No camarderie among guys have led to more of exploitation among youth!

As a student of Holy Cross which was a public school and with fun at helm during the schooling we as a student found much of the meaningful ways into schooling where in spite of sometimes staying alone during recess still the classroom was full of fun esp. when the teacher was not in and attentive when the teacher was in. With few classmates who were already there to poke fun on each other and at times some fighting with or without reason still the camaraderie was great among the classmates. the students who were of the batch which was of Class X- for the year 1996 whether it was of Section A, B or C have become an icon in the entire Bokaro Steel City and almost everyone has achieved one or the other things in life which has given us unforgettable moments in life.

Although, I as a student who was not behind any particular women or girl in my society or the residential homes which our father has got through Bokaro Steel Plant did not had any affinity towards any family members esp. on the maternal side or the end and the same goes for the society where most of them use to feel demoralized by their own heart. The reason behind was that their growth was confined to the factor of being Srivastava or Sahay or the Verma and most of them have begged for the job by the A,K, Srivastava family which was a part of the folklore and carried much of the burden of their village background from where they picked their loyal people who further destroyed them to the core by making their girl child run away with them. The same could be said about the Rukhiyar family which produced as many children by eloping with the girls of Mr. A.K. Srivastava and even S.K. Srivastava who found to see a bitter side of life when the elder daughter Sapna Srivastava eloped with Mr. Verma. 

In this way, some high and mighty Srivastava clan got destroyed and it took a ugly turn where they never returned to normal ways of life and further their multiple daughters also find out to be into different movies which were related to blue films and various other anti-social ways of life. Their son and daughters virtually got destroyed and A,K. Srivastava has to take much of the burden of educating their half mad children who were hardly inclined towards studies but willing to destroy everyone including other upper caste like Tiwari and others which could be seen till date. The one graet way in their family is that no camaraderie could be found among guys have led more of exploitation among youth in them and the way an entire theme of their life and understanding got destroyed as the servant cannot become a king and most of the time their head is found to be hanging in shame and it leads to sexual frustration.

Also, such household resort to laughing on others in which their women folks try to catch attention of other men by laughing on any particular person to target them and thus it leads to social imbalance in the society. The good person who has seen all the better factors in life try to stay away from such people while those who believe in taking undue advantage immediately get into active sex with them and thus it gives them a new way to destroy entire clans as the women's revenge is worst than any thing else which could be seen in the epic stories of Ramayana and Mahabharata.

This is the reason in the area of Western U.P. Khap panchayat is into being a great way to deal with such homely issues and to some extent it is a better way to deal with things rather than taking the help of any immediate help where the Civil court takes time to respond to such issues. So, now considering the fact that over exploitation of such women has been done by the servants they should feel open about their existence and try to fight back such demons to get respect from within and understand that such atrocities could make them weak for many more generation to come and before blurting out on one particular person should dig deep within to understand about your own parents who have bought you up in a different atmosphere as because they themselves were sex slaves rather than an honorable citizen of Indian society.