Whether you go to any part of the world or into any profession one faces the iconic heavyweight who loves to bully people. Once, the child enters the school whether it is about coming first in the class or in games the classmate of yours to attract more girls starts bullying any single boy in the class. The same starts happening with the group of boys who believe in themselves and probably force one or the other person to bring out the best in them by showing their treacherous aspect in life to pull down the better ones in the form of bullying or harassment.
It could also be seen prominently into siblings where the bullying is done not only by a boy but sometimes the girl tends to take over the charge and the boy has nothing left in life where the family starts enjoying the more through their sadist approach and the boy keeps getting bullied which he does not protest as it is all about the izzat or respect of the household.
The similar thing then further could be seen once the person enters the college where the teacher or professor plays the same tactics with the person who is timid and the girl gangs also take more of the jibes towards the guy which is an easy way for them to seek a kind of revenge which is very natural aspect of human being. It gives them a natural sense of satisfaction. Also, in case if you are strong enough to say no to any relationship whether it is the extramarital affair or maybe any advances by a girl then the world creates havoc on you and further, the girl gets revengeful for many years to come which further becomes a much of life demeaning circumstances. Also, the Indian mindset is all about taking advantage of any life situation and bullying or harassment is the worst behavioral trait one faces in a lifetime and it can certainly make or break a person from within the heart.
There are also chances that a classmate of yours who may be inclined towards your siblings could create so much pressure on you that it may take a heavy toll on your mind. One thing is quite sure that when it comes to a younger or an older sister she is hardly your own and she can certainly create much of the life issues to make you feel bad in the society as a sister is a natural progression of your own hormonal traits and the younger one stands to be more progressive and also fierce in nature. She may not give respect and love as most of the time the parents may praise your efforts while the society around you may demoralize you to find a greater piece of her thought which may put an effect on the mind of the sister who would feel taking away much of your happiness so that she could rule the life game in a better possible ways.
Also, the same thing could be seen at the workplace where the person who may be trying to overpower you can find many possible ways to show your weakness in your job and thus may become a hindrance in your promotion and other activities.
Most of the time people see that to reply to bullying one immediately gets into sexual satisfaction with the person who is bullying or harassing but then it makes you weak and turns you to be a sex slave which further hits you in the mind.Als0, there is not much one can do in terms of bullying as in many cases when you complain whether in school, college or office against any person who bullies you then such person is either thrown out or the entire society gets against him as the people love oppressor than the oppressed.
So, it is always better to stick to your work and reply by giving the best out of you and although it may take many years to get the respect in life but certainly a time comes when the person is known to have the 75:25 of the ratio and the person with more rational background who understand every pros and con in life comes out to be better in life and is understood by everyone although he must have lost much in life which is anyways a bigger tussle!
P.S: The girl never bullies because of the brotherly love which she has to show for the younger sibling but she does it for the love who must have discarded her by smartly putting your name behind rejecting her love proposal and she blindly tries to destroy you for satisfying her inner urge which anyways destroys her inner self for a long more time in life!
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