Friday, 27 December 2019

The most disloyal women always seeks loyalty from you!

Understanding Indian women are no more complexity these days. The more the society has opened up in terms of technology, communication, and artificial intelligence the more complex nature is getting the word "over and out" going away and the more of the word take it easy is coming back in life. It can be all understood by the fact that even the woman and man relationship is understood by the fact that woman always loves freedom is not a norm but the woman who has got enough of freedom in life during her early days whether in studies of schooling or college seems to settle down easily in her career.
While, on the other hand, the woman who has been in the home and always in the company of female counterparts feel more satisfied with both sexes whether it is male or female. On the contrary, if one could have seen the behavior of co-education it is better confined to cities and towns rather than villages as the woman in cities are more into understanding human nature and stay away from the hooligans on their own. 
The loyalty may be the prime factor in life but one can see "the most disloyal women always seeks loyalty from you" as she somewhere within her heart must have paid the price of being disloyal towards many men. Here, disloyal means not sticking to one male and neither having multiple relationships nor getting into sexual intimacy as a habit and neither thinking into staying away from the man at times as well. 
For me, as when I was a toddler most of my life was spend under the tutelage of my Grandfather Mr. Chitranjan Prasad Ji who was very strict and I could still feel his strictness somewhere in my genes which never allows me to venture into unknown women's territory as his way of life was not to get into the women's stride unless it was very much necessary.
If I remember my childhood days it was an influence of almost three-generation where The Grandfather was with me. My father Mr. Upendra Vidyarthi, was there along with his colonial cousin like brother Mr. Papu Ji better known as Mr. Rakesh Kumar where both of them use to cycle together on different cycles and me most of the time used to sit on Pappu Ji cycle while the youngest one who was hardly 4-5 years older than me was Mr. Rajeev Ranjan Srivastava who was more or less like a Mr. Cry Baby who tried to be more of a dutiful younger brother.
The city as Bokaro Steel was one of the worst as it was growing as a city from the Adivasi tutelage of people from Chota Nagpur and since a place where suddenly a big investment opportunity has come up such as Bokaro Steel Plant, it was difficult for the people to get along with each other and the word Varchasav could be found in every possible scenario. The worst of the caste-war along with ethnic majority clashes used to happen whether it the plant or anywhere else. Anyway, this was hardly a matter of concern for us but "CAUTION" or being cautious was my way of living which has been adapted by me since Childhood and smelling danger was the way to survive.
Now, getting back to the point of being loyal I would rather say that I have been loyal towards my heart and my food rather than anyone else and my way of life is not about playing with women and whether the Indian women love me or hate me I believe that my entity is the one which keeps me in my own stride and helps me to stay within my own self which is far better than getting into anyone's arms as I know about the grave dangers of life where people however bad they are do not expect others to be bad as they believe to be above all which is "God" in common!

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