Friday, 20 December 2019

Women do not love the men who demean themselves!

One could see that people who try to fall in love always try to get down to the feet of the woman and beg for love from them. Another fact is that they try to demean themselves and whether they are rich or poor will first go on speaking that Hum to aapke charno ke das hai...which is just like I remain the beggar before you which makes her feel really bad and she just cannot make out anything out of such thoughts. Subsequently, she leaves the person and moves towards someone else. Also, one could have seen people saying that I can do anything for you where the man has to start selling chowmein and other things for the girl but that could be still considered a better option as making food is something which makes one healthy and hearty and at the same time it takes easy understanding for a woman to find out the motive of the man.
 In this way, whether the woman is a village belle or a city going girl she understands it better from the behavior of the man the actual motive of his love interest. So, many times in life I have seen people going all the way to reach any particular love interest and this could be a part of many folklores in life where the man may either could not reach the girl whom he desires and then found to be loitering around.
The good people are those who stick to their life which could be said to earn their bread and butter first and then wait for the right girl to come in life. If I want to cite my example in life I studied in a school which was co-educational and was always into better behavior where I never tried to demean the authority of any girl which kept me in a comfortable zone. Whether any name got associated with me was not my thought and neither I ever ran towards any girl's home to stand at stare at her doorstep in spite of living in a city like Bokaro Steel.
To sum it up I could say that I never went into any matter where I could be found to carry any bad behavior in the school which I considered to be my own which was Holy Cross and was not a rebel character there. 
So, my schooling till matriculate was immaculate with no such fondness of getting into any pervasive act towards any students or teachers which made me create a charm of my own which was remembered fondly by many of my schoolmates I believe till date.
Now, getting back to the thought process which says that women do not love the men who demean themselves is very much into the thought of ladies and girls because they love the person who constantly tries to reach his goals and there comes the quote by Sri Vivekananda which says "Arise, Awake and stop not till the goal is reached" which has become the quote to inspire many from one generation to another!

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