One should not help a poor in India but show him ways to earn!

One should not help a poor in India but show him a way to earn. This could be the first thought which has crossed the mind of Shri Mahatma Gandhi as he said in his pledge about thinking about the poorest of the man while doing something for him. It is better known as Gandhiji Talisman or The Gandhiji Jantar while reading the NCERT books. Actually, when a person feels hungry for anything the first poor which comes in front of him is his own face and that is why Restaurants do not have a mirror as because if you will see your face while eating you will sometimes feel amazed to see different hues which can be seen on your face.

Now, let me not get too deeper into the thought but if somebody said that does not give a person a fish but tell him how to catch fish so that he could have a fish every day to eat. But the smart one did not include the thought about growing fish so that he could have food for many more years to come, such as sell the fish and buy other groceries as everyday fish will not suffice the food habits.

If we want to see the fact of the matter about our river Hindon to be polluted one can see the river from very nearby through an occasional visit to the newly built cricket stadium at Morti, Raj Nagar Extension, Ghaziabad. The riverfront is beautiful and has a fish pond from the same river which is said to be polluted but not only the river water nurtures the fish but with her help, several acres of land get cultivated producing fresh and leafy vegetables for the local markets. The river caters beautifully to the local and has given the best of the ways to earn money and livelihood through her own ways without breaking the barriers of land and act as a dutiful mother. 

Now, if getting back to relevance when thinking about the people who consider office culture not to be worthy and every other person thinking about becoming an entrepreneur one could understand that legacy hardly works these days. The big people who may be an entrepreneur must have become pawns as their children must have been unable to carry the burden of the heavyweight their parents must have been incorporated in life. The treacherous way of spending money and running behind the famous of the three which are Sharab, Shabab and Kebab must have destroyed them to a great extent without naming a few.

On the contrary, people like Mr. Rusy Mody who was the Chairman of Tata Steel at one time and further got appointed as the Joint Chairman of Indian Airlines and Air India after retiring from Tata Steel has started working during his initial days as "Office Assistant" to understand the office culture and work ethics. I feel bad when people consider me to be thought of giving disrespect to my colleagues as because while I was working as an executive at Shelters, Connaught Place in the year 2002-2004, I never had any fling whether sexual or personal till my work in any office including IBM and Ienergizer too. However bad I was considered by the few who take themselves to be above and all as they in their deeper thoughts are known to use their genitals instead of hard work to flourish as they, fortunately, got the same training by their near and dear ones.

My way of life has always been under the thought to earn the bread on my own and then try to stand as par among my colleagues who are of my own batchmate and rather a payscale. I never ever tried to get into my manager's way by trying to take away his position as I always believed in flourishing under him or her. Also, I become bad in their eyes as I never tried to snatch away their baby dolls or the dandy girls as in New Delhi every corporate has the same thought process where the woman tries to give sinful thoughts in the manager's mind by playing crossways where she tries to become sinful with subordinates.

Thankfully, I was too timid to open before the girls them and thus put all my thought into work rather than becoming a playboy which made me too much money minded and thus never got an opportunity to get laid before any woman. The money remained hard-earned by me rather than provided by the kind words which is akin to money given to beggars!

Reliance getting jolts while the Indian Brand Patanjali and others gearing up!

Indian Economic System is seeing a major change where small-time investors and business tycoons are seeing flat tires while the people who are really industrious could be seen growing faster in the economy. The country is seeing a major shift in the thought process where small business investors along with the Digital revolution which was initiated by Modi Ji the BJP led Government has given a kind of Swaraj to the people.

The Indian Economy system with the advent of the Digital Revolution has suddenly seen the people growing and thus getting a better foothold in their business with the help of apps and web development. On the contrary, Companies like Reliance and its subsidiary could be seen selling off their stake and most of the Petrol pumps along with their other stores are not getting much of the takers. They also have an investment in private education and digital marketing which is also done by small colleges and other C.B.S.E affiliated schools giving them a big competition by local school and college governing bodies.

It is a matter of act that while the Reliance Jio is talking about the optical fibers which could be handled by any small company is not into any sectors like manufacturing and infrastructure which could be the development of Metro Rail projects or the other big ventures like the construction of highways and realty sector.

The business which is Patanjali is seeing a relatively higher growth and sooner or later they are about to turn the table. The Ayurved and Yoga Guru including Acharya Balakrishnan along with Swami Ramdev has got many takers and their business is seeing to catch the trends. The people who believe in Swadeshi along with having a fair deal are thinking more about "making hay while the sun shines" and on the contrary people from other sectors are seen to burning the hands while investing in Reliance and other such brands.

https://economictimes.indiatimes.com/news/company/corporate-trends/billionaire-baba-what-catapulted-acharya-balkrishna-to-the-rich-lists/articleshow/60838147.cms?from=mdr

If one could see the latest report by "The Week" it shows that the Reliance is asked to give a better evaluation of their capital and investments which could be found in the link below:

https://www.theweek.in/news/biz-tech/2019/12/21/Centre-seeks-to-restrain-Reliance-stake-sale-in-chemicals-biz-to-Aramco.html

Also, the Reliance Annual report meeting in the year 2016 could see the Chairman and the CEO Mukesh Ambani explaining about his venture and the freebies associated with Reliance Jio his talking style which is although less understood by me or any other person could be found here in this link:

https://www.ril.com/OurCompany/Leadership/Mukesh-Ambani-Chairman-and-Managing-Director.aspx

Also, his investment could be seen in "Book My Show"  and Yatra.com which are small-time business ventures. The other thought is about the investment of Reliance into the equity funds market which totally depends upon the investment by people who do not go for various other ways of investment.

The other aspect is about Reliance getting jolts while the Indian brand Patanjali gearing up. So, it is all about the thought of developing into a better business scenario and investing in the right channel so that your investment should not get burned up and you may come out with no benefits in the near future.

Here, is the link by NDTV stating details:

https://www.ndtv.com/business/mukesh-ambani-fails-to-lift-reliance-shares-5-reasons-why-305845

So, be wise and get the right aspect of investment rather than higher investment and no return could be your way to get bankrupt!

Bullying or harassment is the worst behavioral trait one faces in lifetime!

Whether you go to any part of the world or into any profession one faces the iconic heavyweight who loves to bully people. Once, the child enters the school whether it is about coming first in the class or in games the classmate of yours to attract more girls starts bullying any single boy in the class. The same starts happening with the group of boys who believe in themselves and probably force one or the other person to bring out the best in them by showing their treacherous aspect in life to pull down the better ones in the form of bullying or harassment.

It could also be seen prominently into siblings where the bullying is done not only by a boy but sometimes the girl tends to take over the charge and the boy has nothing left in life where the family starts enjoying the more through their sadist approach and the boy keeps getting bullied which he does not protest as it is all about the izzat or respect of the household.

The similar thing then further could be seen once the person enters the college where the teacher or professor plays the same tactics with the person who is timid and the girl gangs also take more of the jibes towards the guy which is an easy way for them to seek a kind of revenge which is very natural aspect of human being. It gives them a natural sense of satisfaction. Also, in case if you are strong enough to say no to any relationship whether it is the extramarital affair or maybe any advances by a girl then the world creates havoc on you and further, the girl gets revengeful for many years to come which further becomes a much of life demeaning circumstances. Also, the Indian mindset is all about taking advantage of any life situation and bullying or harassment is the worst behavioral trait one faces in a lifetime and it can certainly make or break a person from within the heart.

There are also chances that a classmate of yours who may be inclined towards your siblings could create so much pressure on you that it may take a heavy toll on your mind. One thing is quite sure that when it comes to a younger or an older sister she is hardly your own and she can certainly create much of the life issues to make you feel bad in the society as a sister is a natural progression of your own hormonal traits and the younger one stands to be more progressive and also fierce in nature. She may not give respect and love as most of the time the parents may praise your efforts while the society around you may demoralize you to find a greater piece of her thought which may put an effect on the mind of the sister who would feel taking away much of your happiness so that she could rule the life game in a better possible ways.

Also, the same thing could be seen at the workplace where the person who may be trying to overpower you can find many possible ways to show your weakness in your job and thus may become a hindrance in your promotion and other activities. 

Most of the time people see that to reply to bullying one immediately gets into sexual satisfaction with the person who is bullying or harassing but then it makes you weak and turns you to be a sex slave which further hits you in the mind.Als0, there is not much one can do in terms of bullying as in many cases when you complain whether in school, college or office against any person who bullies you then such person is either thrown out or the entire society gets against him as the people love oppressor than the oppressed.

So, it is always better to stick to your work and reply by giving the best out of you and although it may take many years to get the respect in life but certainly a time comes when the person is known to have the 75:25 of the ratio and the person with more rational background who understand every pros and con in life comes out to be better in life and is understood by everyone although he must have lost much in life which is anyways a bigger tussle!

P.S: The girl never bullies because of the brotherly love which she has to show for the younger sibling but she does it for the love who must have discarded her by smartly putting your name behind rejecting her love proposal and she blindly tries to destroy you for satisfying her inner urge which anyways destroys her inner self for a long more time in life!

The most disloyal women always seeks loyalty from you!

Understanding Indian women are no more complexity these days. The more the society has opened up in terms of technology, communication, and artificial intelligence the more complex nature is getting the word "over and out" going away and the more of the word take it easy is coming back in life. It can be all understood by the fact that even the woman and man relationship is understood by the fact that woman always loves freedom is not a norm but the woman who has got enough of freedom in life during her early days whether in studies of schooling or college seems to settle down easily in her career.

While, on the other hand, the woman who has been in the home and always in the company of female counterparts feel more satisfied with both sexes whether it is male or female. On the contrary, if one could have seen the behavior of co-education it is better confined to cities and towns rather than villages as the woman in cities are more into understanding human nature and stay away from the hooligans on their own. 

The loyalty may be the prime factor in life but one can see "the most disloyal women always seeks loyalty from you" as she somewhere within her heart must have paid the price of being disloyal towards many men. Here, disloyal means not sticking to one male and neither having multiple relationships nor getting into sexual intimacy as a habit and neither thinking into staying away from the man at times as well. 

For me, as when I was a toddler most of my life was spend under the tutelage of my Grandfather Mr. Chitranjan Prasad Ji who was very strict and I could still feel his strictness somewhere in my genes which never allows me to venture into unknown women's territory as his way of life was not to get into the women's stride unless it was very much necessary.

If I remember my childhood days it was an influence of almost three-generation where The Grandfather was with me. My father Mr. Upendra Vidyarthi, was there along with his colonial cousin like brother Mr. Papu Ji better known as Mr. Rakesh Kumar where both of them use to cycle together on different cycles and me most of the time used to sit on Pappu Ji cycle while the youngest one who was hardly 4-5 years older than me was Mr. Rajeev Ranjan Srivastava who was more or less like a Mr. Cry Baby who tried to be more of a dutiful younger brother.

The city as Bokaro Steel was one of the worst as it was growing as a city from the Adivasi tutelage of people from Chota Nagpur and since a place where suddenly a big investment opportunity has come up such as Bokaro Steel Plant, it was difficult for the people to get along with each other and the word Varchasav could be found in every possible scenario. The worst of the caste-war along with ethnic majority clashes used to happen whether it the plant or anywhere else. Anyway, this was hardly a matter of concern for us but "CAUTION" or being cautious was my way of living which has been adapted by me since Childhood and smelling danger was the way to survive.

Now, getting back to the point of being loyal I would rather say that I have been loyal towards my heart and my food rather than anyone else and my way of life is not about playing with women and whether the Indian women love me or hate me I believe that my entity is the one which keeps me in my own stride and helps me to stay within my own self which is far better than getting into anyone's arms as I know about the grave dangers of life where people however bad they are do not expect others to be bad as they believe to be above all which is "God" in common!

Nature is the second habit of man and you cannot change it!

For me, the world cannot be said that ignorance is the bliss as most of the time since childhood I have remained inquisitive in life. Even, as a child for every small thing, I use to ask a question to my papa, grandfather, and uncles. It increased my knowledge more about human behaviors and whether I was inclined towards any girl or not did not remain the fact of life but I was always a book worm. The more of the books I studied the more my thoughts were to remain deeply inside my own thoughts and that lead me to think about any issues for many hours, days and years.

Also, connecting one incident to another remained entirely in my thought process and to fight back was my way not to show any instinct but survival remains the ultimate question. It is all about facing the situation from the front rather than going away from it and it is certainly not for any accolades but to stick to the norms of life.

I, remember that whenever at any moment I use to feel weak I was calling my father to New Delhi and in spite of working at Bokaro Steel Plant he use to immediately get towards me for supporting me. Although, one categorically takes father's love as a natural process in life and the question comes is that why one takes it for granted?

The simple answer could be with the statement that "Nature is the second habit of man and you cannot change it" as however good a father's love is neither one revolts against it nor consider it to be anything as a compulsion. It is merely considered as a duty or obligation and that is the reason in spite of my father Mr. Upendra Vidyarthi being a strict disciplinarian was never asked any question by me as at times he beat me for my studies and for the mistakes.

Also, when during the parents-teacher meeting at school when my father used to visit with me and in case a teacher used to tell my faults in any subject my father and mother never argued with him or her but asked me to focus on studies and give respect to the teachers which were the norms of my life. I was very timid before my teachers and never had the ability to react in a negative way which was all because of my upbringing as my father was a very strict guardian rather than an easy-going lad with us.

He also said once that "To Error is human" and till I am with you to make you understand the liability lies on me but once you are into the greater aspect of life you will be known as a well-behaved boy in spite of all the efforts of people to boggle you down. I learned a lot in life from my father but certainly, Maths remained the weak point in my life but the calculation about being accurate in life and weighing the words could have come all according to the thought process of my father along with his friends and the uncle's who have given me due respect and taught me more in life sciences which helps me to understand the sociology and its impact on Indian mindset. The Rural aspect works better rather than considering oneself to be born and bought up in town as every town is a city and every city is made by 100's of villages coming together.

At the same time understanding English and being outspoken makes you fearless which increase your capability and gives you the understanding in life which could never be understood by the people who consider the "Scheduled Tribe" and "Scheduled Caste" to be small as it is seen by the likes of Mr. Rahul Kanwal from AAJ TAK who propagated Mr. Raghubar Das to be a timid one and asked unnecessary question about his lineage in one of the interviews.

Although, I do not shun the media houses but consider them nothing more than small-time corporates who most of the time make fun of people and consider every people small before them which could be found in their discussions as they neither bring any upliftment for society and do not even provide employment to many youths but always take the token amount to read back the news all according to the money factor which hardly rules these days!

Hopefully, the young Chief Minister "Mr. Hemant Soren" will give the right break to agriculture and cottage industry to grow in Jharkhand which will fetch much of the necessity of food as he understands the value of education, food, and development of common people which has been the motto of Jharkhand Mukti Morcha since it's formation by the great grandfather of Jharkhand Sri Shibu Soren Ji who is certainly the father of Modern Jharkhand!

Till this date nobody has given me LOVE or Success!

When it comes to Love or Success I being Mukesh Kumar has always seen people honking me near my thoughts just to make me feel surrender before them. In this materialistic world where everything is dealt with money even earning it on your own makes you look less ordinary than any other one who has got the privilege of an extra hand behind him or her. Since I belong to a very ordinary background where I have to work hard in life and as a Content Writer, I earn 0.40 paise per word INR which is 0.14 cents as per US Dollar still I work hard on my own which makes me believe in myself.

I still believe that success and failures are a part of the own thought process and after all the tremors which have hit me in the form of friends leaving me and with no women in my life I still feel content somewhere as I do not carry any kind of remorse towards anyone. I feel that the morsel (a handful of food) that is the food which I eat is earned by me with all the due respect and with that 0.40 INR I write so much per month that it fetches me more than Rs 10,000 to 15,000 INR which shows that how much effort I put in my work.

Also, prior to that, I have worked with IBM as Customer Service Representative, Technical background for Morgan Stanley but the night job was taking a heavy toll on my body and mind thus I left that job and since then Digital Marketing certification helped me to get the job as Content Writer. When I look back during the days of my struggle I have seen those days in my life when my father thought that 56.4% in C.B.S.E from Holy Cross in matriculate was not good enough to survive and once he thought so the world also took the charge to beat me often in the form of using slangs, abuses whether physical or verbal and at times with heavy assault on my body. 

I never took my father's  Mr. Upendra Vidyarthi hard hand on me as an offense and I somehow learned everything on my own and with his money and savings done by my mother I made my own home at Ajnara Integrity, Raj Nagar Extension, Ghaziabad and also I have my own ALTO K-10 Car. Today my career is taking a serious curve where I am opting for a Ph.D. in Sociology after completion of my M.A in Sociology. Although, my father never become offensive towards me as he always supported me financially but my city people which was Bokaro Steel were smart enough to make me segregate and laugh at me to say where a toothless serpent type person Mr. A.K.Verma from Sector 6-D put all his effort to make me feel bad at every step of life and to support him there was the eternal Mr. D.N. Prasad both f them were known to be very much into the mode of being a colorful man and with illicit behavior are quite an example in the leading ladies of Bokaro Steel City.

Still, being alone does not make me much of a frustrated person as socially I never went corrupt and most of the time I never took any offensive step in my life and my school prayers were there to hold me up as I use to sing within my heart my own God names as I belong to a Hindu family. I remember people using all kinds of abusive stance towards me even if I never bothered their women or girls but it was easy for them to target me. So, if I said that create any obstacle in my life someone or the other in the form of God will be there to hold me up and take me towards the right path it comes out to be an absolute truth. 

Also, all my School friends including Navneet Kumar Sinha and Asutosh Kumar Sinha out of which Navneet was fondly called as Captain was never a part of my life after I left Class X from Holy Cross and all those people who abuse me must be doing it on their own behest rather than on anyone's else insistence. But if I see myself I find that I am more of an Indian law Abiding citizen and to some extent God-fearing as well and I do not feel in the category of being an Orphan as my father Mr. Upendra Vidyarthi, my own Sister Miss Sweta Srivastava who actually went far from me after I took my own growth but my mother Mrs. Kiran Bala Devi stayed with me and I could certainly say it with a good thought that neither anybody destroyed me nor anyone created me and when it comes to Love or Success, till this date nobody has given me Love or Success but I found it through my own ways which is very much of hard-work, agony and pain i.e. sweat & blood mixed together as I never had any GODFATHER and really never needed such person in my life as Godfather is for those who revolt against the family and system and become a vagabond rather than a CITIZEN!

To be DABBANG can be a new way of clean image!

DABBANG always does not mean the person who is responsible for keeping a heavy mustache and carrying the image of a gun-wielding person with gamcha(CottonTowel) in the neck and showing the red color paan-stained teeth. It is the time for the Indian youth to change the face of criminal aspect and join companies along with the services like IAS, IPS to give a substantial selected amount to their home from where they can make a pad or an apartment house of their own for which their PAPA must feel proud about it.

The girl in your life will equally feel proud about your achievements and whether she marries you or not but will remain your love-life if you will show the humbleness to make something for her which is creating a space in her life. Now, think on the contrary where the students from the Indian majority or minority groups who clashed with each other to gain momentum over each other could not get anything out of it but made a dent in the Indian Economy System by burning the public properties worth billions of rupees.

On one hand, the Indian Government is spending so much to increase the infrastructure and while on the other hand the misguided youth who do not believe in hard work but believe in snatching and looting of resources make nothing out of the system but make themselves a culprit who is further used by the society.

Every person whether he is a culprit or not looks for a clean image and whether he or she at times feel bad when they move to the airport and while being seated in the airplane face bad behavior. There on the air hostess or anyone else, when passing some lewd remarks and ask about the past deeds, feel remorse and regrets which cannot be gained back.

Indian Police System is smart enough to find the culprit in you and then use you accordingly for their own benefits. Just think about the people in Parliament who are from the criminal background are not even asked for a cup of coffee and food and neither the canteen boy or not even the sweeper gives them any respect. These places remain a kind of modern detention center where people from criminal past are kept who talk about doing the Janta Sewa and in return get the laat-juta sewa by the public.

Also, if we see the people from non-criminal backgrounds keep to themselves but the good thing which needs to be done is that the teachers who are retired from the Government services should get tickets in the election and they with the clean image can change the nation forever. A 25% to75% ratio will give a better look to the parliament where people who are from the criminal background should be of merely 25% while 75% of the people from the moral ethnic backgrounds should take participation.

The people who have retired from Indian Police Service should take charge and get into Politics to bring change in the nation as they are an important aspect of Indian society and also the people from Indian Military Background could do the same as it will not only give a clean parliament but a better representation of people. The person from Movie Industry along with any other such industry should get into business where they could secure their income as the shooting schedules are not for year-round and it will give them a secure income and merely investments will not work which could be seen by the example of Sri Akshay Kumar, who is into the Forbes list of Billionaires but started from a humble background.

I would like to ask the people of western U.P. that what was the state roads and public services were in the year 2003 when the first time I visited Bulandsahar and on the other hand a few days back I went to Pilkhuwa on 20th of December,2019 and was amazed to see all the great roads which has been built all around for which I certainly thank Mr. Nitin  Gadkari the Road Transport & Highways Minister and also the young C.M. Sri Yogi Adityanath Ji Maharaj who has bought changes in Uttar Pradesh at great level.

P.S: Also, the people who do not get admission into Government College should go for Private College as they not only give placements but have better faculties in the form of young teachers and what is the need for the students of U.P. to go towards Maharashtra and Karnataka but see the belt of College all along the Ghaziabad to Varanasi and Lucknow corridor from where the same degree which is NAAC & AICTE along with UGC certification can give them an edge in studies and that also in their own language in which they feel comfortable.

Easily giving your skin is the sign of bigger weakness!

When it comes to sex there are few or let's say many people in the world who immediately share themselves on a different bed without any hesitation in mind. There are many people who either for promotion or to get an increase in wage and for other substantial things in life immediately go on sharing their bed with someone who is either working in the office or is near to them. Just think that GOD or the almighty has given you only one thing in life which is your body that is completely made of water, tissues, skin and various other components.

If one asks for the vehicle or any other prized possession which you have you immediately say a complete no and take care of your belongings with you only. When it comes to sharing the skin then many people do not hesitate and it could be seen more in the girls who believe that for anything to take out in terms of work and other such necessity their inner part of the body can pay for it. As per my thinking, it certainly does not make you a sex worker if you have sex with someone but it is very true that once your body becomes habitual of a particular person's skin and his or her smell it starts longing for the same person.

You start feeling comfortable in his or her arms and then the soothing words of the person create a much of the charismatic effect which carries for the long more time or let's say it lingers for many years to come. In this way, one could say that it is all about the mind which should be enough to understand the outcome of sex with every other person. The person who may be having sex with multiple people may not be a gigolo or a prostitute but the inner body of such person starts doing a revolution and his or her entire cells say that it has been enough and I do not need any more of the sexual orgy and neither anymore sexual obligation is needed in my life.

In this way, all the five elements of life which are Earth, Fire, Water, Sky, and Air start conspiracy against the prime soul and they take away the life of yours without your knowledge. Here, sex is the primary aspect to be counted as the man or any other living being is born out of sex and thus the person who thinks that "Kya hua kaun sa meri body ghis rahi hai sex karne pe" has to pay back by the different age brackets of life which are defined all according to the karma of your own life cycle.  

So, it is always good to consider your own body as the most prized possession and one has to weigh all the pros and cons in life before sharing your eternal body with someone and thus easily giving your skin is the sign of bigger weakness which should be avoided as sex is not always for fun but it is also counted by the heavenly body who keep a watch on you without your notice and they are the deciding factor about your deeds and misdeeds which can never be understood by us!

Boys should manage their agility & health before marriage!

In India marriage is something that is never associated with masculine power. If you will see a man with the age of 80 and asked are you willing to marry someone? The answer will be an immediate "YES" and he will say I have gathered many years of sexual experience with me. The other thing is that if you have sex from an under-age it may or may not be a big issue in the society but the time comes when your inner guilt takes away everything from you and if you reside in the same city or among the same people who have been your sexual partners then the worst things come to haunt in life.

It is always the male who has to face the brunt of being sexually active whether you must have seen the "Rape controversy" have you ever heard that a woman is being hanged for the sex which she has done with several men. The answer is an absolute no because such kinds of women are considered to be Vishkanya who go on raping the male and taking away their ego which makes them hang their head in shame and thus they lose their libido before her.

Frankly, speaking such kind of evil act is mostly done by the women who is not your classmate but the women who may be your mausi or mami and the more respected she is the more you may understand that the respect she is fetching is all because of her behavior towards the man folk whom she has made a pawn in the eyes of the society. The same can not be said for the women in movie industry as if it is said that the lady has become very choosy in her roles makes you feel that she has become less inclined towards having orgy with directors and producers and in the long run she is found to be having an awkward sense where she moves towards either the Tamil movie industry where most of the time body doubles are seen to be doing the sexual act or are just a digital remake of the woman.

I with my visit towards South has known one thing completely that the man is very much fussy about their woman and none could be seen with two wives and multiple sexual affairs which makes them a bit different as the male chastity is the matter of pride there. The more a male is towards the worship of Shiv and the moe authentic his behavior is towards the women the more respect he gathers in life.

On the other hand, Bihar is a state which certainly has a confused state of mind and if a man is not into several sexual affairs he is considered to be a person who has not enough ability to do Maithun or the people think they have less of sexual prowess in him. In this way, one could think that the influence of Muslims or Islam is more to be seen in every nook and corner of the state. I actually was born in Bihar at Bokaro Steel City till it becomes Jharkhand in the year 2000 but my sexual behavior was almost negligent as my father was very strict in his way of life and the same could be said about my male school teachers at Holy Cross who were less in number but very strict with their demeanor as a little bit of deviation in our behavior allowed them to put all the way to teach us a lesson. So, as a person I was totally into heavy shackles of my father's thought process along with the teachers and I never ever got into sexual intimacy with any of the schoolgirls and neither ever went to any places such as a brothel to check my sexual prowess still when I got married which was just for the namesake I clicked well and had a son. Although, my wife never left me from her thoughts but things did not work out as she must have seen some other ways to get into her own domain which was never understood by me as I remained a free mind without sexual intercourse with anyone even when she left me which made me loyal towards the greater power which is worshipping the Almighty.

Now, getting back to the point which is about the thought which says boys should manage their agility and health before marriage remains the fact as the only thing which needs to be managed in India is a balanced body which can be managed with few push-ups and also by doing sit-ups. The need to go to the gym is not necessary as it does not make you complete unless you did the exercise since childhood and if I remember my Great Grandfather Sri Chitranjan Prasad ji, who visited only once or twice to my school during the L.K.G said me to move and eat the lunch in the school and I did the same all according to his instructions as it helped me to immediately get my food absorbed in the entire body and made me healthy with my thighs which remained the power source of all my energy till date.

So, one could say that the bone structure of my body always remain intact and on the contrary, I have seen many people with great body structures and their genitals to be as weak as anything which need not be elaborate as most of the time I have seen such structures in videos and if people comment on my height then certainly, one could understand that my baba whom I use to fondly call instead of dadu or dada had also the same height.He remained agile throughout his life and the same could be said about my father Mr. Upendra Vidyarthi who has a great persona and charismatic body of his own and has total control over me till I become big in life to earn my own money which I always earned through very hard work without getting into any kind of immoral act which makes me feel proud about myself although I never try to be a "proud peacock" as the peacock is the most humble of the birds in India! 

Education has bough a rift in utilization of MANPOWER!

In India after 1956 when the country got Independence in 1947 much of the emphasis was given towards education by the like of Dr.Bhim Rao Ambedkar, Dr. Rajendra Prasad, and many other leaders. The country saw a flurry of educational institutes and whether you visit any village of Uttar Pardesh or cities along with the ever state of India everywhere a person finds Rajkiya Inter College and Rajkiya Mahavidyalaya. The websites and their blogs everywhere speak that the education in Jharkhand, Bihar and Uttar Pradesh is grim but the situation is that this is more women's college at every level and the girls could be seen going to school every morning onto their cycle which shows a pretty picture.

The movement of Sarv Shiksha Abhiyan has gathered great momentum and although people may look into small jobs they are highly educated and qualified in their local dialects along with modern ways of education. The only thing which could be seen is that the obsolete system of the exam which creates fear in many candidates along with the money involved in it for preparation of IAS, IPS and other such higher academic selection does not bring enough even out of the meritorious ones and they could be seen languishing in the thought of despair.

The problem arises when one sees people who have done their Post-Graduation either working as a person with a broom in the hand and thus crying on the thought of educating themselves to the upper mark which they have achieved in life. If we see this system the "Kapil Sibbal" has bought this way of exam which is based on  Objective type and since INDIANS love to be elaborative in every manner by explaining things on their own and interpreting their thoughts into writing they just cannot make much out of the objective type answers.

It does not make any sense to get into the mode of giving answers from four options and then get it just a tick mark whereas on the contrary such answers could be written by anyone who could prepare themselves and further spending six months at the highly paid coaching institutes could give the desired results. 

But, sincerely think about those students who cannot afford the bigger educational institutes and after either selling, the agricultural land or many other assets reach places like Kota in Rajasthan to go for the IIT preparation and once they cannot achieve it their wish turns towards the suicide thought and thus the body returns back to the home with parents weeping forever.

Now, I also think that if the much-educated one will work as a Majdoor or labor which could be seen with an education that has bought a rift in the utilization of Manpower because it has bought many people to feel bad about the expenditure which they have put into education. Just imagine will he not feel to be MAJBOOR if an MBA has to work as a Class-iv employee in any Government job.

If India seeks for helping the people coming from it's neighboring countries to grant a refugee status it is well and good as such people could be found to be into the mode of putting a certain grade where any crime will be found out easily. Most of the time it was into a thought that any crime and criminal aspect was put into any poor person who could be Indian by birth and the other person who might be from the other neighboring countries with rich background may flee away easily which happened in the case of Dawood Ibrahim who becomes a nuisance for Indian for many years.

So, it is good if Indian changes its selection process in exams where the person could write elaborative answers which could judge their thought process and further a two-tier test in the form of Interviews could help to select many candidates who although write better answers in their graduation papers but still the Ad-hoc professors just give them a marks which make them feel cry for many years to come as the teachers themselves have destroyed the education in India rather the students being responsible for it as they are more thoughtful about getting improvement in educating their own caste and depriving the right ones to get ahead in life which could be seen in many schools and colleges. So, India seriously has to change its Exam process and bring back the theory-based system which has given the right person to grow in the past rather than the ones who come out with few months of labor and the answers which could be just mugged up to get the desired post and after all, money remains supreme and above all.

Women do not love the men who demean themselves!

One could see that people who try to fall in love always try to get down to the feet of the woman and beg for love from them. Another fact is that they try to demean themselves and whether they are rich or poor will first go on speaking that Hum to aapke charno ke das hai...which is just like I remain the beggar before you which makes her feel really bad and she just cannot make out anything out of such thoughts. Subsequently, she leaves the person and moves towards someone else. Also, one could have seen people saying that I can do anything for you where the man has to start selling chowmein and other things for the girl but that could be still considered a better option as making food is something which makes one healthy and hearty and at the same time it takes easy understanding for a woman to find out the motive of the man.

 In this way, whether the woman is a village belle or a city going girl she understands it better from the behavior of the man the actual motive of his love interest. So, many times in life I have seen people going all the way to reach any particular love interest and this could be a part of many folklores in life where the man may either could not reach the girl whom he desires and then found to be loitering around.

The good people are those who stick to their life which could be said to earn their bread and butter first and then wait for the right girl to come in life. If I want to cite my example in life I studied in a school which was co-educational and was always into better behavior where I never tried to demean the authority of any girl which kept me in a comfortable zone. Whether any name got associated with me was not my thought and neither I ever ran towards any girl's home to stand at stare at her doorstep in spite of living in a city like Bokaro Steel.

To sum it up I could say that I never went into any matter where I could be found to carry any bad behavior in the school which I considered to be my own which was Holy Cross and was not a rebel character there. 

So, my schooling till matriculate was immaculate with no such fondness of getting into any pervasive act towards any students or teachers which made me create a charm of my own which was remembered fondly by many of my schoolmates I believe till date.

Now, getting back to the thought process which says that women do not love the men who demean themselves is very much into the thought of ladies and girls because they love the person who constantly tries to reach his goals and there comes the quote by Sri Vivekananda which says "Arise, Awake and stop not till the goal is reached" which has become the quote to inspire many from one generation to another!

Rumours don't break a man but affects him!

A man is never made by rumors in life whether he is into any sports, profession or any industry. A man could be said to be made by his deeds but not by the words as words in today's time although recorded or unrecorded do not carry much in terms of substance. There was a time when the man was known to behave more in an aesthetic way and certainly could be said to follow any particular way to reach in life.

Today, many of us seem to be considering ourselves to be superior over others and although much depends upon trying to be considerate towards other but any good behavior is also questioned and the same could be said about any rash behavior which is generally ignored. The thought process about keeping oneself away from rumors and any particular odd scenario looks to be a better option. Also, anything which could be said about the term "favor" which is not in terms of sex is never returned but the moment any person tries to be good towards someone the further heavy ways are used such as putting some particular method of luring the person towards some girl and once such things get to the extent of any major or minor attractions then the particular scenario is termed as a weapon to create taunts in life.

The worst cases could be seen which leads to any thought which could be trying to prove oneself better comes out of the fact that the person has to listen to all kinds of taunts which may affect him in the long run. Also, if you are good towards teachers or girls or boys and particularly classmates during the school days it is also taken into an offensive thought and small altercation is given much of the argumentative ways from where it reminds of all the better thought to keep in the backburner and then carry on with the own supremacy to prevail. 

In this way, one could say that a person has to think a hundred times before taking into any step which could be even as easy as a friendship. The same could be said about a relationship where the women carry themselves with many unsolicited relationships and nobody comes with a tag of life-long relationship attached to it.

Making a mockery of all kinds of relationships that could be very much into any particular behavior and also the desperation to get into each other's family for their own sexual and body needs could not make the right sense or the better behavior aspect. The more you look towards anyone the more person looks to be with a revengeful soul which he must be carrying through decades. 

In this way, one feels more satisfied getting confined to their own home and find it better to get more out of their own work as it becomes easy to carry on with the better thought that rumors don't break a man but affects him so it is good to stick to the principle to maintain a safe distance and keep confined to my own thoughts which keeps me engaged.

Also, in general, or let's say in particular I keep my behavior towards my own thinking and whether the particular thought about getting into someone's domain might be the thought process of all those who consider themselves to be bigger and above the law may make mockery of anyone but for me, it is all about keeping my own thought to work according to my preferences. 

I run only two races in the entire calendar year and whether I get into a MARATHON running or stay away from it is totally my choice as I am not liable towards any company or club or let's say the group because I am not under any contract neither I have any obligations and nor I am a professional runner who has to show my mettle in every other race. 

I never bargained anything in life with Sex!

With all my energy being intact in me and at times my performances at Marathon race being as par with better runner if I look back towards my entire journey of 19 years in New Delhi, I see myself to be carrying myself with dedication and hard work still nothing in terms of reputation in women folks who are the natural admirers in the society. Wherever I go or stay at home certain section of women who may be good with their skills feel their heart out to speak badly about me which occasionally I ignore as I am not inclined to get back to hold their throat and show my dick or ass to them which was not taught to me by either my parents or the schooling which I got in life.

The more reserved I remain in life the more I got nothing from it and the moment I started flourishing some of the other people were ready with their assault mode to go all against me. Although, beaten and bruised many times I could see people getting the jack in life to rise and from there on the leap from one relationship to another and easily use their physical assets to grow in life. Although, I had sex with only one woman in life who left me for "Good" and both of us feel good about it still I do not believe in running towards brothel or getting into any woman's path to get more out of her. Till the date, after three years of a failed marriage and after that 3 and half years of living alone in my life I really did not have any wish to show off my sexual prowess and get anything that could be termed as sexual favors. In spite, of being good with the people of Bokaro Steel City including the teachers and students and the neighbor's who kept me under heavy scrutiny and although father being a person with good income still he did not leave me without love and I still have the gratitude towards him which made me capable enough to stand in life.

On the contrary, people who could be into the mode of applying oil in life to get ahead may have got everything including love but when they must be looking inside they surely must be finding themselves to be hollow. It is said that once you get everything in life you start longing for more and the same thing remains opposite with anyone who remains to be a person with eyes closed and still getting all the bruises. One could see that although I stood on my own in life still thankfully I never bargained anything in life with Sex and neither had the wish to do it further as I understand that once I do such things I will feel myself to be smaller in terms of my thought process and the guilt will get associated with me for a long more time. So, rather I will wait for the right women in life and do not follow anyone till the right person gets back and I hope people understand the treacherous ways of women and how they deny success to any person who could be a great runner but selling off his Marathon Certificates will not give good name to either her r his company and nobody can make his son or daughter a great personality by using the camouflage as the world whether speaks or not but remain a spectator to all the good and bad things with open eyes and achievements cannot be bought but for that hard work and dedication is required which comes with fighting spirit!

Multiple Names Many Propaganda!

There are people who flout everything in life mostly first with their name, then the religion and further with caste and creed. The only reason why people flout much of their ways in life is by abruptly changing their name and thus when they tie a turban they belong to Sikh community and further, if they wear a rosary with a Cross they start to take advantage of being a Christian and in many cases, they also try to show themselves as Muslims by wearing clothes in all ways to behave like a Muslim.

The only thing they forget is their behavior, voice, temperament, and mannerism which does not get hidden under many hides which they carry in life. It is said that if a Donkey wears the skin of a Tiger he will never become the one and thus I always try to be my real self as my birth name remained Mukesh Kumar and till date on all my educational and other certificates along with the identity cards I remain the same person which is Mukesh Kumar who does not try to even imitate other's voice and most of the time avoid brawls which makes me a very common person in life and it makes my friends feel proud about me.

On the other hand, there are people who try to take the image of a certain character and with a few changes in their hairstyle along with trying to give a look of either a person full of arrogance forget that the world knows you better in every aspect of life and the more you try to become a super dominant person the more they question your authority. In this way, changing the name does not suffice as the people who know you from childhood could be found everywhere and if in any case such a person who changes the name and tries to work in life is mostly given a suspicious thought by everyone.

Whether a person tries to change the name infancy or maybe there must be any particular wish associated with it most of the time it is not referred to as a better thought process in life. The same thing could be said about the religious aspect as people immediately tend to change the religion and from there on getting into taking the path of the religious sect which they wish to follow but after some time the person neither belongs to the religion which he originally took the birth and neither the new religion which he accepted gives him any importance as the people who are clergy and scholars of the other religion vehemently denies the changing of religion and in most of the cases such person who change the religion are considered to be anti-social and pervert.

Once such a person who changes the religion is found to be always running on a wrong path and from there on the person becomes either a culprit or a pawn in the hand of the religious leaders who feel free to use the person for various crimes and offenses and such person are merely a slave to be used by the other people. In this way, one could say that immediately getting into changing of name, sect, and religion creates many of the issues in the long run and thus multiple names many propaganda becomes the way of life and the person becomes nothing in life.

P.S: These were the wise words of my father Mr. Upendra Vidyarthi who always vehemently denied changing my name and my way of living and always tried me to keep grounded thus making me lead a simple yet reasonable life!  

Finding Excellence in Life does not make you GOD!

There are many times when we see people around us transforming into GOD. With an easy way to earn money and turning themselves into some sort of Avtar takes a person to the wrong level and if many of the people who try to get into becoming a God in themselves after a certain time period find themselves to be into a mode from where they just cannot get away. Nobody can deny the existence of religion in our life but including me, I believe that the Prophets, Gods and also the Guru who could be defined by various followers were or maybe the last on the earth who have given us enough to understand about the various better ways to lead the life. 

Going either through Gita, Bible, Kuran and Guru Granth Sahib Ji makes you wise enough to understand the fact that God exists in the form of words in scriptures and verses. Once, all this is done it could be found to be that with various Guru coming up every other day is a wastage of time and it leads to creating utter confusion in mind. One could say that if a person is too inclined towards being near to following his religion can attain enlightenment but certainly, he or she cannot declare himself as a God and once he or she does that then it becomes difficult to get back onto the right path.

So, one could say that Finding Excellence in life does not make you God and if you think about following such person then certainly at a certain point of time the person in you could get into the web of deceit from where the person becomes pervert and it gets difficult to get back into the path of leading the own life with better thought process.

One could see the example of two religions which are Sikhism and Islam where they believe that their preachers were the last person to be revered as God and from there-on they do not get less inclined towards any other God. On the contrary, we in Hindu once a person becomes a little bit into either a thought process or in his own domain he either himself declares to be a God or further is revered by his own people to become a Godman. 

In a few years time, the person becomes a symbol who is followed by a few thousand and once his life becomes a way full of luxury then suddenly the followers start fighting among themselves to get all the amount which he or she has collected and thus the mode of his own religion becomes defunct which leads to getting away from the position of Godliness and thus the person can be seen either languishing in jail or further could not carry the legion of his thought process thus ending himself abruptly and only leaves protests and unsolicited protests which leads to creating an anarchy in the system after which the result is nothing but a lashes on his own thoughts and process which ends up with the followers and thus takes them to a hell from where they never gets back to life!

In India the era of pleasing the capitalist is almost over!

Once upon a time in India when the Indian National Congress was ruling within all corners of the country, the capitalists like Kumar Mangalam Birla, JRD Tata, and many others got prominence in deciding the fate of the country from budget to many other issues. The country has to look after every small investment to other things to manage but the rise of the Lower Middle Class and the Middle Class has suddenly bought the change in temperament.

Today, the investors could be the newborn achievers even from the cities of the U.P. and earlier while the initials were used as Ulta-Pulta has suddenly found the glittering words which are the "Uber Pluralists" who believe in multiplying the money through carrying the thoughts of investing not only into agriculture but carrying the motto of a crime-free state which is totally under the command of the BJP Government and the young and simple C.M Mr. Yogiraj Adityanath has almost changed the state into a state of major prominence. Not, only U.P. but the entire country which has BJP ruling state and also others could be seeing major developments and the contractors not necessarily the Larsen and Toubro but the local contractors with reliability could be seen making the changes in the country by developing the metro projects in the cities like Hyderabad where the development could be seen at a fast pace.

On the other hand, there are also people who cannot get over the obsession of maligning the image of certain sections of people and for them, it is all about creating the hole gradually which could give a dent for a long more time in life. Certainly, when the dust gets settled they could find much of the dirt on their face and thus they cannot forget their past which was more of a thought of not only taking the Congressman in their stride but carry their better-looking women to please the politicians for merely a ticket in elections. If we think about the past then it was certainly more or less like taking into stride certain sections of people and keep the growth factor on the back burners where much of the happiness was found to be in the country by greasing the palms and get more out of it.

So, one could understand that with E-Governance along with flexibility in investment opportunities and a common platform for all people to rise in life has certainly changed the thought process and people all over the Indian sub-continent are looking towards India as a better country with much of the output to be done through the farmers and the small-time investors who saved the economy at the time when the company like TATA are wrapping up their business and getting back to the original country which is France and certainly one could say that in India the era of pleasing the capitalist is almost over!

Country has better issues to protest rather than think about "Mukesh"!

With few hip and hoopla over the name "Mukesh" which is also my name, I feel O.K. with the country taking serious issues into consideration such as Citizen Bill and it's amendments along with pelting stone in Universities like Jawaharlal Nehru University and Jamia Millia Islamia which could be said that my wish to rush for Ph.D. is still running as one of my priorities. Although, my wish to get into the fact that Deemed Universities along with State Universities could be an answer to be such institutes which have given nothing but the misguided youth to the country. If India is considered in spite of all big efforts is still not the number one in Education and countries like Japan, Singapore and China stand to be far above when it comes to quality education which is provided by their Universities.

None of the Indian Universities are ranked to be on top of the world in terms of rankings and the same could be said about Indian Media which has people from the places like Patna University, who could be seen with various correspondents from AAJ Tak such as Rahul Kanwal, Sweta Jha, Anjana Om Kashyap and also Sweta Singh who when they have nothing more to speak go with the rant of Being Bihari and run behind those people who do not consider to be a part of the bigger socially divided state which has made it smaller in every possible field and continue with the Bihar being a curse just like the Sorrow of Bihar which is the Son River.

So, when it comes to discussing any social issues or anything which may be like XYZ on Earth than the most sung by channel stand out to be AAJ TAK taking the name Mukesh as this may be the remedy to all the issues. If the things are to be believed such channels gradually lose their credibility and people put more attention towards various other ways to get ahead in life rather than thinking about spending time over such channels. I believe that the Citizen Amendment Bill could have bought a stir in the nation but while India is planning to get the various Refugees to settle down through amendments which shows that the country is gaining respect in the world front.

Any country like Great Britain, USA, and Germany along with France are known to give residential status to the refugees and it shows the country standing in the queue of great nations. It shows that the country has moved from its primitive thoughts and if we remember the various Sikh migrants to Canada during 1984 then Canada has given quite a significant amount of Punjabi and Sikh refugees to their country and certainly, they have made the country proud in the long run. The same could be said about countries like Singapore, Cambodia and also Malaysia along with Thailand and even further to Australia where people from North-East and also from various other states settled down maybe by getting the citizenship and after that the growth for both the countries could be seen at a fast pace through bigger foreign exchange.

Now, thinking about the same country which is the 7th largest in the world in terms of the landmass has certainly reached to an extent of being a better one as compared to the nearby South-East Asian nations which could be seen in its GDP and also the Human Value Index. Also, the other thing to be considered is that when the country see a little bit of movement where the rich people move towards affluent countries where according to the recent reports many of the Indian rich citizens have moved to other countries the little bit of filling the gap could be done through such step to maintain the equilibrium in terms of population as there are many other benefits related to a country being populated which further helps in grants and this step may certainly give more grants from "UNITED NATIONS HIGH COMMISSION FOR REFUGEES  (UNHCR) which will give more in terms of loans and help clear the foreign debts without paying back in terms of currency. 

India has a Guru Se VIDROH parampara instead of Guru Shisya Parampara!

India which is known for the land of Guru since it's inception on the earth has, unfortunately, everything written from the wrong pen and under the wrong light. The country which talks about all the lands of the Guru has taught nothing to the world but how to beat and bruise your teacher and then move ahead in life. Certainly, anybody with a small teeth and large tongue can say that Son, your mother is your first teacher which is absolutely strong words but has no meanings as the mother only teaches you the alphabets and other necessary things but every other aspect of life is taught by a teacher only which starts from the school whether the kindergarten or any other school. 

When my father admitted me to the Lions Club International School at Sector 3-B, Bokaro Steel City and he used to take me to the school by his bicycle during 1980's I was still after completing my Kindergarten was known for few years in that school by the teachers but certainly, I remember when I went after joining Holy Cross on the Independence day I faced few filthy words by more knowledgeable ones at the Kindergarten and they were certainly from the Upper Caste but I did not take it as a slur but never said that I also belong to the upper caste because they said Iska Title "Kumar" hai kyuki isko apne jaat ki pehichan nahi hai...!

Now, getting back to the title which says that India has a Guru se Vidroh parampara instead of Guru Shisya parampara is something which is not inscribed in its scriptures but is a fact because one could see all those people who are growing leaps and bounds who are fortunate enough to fuck their teachers and then take the long leap of growth. Maybe, the teachers must be happy enough to get the pen from them and then speak bad words about the students turned into teachers. Now, thinking about the fact of the matter is that what does the teacher or the student get by the gesture may be a heart that is just pierced both ways. So, one could not find enough out of these concepts but when we see the degradation of teaching and the subject wise knowledge then everything is all about giving the money and getting first-class while the person who believes in writing his own words is told to be an out of the class person and his result is considered nothing better than 56.8%.

So, all those who use to talk about belief in themselves have forgotten that money power stands first but it is all about having enough strength and it also is all about leading towards the right way to be at the right place which is not taught by the teacher but by the student himself who choose the school and not the parents. If certain students who turn out to be a smart kid and choose the right school during the K.G. days then he has all the right to understand the education which he insists to be the right one. If one talks about parampara then certainly for me it is not about getting my clothes to be slit at the right place to show my courage and valor but even if I have to piss then I have to roll down my entire pajama or unchain the  pants,

Thankfully,I stood to be born under the guidance of a grandparent who always thought about uplifting the poor and the needy and when he went to my school annual sports program he was good enough to tie down my lace of shoes before everyone and also was standing near the school tent which was erected as the school had a small playfield at that time and the school which was Holy Cross, Bokaro Steel City, could only have few chairs for the dignitaries. So, he was standing in the winter "Sun" for almost two hours and the person was Mr. Chitranjan Prasad and the best of my class-mate was Shuva DEEP Das, who was doing the school drill with me. I don't remember that where my friends have gone and are I not good enough for them to stand by their side after reaching the 40 years of my life as maybe my hands and legs are still enough to run 40 Kms but they are not good enough to put oil on some women and certainly I do not become a masseur and neither have the wish to consider myself less than a Post Graduate as I never took anyone else's handkerchief to sneeze or give back the mucous and my last degree is still faithful for me through Bharati Vidyapeeth and it does not shout but says "M.A. in Sociology" which could not be understood by any hippie or his chutar S.P.Singh!

Every Encounter by Uttar.Pradesh. Police is just a Fake!

With the 5 Rapist being shot dead by Hyderabad Police in Live Encounter it shows how much better the Police System is found to be in South India. I have been visiting South India many times and this week I went for my Ph.D. Sociology Exams at Christ University. Although, I returned back as the result according to the University was not considered maybe because f not enough seats as most of the seats are allotted to the best three candidates from the state. The outcome of the result is never argued by me as I consider Univesity to be supreme but for all those who put question marks on my career graph, I always put all my best in the career front without getting close to any woman as my entire thought process was to not ruin my image at any cost.

Now, getting back to the thought which says that Every Encounter by Uttar Pradesh Police is just a fake as because of U.P. Police turns merely to be with all fake proofs and it first does the money surrender from the gangsters and leaves them with various works which could be termed as extortion, kidnapping and further murder which leads to issues in the Indian judiciary system and the people from various sectors feel more than frightened here.

In one case where the starlet Monica Bedi is concerned, she was far more educated than Abu Salem but lost her life completely as because the money power remained in the hands of Abu Salem and the dreaded gangster just could take the advantage of the beautiful girl to become the kingpin in various cases. If we watch closely one could see that in various Murder Cases like Sri Prakash Shukla, Gangster Babloo Srivastava and maybe Raja Bhaiya most of them remain alive while our Indian Police Officers and the Army People take the live bullet on their chest and die an easy death. The more such gangsters are left in the open the more our own educated people are out of the mind and the politicians, pimps, and prostitutes take their deep-rooted evil system to run with the help of money from various builders who are asked to pay the ransom for various projects which take delayed status for a long time.

One has to remember that the gangsters get into the system knowingly or unknowingly and the common people who consider them as a Robinhood are left with selling Milk, Fruits and other such petty things and remain poor throughout the life. On the other hand, they possess the woman who remains pawns in their hands and at last die a death or remain languishing in jail for many years while such gangsters change their path towards bigger Don and lead a life of luxury at places like Dubai.

So, if the woman who is especially behind such gangsters have to take much of the thing in their stride they have to believe that the Police stands as a pawn and there are more than thousand people or boys who could be smart in their respective fields as today's generation is good in terms of sex and love as they are educated and better in professional behaviors. 

So, it is completely the woman's choice to either rely on Police who exploit you like a prostitute and leave such man in open and throws you in the jail. So, if you are in love with these gangsters better love the money and make your own AUQAT as the LING is with everyone. So, turn the table and be a better addict rather than eating the rat-infested food in jail while the gangster is eating loaf and wine at every moment with aplomb and having sex with multiple women which satiates him and others while you just get a dance stage on the floor to satiate their sexual urges and orgy.

I never had an intention to hit anybody or become hindrance in career path!

For me as a formidable person and carrying on my duties with responsibility after I become an adult in life is all about keeping myself abreast of every happening going around me. To analyze the situation and make a better understanding out of me has been my way of work, which was the well managed behavioral ways of my father who took the better thought process in the life of Work is Worship and fulfilled all our wishes on giving us with better education and the way of life.

In spite of being a very common person I never tried to become a Boss for anyone and avoided to show any kind of character where I could overpower someone to any extent and take her to bed or maybe any other place which could amount me on any kind of sexual activity and charges in the eye of Indian law.

The way I have been standing out in my life I understand that deviating from my own path of the thought process will hurt my Blogging page Sentiments which has become a part of my life and understanding through the tagline "Silence Judgement." I faced the world with no bad intention and in spite of being very near to some of the greatest in Indian Politics, Film Industry (Bollywood) and also in various other trades I never tried to take any advantage out of their lifestyle.

I always try to forgive and forget many wrongdoers in life as because nobody in this world is free of being in the control of their anger and any retaliation during the angry thoughts do not make the person stop with their fit of anger but once the hurricane of deep rage and angst passes away after beating me for few minutes which happened once night after my society people at Ajnara Integrity continuously were beating me on 16th of March 2017, I found that "Mob Lynching" happens with reason just to show off the supremacy or to loot someone.

 Still, I come out unscathed out of it and for me, my relatives and friends were quite near to me as I never tried to take any advantage in my life out of them but unfortunately, I never tried to remain any

detractor in their path and being a hindrance was out of the question. The same behavior could be said of my father who never tried to take advantage of anything of the sort of having any sexual aficionados out of any woman particularly from the women of our family members from my maternal family. 

With my career-changing at every required place and contributing to my best efforts along with hard work and dedication, I feel proud that I was a part of the booming call center industry once when India needed an upthrust in terms of stable GDP and in spite of people making me a laughing stock of making myself working as an International Call Center Executive while working with I-Energizer and IBM I never tried to get into the mode of chest-thumping and worked diligently to give the best and my abilities not only helped to give me enough money to sustain my career path but also with the help of Father's money Mr. Upendra Vidyarthi, I, Mukesh Kumar, was able to get a Pucca Home with registry in my Mother's name Kiran Bala Devi, at Ajnara Integrity, Raj Nagar Extension, Ghaziabad.

I also completed my M.A. in Sociology from Bharati Vidyapeeth and got the Diploma of Digital Marketing from NIIT Imperia which helped me to sustain my career path and thankfully never carried any woman along my side to get the work done in my life and all those sledding remarks which have been a part of my life is all because of few people who are socially irresponsible and are far away from being called a  responsible citizen.

 For me, Indian Police System is above all when it comes to taking the help of Indian Media on ay issues I personally believe that they are of less use and have their own ways of making the mockery of sincere citizens and in spite of having much in terms of  freedom of press, still create ruckus in life of everyone by creating rumors which leads to many catastrophes in life of civilians and for themselves as well. 

I, knowingly or unknowingly did affect the Indian Dowry System and fought back my detractors through my firm step in life thus helping to get courage in the Indian Grooms who were earlier easily pushed in jail in the name of Indian Dowry System act. Also, I understood that if the woman is not loyal she could create much of the wounds in life and it is not necessary to have the attitude of just keeping the son near to the chest but helping them to move away from the life will give much of the happiness for both the side in life.

Above all, I always supported the BJP as a Social worker and although did not take to any rallies but supported them through many particular methods as I have seen the worst of Indian National Congress and being a Hindu  was not the reason but Being Secular was more of the reason as I have seen that Secularism was just a propaganda by The Congress party and one could say that a small party like "AAM AADMI PARTY" stood out to be better while the Congress remains the same which is about giving the Indian economic System nothing in terms of progress and prosperity.

Also, I never supported any fake God system like Osho, Amma Bhagwan or Asharam Bapu and with the help of my Blog page always tried to give the social backlash to such people. I support Agriculture as the biggest initiative to bring prosperity to the Indian Mindset and also give respect to all my teachers from my school, Holy Cross, Bokaro Steel City and I never had an intention to hit anybody or become a hindrance in career path but helped many to flourish in life without becoming a social evil by entering into their family system which helped many of my friends to get into better aspect of life.

For me, whether I get the blessings of my elders or get their abuses the life remains the same of working hard and while I will reach tomorrow at Bengaluru for my Ph.D. Exams at Christ University, I know that my Gods will stay with me in the form of Laxmi Jee and Hanuman Jee along with my family from my Grandparent's end who never cursed me in my life while people from my maternal end always have the same bad attitude which never even helped them to stand aloft in their own life!

Thankfully, I stayed away from any kind of antisocial behavior and in the long run after completing 40 years of my life I find mother nature to stand behind me with firm support which could be said the same for any citizen who has his eyes wide open.

Diligence and Intelligence are two aspect which creates differnce in life!

In today's world when every other day the person in you faces people from all walks of life who try to overpower you and get the most out of you, the only thing which gives back the best of the kick is your own behavior. The well-behaved person if you are apart from your caste, creed, and religion gives you another kind of high and certainly makes you fearless in every possible manner. The behavior is not a one day effect but it carries from many years which could be your own thought process since you have opened your eyes by understanding the world.

This behavior aspect could be governed by the fact that if you are an Indian you must have gone through the few couplets from Rahim which says "Rahiman Pani Rakhiye Bin pani sab Soon, Pani ubre gaye jo moti manush choon" so it says that one person has to keep his respect as well as the respect of others and it is very much sought till the age you do not earn your own money in life. It is said that the moment you are earning your own money the better behave comes in you, but if you are under your father's money and thoughts the way you behave shows your future ways which make you the man in life.

There are many who are well behaved in childhood and also there are others who are just opposite but the fact of the matter is that during schooling if you have given respect to your classmates and teachers along with the relatives and did not play with their body, mind, and soul then you become a tad above in the eyes of God. But certainly the same could be seen just opposite in case of people from Bihar who try to exploit you since childhood and the more the kind of person you are who is into bad behavior to the extent of moving away from your moral duties and are bad towards your classmates along with teachers you generate a fear factor which helps you to become a bigger person in life. Here, it is not at all about an education perspective of Hindi medium or English medium schools because a person can be better or worse in both the mediums but it could be said all about the parental guidance which has been the factor behind your life.

If I remember my father never has put any particular freedom behind us to get for the night outs before we become adult and most of the time if we went to our relative's house we use to keep very quiet rather than indulging in any kind of illicit behaviors  as my father thought process of being the strictest person always kept me under his eyes. In any case, I never felt suffocated and if I use to go a little wayward in behavior I use to get a continuous beating for weeks but I never retaliated in my life to date against my father.

For me, he was the guiding principle and the only bread earner  and I understood the meaning of love and life as I never had enough money to splurge on girls or boys in school still I got respect from them and since I was studying in English medium which was Holy Cross, Bokaro Steel City, still I kept myself not to be a flamboyance or a show-off character in my life. If I remember the behavior I have seen many people under adolescent going into sexual behavior and moving towards brothel to have that orgy but I really still keep myself away from such places and keep myself to my ways of life which is all about thinking about my own self-respect rather than carrying Condom to different places.

So, the behavior along with diligence and intelligence are two aspects which creates a difference in life and whether anyone understands the moral of life what changes the factor in your life is the way your parents have done your upbringing and that is the reason even the T.V. remote tells about Child Lock and Parental Guidance and the movies are certified as "U", "U/A" or "A".

Winter time Deodorant creates more bad odour than the sweat!

Wintertime in Northern India is of the laziest one where people, whether they are a student or office goers, try to avoid taking bath and spray deodorant on the body to smell good. They put the best of the Deo whether it is the Axe, Park Avenue or maybe any other. The basic principle during winter is that the pores of the skin are less open and sweating is very rare but still the person in us to feel fresh put the deodorant instead of bathing.

It is very true that one cannot take a bath every other day and there are people who take a bath once a week. The simple way to avoid the bad smell or odor is not to put the deodorant in the armpit or anywhere else and the Nivea creme, Ayur Milk Cream or Else any lotion by Patanjali could work which should be put in the armpit where you can feel the sweat or bad smell to occur.

The issue with deodorants is that they have too heavy aerosol and other chemicals that put layers after layers on the body and soon the armpits become black in color and then it is difficult to remove that black stain which sticks forever with the body. Also, applying winter time deodorants creates a more bad odor than the sweat and instead of doing it one could put any perfume on the cloth and wear it easily. Also, the perfume has a different kind of mix which creates immediate itching and can also give you rashes on your skin as it is a heavy concentrate so it is always better to use the perfume on the clothes and handkerchief thus helping the person in you to look more professional and articulate.

The food habits are another better thing to be taken into consideration as winter is the time when one goes through too much intake of coffee and tea but we forget that too much of caffeine and nicotine adds to any kind of issues and it's side effects carry on to another season of the year. So, to keep your skin glow intact and more beautiful which is the consideration of both sex these days it is necessary to have an equal amount of water. One could substitute the water with coconut water but it has to be noted that everyone cannot go for the coconut water as it is costlier. So, occasionally you can squeeze a lemon in your water bottle with a little bit of sugar or honey and take a gentle sip after every ten minutes or so to keep the skin hydrated in the long run.

In that case, it makes sense that instead of drinking aerated drinks which are better for summer one could go for the plain water and also if possible one could drink half a glass of plain water before drinking tea or coffee to neutralize the effect of caffeine in the body.

If the skin or the face becomes dry it is always good to apply Pond's cold cream which is in anyways cheaper these days and the small packet just costs you Rs 10 and since Winter is a very mushy month so before you take the flower from someone immediately do not start smelling it as it can have some surprise element like chloroform to give you a dizziness instead of giddiness which can immediately give the chance to the chimpanzee to take you on his hiding and from there on you can spend your entire month in captivity as one could understand that winter is the time of many fairytale romances to bloom or get killed forever! 

In India Managers don't have hiring but fucking problems!

Well, whether it is a private corporation or a Government Organization, Indian Managers face elaborate issues where few days after hiring the man and women start showing their chameleon instinct. After getting hired and breaking the ice syndrome which is a new way of onboarding and understanding the job instead of creating the name by knowing the nuances of workman and woman immediately try to find out the simple loopholes to get towards the bed and enjoy intimacy from managers.

In case, if the manager is macho and has power in terms of manhood to face the world with multiple orgasms with different women things go smoothly for him for few years, after which the issues starts where the Director starts finding the loopholes even if he is able to work better with his subordinates. Also, once the manager becomes weak in terms of having a sexual relationship the office atmosphere goes for a toss and however rich or influential he is the issue becomes out of control and the woman takes the undivided affection on her to get divided into other subordinates. Once the crescendo is reached the male manager has to either switch his job or have to face the taunts of every other person and he feels the burden in his life which could be about the double edge sword.

The same could be said about the female managers who just could not get hold of the corporation until she if gets cozy to one person, has to share her body with many other men as people try to overpower her and then her self respect goes for a toss. Under any circumstances the situation becomes unbearable and although she tries to take control of the situation she has to face multiple taunts everywhere whether if she goes to the petrol pump or grocery store the same greedy eyes follow her everywhere.

On the other hand, there are few loyal people who understand the world and its limitations in a better way and believe that today's issue of harassing the female or male colleague will cost them their better tomorrow. Their thinking leads them to many hardships as whether it is the male or female behavior their own ego hurts in a manner where they think that the subordinate not coming under him or the male manager may overpower and could topple to take the place in the eyes of management.

So, however beautiful or good a manager is he or she should never believe in the office romance especially and if she or he does so then it should not be with the subordinates which are junior colleagues however good he or she is. It should be done outside the office and to that level where their name should not be considered in their derogatory list thus making their career spic and span which should help them to continue with a great lifestyle forever as in India even if you beat a dog or kill an ant it is remembered for many days and then taunts are for free forever!

"Many of the world's greatest next of Kin remain Vagabonds"

Whether it is India or world the common things which happen in the society is that "Business Man Works" whether he is in Service or is into any other profession and here in business does not stand for the man working as Self Employed but all kinds of people who put their duty first in life. So, one could say that in life a person who puts the priority to work or study is denied much of the times in terms of love and laughter and the other people who are dependent on the wealth take advantage of his money.

For any small or big thing in life, the man who is wicked or have an unsolicited thought of mind takes advantage of the weaker section which could be woman or girls in his family and thus tries to take advantage by creeping into their home and further start blackmailing the woman folks to get much out of her. In one way we could say that the person in question could not be your son or daughter who may take advantage of your belongings and life but the near and far relatives along with your friends or the friends of women folks who are always in the insight of taking advantage of any weaker thoughts and from there on exploiting the woman for many more years to come.

These people could be of specific blackmailer's tribe and so is the thought of their children who have seen such behavior in their household and become a terrible headache in other ways by giving priority to themselves in terms of love and sex and go to any extent to make or break any household. Also, the habit of such a person is to put their failure in life on other's people's heads and from there on behaving the same manner to get more by putting themselves as dice or pawns in the life of others. Such people immediately give all the advantage into other's people live and most of the time such behavior could be seen nowadays in the menfolk who remain unsuccessful and most of them turn out to be nothing but into a therapist of a different kind who could be masseurs or other such activities governed by the people who are weaker in terms of money and also are not into any particular hobbies which could fetch them money with respectful ways.

So, such people form a ring around the rich man and woman and many of the world's greatest next of kin remain vagabonds who could be from certain illiterate groups but could show their hefty ways to overpower woman and man and this happens within the upper-middle class where for every small thing one cannot bring in the security guards or Police. Their women also to some extent are of the same thought process and try to play as a hooker and thus give preferences to money rather than characters and thus could not find themselves to be in the better thought process of civilized citizens.

With most of the thought process tilting towards those people who remain confined to their own thoughts and family members and the law of the land which is Police who understands the behavior of a man or woman immediately such people generally remain an eyesore in public eye's and the blackmailers are taught better lessons in life by society who in return run for a long time behind any particular family people as they must have been declined in the general life and people could have understood their motive which may remain a thorn in their flesh forever!