Sunday, 25 August 2019

Marriage should be done all according to your own status!

In India getting married is a perennial issue which has to be followed throughout life and it also has to be registered ss most of the women have taken the marriage meaning of the newfound status of Liberty after which they could do anything in life. Earlier, the trend was followed by a man who once got married and regaining a social status used to have multiple relationships but things have seen the reversal where Justice Mishra has lifted up all kinds of the ban on the promiscuous relationship. It is good for those who do not want a tag of womanizer on them but carry forward several relationships without bothering about the society and the neighborhood.
The same could be said for the woman who believes in keeping multiple sexual partners and enjoy their affinity for long. Now, coming to the terms about the title which says marriage should be done all according to your own status it is very true as because if you are from the higher middle class and will marry someone from lower class then also you will face the issues as the woman will find new way of freedom and she will only run behind her kind of people as the lifestyle will not give her solace. She will do all the crazy things to make you feel like a pygmy and then you will become a mockery in your own ways which will make you feel dejected for a long time in life. The same could be said about Kareena Kapoor who did not marry Shahid Kapoor as she was aware of his social status and took a step forward towards Saif Ali Khan because he belonged to a better society and his attitude was liberal which was all according to the status which was maintained by the Kappor's.
The same can be said for the middle-class person marrying the very higher-class woman where he will be serving her in all possible ways from food to every other chore and still she will be not satisfied by his grand way of behavior and at last they will find to be away from each other which will again create a rift for long more time in life thus destroying the relationship status. The same could be said about Deepika Padukone who married Ranveer Singh who was from a more humble background rather than Ranbir Kapoor as he carried all the style of the higher class and thus is happy in her married life.
So, one could say that the class which is lower, middle or upper remains as the trait and social behavior whether the man or woman remains the same. Also, respect is something which is all about your inner self as in today's world one hears that even the Prime Minister does not get the same kind of respect and in general people do not care for respect as however good you are one has to behave the same which is a bit of hooliganism and at other times being the best of the civilian which makes you the real man. All in all one could say that getting the right woman in your life is all about matching the wavelength irrespective of age and height but the social status of the family should always be the major thing to think about and with that the life carries on forever in each other's arm with no traits of "Revenge" for each other.  

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