Life is all about tajurba i.e. Experiences=Experiments

Once a student comes to Class V or VI in C.B.S.E schools he takes his steps towards School Laboratory from where he does various experiments to find out the same results which are pre-defined. Now, has anyone thought about taking life in an experimental way without harming it to a great extent?

I consider my life till date which is 40 years of my age as an experiment on my own mind and capabilities where my entire indulgence is towards my own thought of mind and action where aggression is the first word, sincerity comes secondly, hospitality not necessary and admiration is the virtue of my life. So, thinking about these terms if I see my life going towards the right way I am always Ashanvit which is always a positive frame of mind about succeeding in every possible way not only for me but also for the society which is around me.

It is easy for us to get into the mode of ruining other's career and give our own friends and relative a setback by toppling them over trough all possible ways to get your own son ahead in life. But, it is hard to find out every mistake in your own ward and make him go straight in life without bending the rules to a great extent. Also, to be a little flexible is something which is necessary for life as the rigid attitude can create issues but giving back in your own ways is something which could never be understood by the people who believe in fighting only for the girls rather than for both the genders. 

I have seen my father is very much ruthless on me and reprimanding me for any small mistakes which made me away from any bigger mistakes which could have made me serve any legal punishment and also the few girls who tried to inflict revenge on me were not successful to do so as my mother was there to protect me with her own ways and she still rules me without considering me as an entity.

If I say that life is all about Tajurba i.e. Experiences=Experiments I tried to make my lifestyle in my own ways which are good as compared to my own wishes where Badi-Badi Khushiyan hai Chooti Chooti batton me...and I never inflicted any pressure on anyone to stick to me for long duration in life but has a belief that they could survive on their own which is the first thing to be done in life as for me it could be intolerable if ever I could see my wife sleeping with someone else in front of me on my own bed. It is true that today's generation of women even if she is not sexually deprived try to get a third person in life for sex and it further creates havoc in a relationship which can not be tolerated from my end. A person however Tarzan he is cannot satiate the thought of a woman who has the only decision in her life to complete her revenge against the family and society and for that, she can tartar the image of the husband at any cost.

So, it is good for such woman to stay away and make the person who is a command in his own to stay within his positive energy and vibes to grow in life and be good for the society rather than getting back towards him to destroy him further. Now, the other thing is that study is something which if you have a little bit of inclination towards it can get back to you in spite of people putting all kinds of nails in your path. It is just like the puncture in your car or two-wheeler which could be easily mended and you can run back in the race of life and it makes you feel a head high and with pride in the long run. My family members which I do not want to explain are from very bigger social circles but I never took their name's advantage to grow rather I would like to tell that even they never took any help from the Government or the society and in real life they kept themselves away from the glitz and glamour which has made them a true citizen rather than those people who take every possible way to show themselves from the bigger name cauldron even in terms of train reservation which is generally laughed out loud these days where any person could ask you bluntly that if they are something in life then have you been able to take good things from them or you just tried to take advantage of their names.

At this point of time if any person who comes on T.V. and badmouth a person who never tried to create a bad name for his family shows his incompetence and certainly his son and daughters are better who do not try to rake up the controversy because they know the social way of today's lifestyle where hiding their own women chastity is a big thing as from small boy to the elder one go through the same thought of mind and action to have sex for once and all and then circulate the sex videos over the internet to show their sexual prowess which ultimately leads to their downfall.