports star or superstar.

If my words are to be understood with a positive frame of mind a good book is like beautiful porn which makes you feel interested and while you enjoy the better meaning of sex where the less of coaxing but more of feeling the presence of each other while enjoying the moment is to be found then it cannot be with an Agatha Christie Novel but it will be your own lifestyle interspersed with experiences. 

With all the serials and sitcoms which are getting nasty and dirty day by day, people will love to get back to book writing and the hobby of reading books will not be confined to Gulshan Nanda stories of crime, revenge and thought of betrayal but people will love to write their own saga by understanding the other person or third-person perspective and soon the writing of books will also become a fad which will take the people to a new high across all languages and culture!

Praising a male before her woman makes him nasty!

My favorite way to talk with any male during my early childhood was a kind of philosophical which I learned by my grandfather Mr. Chitranjan Prasad Ji. He most of the time tried to be very good with all kinds of person and always loved the educated more than anyone else. Also, he uses to give importance to any type of hard-working personalities such as carpenter, craftsman, and many other people.

In any case, his way of work was to make others happy rather than himself but he has a big house to look after in which we as kids of our father Mr. Upendra Vidyarthi, were Sweta Srivastava or Sweta Kumari and Me as Mukesh Kumar.

He uses to love us equally but when it comes to going for any stroll even to buy vegetables I use to accompany him and we use to go far-flung places by foot while chit-chatting with each other and at the times it was great to enjoy the company of others in auto-rickshaw as because that was the fastest mode of transportation at Bokaro Steel City.

Now, all I could learn from him was the way of talks where he uses to praise every person as he was into Employment Exchange and most of the people were getting jobs through him at Bokaro Steel Plant and it's unit at the Steel City. 

There were few who did not get the job and for that, they also use to get frustrated but most of the time he tried to give the job to many of the people by overlooking any particular diplomacy such as any caste, creed, regionalism and state-wise demarcation. 

This made the city a truly cosmopolitan city and people from all kinds of language or ethnic background got the job and at times few of his friends use to visit our home. Now, all I could learn is his way of behavior of praising everyone and this made me feel jealous and I use to cry before any age kids when they use to recite poems and all I could sing was "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star".

So, once I started staying with my father and mother at a different house as the family was becoming big I also took the same sort of wordings where I use to praise every male even before their female counterparts. 

My only words were Uncle aap bahut ache hai..which made them feel happy but once I grew up in life when it comes to understanding the female psyche I was unaware that praising a male before her woman makes him nasty and he gets happier the most when the male alters his super-ego and shows his disliking towards the male.

But one thing I could not understand that making such thoughtful instinct about making a person feel happier before others or maybe angry does not give any respect in the eyes of both. The person on both sides either disagrees or gets venomous and it really makes me at times confused that when there is no such advantage over finding any weak thoughts into each other then why all the attributes about "Peace of Mind" as an adage is used in life.

When we are ready to take at least a revenge in the form of biting each other's ear then what is the advantage of making each other being cornered gives us a sort of happiness. Once said and done all those who must have reached the height in life which they have got only because of compassionate ways whether into a job or into any other prospects in life still consider themselves to be on top. 

All those who could have given them fair enough chance to get ahead in life still try to reach at a place somewhere near to you and then cook half baked stories to show their supremacy which just shows their foolishness and the worst thing is that their super-ego does not allow them to consider others above themselves but they always try to disguise it in the name of their nearest friend so that the blame should not directly become a part of their life. 

In this way, one could say that not only male but female also put all their efforts to make the other person feel lowly and down but somewhere down the line their instinct to shed off the crocodile tears could be understood only by those who truly understand the meaning of love and do all kinds of sacrifices to reach for the love which could make them happiest forever!

The fondness for Gangster era is over!

There was a time in India when a little bit of crime and criminal activities was given much importance and girls used to swoon over the name of local Dawood and many other similar characters. With people in schools and college who were moving all around with girls flocking them and with an empty revolver or just a single shot was all about the fame which was given much of macho image with sideburns hairstyle and the peon like Bell Bottom to carry with style.

The hypocrisy attached to Gangster movies gradually went for a toss after the Kangana Ranaut movie Gangster where the actor runs till Thailand and tries to woo the women by acting good and earning a fair amount of money for her.

Now, coming back to real-life one could say that the fondness for Gangster is over and the Police are emerging as the new Bhokal Tantra in India. In much of the fair deal practices such as selling of agricultural land, big property blocks, and various other activities the local Police is involved which is the best thing to come for India and Indians.

The Indian Police is taking the Mexican way after the movie "Kites" where all kind of drug cartels and smuggling gets over with the help of Mexican Police Authorities but they lose some of their good Policeman before every important seizure. this could certainly not be called a failure then what where most of the policemen come to get active in the U.P. after 8 of their brave man got killed by small-time criminals although they got nabbed still this could be the biggest shortcoming by Uttar Pradesh police so far.

Now, one could say that the gangster once who get nabbed should be questioned by remand for many long sessions so that they could spell out all the name of their other accomplishes along with their hide-outs. I have stated earlier that the way people are using Police Dress and with illegal arms, it could be difficult for the Police to nab the real culprit. In India, one thing could be said that people still have a fondness for all kinds of nefarious people who take the illegal way to lead the life, and the heroines along with hero also believe in settling their scores after earning big in life.

All the land properties and land disputes along with making their son and daughter feel proud by making them understand the value of loot and arson instead of teaching the simplicity of life akin to Saraswati Ji where the study is as important as earning for the bread and butter are not given due importance.

In school and colleges, the teacher beats the students mercilessly and once the teacher is beaten by a student they become rivals for life. Also, the rivalry among the nearest kith and kin who believe in getting into the helm of each other's wife and household women also leads to a rivalry for long and they take the way of settling the scores through "Revolver Rani" and believe that few of the murders will not give them infamous but will immediately bring into the Public domain making an MLA or MP within a few years of life.

Although, one could say that the T.V. footage of so-called Dubey, Chaubey, and Tiwari involved in the famous shooting and killing has shown that common man who is Manjhi, Srivastava, and Ram has been into better act of earning through righteous ways while the degraded Mishra and Dubey, Chaubey who use to give the Rs 20,000 or 30,000 to the people for carrying their crimes on the others head and then leading a life of luxury out of jail is over and people understand the value of their own earnings by even selling "pakodas" and puri and then make a good amount out of it!

The advantage of odd surnames into Bollywood, Cricket & Politics!

India is a country with the people defined not by their deeds but because of the surnames which they carry in life. If we see the few of the titles like Bhat and other such titles in particular such as Dutt none of them are from the background where they talk about their presence. Even, the Kapoor are the same but their fair-faced women help them to take advantage of the equal amount of skin show into movies from the late 1980s.

Now, the influx of such women has all come from the poverty-stricken people from Bihar who just took all steps to reach above all and the coal mafia from the places like Wasseypur in Dhanbad put them into the limelight where the organized crime was all the way to prevail in the life. With a little bit of knowledge of Urdu which just got confined to words like "Waju kar liya" i.e. washing the hands and legs before Quran recital and other such ways which are akin to Kashmiri people and giving a look of pro-Muslim helped them to gain popularity.

To add the easy way of life was through the advantage of odd surnames into Bollywood, Cricket, and Politics in which primary was politics and secondary were Bollywood and Cricket. If you will watch closely the bowlers from various International Cricket Tournaments they were none other than those who were sharing the silver screen and then their wicket-taking or batting ability was considered as flamboyance.

Since Jharkhand was very poor at the time of the 1980s and coal mafia was flourishing fast it took the easy way to get into arms trade and thus a severe way to govern by the upper caste Hindus by adapting various odd surnames along with the help of getting their daughters into the film industry with a fair amount of skin helped them to win over many coal blocks and various tenders.   

Once it was said and done the Hollywood also come into knowing their doors and half-hearted English speaking actors emerged with Warner Brothers and various other banners like Columbia motion pictures. 

Some of the actors like Johnny Depp, Bradd Pitt, Angelina Jolie and many other such people who immediately got popular into the West where the Cannes Film Festival was organized and the Italian Mafia took over wholeheartedly to promote the wicked sense of Film and Television and earn a fair amount of white money through black methods.

Although, these people become instantly rich the common people in India remained poor and from them, only those people could reach up who were some known faces into politics and thus it was better known to be loot ka mall saste mein and neither the country progressed internally and nor the people could think about anything else except degrading themselves through such films.

Now, think about the advantage which a common people has got out of these actors who roughly talk about bringing as many characters into films and if the fact of the matter is looked into then the ordinary personalities from their home background could be found into films who are promoting better methods to show their skin through various odd sex channels over the internet.

The thought-provoking generation is getting over and neither the charm could be seen into cricket or films and all we could see is the shrieking women who seem to be full with beer up to the brim and the people from upper reach could get to their hold while the only rant is to speak Mukesh...Mukesh which could be "Mukesh Bhatt" or "Mahesh Bhatt" who find out such women from nowhere but actually from the dirt-cheap places within their families and then they claim to be a part of the Kashmir which has seen bad peace and law situation since the 1980s after promoting films from Bollywood!

Never put a Cricket Ball into cracks of the pitch!

People talk about putting the ball in the cracks of the pitch to initiate spin and most of the time during any test matches the ball makes a lot of cracks and it gives the uneven bounce which leads to injuries. Most of the time the game of cricket is uncertain but many factors these days talk about the cricket being called a bowler's game again if the bowler puts the ball with right line and length. 

Most of the time what we see in Cricket is that the bowling length is just considered a joke and the fun on the run is to make the batsman afraid with the bowling. The bowler while tries various ways to give short pitch delivery and with two bouncers the batsman comes to know that the bowler is losing his cool.

In the next over he is hit all along the park and once the tempo is set it is all the teamwork to make the batsman with the great batting line-up to get a score of 350 and above. Now, if we closely watch the bowling of some bowling greats like Wasim Akram, Imran Khan, and Abdul Qadir( Here this person has a great similarity with Saif Ali Khan). They use to bowl very near to the legs of the batsman and if we see the cricket then it is not easy to watch your legs every moment and hit the ball up in the air.

It is also not easy to get ahead even if you have great footwork and then hit the ball as a little bit of missing the ball could take you to get stumping by a wicketkeeper.

Now, if we think about many other players who put all their life into cricket and do not understand the ABC of cricket which is a bowler's cricketing style rather than the batsman give all the opportunity to the batsman to make them feel easy and then the scoreboard see a rain of runs leading to a higher score.

Now, if we see the influx of fast bowler it is easy to make the game of T-20 where the four overs per person is all the heart you have to put. Similarly, in the One Day International, it is just a matter of 10 overs out of which the spell of 3-3-2-2 is bowled well with good accuracy then you certainly get the most out of it. 

But even people like Mr. Jasprit Bumrah and Md. Shami at times proves costlier to India which may be due to the excessive use of such bowlers. If we see countries like Pakistan and Sri Lanka they have a pool of bowlers who take rotation policy and even players like Sri Chaminda Vass use to rest even in important games but in India, the famed bowling and batting line-up is used till their life refuses to run anymore and on the other hand, the various talented pool could be seen negotiating themselves in playing IPL and various domestic forms of cricket leading to no good result for them, and neither the game takes them to a different level.

Less to understand the governing methods of BCCI and their ways of managing the Cricket which sooner or later will be a dying sport and if someone has to understand the basic then it could be said with a good thought that never put a Cricket ball into cracks of the pitch as it may give bounce and wayward direction but will not fetch you wickets which cost more for batsmen and privilege for bowlers!

The Irony of providing happiness to someone gives bad life!

There are many people among us who must be very beautiful from heart, maybe a kind of personality who could be helpful within their reach, doing errands and then at any time of distress help in the most positive way. But once you do each and everything for them, either the expectation gets higher or they just try to overpower you and make you feel low before society. 

If one sees most of our school teachers as many of us have spent our life in terms of studies at private schools then the teachers and students always try to overpower many of us considering us meek and without resources. Many of the students who study in Government schools also have to face any kind of inhuman torture but if my personal experience is to share with the current scenario then the Government schools are better for average earning families as compared to private schools.

The fact of the matter is that most of us are convent educated with an understanding of Google and various other apps which help in education. With the Haryana Government implementing Jobs for the residents of the state, it makes sense that the future generation which will stick to the Government based schools will get the privilege as compared to the Private schools. Sooner or later the same will be implemented in most of the state-based Governments in India.

If we see the Government machinery which is into sports, physical activities and also all kinds of Government jobs the country is seeing privatization even in Railways. On the other hand, the reservation in the private sector is giving an opportunity to help with an earning capability that cannot be undermined at least for all the category "C" jobs where the salary is paid to the extent of Rs 50,000.

Now, think on the other hand that with the uncertainty looming over private institutes which are going for online schooling how much does a person will be able to study from home. In this way, one could think that the time for the education which is based on over-expenditure is over although many of us benefitted from it and on the other hand those who were running behind the cinema halls and the girl's college during the time of study could be found with many ulterior motives in life.

If we see a person like Sri Lalu Prasad Yadav ji he is known to provide many near and dear ones all kinds of benefits out of the scam which was named during his Government tenure. But what he got in return is that while all those who were piggy riding him got all the benefits, laughed on his clan, and then he is just trying to get himself cleaned by running from pillar to post at various courts of India.

This may or may not suffice to everyone but somewhere down the line, he must be willing to pull himself out of this muck so that his name should be remembered with respect. 

So, I could say that I learned this particular way of life which is all about helping others and getting the backlash and it is quite clear that the irony of providing happiness to someone gives bad life so most of the time it is good to understand the motive of the people who try to ruin you and then laugh on you who could be your teacher as well because this is not the time of Guru Dronacharya who will teach you everything and then found you to be against him!

Mental hospitals patients are not reclaimed by family members!

With ego being the mainstay behind people who consider themselves to be superior in every field whether academics, sports, or profession there are many young people who have to get admitted to the mental hospitals. There are many times when any beautiful girl studying at your institute tries to overcome you and give an opportunity to spend some time with her.

Once you feel completely in Love she just discards you and ten you may be at the mercy of many of the social behavioral traits which are confined to behavior akin to sleepless nights which is insomnia and others could be felling of staying away and staying happy.

Now, the fact of the matter is that in the U.K. People who are schizophrenic to any extent are given opportunity into a difficult task as they are known to be people with immense power. The fact of the matter is that Indians tend to feel lazy at any place of work and for them having sexual attributes at the workplace, school or college is just a way to satisfy or satiate themselves sexually.

While people in western countries try to consider their profession to be first and politeness is a way of life and hooliganism is a trait which is considered to be done only at times such as the tomato festival.

On the other hand, Indians love to say arrey aap galti kijiye uske baad to silsila hum shuru karenge and then life gives happiness to those who are incompetent as it helps as a shield. But what they forget is that all kind of brawl and making roadblocks for others at various steps of life gives a severe backlash in the time when the money matters the most. 

Once a person becomes old he or she always believes that the money which she holds should not be a kind of favor such as sexual or any other traits but it should be well earned by a husband or the son. On the other hand, many of the females with wicked ways try to take away much of the money without any particular belongingness and try to get desperate for the handsome amount by sharing the flesh and many other ways with the help of bad traits.

In today's world, such women could be found anywhere and thus such women if are deprived of basic necessities such as food, clothing, and shelter then it is good for society and those who are privileged by serving the society well including their mother, father, and son at times, as well as the in-laws, always get the well to deserve respect in the society.

If I get back to any particular thoughts including that mental hospital's patients are not reclaimed by family members it is quite easy to point towards any particular person by saying that the person is mad and many of the people at Ranchi and other cities of Jharkhand are thrown at Ranchi Mental Hospital in the name of treatment and they never get the opportunity in life to get back to the life which was given to them by their parents.

So, before you stand for a woman's favor first understand her intention and then help as at times people akin to many big corporate houses have gone bankrupt in the name of spending a huge amount on a woman and from their-on they could be seen loitering around and never become a person to get back to normal life as a social being.

P.S.: Also, those Police Man who beat mercilessly the people in the name of Lockdown should understand that for any particular beating even during the curfew a culprit has to first booked under Section IPC 144 and then march him to Police Station for beating as at times the anti-social elements could take advantage and then "Bullet" does not ask for the name before hitting any person!

"I could write this because I have studied criminology under Master of Arts in Sociology so please do not question about a bit of knowledge of Criminal Laws and the right procedure to handle it".

The game which loves agression deserves agressor!

One of the most aggressive games in the World is football and it certainly does not need to be people of meek personality. So, all those youth who try to be with a cool mind but aggressive in their thought and action should get into this game. I could certainly say that the thought process of football is not all about creating ruckus and hooliganism but strict adherence to the set guidelines and principles and it could give immense satisfaction as equivalent to any other games which you spend time.

Many of us try to spend half of our life on learning Cricket and then the outcome is something which is akin to not getting selected for any of the formats.

Now, the other factor is that the same could apply for football but certainly, as compared to Cricket, football makes you stronger, and with all the mind tactics which are needed could be found in this game. It is as near as any other game for which the people spend millions in training such as a Lawn tennis game or maybe any other one which could be like basketball or volleyball.

The bigger the arena the more your personal way comes in its own instinct, techniques, and the way in which you have most of the time learning on your own. The football which takes all its love for you could be understood only by those who are passionate about the game and for all others, it is more about generating chaos on the field and then turn out to be a leg breaker which must have been done to generate another wave of sympathy akin to bursting the red wine near the face. 

Life also becomes irony for many who try to save few people and then they consider it a way to take bitter revenge on the same person who may have soft tones once to help many who were just unable to understand themselves.

It all happens because of the series of flop show by the family and then do not understand the meaning of a mind which has got inculcated to be right almost at every possible way to be found under the Sun. Most of the time what we do is that neither we go on the path which has been charted for us but follows others blindly and then once we fulfill some of our desires we try to overcome others to make us happier and find it easier to become a personality which could be complex and irate.

So, if we see the context of football where one could say that the game which loves aggression deserves aggressor and any person who loves to keep it more or less a disguise in terms of character loses the temperament in the game as well as life. Once it gets done a game which is all about bearing the character changes into a game of speculation which is money minded and then the downfall gives the backlash for many years to come!   

Serving social beings has never become my forte!

After studying M.A. in Sociology from Bharati Vidyapeeth through SDL, Pune, and with a meager number as per the Indian Educated honchos all I could get is some absurd talks which do not fulfill me as a person. 

Altogether, I just could not make out that what the country is proud of where at times the Hindi heartland people fail in large numbers with their prime language Hindi and the other times my old school mates just could not keep away their bad stares.

Maybe it could be all because I did not take any half chances to catch their pride and which was never a kind of desire for me. Like any folklore within the country, the name "Mukesh Kumar" was considered to be a name that was not even the great for them as certainly, I do not belong to any of their categories where everything has happened since the Congress lost the power seat.

From mob lynching to various ways of torture getting inflicted on every possible people for all their odd aces the only thought is to consider the blabbering as a way to hide their past and pull the screen from silver to white for fulfilling their wishes against me.

I also feel a bit perturbed when I see the old Managers honking and nagging against me although that may not be true to some extent as when I see the faces of the managers they could feel a sense of immense pride for me.

Now, getting back to the thought of calling every odd person to the home for an evening tea and then listen from them "Wah Taj" or "Tata Tea ka Jawab nahi" does not make me any bigger as in the early childhood it was difficult for me to arrange everything including laying tables and serving every other person coming at home and in between the fight was always there with all kinds of brothers and sisters who were rarely or not nearly associated with us whether from near or far in terms of a relationship.

All it was because their set of beliefs was more or less like to know the behavioral mindset of the family of four whom Indians do not believe as per a big entourage without knowing that likely or unlikely the family has a good lineage.

I just could not understand the meaning of elders in terms of those who are from a set of pre-mature society and all they could do is to collectively laugh on others and once it is said and done they get back with their errands.

I remember one of the many incidents in life when for our family most of the aspect of life was to be under strict adherence and then till date people have to say that ye log bandhan me rahe hae..which I feel absolutely O.K.

Now, the other thought is that serving social society has never become my forte and I feel proud about it as somewhere down the line when I see my old friends over the internet and they still remember me neither as a captain nor as a cook but a person willing to do their little bit of work whether official or unofficial without getting too much of touchy-feely helps me to do any work without any thought of bondage or maybe tight rope all along my body.

I just feel O.K. with the fact that with all those people who were on both sides of relationship including maternal and paternal and few of the friends who just could not match an eye to eye with me I complete feel satisfied by those who were good with me and helped me to carry my life duties with ease.

I could only say that my head never hung with shame as I never went into any form of sexual relationship with any of my sister, brother, family or friends apart from the girl who was into my life and this helped me to feel ease rather than taking the evil way of fucking once,,, fucking again and that is the biggest satisfaction.

Although, with no patronage of any entity which could be someone who may be another person of a villainous sort who has created a rift within the families and then grinning from ear to ear could be a style of some personality who could be another demonic man and as per my belief smiling and laughing is also a behavior which is inculcated me although I never got into killing or blackmailing anyone for a penny.

So, till date life has been very fulfilling and those who go with the wind sail better and against the wind needs a very courageous effort for which the person could be seen or maybe known to be with fulfilling dividends but in this world hiding oneself is something which is difficult and then what remains with us is our deeds which may be good or bad so thankfully from social studies till sociology the subject has been an eye-opener and will continue doing so in my life!