India is a country which recently has seen much of changes in the marriage system and traditions along with Supreme Court of India giving relationship status of being legal to the live-in couples, the sudden and drastic changes have given much of the thoughtful ways to the new generation. People from all sections of life are feeling liberated and the thought of getting into each other life has become much easier as compared earlier irrespective of religion.
If anybody talks about my opinion or stance into it "For me personally speaking", as I was much of a liberal mind during the year of my schooling still managed to abstain from sex during my adolescent years with not much into haggling with any girl classmates could have made me a persona of my own.
I always kept personal relationship status away from my thoughts into school and any sort of bond apart from casual friendship was a complete no-no to me. I was wary of having any social tie-ups in school and although apart from few instances I tried to keep myself away as far as I remember that falling in love was a very daring thought for me as my father was very strict on such instance of thoughts and I was never a rebellious child when it comes to me as a family member. I knew the importance of bread and for me tying a bond of friendship as the Friendship band was not initiated during the year 93 was just getting a small piece of rakhi which was tied by a friend to me and she said while tying that it is a kind of friendship band and nothing more than that which I heartily agreed, still for me breaking ice to cross any kind of barrier was not my way of life.
Also, since my mind always overpowered my heart so any intrusion into my peaceful thought of mind could lead to a thought of getting a plunge into the deep sea and then drifting on the waves which could drown me in any thoughts apart from studies. So getting into any other kind of relationship during school days was a complete no-no which led me to stay within the boyz zone although the school was very beautiful with co-education remaining the essence of it and the name is Holy Cross School, Bokaro Steel City, which has it's own standards as people from all section of society use to study there.
Now, talking about Girls should have the right to choose her life partner everywhere is very much necessary these days as the girls who are more liberated these days and understand the good, better and ugly to soon in life it is better for the human folks that they should have all the reason to choose the kind of life partner who suits them to their thoughts, mind, and action. After all, they have to live with the man throughout life and putting any pressure on them leads to creating any havoc in their mind and soul which leads to creating a rebellious nature in them and if it is suppressed then it creates long more issues in life.
Also, they should not exploit a man for a long time in life as a man by nature remains aloof and he does not even speak about his thought of mind easily to others however he is near to anyone else. So, he keeps all his thought in mind as a deep-sea and it leads him to cry or shed tears when he is all alone which is not known to many in this busy world. This leads to many of them turning into terrorists and many other such types of person who could be termed as anti-social. Also, the man however alone he does not have the right to destroy any girls household by putting pressure on her to flee unless he earns respect in his own eyes.
So, if one understands every aspect of life then a woman is a natural chooser and that is the reason in ancient India Swaymvar was the reason to choose the right groom from all across the continents rather than putting a pressure to marry any person in life without the consent of the woman in the household.
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