Nature is the second habit of man and you cannot change it!

For me, the world cannot be said that ignorance is the bliss as most of the time since childhood I have remained inquisitive in life. Even, as a child for every small thing, I use to ask a question to my papa, grandfather, and uncles. It increased my knowledge more about human behaviors and whether I was inclined towards any girl or not did not remain the fact of life but I was always a book worm. The more of the books I studied the more my thoughts were to remain deeply inside my own thoughts and that lead me to think about any issues for many hours, days and years.

Also, connecting one incident to another remained entirely in my thought process and to fight back was my way not to show any instinct but survival remains the ultimate question. It is all about facing the situation from the front rather than going away from it and it is certainly not for any accolades but to stick to the norms of life.

I, remember that whenever at any moment I use to feel weak I was calling my father to New Delhi and in spite of working at Bokaro Steel Plant he use to immediately get towards me for supporting me. Although, one categorically takes father's love as a natural process in life and the question comes is that why one takes it for granted?

The simple answer could be with the statement that "Nature is the second habit of man and you cannot change it" as however good a father's love is neither one revolts against it nor consider it to be anything as a compulsion. It is merely considered as a duty or obligation and that is the reason in spite of my father Mr. Upendra Vidyarthi being a strict disciplinarian was never asked any question by me as at times he beat me for my studies and for the mistakes.

Also, when during the parents-teacher meeting at school when my father used to visit with me and in case a teacher used to tell my faults in any subject my father and mother never argued with him or her but asked me to focus on studies and give respect to the teachers which were the norms of my life. I was very timid before my teachers and never had the ability to react in a negative way which was all because of my upbringing as my father was a very strict guardian rather than an easy-going lad with us.

He also said once that "To Error is human" and till I am with you to make you understand the liability lies on me but once you are into the greater aspect of life you will be known as a well-behaved boy in spite of all the efforts of people to boggle you down. I learned a lot in life from my father but certainly, Maths remained the weak point in my life but the calculation about being accurate in life and weighing the words could have come all according to the thought process of my father along with his friends and the uncle's who have given me due respect and taught me more in life sciences which helps me to understand the sociology and its impact on Indian mindset. The Rural aspect works better rather than considering oneself to be born and bought up in town as every town is a city and every city is made by 100's of villages coming together.

At the same time understanding English and being outspoken makes you fearless which increase your capability and gives you the understanding in life which could never be understood by the people who consider the "Scheduled Tribe" and "Scheduled Caste" to be small as it is seen by the likes of Mr. Rahul Kanwal from AAJ TAK who propagated Mr. Raghubar Das to be a timid one and asked unnecessary question about his lineage in one of the interviews.

Although, I do not shun the media houses but consider them nothing more than small-time corporates who most of the time make fun of people and consider every people small before them which could be found in their discussions as they neither bring any upliftment for society and do not even provide employment to many youths but always take the token amount to read back the news all according to the money factor which hardly rules these days!

Hopefully, the young Chief Minister "Mr. Hemant Soren" will give the right break to agriculture and cottage industry to grow in Jharkhand which will fetch much of the necessity of food as he understands the value of education, food, and development of common people which has been the motto of Jharkhand Mukti Morcha since it's formation by the great grandfather of Jharkhand Sri Shibu Soren Ji who is certainly the father of Modern Jharkhand!