Thursday, 22 August 2019

How important is to lead a happily married life in India!

When Deepika Padukone said in the movie Om Shanti Om, Ek Chutki Sindur Ki Kimat Tum Kya Jano Mahesh Babu... it seemed just a hilarious tone but after spending some time in understanding the mindset of people and the societal pangs it makes to understand that getting the tag of married once and then feeling free has become the most important aspect of people in India esp. Women.
Be at anyways like working or non-working, educated or non-educated the women in India across all religion see the dream of getting married and settle down in life. Since the lifestyle is changing and the person all around are getting busy with their own work to the extent of getting away from the families and not getting married at times when the loneliness creeps in the only advantage is that the woman does not do social harakiri these days and keep her priority and thoughts above all, thus making her stronger than anything else in the world.
With sulking in the lonely nights or getting into the bath or the bed all alone to jerk off it has become a new way of sexual intimacy where the love with the own body has become more of a necessity rather than getting into the act of getting into sexual act with everyone whether man or woman which is a good sign of a healthy man or woman.
Somebody has said that before getting into a sexual act one has to understand your own body and there is nothing called a capacity when it comes to sex. Today, the only issue in sexual intimacy use to be Erectile Dysfunction but with a little bit of getting into different sets of the exercise, one can get it fine for many more years to come and feel the difference in the sexual capabilities instead of taking that Viagra which becomes a necessity for many.
So, one can understand that good food and exercise complement each other in life and give enough energy to fulfill sexual needs. Now, getting back into the title "How important is to lead a happily married life in India" it is not only to get that elusive Sindur or the Vermillion applied over the head with Vedic mantras in Hindu marriage ceremony but also to understand the marriage vows and once a couple decides irrespective of any criteria in terms of societal norms but both should be educated enough to carry on with their life and style in a better way, nothing can take them away from each other and the life gives all the beauty through the virtues which have been coming from generation which has tied many of the families in India together since millions of years and will continue doing so.

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