One who fears the word "BAAP" rarely does mistake!

Has anyone while getting cane by teacher or father ever shouted Arrey Baap re baap...in most of the Indian households whether a student, son or any XYZ boy when get the beatings could be heard shouting the same line. Few hilarious ones use to sing in tune Arrey baap re baap arrey dada re dada-2 times which made the most wicked of the person get into jovial mood and then leave him while beating. 

The situation in life comes where your friend stands more or less like a Baap before you and then certainly you cannot say anything whether he is a boy or a girl. For me, I always love a baap type character rather than the one who tries to behave like a timid one. The person who is good in sports is always considered a baap of all and the same could be said for the person who is good into studies and if they both are for a person then he or she is a boon on earth.

For me, most of my friends have reached the crescendo from where they are certainly a baap in their respective fields. If I give so much of insisting on being a father figure it is because when my father was staying with me at any mistake in my life he was liable to stand by my side and this has given me enough of confidence which I could have never got by anyone else. For me, if I remember my early days of life my all life has been better but the best of the three months were those when my mother and sister stayed away from me and father Mr. Upendra Vidyarthi, took the charge to prepare lunch and food for me which has given me the best way to understand the fatherly deeds in life.

He certainly made me understood the difference between man and woman as the man always gives more of an insight into the behavioral traits while the women are confined only to money and power due to which she is considered a Laxmi as she is the forebearer of every amount only in terms of showering love and affection and when she becomes treacherous then she is considered as a Black Laxmi which could be the word described for many women from Eastern Part of India as it is a curse of Sita about carrying the Triya-Charitra in them.

Thankfully, after my father went on his sacred duty my mother took the charge of being the baap and thus I never felt alone in life as the mother turned father makes you feel assured and that lead to many betterment in my lifestyle which moved towards being more elegance with a heavy dose of attitude which is required these days.

So, one could say that One who fears the word "Baap" rarely does mistake and he himself gradually becomes a father figure after a certain aspect of time which makes him loved by all. Although, I myself did not feel like becoming a baap at the age of 33 years as it was just curbing my freedom and thus I got relieved of my duty because the woman herself has the behavior of an anti-baap which could be seen in all her behaviors. 

So, before I think tumi ki -......I would say aami aam.....not a luchi...and the aam has certainly got an anthi in it..so I would say that I love the glances but fortunately "Tumhe apna baap banane se pehle meri jaan mujhko khud kuch banna hai....because my project is not delayed but it is still in work!