Friends never need or ask to be paid back in life!

Friendship is something which is a thread tied down by the own deeds and the way it portrays itself is always invisible. The good thing about a friend is that he or she never asks to pay back in life and if he or she has done something in life for any other friend then he never asks for payback by asking through monetary or any other terms. 

If a friend is asking for payback that truly means that he or she was just an opportunist and was trying to milch the person and waiting for the right time to come in life so that he should give back in abundance and from there he could fulfill his further needs. Also, creating ruckus in the life by trying to intimidate a friend by reminding his shortcomings or any misdeed done by him shows that the person is trying to blackmail him or trying to do it just to hide his or her own shortcomings. 

Also, the friendship should always be kept at an arm's length which I have learned after coming from Jharkhand to New Delhi 18 years back. Here, in Delhi, one can see that unless it is very much necessary people do not cross each other path and since incidence like Jessica Lall Murder along with the 2012 December Rape case happened people most of the time avoid people to get into each other territory and the wiser is one who is confined to his own rather than keeping unnecessary entourage of person around him who neither garner support but give enough people to open mouth against the person who thinks them as a friend.

Most of the cases in India where people try to die an untimely death is all because of some of the other person who is near to him and it leads to giving enough opportunity for the person to kill him and move towards another person after exploiting him to the hilt. The person who is near to live is only the father-mother and the person who is the sacred half or the soul sister and brother but the friend or the neighbors in one or the other ways are waiting for the mishappening so that they could either laugh or make an advantage out of it.

Also, it is not necessary to remind a person about his neighbors who are in no way anything superior as most of the time they themselves are wary in terms of their own shortcomings and try to show hefty attitude does not make any proper sense out of it as the person who remains timid or the star which is timid shines the most. 

On the other hand, if I talk about my father's behavior he was very near to his friends and use to treat them well in terms of hosting parties for them with or without reason but when he got seriously ill after 52 years very few of them were there to come for any kind of help and the last resort was provided by his won department people where he worked at Bokaro Steel Plant and not by any of the neighbors who were more or less trying to count his death days. On top of that to make matters worse the person by the name of Mr. A.K.Verma and Mr. Sahay was adamant towards me to "Say Sorry" even on the pretext that neither I carried any personal enmity towards their family members nor have any affinity towards their assets or woman if the matter was to be asked.

So, one has to understand that if you are aware of your surroundings in today's world the woman is the bone of contention and she has to understand that most of the time helping her also becomes a nemesis for life of yours and at the same time anybody whether your neighbor from childhood or maybe at times when you are a young adult tries to get near to you on the pretext of getting over you.

It is always good to be wise enough and surrounded by fewer friends from where you can lead your life as an example for you and get into the act of being self-dependence because the more you give back to the society the more there are expectations from them and in case if your friends only ask for a payback when they are not the friends but the leech or the blood-sucking parasite who are looking for the opportunity to demean you as the friends never need or ask to be paid back in life!