Person who loves privacy will certainly appreciate me!

At times after reading through other's people thoughts and understanding them to a great extent if I compare myself with them then I will find myself to be a very private person who does not believe in getting into other's life unless it is their own wish. I after spending considerable time in my life which is about 40 years when looking back I do not find myself to be giving anyone across my society, city or office any kind of nightmares. There are people in life who once get behind you go on giving the all kinds of virtual dislikes in your thought for many years to come. They stick to you and with or without purpose remain glued in your mind which could hamper your social life.

Even if you want to get disassociated with them they haunt back in your memories and try to follow you thinking that they have enough guts to remind you of your past deeds without anything which could be said to pull out some influence out of it. This could certainly be called Blast from the past which is unnecessary and it gives not only some bad vibes but show your true character. There was a time when certain people from our society where I have my own home and stay with my only mother, people would certainly point towards me to say that he keeps himself to be a person with lots of privacy and do not give a shit to the social functions like Holi and other festivals. I believe that after going through major hiccups in life and understanding the people from near and far they could have certainly understood that how the people make you feel suffocated and what is the true meaning of relationship which could be seen from the near off people who are cousins, nephews, uncles and aunts who when do not find themselves to be at par with you certainly pounce on you to give many of them a sleepless nights.

Here, the Indian mindset is all about being a kind of show-off where people put on unethical pressure on others by either challenging them or just trying to keep their better-looking life as a bait so that in any case if you try to creep in then the loss is yours. Sometimes, while trying to trap a mouse in the rat catcher you ought to catch a snake and from there-on life becomes so much difficult for you that it leads to creating unnecessary issues and then life becomes difficult.

If in India people are very much in love with cricket then they would certainly understand that getting back into the game is the biggest thing rather than throwing away your wicket which leads to losing the match. Also, the person who has to be on his own has to fight every day in the life with the unknown demons and there is nothing called some extra effort from the other end which could pull you out from any particular ways of ruining your own life, If I remember my grandfather Mr. Chittaranjan Prasad he use to speak with me about saam, daam, dand, bhed ways of life where one has to get everything out from life through all possible ways and then make the most out of it as life gives back only to those who fight for it without getting into war.

So, all those beautiful ones who have spent a considerable amount of time in life and has been near about my age would certainly appreciate the fact that once a person grows in life he has to be a person who loves privacy and if he or she follows the same in life then person who loves privacy will certainly appreciate me rather than those who believe in going all out and then could not make anything out of life as my father also taught me to stay alone throughout my life rather than keeping partners during my hostel life and then regret the entire life which is certainly bigger in terms of gaining experiences and thus staying alone makes you a better person who becomes capable enough to fight in every situation!