In today's world when every other day the person in you faces people from all walks of life who try to overpower you and get the most out of you, the only thing which gives back the best of the kick is your own behavior. The well-behaved person if you are apart from your caste, creed, and religion gives you another kind of high and certainly makes you fearless in every possible manner. The behavior is not a one day effect but it carries from many years which could be your own thought process since you have opened your eyes by understanding the world.
This behavior aspect could be governed by the fact that if you are an Indian you must have gone through the few couplets from Rahim which says "Rahiman Pani Rakhiye Bin pani sab Soon, Pani ubre gaye jo moti manush choon" so it says that one person has to keep his respect as well as the respect of others and it is very much sought till the age you do not earn your own money in life. It is said that the moment you are earning your own money the better behave comes in you, but if you are under your father's money and thoughts the way you behave shows your future ways which make you the man in life.
There are many who are well behaved in childhood and also there are others who are just opposite but the fact of the matter is that during schooling if you have given respect to your classmates and teachers along with the relatives and did not play with their body, mind, and soul then you become a tad above in the eyes of God. But certainly the same could be seen just opposite in case of people from Bihar who try to exploit you since childhood and the more the kind of person you are who is into bad behavior to the extent of moving away from your moral duties and are bad towards your classmates along with teachers you generate a fear factor which helps you to become a bigger person in life. Here, it is not at all about an education perspective of Hindi medium or English medium schools because a person can be better or worse in both the mediums but it could be said all about the parental guidance which has been the factor behind your life.
If I remember my father never has put any particular freedom behind us to get for the night outs before we become adult and most of the time if we went to our relative's house we use to keep very quiet rather than indulging in any kind of illicit behaviors as my father thought process of being the strictest person always kept me under his eyes. In any case, I never felt suffocated and if I use to go a little wayward in behavior I use to get a continuous beating for weeks but I never retaliated in my life to date against my father.
For me, he was the guiding principle and the only bread earner and I understood the meaning of love and life as I never had enough money to splurge on girls or boys in school still I got respect from them and since I was studying in English medium which was Holy Cross, Bokaro Steel City, still I kept myself not to be a flamboyance or a show-off character in my life. If I remember the behavior I have seen many people under adolescent going into sexual behavior and moving towards brothel to have that orgy but I really still keep myself away from such places and keep myself to my ways of life which is all about thinking about my own self-respect rather than carrying Condom to different places.
So, the behavior along with diligence and intelligence are two aspects which creates a difference in life and whether anyone understands the moral of life what changes the factor in your life is the way your parents have done your upbringing and that is the reason even the T.V. remote tells about Child Lock and Parental Guidance and the movies are certified as "U", "U/A" or "A".
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