Boy instantly becomes a MAN when father leaves him forever!

Kasam Paida Karne Wale Ki.....A very foolish film by Mithun Chakraborty and Sri Amrish Puri in the early '80s was quite a sensational one where the protagonist turns to be a person against all the tyrants when his father leaves him and then he takes on the evil society to give a fight back. In today's context, such foolish thought is not only condemned but looked down upon as the society has changed to a large extent and Revenge is the word which is left only with the poorest of the mindset.

If a person wants to fight back in life there are many of the ways which are not only confined to education but overall development which is either through sports or getting into various activities and also giving your 100% to yourself and being good towards your own rather than running towards the odd behaviours which is certainly not approved by the society.

Since a single mom has become a norm and people esp. women who emulate few of the likes of Miss Sushmita Sen follow the footsteps of being a Single Mom has to get the prime objective of giving an upbringing to their children that they should certainly not be abusive towards their biological father as a male has to see a lot more hardships in life as compared to women who generate sympathy by either through tears or various other ways and also the society is still lenient towards them.

It is a fact of the matter that in today's context when there are thousands of people who know how to exploit the men folks it has become a normal way to get married to someone and then give him all possible threats along with ruining him in thousand ways to give the man a poor and poker face which makes him feel bad about himself. I personally was more near to my father and in spite of him being a person who always knew the ways to keep me under his arms and controlling me through all better ways from beating me up on occasions I never felt bad about it. I knew that whatever he was doing for me was all according to the rules and regulations and it will give me certain benefits in the long run. In this way, I could say that I followed the rule book of the patriarchal family to the "T" and thus nobody till date was able to misguide me.

It is also true that one should keep a little bit of rein on son or daughter and do not give them free hand to do anything in life which led them to become a better person in life. On the contrary, giving them freehand to do anything and appreciating them on the bad aspect of life makes them the evil person who is not appreciated by any society in common and the time comes when such children cannot face the society with head held high. So, making children a lawyer without crossing the right age makes him a bad person in his own ways and neither he achieves something in life nor he is good for others. Also, the boy instantly becomes a MAN when a father leaves him forever which could be cited in many life examples without naming anyone as it is very personal thought as because the father is not a word but becomes a void which could never get fulfilled by a mother!