Better to be in a safe relationship than a tumultuous one!

When it comes to relationship everyone tries to avoid the tantrums in life. Whether it is about having kids and then nurturing them or considering oneself everyone above else does not give any higher social status. If today's generation is to be concerned or the current era is asked then the boys are more boisterous with the upper edge rather than the women, Earlier if we use to see our neighborhood for every small thing the women use to fight and men were hardly interested in such activities. The man at that era during the '70s and 80's used to be a show-off when they got exposed with their anus or sometimes getting caught in sex with some other women then they certainly become the apple of the eye for every other woman. Also, a lot of hue and cry was made when the person ling or anus use to come out by mistake in open and he has to carry the burden for many years to come as it was considered to be a private and secret weapon.

Now, the entire social paradigm has changed and machoism is not about pulling out the shirt but the entire ling needs to be shown where the woman asks immediately at any place which could be as harsh word as Chal ling Dikha or to be very abrupt Bola Na Land Dikha. And in this way, the person does not contribute much towards his erectile dysfunction as it also makes him sometimes feel difficult in terms of arousal and with that he may become the way to be a matter of joke in front of society. Also, the less educated one tries to get bossy over each other and the social pervert person when becomes a sex addict becomes difficult into the normal path which leads to getting him eliminated from the system in long run.

In this way, the safer one tries to find out a match which keeps him away from the controversies. The next bigger thing which happened is that suddenly the people from Bollywood find a liking towards small B-Segment town as it is the biggest contributor in all kinds of development projects and the huge amount of money which they have makes them an easy way to stand out as contractors in various constructive industries. So, their heavy influence in industries from iron and steel to cement and construction of bridges, highways takes them to interiors of India and from where they try to remain in the upscale underdeveloped locality. They keep their children and families in societies till their work is confined to a certain area and all those braying donkeys and barking dogs get behind their beautiful women which are certainly kept under notice by them. Once the things get into excess they do not find any other ways but to kick away the person from where he or she never gets back and the word which is heard over wireless is "Over & Out" as the Police certainly work as the best of the friends for them.

So, with understanding the criminal mindset along with society as a clear picture in mind after doing my M.A in Sociology, i always try to be safe rather than sorry and with a failed relationship where the women in my life who acted more as a tormentor rather than in a relationship of a woman who could have been a better wife after understanding each other left for her own ways giving me a much of the loner state. Although, I took it as a positive thought of mind and instead of crying for her left the relationship status and since I was a cross country runner during school days after few built-up with my study turned into active marathon running which has given me a way to survive after getting teary-eyed for few months. I have become a runner and always participate in various running events although I do not keep any thought of getting back to the earlier women as it is better to be in a safe relationship than a tumultuous one and give a better option after getting more accolades from running by completing Ph.D. in Sociology which will again lift me to be a notch above when it comes to study. Also, I never feel anything bad in my life or any form of mistake as I never did something wrong to the extent of getting into any women's bed without her consent and always did much of the respectable jobs such as marketing, customer service, and digital marketing into which I carved out my own success story through hard work and dedication and the stout stick in life was always in the form of education which has given me the upper hand to stay awake and fight for the survival which is for the fittest as per Charles Darwin!