Begging is never my forte as I relied on hard-work in life!

If I start with the statement that Begging is never my forte as I relied on hard-work in life it is very much true as the family which I belong is very much star-studded and I could have got an easy way to get into every aspect of life through all the easy ways. If people talk about me going towards the shortcuts and leading my path in style then they are not only creating rumors but making a poker face of their own. My father always made me a person whom he must have thought in his dreams about a common man who has to struggle every day for his bread and butter shouting mere Pass Maa Hai...and then the other of his brother speaking Uff tumhare ussool aur adarsh tumhe do waqt ki roti bhi nahi de sakte.

Personally, speaking I was very much influenced by movies like Deewar and these movies of yesteryear have built me as a person as I was very much influenced by the characters of the likes of Shri Amitabh Bachhan and Shri Shashi Kapoor but I have certainly been not a part of the Bollywood as my father always insisted me to work hard in life and become something on their own. My own sister Sweta also took to the massive success path after passing out Hotel Management from IHM Pusa Bangalore but both of us which is me, Mukesh Kumar and my sis never tried to take advantage of anyone or the situations in life. 

We were very ideal as kids and the same continued till we took the growth factor in life although for me people from my neighborhood at Bokaro Steel City never allowed to live in peace and solidarity and the A.K. Verma family including his wife and daughters along with son insisted that they should put all the problems and issues in our lives in spite of being a better citizen as compared to others. In the process of trying to destroy me as a person, they never rise to the level which should give them any solace in life as the God belief is about tit for tat and the more they tried to deny me of happiness the more bad life they have seen all together in life.

Also, the place where we stay which is Ghaziabad has a population of migrant workers and this leads to people from all kinds of thoughts due to which everybody has a superiority complex and even a person who is not educated can certainly give you all kinds of issues in life. For the people in NCR value of education is almost a nil factor as the business-minded people here are aware of the thousands of tactics to earn money and for them, all the money and the style statement in terms of keeping an Audi or having Bungalow is all about showing the better aspect of life.

In this way, I could say that my father's better parenting style of being the hardest of a person on me at Bokaro Steel City helped me to be a person with the thought of doing everything on my own and thus begging is never my forte as I relied on hard-work in life. If I remember the woman in my life whom I once married she took all the ways to shake my base by creating ruckus in life and the social wholeheartedly supported her considering her to be a person from better background but all her ways to destroy me finally fall flat and the person behind her has to leave the society being red-face rather than finding something to get some better points in the eye's of people.

Although, I was a person never become abusive and if I see my old friends, colleagues and teachers who knew me as a better person I try to be good with them and my way is not to get too pally but keeping a safe distance from everyone still remain in their heart as a better person rather than clinging to them. Same goes for my family members whom I rarely visit and rather keep to myself as I know that I can do much better in life without carrying the heavy cross in the life of the family burdens as because if I rely too much on them it will always keep my mind in some sort of trouble. I will always be overburdened in terms of expectations which will not allow me to feel free but still as a person I never become a vagabond in life and I took to studies after few failures and today I am a Master of Arts in Sociology along with preparing for the Ph.D. Also, I work as Content Writer and never tried to become a person who is a show-off character and for me, there is nothing called to be of any awkward sense of greatness as I am also a Marathoner by profession in sports and running full marathon is my way to get into active sports rather than being lethargic and think that I have enough in terms of money and food. If I remember my family members they are very hardworking and are never the kind of people who are sympathy gainers but believe in growing their own vegetables and food not only for themselves but for the society and although I do not feel bad when I say that I spit on anything which is for free rather than the way I have earned respect in their eyes I will always try to prove my worth before them by becoming a person on my own rather than try to blackmail them and pull out something or the other which could certainly never be understood by today's society including women who believe in snatching things rather than building a thought process of their own which is far better to stand as a person forever!