If I who is truly an Indian born person have been surviving in this country since birth and 40 precious years has taught me that Indians disrespect friendship. They are born to take advantage of each other and are hardly into the mode of JAI-VEERU from Sholay or any other films which portray films as the saga of the true friendship bond.
If I remember my school days at "Holy Cross" my friends were at my supportive best including the male and female fraternity except for a few girls like Meghna Preet and not to include any other names as one was enough to destroy the ponds full of fish and lotus but thankfully the teachers acted more like friends rather than tormentors which helped me to spent my early childhood with love and compassion to the core of my heart and truly defined the School which termed "LOVE SERVICE" as the core of humanity.
This made me less inclined towards my neighborhood and me as a student after spending from 8:00 A.M. at my school till 4 P.M. which was school timing I was fulfilled with love and laughter although not a disturbing element in the classroom but at the same time a joyful boy who knew how to please the teachers and students without crossing the line.
The students who were near and dear to me always helped me to gain a Super Star Status in the games field and I was the center of attraction as a Goalkeeper during Football games, a good basketball player irrespective of my height which is medium and a good serving boy while playing volleyball. So, all in all, I was a guy who showed very little disrespect and with little scolding by teachers started running into tears which certainly was not to gain any sympathy but at the chirpy best in the school bus and at times showing my little adamant nature on young ones which is the nature of a senior not to prove supremacy but to give fair amount of my own thought of mind.
I never had any affinity with multiple girls in the classroom in general and neither had the habit to run behind trees (which was not a part of school curriculum) as my way of life was to be more in touch with the guys rather than girls. So, much of the attitude towards giving answers to the class teachers only related to studies I scored a fair amount in Unit tests. But as it happened that when a big tree is replaced from one spot to another it gradually either dies or take time to survive and with leaving Holy Cross School after tenth class could not adjust in a school called G.G.P.S which has much of the traits of hooliganism rather than compassion shown by teachers except a few such as Mr. Verghesee, Mr Thomas and Mrs Urvashi Talwar who never apprehended me in terms of any bad behaviour but was confined by the shameless teachers like Mr. Madan Kumar and Mr. Ashutosh Kr. Mehto who could not bring any student in the forefront and none of them were near to any students in terms of getting an iota of respect to be very true.
Now, talking about Indians disrespect friendship although my classmates were different has been stated in the earlier para now to justify it I would like to share some of the incidents from the office life spent at Delhi. With marketing including customer service being the work profile in which I have spent much of the time with the guys and now into Digital Marketing who were more inclined towards having one sole aim to either get into disrespectful ways in terms of behavior towards a soft-hearted person or at the same time not being competitive where they do not consider to put work in the front ways but using all spurious ways to get most out of the job by going either the hefty way to beat a person or show the same attitude of ruining a person image by any means.
Now, thinking about few of my deeds which did not gather good reason of calling me as a person with better thoughts was of not creating any hooliganism but fighting for my rights which is the trait of a person with good workmanship and thoughts. I remember to carry water and other necessary things for office-mates without showing any attitude which could not be seen in people of Bihar who consider themselves to be from princely states without having any much of things in life.
Also, the office which is considered to be a workplace with little fun has always been kept as the same in my mind where I use to work tirelessly sometimes working the entire night on the floor during the customer service operations and still not having any qualms about it.
On the contrary, If I remember my father's friend they have put much of the negativity in the mind where they use to dine at our home including the relatives and then use to spit literally by showing their hefty attitude at Bokaro Steel City making my father a matter of negativity in his mind which certainly infuriated him and sometimes his anger use to spill back on both of us me and my sister who were the best of the siblings. The reason due to which we did not get inclined on the latter half of our lives towards any kind of relationship towards the cousin or any other such as maternal and paternal uncles including the father's friends who were none the less a bloodsucker or parasites.
So, as a person, if I have to be asked about keeping a relationship with friends in India or as Indians one should keep very less friendship and it is better to keep them at bay rather than sharing the food and drinks as it boomerangs in a bad manner in life to come when those people turn out to be more of the friends who have not shared foods with you. As the Indians at any place try to exploit the person who has a richer family background by fucking within the family and if the family ties are a little weak then they are fucked by outsiders who treat them with the same disrespect.
So, the more famous you are the more you have to pay back with everything including your heart and there are very few who understand the right chords and act accordingly without showing you disrespect which is being a matter of words to term the character as abusive but not to be friend of friends which is shown by the people of the countries in Western side of the world.
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