Friends are there to fuck and forget you without paying back!

Friendship is not about any deed which requires that any person of the status of nothing or a nerd gets back into your life after getting all those rotten banana and eggs which are not required to eat. The person who remains with you in life is either your mother or your father who has given you birth and treated you well in childhood. If anyone of us who keeps to much of ties with the friends must have faced the repercussions in life and although I was much into the adage that "Friendship lasts forever", I myself kept friends at bay and rarely allowed them to sneak either into my life or ask them to visit my home.

If I remember the good thing out of it is that none of them can blame me for fucking their girlfriends, mother, sister or anyone else from their life which again becomes trouble for me. In today's life, people want that the person should commit some sin so that they should be either reprimanded or blackmailed thoroughly from where the person could not only lose the self-esteem but also his possessions from home to every other thing in life.

Although friends are there to fuck and forget you without paying back. For me, my life was about slight mischief where neither it hurts you or hurts you the most depending on your personality and thought process. The other thing is that I never ask any nerd to speak about me either on T.V. nor on any V-Blog which could give him or her an inner solace, neither I am responsible for giving any girl out of any age a kid to carry so that she could put blame that the child was born out of any wedlock or some night out spent with me and further it helps me to feel free without any baggage attached to my life.

Also, the same goes for the relationship from niece to nephew, cousins to all kind of relationship which is all about the maternal uncle and aunts or the same about all those places in my life where I stayed throughout my life such as with my father where he use to stay at Government accommodation or me staying at rented house and once I got my own home I did the same which is not to keep any relationship with woman who was not bound to be near or dear to me. 

All those people who give me a backlash about my attachment with my family are unaware that somewhere down the line after my father I am the most respected person in the eyes of my own sister and father along with my Uncles who have gained good status in life. If I do not find myself into a position where I should be feeling the comfort it is all because of the friends of my father who put all their efforts to make me feel nothing but like an untouchable and also their son which categorically could be mentioned as Mr. G.N. Prasad, Mr. Akhauri S.N. Sinha, Mr. Kashi Mehto, Mr. Banarasi Mehto, Mr T.N. Pandey, Mr. Radheshyam Pandey, Mr D.N.Prasad, Mr. Tirkey and many others whose name is not known to me. They either were behind me settling their own scores and put their own thoughts which were about giving me the tag of a less valuable person because maybe at times I was the person who always use to put priority to my family above and all and defined success as a small thought of mind where it could be achieved at any point of time rather than at any cost which is not success but revenge. 

So, if I look back in my life I never took the help of any woman in any capacity to get ahead in life and neither tried to blackmail her by putting a piece of my own heart in her womb to blackmail her further. Neither, I took the path of revenge in life about any woman by putting any pressure on any girl to get along with me was my thought of mind  and neither I tried to create any kind of ruckus in anyone's life who use to visit my home but was always ready to put myself first in life for my own family.

Also, the only better thing in life was not to play with the law and order of the society in common and the Civil laws in general which could turn me into a politician. On the other hand people like Shri Shashikant Singh, Shri Ravikant Singh, Shri Navneet Kumar Sinha along with many others were deeply involved into selling of woman and turning them into whores and prostitutes by which they acquired their own social status.

So, any woman or girl who used to study with me or was teacher should keep their mind open while giving me their damn thought of mind and the more I tried to bear a moral character which is at least my own way of living being a Master of Arts in Sociology, I would like to ask that please think before you understand me and do not compare me with your obligators and contractors who are a part of your life!

  

Public Schools should keep an eye on Selective intruders!

A school is a place which should concentrate on the uplifting of students in terms of games and education. With remote places in Jharkhand and West Bengal which are considered to be safe for education big people from high-class society who try to get into the clothes of students and well managed disguise try to mix with the school students. They do not only create unnecessary pressure on the child-folks where they try to overpower the students with their hefty attitude but also try to rob off the atmosphere of the classroom where the need is not of a nerdy behavior but the concentration and emphasis have to be on education.

If such person of the stature of Naseeruddin Shah who tries to disguise himself as a school student and got confronted at a certain point of time shows how much as a ridiculous his attitude was towards developing the mentality of other students. Was he trying to make some terrorists out of the students or destroying the capabilities by sending them outside the country by giving them a makeover? Certain talent hunts are enough to bring out the right amount of competition among the students to showcase their abilities. It clearly shows that whether we understand or not about people playing tricks but it is the social way in India to destroy the growing students and fill their mind with giving them an understanding about hard liner thoughts from where they could change their religion and get into the mold of being a Muslim or any other religious fanatics from where they could never grow in life.

After a certain amount of years, they rue all such ways in life and try to give backlash to such people who stick to the thought of being faithful to their own religion and do not change it at any cost. I personally believe that Being Indian and remaining Hindu is my birth-right and irrespective of sticking to my own religion I remain a secular thought person who does not pay any disrespect to any other religion which could be seen in my way of talking and behavior which does not change easily.

If I love the Police and understand their way of working then it is all because they are the prime person or the organization in the society which keeps the sentiments at the check and give the best of the output by understanding the people in the society.

So, Public schools should keep an eye on selective intruders who are from high class and all those who try to disguise into school and make some ways to get into it for making out easily among the students who are very much vulnerable towards money and style which is all about carrying the swanky cars and giving a high status symbol rather than giving importance to studies. Any such incidence should not happen and if it gets into the picture then it should be reported to the Police by the school officials and after that law and order keeps an eye on such behaviour which was also seen with the people of Ghaziabad who immediately threw away an anti-social women from the school and I applaud the effort of the people from a better society city Ghaziabad which understands the better people and the insignificant one that's why I said once at my birthplace, Bokaro Steel City that in spite of all the difficulties "I felt like being Born again at Ghaziabad."

I would like to thanks my School teacher Esp. Miss Archana Bhatnagar, who stood by my side at every instance of life from Class 6 to Class 10 when she was my Social Studies teacher and in spite of few spats in the school with a student called Mr. Nitin who was much into a different character as he use to speak about being into all kinds of odd behavior which need not be mentioned here my teachers were carefully behind me and this helped me to understand all kinds of people in the society rather than blindly follow them.

My friend Sajit B. Nair, who was very near to me during school days, once he left the school in Class 7, I never visited his home and neither stayed in touch with him apart from the casual meetings in the city which showed that I believe in the thought process of limited friendship rather than getting into someone's ass without any reason. I don't know whether he gives any importance to my relationship which is all about showing my back once the job is over but this is the way things work these days in a proper manner, as you never know about the people in one instance in life unless you get very deep into someone. Remember, every time a loner cannot be called a "Lone Wolf" as this is a misguided term because getting into that thought of passing the time without any reason with old friends make you very near to alcoholism, smoking and various other ways of destroying oneself as somewhere down the line our soul certainly rue about the old mates who have left us and this makes us promiscuous in one or other way. So, it is better to avoid and keep your head held high rather than getting into an ugly fight with seniors and juniors who anyways does not give respect to anyone except the vagina these days.

God helps those who help themselves lest opposite in India!

India as a country always talked about being a God-fearing citizen. If people have the thought about an Indian he or she will be the one who is truly dedicated towards God and has all kinds of fears attached to the superpower. The drought or the floods whatever is the reason for any issues it is said that God must have got angry due to which the omnipresent is destroying all the possibilities of life. Now, the ugly scenario is that God is the one who is not feared at all and it is just a myth that Indians are God-fearing citizens.

They are actually the one who is not even the crime fearing citizen. From creating any kind of ruckus or showing the inhuman nature towards any particular person to show their harsh attitude the Indians are at the top-most civilians in committing anything from sin to fraud and becoming a virtual headache for the people around them.

The person in you could not feel anything less than fear when moving towards any destination whether to hills or any other place as most of the time the generation which does not procure anything on it's own as they are virtually impotent and the certifications which are nothing less than acquiring through name changed degrees has not given them any mental peace from where if they look back towards the life which they have spent they could find that they were busy oiling the machinery which was just run by some women folks who knew how to over-rule their life by devoiding them from competition and making them sex slave. Unfortunately, such people are neither for the Desh which is the country nor they are better from the "mukh" of the mouth which makes them and others understand that the person in them was capable only to put the paints on the wall making them cowards from inside and a rascal from outside.

So, such person if are awarded beautiful woman they first turn out to be a womanizer and then prove themselves to be from the naked ambitions thought who could just use the girl child of different home by making her mind overlapped with the negative thoughts and then pull out the resources from her in a better manner which is just overshadowing her.

I feel satisfied after I see myself and if look myself to be standing better in front of the unholy and unruly crowd who are known to create ruckus in the name of Shri Ram and kill the boys and other elders in the name of the God if the person does not utter Shri Ram which could be heard in the news these days.

It is a thought-provoking scenario where if a person is surrounded by an unruly crowd will ask for the relevant reason or will simply go on shouting Jai Shri Ram without any reason although if I see any temple in the vicinity of the temple which is in my society I respectfully shout the name of the God  which makes me feel light and nothing more attached to it more than seeking the blessings.

The very much sense behind shouting the name of God is not about threatening any person but it has to be very much the person's own thought whether he has the wish to utter the name of God or just pay respect in his mind and heart.

So, talking about God helps those who help themselves lest opposite in India is very true as people consider themselves above and all even if they are raised without the standards in their life and the virtue in their life remains the same which is about carrying their responsibilities not without breaking the law and the rules which remain good only till you are in the college days after which your futile attempt to raise above others by talking insignificant lifestyle of yours and "Being Manager" makes mockery of yours which makes the same story of yours about the father getting inside the well to drink water rather than pulling water with the help of rope and the bucket which pulls the water out of it and then putting all issues on others from the gentle milkman to the people from the block and sector. All said and done you get back to live singing the same song like dialogue from "Sholay" which was reiterated in 100 days "Gabbar Singh yeh kah kar gaya, jo dar gaya wo mar gaya". 

Difference in society or generation gap because of cross-over generation!

Has ever the thought of cross-over generation come into your mind. It is a hilarious fact but very much true as the person today in your group talks much about the size of your anus rather than the thoughts prevailing in mind or the thought which makes your inner self. If as a person you decide to stay alone for some time to build your life the way you want then you become the talking symbol in your neighborhood. While countries like USA, Japan, UK are researching over the ability of man turning into a superpower with power-packed performers attitude which could be termed with artificial intelligence, India is again getting back into the mould of creating ruckus among the people where they count how many of the kind of female organs the person has invaded within the short span of time.

It shows that the person who is inclined much towards such activity is either into the mold of destroying himself or he is rather into talks to bring the ugly in him outside and such people could be found talking in dark rather than getting some better output for the society. When the Britishers were leaving India they must have certainly said that whatever we do for the people they are dissatisfied from their inner self because they are not happy about their skin color rather than it's the size. So, Indians are basically into the thought process of achieving more than rushing towards Russia to celebrate their manhood and then come back with big smiles which eludes them of inner happiness for the life-long time.

Similarly, the women folks do not feel happy about their men-folks and getting laid within the family teaches their children something good about the hormonal surge which could be a bitter way till the person is fed by the mother. With much of the family in Hindu who talk about having an upper hand because of their numbers, it gives them solace to act like girls. I ould not like to cite examples but there are few males whom you could find in attires of a woman and vice versa which is not about protecting their identity but it makes them an easy slip-in to other's home from where it makes them easy to carry on with their dysfunctional thoughts.

So, one can easily say that those who were born after 84 and between 94 who turned out to be a cross over generation as this was the most tumultuous time for the Indian society where one after other communal riots along with dis-similarities in food habits due to invasion of multi-nationals making few richer and the other poor made the people go for a great social divide. There, the work of a few gentlemen who understood the difference in society or generation gap  because of cross-over generation has put both of us the brothers and sisters to feed ourselves with a lot more knowledge on various topics which made us richer from the mind rather than making us weaker from our inner thoughts and my mother who is a very strong person although she may look timid to others made the real difference who never allowed me to run amok either in terms of money or in making me a show-off which made the real difference in life! 

I had lost faith in women in general and become reclusive many a times!

I was a person who remained timid and shy at heart in spite of being a sporty person at school who never went into any close relationship with any girls as I considered it to be not a part of my life. As it is said that it all happens through genetic thoughts and as far as I remember me with my family which was a cute small one where we were only four of us( which has been repeated often in my blogs) including my father, mother, sister and me and no intrusion of any special school friends at home which has made no rift in my life.

The father who was a strict disciplinarian never got into any sort of sexual words before any woman coming to our house and most of the time remain quiet with all the dirty damsels who are called the Bhabhi, Mausi, and Chachi as he was much interested in my mother's cooking abilities and since we had the privilege of staying in two-room house throughout the birth I never saw them getting into sexual intonation but the family was satisfied as mother and father stayed in the other room and our brother and sister have our own room which could be our own personal space. 

I was less inclined towards women in the neighborhood and my tuition teachers also knew the strictness of my father due to which there was less of the thought to prevail in mind which could be seen in cheap behaviour of students from Hindi and Saraswati Medium schools which are not the right place for education as such medium students do not have an open mind and most of the time they are found to indulge in various sexual activities and turn into lowly jobs. To be very frank such students never has an open mind and throughout their life, they have the same thought in mind of fucking the neighborhood girls due to which such pressure could be seen on the face of the girl as well as the mother, father and various other people in society.

In any case, such a person grow in life they try to rob away your happiness and make you feel small before others by telling all negative or positive scenarios of your life in the most sexist and negative intonations which shows the cruelty of the mind and some of could be the jailbirds who try to threaten the society at large and thus make the life hell for other educated people who are worth for the society.

 Now, talking about the statement which says "I had lost faith in women in general and become reclusive many times"! is true to me and it does not happen because of the traits of less masculinity as in my earlier relationship I was sexually O.K. and still the woman left the home. To be very frank the reason is all about the region from where she used to belong. Since I never indulge in any kind of promiscuous relationship people considered my well-mannered thought process to be a taboo and I could not find any girl who could match my level of thinking and standards as I was taught by some school great teachers who were very fluent in English and were of very high moral standards which is all according to the society as they have seen the better and the worse of the society.

My way of life was to be more near towards my teachers and never cross their path in the wrong manner without making them feel bad about me. If anybody meets my teacher from Holy Cross, they will come to know about my well-mannered upbringing where I was jovial but not Jackal with thoughts.

So, when I reach New Delhi the often different cases was observed by me where the woman who use to people as tenants tried to harass the men folks but as my thought process remained the same of standing tall in my own eyes I never took any path of getting nude before any woman in my room which was all about maintaining my dignity and inner self. The same was about my office which was about my joining into various capabilities at different offices but not getting into touchy-feely with any woman thus making me a different person altogether in their eyes.

When I got married I never tried to get into the mold of marrying a super-rich woman but tried to get married to a woman from my ancestral village and there all the problems started to occur which lead to my sufferings  and my tears making me feel cry as she was total of the different mindset where her sense of freedom has an awkward sense which should not be talked about in general.

So, when I stayed with my sister near Safdarjung where she was into a training period of Hotel Management by Pusa Road Institute by Indian Agricultural Research Institute which is the prime and Government Recognised Hotel Institute, I still carried a better legacy of big brother and was strict but after she got into the upper scale business environment I went into my own studies which have remained due in life and thus at today's lifestyle I find myself to be matching steps with the current generation.

So, it makes me wary before getting into any relationship as my frequency matches a different level of mind and even if I stay alone it never hurts me because I do not believe in having one-night stand and then moving on but with the woman leaving me who was not from the educated background I feel more relaxed in my life and it makes me happier rather than feeling bad about it thus making me go for the ultimate goal of life to get ahead into various Marathon running as I was a runner of cross-country competition every year held at my school which was Holy Cross School, Bokaro Steel City.

My father knew me better as a person and thus he set me free!

If I talk about my upbringing after a few beautiful years of my life which are called formative years where my father was always thinking about me and my ways which will govern the life after understanding me better he set me free. He always has the thought that after from some minor mistakes I will never indulge in any issues which will get me into trouble or lead my life in some dangerous ways which come out to be true. Every concerned person who may be your friend, teacher and any other person who may be your opponent is nowhere better than your father and the father could be your mother as well who may be aware of your capabilities that is the nearest of the kin but none of the people can replace the person in you after you understand the pros and cons of life.

I personally consider that if after a certain age you are able to understand the meaning of life then it will make you understand the kind of sacrifices you and yourself have done to make life better in every possible way. With the world getting a place where many of the people including your companion come near to you for helping you with all the jitters and thus destroying your inner self by understanding your strength and weakness it is very difficult to find the right and the thoughtful person in life. Such are the circumstances that there is only 2% of the population which has achieved success in life and the rest of them are either trying to get over them or make their life difficult so that they should neither grow in life nor could become something which is called being practical.

If one sees today's news channels much of the debates are either on issues which are non-relevant and the others are all about creating ruckus in the life of any person. The profit of these news channels could not be understood by me and most of the time it seems as if they have people not talking in terms of debate but individual recordings being played which start overlapping each other. With people of the generation who need to become the torchbearer of the society from the 75-85 Birth, years could be seen hanging their boots and feeling the way of retirement which could be hilarious. It seems that they have got enough knowledge and have reached the pinnacle from where there is no further need to achieve more and if the person in the capacity who could be any head of the organization is found to be either performing personal harakiri or moving out to complete the project which is either selling away the organization after making it well-settled or just leaving it on the fate of others. If the same could be seen with the executives who believe that destroying the organization which they are joining is the ultimate goal and once it is done they resort to some small-time career which neither gives them peace but the happiness and the satisfaction of destroying the work of the organization head.

Similar thought could be said about the woman in your house who tries to enact the thoughtful ways to show and steal your peace of mind where they could make you believe about some other person as an intruder in the house while she may merrily get fucked by others making you feel pygmy before the society. In this way, if I state that  "My father knew me better as a person and thus he set me free!" to understand the world in a better manner as he knew that in spite of all the social differences I  will stick to my mother who is the primary parent of the family and fortunately I have proved my worth at least in this manner till today which of course does not make me great in the Indian society which is primarily patriarchal but certainly gives me an inner peace of mind which is achieved by less of the people around me.   

2020 Summer Olympics in Japan- Qualification Criteria in Athletics

Indian athletics federation has reached out for the Qualification criteria for all the athletes who are looking for helping themselves with a berth in Olympics to enter the event which is recognized the world over. Any athlete dream is to represent his country in Olympics and whether he won any medal there or not is not a thing to be mention but even the participation gives him a boost for many more years to come.

Although, much of the events are taken care of by the Indian Olympics Association, where the contingent from India is less inclined towards athletics and more towards Group or team games which could be Hockey, Volleyball and many other team sports. One will feel amazed to know that joining an event in athletics is far easier as people could give a try to all those single or individual events where qualification is all about putting oneself into a schedule of training and giving maximum to the kind of sports or the athletic events in which you are inclined.

Most of the school coaches who prepare their students along with many others do not understand the importance of the pupil who could be the torch-bearer for their school and there are times when the school students surpass the Olympic records unknowingly in various events. The public apathy towards athletics and inclination only towards cricket has given a sport which does not require much of the money and it is the track and field events where the young and energetic kids could put their whole-hearted efforts and make out the best out of it.

If one sees the 2020 Summer Olympics in Japan- Qualification Criteria in Athletics then it is a not so tough one as most of the records have been achieved by the various runners. The only issue is that the State Olympic Association along with the Indian Olympic Association is unable to choose the Indian Contingent from Schools and Colleges due to which India remains back in collecting medals at the Olympics Arena.

If the events for selection to be found through the selection criteria defined by the Olympics Committee and one could get into touch with their recent achievements by the current generation which is taking sports at a different angle and not considering it to be a matter of spreading spoof people all around then certainly "2020 Summer Olympics in Japan- Qualification Criteria in Athletics" is mentioned in the link which makes easier for the Olympic Association to choose the right contingent as for some of the events the selection date is extended as far as May 2020 while the events are from July 24, 2020.

If anybody who feels to find the right thought into the games could find the link mentioned here and with the help of the coach, Indian Olympic Association and Officials could come out to be a great personality in athletics and represent their country like the Olympics does not restrict for the  number of people to join and the only answer is performance and no requirement for any personal recommendations in it. The best thing is that Shri Kiren Rijiju is the Sports Minister of India who is well known to help the young and the deserving to get ahead in the field of sports and he himself is a great man to be considered as a Youth Icon from North-East of India.

Link:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Athletics_at_the_2020_Summer_Olympics_–_Qualification

https://www.flotrack.org/articles/6394026-2020-olympic-qualifying-standards-released

https://www.olympic.org/india

https://www.olympic.ind.in/

Your first impression at Company or Place of Work makes the life!

Once a boy or a girl joins any office in any capacity as an executive, documentation executive, manager or any other personal post as everybody in the world does not has the privilege to be your own boss or open a company. There are people who want to have a hands-on experience before becoming a manager or any other sort of executive to get themselves a job starts after which they wish to kick-start their own work comes in mind. 

The thought about becoming big is the right of every citizen and if a person thinks to emulate the lifestyle of any Buddhist Zen they start from the lowest of the position to learn the basics and then carry on with guided steps to reach the pinnacle of success.

Now, since I have worked in many kinds of office along with being a part of the industries with three basic functions which starts from marketing, further moving towards International Customer service or the ITES and moving towards Digital marketing it makes me a person with varied experience and also giving importance to my studies at the same time which gradually took me towards being M.A in Sociology from Bharati Vidyapeeth, SDL. Pune.

I mention my studies as always because my significant thoughts are all emanated because of the experience along with studies which have helped me to stay afloat in my career without taking the post of Manager anywhere as I did not stick to one organization not because I was considered a non-performing assets but my thought process was to Move-on in life before getting bored at one place and also meet a lot more people from various backgrounds of life which have enriched my experience. 

So, talking about your first impression at Company or place of work makes life is very true as if having an experience whether of a lifetime or if a smart ass with the thought of conquering the world within short duration and having great number of people in your stride it all happens with the personal thought of being sincere and capable enough to do the job with all respect and dignity. 

As far as my personal belief is concerned I was not aware that what kind of people I worked at Shelters, IBM, I-Qore along with I-energizer or many other organizations but I remained true to my significant thought of giving my 100% without ever thinking that I will take a plum post and my thought process was only to be sincere towards my duties and with little bit of controversy which is a part of life about having an upper hand I carried myself with my own respect and dignity which I do not believe one gets by getting close to the person to some personal affinity which is seen among those who try to serve the boss and then keep themselves as ransom before them.

To personally state my wish of the job was to put all efforts get the experience and before the fight starts for the cup of tea to get into the hand it was better to bid goodbye and move on towards some other organization as I was never inclined to become the Boss of the Bosses.

So, as thoughtful is my way cannot be adopted by everyone as because everybody in the world is not to become a disciple of a greater beauty which is Maa Saraswati and that has put me in the thought of going after Ph.D. which will help me to gain greater experience in life and the thought behind is not only to put the Abbreviation of Dr. but to learn the better nuances of life which are an experience in itself and a thesis of my own concept to get something out of everything which helps me to keep me as par the old, young and the coming generation.

Abstaining from sex with poor mentality women which helped me in life!

Growing up as an adult in Delhi which has very much promiscuous culture although only behind curtains and could be said to be under wraps helped me as a person to grow in life. The year was 2000 when I first reached New Delhi on the pretext of taking admission for further studies. Since my childhood, I have kept myself away from sexual habits of any kind except admiring the beauty of a woman in all hues and color which could be seen only in movies that also of Amitabh jee and other such U/A movies which has less of skin show. The reason why I admire his movie Don as apart from one single song of Yeh Mera Dil Pyar....ka Deewana, the movie does not have any greater sexual motive in it.

So, as I was trying to live alone in this city and keeping myself away from ladies to a large extent although started working with Shelters or the Raaj Khosla Pvt Ltd in 2002 which has some gorgeous woman of that time but still I tried to be confined towards my work without getting into their life although I was never rejected in their thoughts. The studies which were always in the back of mind was always pulled up during the right intervals of life and now planning to get into Ph.D. in Sociology which was the ultimate thought after completing my M.A. in Sociology. 

With a strict family background at Bokaro Steel City with one younger sister, father, and mother staying together and in the earlier years of life a dog to accompany life only taught me to be straight and never indulge into sex which could be said as abstaining from sex with poor mentality women  which helped me in life.

If the word poor needs to be stated here it is all about the women who try to destroy the person's family along with their career and then make the person a gigolo to fulfill their own goals in life. A woman across any age these days are more into exploiting the person in the worst possible manner and long term relationship only becomes successful either if you are too good for them or stay totally below their belt.

In the meantime after completing graduation my sister has become a very successful entrepreneur and although we are proud of each other but due to time constraints and also because of her work commitments it's difficult to get into touch with each other which is so far so good as the more family attachments are there the more hindrance it becomes towards own journey of success. 

So, talking about my current situation after having a child out of an unsuccessful relationship with a woman who vehemently denies of having any relationship with me it is better to get into another beautiful way of life where I could fulfill my studies along with enhancing my career goals and taking care of the better half who could sooner or later get into my life, I totally believe that staying with my mother and do not indulging into any promiscuous behaviour from past three years which gets completed today my life has been wondering where I kept a low profile person and did not get into any relationship which should be questioned for. 

Also, I wish my earlier partner all success in her life and hope she will never cross my path again in life as I personally seek her permission to get ahead in life with stronger thoughts and better penetration of mind and soul as she was the first woman with whom I had sex at the age of 32 years and although we were sexually satisfied but the frequencies did not match and thus we moved out of each other's life. With the position she holds in life I hope she will never become a hindrance in life and thus we both remain happier in life for the coming days and as I made a surge ahead in life without getting her attention  and love I hope in the coming days I have prepared myself enough to have another possibly a life long stint with a better person who has judged me well and maybe she will make my life get into the right direction in terms of love and companionship which is much needed for a person like me.

Post retirement games should be kept on mind!

The Cricket fraternity after 2019 World cup is in a tizzy when one could hear after every other day retirement of some great and key players from their home team. Cricket as a game gives you money at a high level and the kick comes with crowded stadium giving the echo of a Roman colosseum. The star players from all over the world perform at different levels and coming out spic and span out of this game which has been a part of controversies which could be match-fixing, sledding, monkey-gate and the Ashes controversy among with poor umpiring and the ICC bend the rule game has made it much of the murkier ones in the recent past.

People say that the likes of Sir Sachin Tendulkar may have come out without any controversy but he also got surrounded by the cases of ball-tampering and few other minor controversies which engulfed his cricket career along with booing by the home crowd putting pressure on him. This year during the world cup Dhoni's glove was much of the controversy as he was getting a slippery hand which cost him few catches and he has to change the Logo on his glove which was from his Paratroopers regiment by Indian Territorial Army. Also, the Wag team which is wife and girl-friend who are associated with big matches and are a reason for the cameraman to focus on them makes another way of showing off some style and elegance in the stadium and the world media covering their antics.

Although, I was very much interested in the Cricket but gradually my own participation in Marathon after many years of my life when the players start hanging the boots and the favorite adage of leaving nation's duty to move towards family duty makes me a bit fill with humor. After strengthening the muscles and acquiring superpower in the mind which comes only after severe practice which is akin to rigorous ways of drills and another exercise when the time comes to continue towards some super-sport our beloved cricketers make a solemn face as they have given a bad part of their life to the game of cricket. They do not have any air's attached to them but certainly, their poker face makes you belittle and in the second phase of their life they do not come-up as smart as the likes of Shri Ravi Shastri or Shri Kapil Dev and move towards their business empire making themselves more lonely and away from the society as the menfolks surround them with taunts about their fame and money while the women start looking for another copulation with them to have a kid like the as beautiful as Sachin or Dhoni ( Sorry to put the name of greats here which is just an example) which gives them maybe a new way to enjoy the beauty of women.

Instead of all these art of living oneself and getting into the culture of enjoying the controversy surrounding them, they should try to adopt some new game which should remind of their childhood days when they were more inclined towards any other game. Games like Football and other such team sports at the national level do not require much of the time where the game is for 90 minutes and people like Shri Dhoni jee if he spends 15 minutes in the football field will lift the game after retirement although his retirement days are not yet to come. One could surely understand the change he has bought to Ranchi as the city was sleeping beautiful but it has certainly come up with lifted spirits and Bollywood along with his thoughts have given a changeover to the city which is a beautiful way to lift your own locality by a player that shows him as a man of steel.

Certainly, he is an example to the nation and he should be emulated by players of different country to put development first in mind and uplifting the children of their locality which is already done by him in the form of Dhoni Cricket Academy which is opened till Quwait thus putting him in the world greats within no time. 

P.S: The Athletics Federation of India has urged the players at various levels to put their details on the website along with their achievements through the state they represent. This could help new players to come up and represent themselves at district and national level. The link could be found through this particular weblink: https://indianathletics.in/

Girls should have the right to chosse her life partner everywhere!

India is a country which recently has seen much of changes in the marriage system and traditions along with Supreme Court of India giving relationship status of being legal to the live-in couples, the sudden and drastic changes have given much of the thoughtful ways to the new generation. People from all sections of life are feeling liberated and the thought of getting into each other life has become much easier as compared earlier irrespective of religion.

If anybody talks about my opinion or stance into it "For me personally speaking", as I was much of a liberal mind during the year of my schooling still managed to abstain from sex during my adolescent years with not much into haggling with any girl classmates could have made me a persona of my own.

I always kept personal relationship status away from my thoughts into school and any sort of bond apart from casual friendship was a complete no-no to me. I was wary of having any social tie-ups in school and although apart from few instances I tried to keep myself away as far as I remember that falling in love was a very daring thought for me as my father was very strict on such instance of thoughts and I was never a rebellious child when it comes to me as a family member. I knew the importance of bread and for me tying a bond of friendship as the Friendship band was not initiated during the year 93 was just getting a small piece of rakhi which was tied by a friend to me and she said while tying that it is a kind of friendship band and nothing more than that which I heartily agreed, still for me breaking ice to cross any kind of barrier was not my way of life. 

Also, since my mind always overpowered my heart so any intrusion into my peaceful thought of mind could lead to a thought of getting a plunge into the deep sea and then drifting on the waves which could drown me in any thoughts apart from studies. So getting into any other kind of relationship during school days was a complete no-no which led me to stay within the boyz zone although the school was very beautiful with co-education remaining the essence of it and the name is Holy Cross School, Bokaro Steel City, which has it's own standards as people from all section of society use to study there.

Now, talking about Girls should have the right to choose her life partner everywhere is very much necessary these days as the girls who are more liberated these days and understand the good, better and ugly to soon in life it is better for the human folks that they should have all the reason to choose the kind of life partner who suits them to their thoughts, mind, and action. After all, they have to live with the man throughout life and putting any pressure on them leads to creating any havoc in their mind and soul which leads to creating a rebellious nature in them and if it is suppressed then it creates long more issues in life. 

Also, they should not exploit a man for a long time in life as a man by nature remains aloof and he does not even speak about his thought of mind easily to others however he is near to anyone else. So, he keeps all his thought in mind as a deep-sea and it leads him to cry or shed tears when he is all alone which is not known to many in this busy world. This leads to many of them turning into terrorists and many other such types of person who could be termed as anti-social. Also, the man however alone he does not have the right to destroy any girls household by putting pressure on her to flee unless he earns respect in his own eyes. 

So, if one understands every aspect of life then a woman is a natural chooser and that is the reason in ancient India Swaymvar was the reason to choose the right groom from all across the continents rather than putting a pressure to marry any person in life without the consent of the woman in the household.

Bin Sheila Sab Sunya in INC Of Delhi!

With the sudden demise of Mrs. Sheila Dixit, the Congress Party of Delhi has seen the sudden absence of a leader who knew how to win battles for people of Delhi. Although, from past few years the Arvind Kejriwal led Aam Admi Party and its chariot in the hands of Shri Manish Sisodia has toppled the congress and its revival in the upcoming 2020 elections of New Delhi seems to be a distant dream.  

Still one could think that few leaders who were just for the name and fame like Ajay Makan along with the people of the Delhi constituency have seen the Congress trying to loot them in the name of making and breaking them at the same time. If one sees the Congress theory of making a minister not out of a common man but from a person who is already famous and then breaking him into pieces does not make any sense to me. If one sees the people who vote for Congress they go for the big and popular names such as Sri Sunil Dutt Sir who was given the Congress ticket and then his Son Shri Sanjay Dutt was put with multiple charges such as TADA and many others to make him a little person in his mind and thoughts.

Similarly, the names like Shri Raj Babbar who is a great artist along with Shri Amitabh Bachhan was given tickets and then they were robbed of their money in the name of reviving the party with the name of collecting funds. The Congress party has not given the wish of making India poorer and it has also made the people of India at least 50 years back in the name of development while the countries like Singapore and China which were very poor in terms of resources have grown leaps and bounds.

Similarly, the current Punjab Government has given literally a headache to Shri Navjot Singh Sidhu and he ultimately got fired out of the Congress party. If one could make any meaning out of Bin Sheila Sab Sunya in INC of Delhi then one can understand that his group of ministers is nowhere and Congress has almost moved into oblivion and with the last Assembly election in 2015 result where the INC got 0 seats and AAM AADMI PARTY sweeping with clear majority it showed the demise of Congress hopefully never to revive back again.

P.S: With Shri Arvind Kejriwal announcing the registry for every home in the unauthorized colony of Delhi has been a right way to help those section of people from Delhi who were residing in Lal Dora Constituencies and were thinking about having their home to be with the power of ownership rather than the power of attorney which is of less importance. So, seeing this it will be great if people should immediately get their home registered as the various Banks will open opportunity for getting a home loan at less interest for registry purpose and they will feel proud of the assets they possess in life.

Tere vaste mera dil spoofiana!

The spoof and their outputs which I have reported again and again in my Blog Page "Silence Judgement" has got new spoof in the male section at this point of time. After the women in India who were addicted to being spoof for a various actress, it seems the gigolo culture is catching the attention of the people this rainy season. There was a time when people from Bokaro Steel City were known to be from the different world and could be found everywhere including the culture and arts-related festivals. But, as it is to be seen that in the race to get ahead many of them do love to keep the system out of mind and with various ways which could be formally called jaan-pehchan or the personal relationship try to surpass others. If to be more clear about the theory there was a time when the Uncle's and Aunt's with due respect to them after working at various capacities of Bokaro Steel Plant with minimum criteria of being the tenth pass across any division started procuring certificates till graduation levels from various Mithila and Darbhanga University to get ahead in life.

The likes of Dr. Tej Prakash who was a scholarly person serving in capacity at UCO BANK, BOKARO STEEL CITY, SECTOR-4 rue about the status of education and people taking privilege out of it. Such was the fun out of the equation that people from Jha along with many other so-called vidyadhar clan from brahmin caste use to buy the certificate submit it and use to earn cashback as well as multiple promotion and the sarve-sarva was none other than P.N. Tripathi who use to give the opportunity to such people in life. The worse affected were the others such as Gupta and many other such people even from upper caste who were treated mercilessly by the Union of Pandey's and Pandya at Bokaro Steel City. If others use to get a certificate in such a way if anyone tried then they were shown a red-flag and such people were made a person who could be easily kicked on their butt and also was mistreated by the Pandey's who was becoming the significant proportion material or creating a worth of their own.

Now, the same culture was getting back with the people of Delhi who tried to show-off by imitating bigger names in the film industry without understanding the importance of the face-value in life. If I talk about the sudden demise of Mr. Manohar Parikar who was the Chief Minister of Goa, few so-called idiots immediately tried to copy his style and look and started flaunting their social status. So, if I write "Tere Vaste Mera Dil Spoofiana" it certainly is coinciding with Mrs. Sheila Dixit demise which happened a few hours ago. I hope that people should not make any ruckus out of it like a Plant Union employee who believes that if a person has laid his papers to get back into life from being terminally ill and divides his source of income to the legal heir it makes necessary to create ruckus by showing him to be out of the earth structure without understanding company laws which was legally taught him in a better way be some other means. 

Simply, joining a political party does not raise your social status until you become something at the level of the party and the person who is intelligent is not found to be in oblivion but his words match his capabilities which could be easily seen if I would like to state some name without doubts then the likes of Mr. Amit Shah along with Mr. Mukhtar Abass Naqvi could be said who cannot be compared with people like Shri Ravi Kishen ( With due respect to his status of being a people's representative from Gorakhpur) who have not gained the social status of being a scholarly person but represents much of the community of the Cine-artistes. 

So, it can be easily said that a person like me who has been the pillar of various organizations from IBM to many others and has lifted many of the companies on my able shoulders to give them a stability factor could be understood by the illegal and unauthentic people from Bihar who speak "Tata Main Hospital" at Jamshedpur as "Tumhe Marna Hoga" which is their own abbreviation and creating all the ruckus about their own family members whom they have readily sold in various ways which could not be described here and everytime the muscle power does not take the place of a heart filled with gratitude which has always put friendship above else in life and sincerity being the factor which emanates from heart.

P.S: I hope the demise of Smt. Sheila Dixit will not be taken as a spoof and from tomorrow onwards nobody will try to imitate her style so that her soul should rest in peace rather than becoming a matter of joke which has become the habit of people esp. in the upper-middle class!

Kayastha Clan and their social image in India!

I, Mukesh Kumar, belong to an Upper-Caste Class system in India and born to my Indian Parents Mr. Upendra. Vidyarthi and Mrs. Kiran Bala Devi, and along with Mrs. Arti Devi and Mr. Chitranjan Prasad as my Grandparents have often been a part of the group which tormented me to a great scale in spite of being almost trying to be a well-cultured boy. With my own grandparent who was very strict and their ways to make understand between the good and the bad use to beat us easily we the younger ones which was only me and my sister Sweta Shrivastava, the draconian Chitranjan Prasad even use to throw the girl child over the hedge on the pretext of playing with her during 1986 when my father got burned into the Steel Melting Shop of Bokaro Steel plant which was a part of some socially evil people who tried to burn many people alive after turning down the converter in which Mr. A.K. Srivastava along with Mr. S.P. SINGH the Officer at Bokaro Steel plant was found to be the main culprit.

Still, we never fought back any case and all those people who got to fight cases must have got rewards in life. Now, talking about Mr. Chtiranjan Prasad who was an employee in Employment Exchange was a rude person and in spite of doing good and giving respect to him he was a bully in his own ways but the Grandfather who he was has provided jobs to many people from Sharma and Srivastava Clan which is the upper caste in U.P. and Bihar which has given him enough respect and people treated him as none less than a God. Now, when the family becomes big with two more Uncles who were younger to my father and the two aunts who were staying with the grandfather my papa left the home which was joint family and shifted to a new quarter allotted by SAIL, BOKARO STEEL PLANT  at Sector 3-C, 45.

The neighborhood goon was the family of Rajesh and Brajesh Brothers along with Guddu and Shashi who were a local thief as well along with Mr. Bishwakarma family who was deeply involved in working as a contractor with Bokaro Steel Plant and robbing off the plant with its iron and steel resources was the common phenomenon. This all sequences led my father to keep both of us child strictly at home and since he was a homely person he has to face taunts from women in locality which could certainly infuriate him and it could sometimes lead to getting beatings from the father as the words of Rajesh and Brajesh Uncle who was a lowly minded person with a "Wanted" image in Police was always on the pretext of destroying our family. 

Still, my father and mother's, good behavior with people of all caste helped us to save our family as people did not have any personal issues with us. So, the next home we shifted was at Sector 12-B but strangely the other clan member of Srivastava family with the pet name of Bitu and Jeetu who were a far relative from our own home whose father D.N. Prasad has killed the earlier wife and married a new woman started creating ruckus as he stayed somewhere near in Sector 12-F and the family feud continued as the main reason was the problem in his own life where his stepson and the next of the kin were already behind his resources. He was also a womanizer and most of the maternal woman and their daughters were fucked by him and still, he has casual sexual flings with them which lead to much of the problem in the children of their household and they could never flourish in their life. As it happens that woman does not understand the consequence of sexual flings but it gives an undeletable impression on the mind of children due to which I never believe in having unsolicited sex with any woman although being a fully grown male at the age 40.

Now, after a few years as it happens that with my father who was hardworking and loyal towards his organization got promoted after every interval and we soon shifted to Sector 6-D where everything was at peace. The life was moving in a better manner and I was studying at Holy Cross while my sister was studying at G.G.P.S but the destroyer in the house who was Bittu and Jitu the son from the D.N. Prasad family use to visit in the neighbourhood and tried to create a bad social image for the family as my father when he come to know about all his sexual flings within the family of maternal uncle's immediately ask them along with their father not to visit our home. 

If a person is asked not to visit the home he immediately takes an awkward instance and create much of the problems outside in the life of the family members. So, the same thing where the block was of much of the Srivastava people including Mr. A.K. Verma and Mr. Sahay who could be understood by their presence in unsolicited videos till date and have some of the other ways to destroy the society could be found to be wanted in many cases at Bokaro Steel City, Sector-6 police station as well.  

So, if one thinks that the Kayastha clan which tries to portray their image of a clean and green person in the caste system are not to be of the same manner as there are many skeletons in their closet. Once I come to New Delhi on the pretext of further studies I went back  during the Holidays I had a minor spat in my block where we stayed and Mr. A.K. Verma tried to apprehend me although I was just 20 or 21 years of age and I did not fight with him and has given him enough respect as I was never taught by my father to raise hand on Uncle's and Aunt's or any another person. 

At times I was into a spat with few kids but it happens as during the childhood you try to defend yourself and become a bit offensive which may be a part of growing years. But, I tried to keep my image right throughout my life by not intervening with their girl child and kept myself away from them by not getting into their ways even during holi and other festivals. So, if the brouhaha about speaking "Sorry" could not be understood by me as I was unlike any Rajput, Bhumihar or Brahmins who get into the household, fuck the ladies and then raise the hand to say "Pranam".

So, one can understand that creating an image of my being a character who tries to save himself from any kind of social crime if is bad then I think Indian society is born out of culprits from the time of Mahabharata who has shown the character of destroying the own family members just to gain superiority and fight for land and resources. In this way, I feel privileged that my education has lifted my mind as my M.A in Sociology and turning out to be a person with no bad character image is far better than a person like Mr. A.K. Verma and Mr. D.N. Prasad and many others who destroy the image of girl child by creating bad ways in society and bringing down their own social structures.  

Being famous was never my wish but become forte!

When I have written "Born To Be Famous" as one of my captions in my facebook page once and was my own thought I never thought that it will imply on me someday technically to the core of many people who know me. I go for walk in the morning and pray to GOD that Mujhe Kabhi apne upar ghamand mat hone dena....i.e. I pray that I should never feel proud about anything in my life. I keep a very low profile in my life and most of the time even I get a meager amount from my writings although have the capability to earn some good amount through my Content Writing which is Freelancing sometimes as low as Rs 4500 a month I continue with food and other necessities of life with my mother without any issues of life.

The food which my mother cooks I heartily eat it and as far as my job was concerned at times I have worked with companies like IBM and earned 24,000 per month, Still, when over the phone some odd people speak badly about my near ones I do not feel bad but feel pity for them. That is the reason if I see people facing any such consequences in life where they are tortured I start crying easily which happened with me while watching the movie "Koi Mil Gaya" I cried a lot as it was on Child bullying. With people of Bihar who has an attitude of being the tormentor and creating fun of others to a great extent whether from the own family background has made it mandatory to understand that they are away from the social syndrome as somewhere people down the line hate them to a great extent and Being Bihari has almost become a curse.

The thought which matters a lot was my schooling and with propagandist as a factor to create a problem in the life of others by putting certain verbiage in the movies which are called lip-syncing these days, it has become another way to create nuisance in other's life. Earlier it was the double meaning words which have created havoc in the film industry and now this new theory of lip-syncing has put the industry to a shame giving no output but to imitate some C-Class movies of West which is Hollywood which helps the movies to get hit to some extent for recovering their initial cost.

Also, the people who think that their character which is being portrayed as a bad man or woman will not harm their image must be on the wrong end of life as people like Shri Shatrughan Sinha has  lost much in terms of political scenarios in life because of his shotgun image including Shri Amitabh Bachhan who suffered loss of image when the millennium was changing and people were changing in life. 

On the contrary people like Shri Pran Saheb and Shri Danny Dangzopa still has a great image and are called of a person with more masculine traits in life and liked by Man and Woman in life because of their macho image and no unnecessary controversy surrounding them. So, if I call somewhere whether to any University as I am desperately trying myself to enroll in a Ph.D. Course in Sociology and for that, I am unable to get admission although my struggle continues which is not in terms of financial issues maybe in India Ph.D. is very coveted one but certainly it cannot be denied to a deserving candidate  reminds me to be a worthy person as the people on the other end of the phone talking about me and that makes me understand that Being famous was never my wish but become forte!

Miss Hunterwali and her style statement of B.S.City!

I have a vague remembrance of Miss Hunterwali when I was almost two years at Bokaro Steel City where Sector 3-B Qr No 10 was my address and two years made me as a toddler. So, the City Thana was adjacent to our home and the new city S.P. has joined the duty. She was a bob-cut girl and carried a hunter with her. I would say that although I do not boast about my thoughts my mind has always been very much clear about things to remember.

So, she was one young lady officer who people were in awe of and as a girl power was only seen in less of the films those days which Ia m not aware about my first Love towards women in khaki started from there. We use to hear all about her antics some imaginary and some real one that she uses to ride bullet and use to beat goons at ease with her hunter. The next best movie when I become a bit older I saw was Andha Kanoon and I was totally smitten by the looks of Hema Malini in the Police Uniform.

I am a male but still, I was totally obsessed by her in that age and she somehow must be looking like the current Theresa May of today and in the same year I joined Lions Club International which was a Pre-primary Kinder garden school. The whole city was obsessed with her and the goons were afraid but as it happens that we heard that she got transferred to some other city. After that, my Love with Policemen and Women in Uniform could never be got over and with all respect to every woman, I still feel more closeness to my heart when I see a beautiful Police Women or the police Men in Uniform. 

So, the song "Meri Behna Deewanji hai, sochti hai Jag me sabse wo sayani hai" is the most ideal song of my life and that is the reason I do not feel afraid of the Police as for me they are bigger than any "Justice Chaudhary" and they are the first one to gather all information and the First Information Report is the prima facie in term of providing evidence in any kind of cases. Although, police-style has changed much during early years when earlier Police use to chase culprits but now Police also finds out the best of their talents through their own ways and inculcates them into the mainstream to find out the social culprits who are prevalent everywhere.

Anyways, the obsession with police is not about getting into their path in some wrong way but keeping a hand distance from them as they are good during the need of the hour for the common man and it totally depends upon their moods and their behavior which is why I do not immediately get into asking for any kind of proposal of any sort and neither I consider myself to match their standards which is even appreciated by Scotland Yard the United Kingdom Police Agency which has praised U.P. Police for its behavior and tough instance which is better known to the culprits.

So, I consider that every woman in Police Uniform should emulate the Miss Hunterwali and her style statement of B.S. City and understand the aura which surrounds her without getting into depressing thought as the belt which you wear itself is the best remark of your success and it is not with every man or women in India which also applies on Policeman as well.

"Hindrance and Obstacles in anyone's path" which is not my style!

In my life of 40 years where 19 years have been in working various organizations which could be said on the Office culture of Delhi and my Schooling along with my studies I personally if see the current generation or the older one I find myself to be a better Indian with a different mindset. I was never inclined politically nor I tried to destroy anyone's career and at times even moved out of some organization where I saw that I could be promoted next and the other deserving candidate may lose respect in his eyes as he may be good in terms of studies.

Since I knew that the parameter behind becoming a person to be a first-line manager I always played the role of a subordinate or a supervisor just like my father who never boasted about the amount of money and respect he has earned in life while working at SAIL, BOKARO STEEL PLANT. Throughout my life, I saw him working diligently towards his organizations, going regularly towards his job and giving respect to his in-laws whenever they use to visit our house by helping in all the home chores and also giving us food and clothing along with good education which was to be the forte of his life. 

Although, people considered me disrespectful but somewhere down the line they know that throughout these formative years of my life I never become hindrance and obstacles in anyone's path which is not my style. In terms of giving love to the younger ones I have one single thought in my mind not to pounce on their girlfriends and wives which could be an easier way to do as I always saw the respect and love in the eyes of women folks and not even tried to have unsolicited sex by visiting any brothel or any places where I could try to be called a person of bad character.  

Still, the Indian society which is not of a kind where the male machoism is all about fucking other;s woman and giving disrespect to the people of others caste, creed and religion and becoming hindrance to others has even been hurtful To Shri Ravana who left Bisrakh near Noida and went to Sri Lanka to create his own kingdom. Although, life again plotted against him and he has to leave for heavenly abode by Shri ram who is very near to the people's heart in India and revered as a GOD. 

If giving respect to Uncle's and Aunts of my city which is Bokaro Steel City, I never tried to demean their authority, I have seen and heard people who are juniors and him young lads who try to show the supremacy by either fucking the aunts in their home along with the relatives or slapping and beating the uncle's on the streets to show their rudeness towards them and by stating that they are teaching them a lesson. 

It clearly showed the perverted mind of theirs and if I see the politicians they try to create an image of mine which is full of illicit behavior and other such thoughts. Yesterday, I saw a person from the post of security guard rising above all to join Jawaharlal Nehru University, New Delhi to learn B.A in Russian Language which is such a beautiful thought as he could become an icon and a superhero among the Chowkidar people and they could learn from him to become something better in life by getting studies. Although, I would like to state that most of the Security guards from Bihar and U.P. are graduates but they become a security guard because of the problem either in terms of English speaking or they believe that it is an easy job. 

Some of them are handsome in looks and if they try they could keep some new thought in mind to become more successful by joining some better person by keeping a book to get ready for competition in various Exams either as Lower or Upper Division Clerk.  Remember, that one can change their own forte in life and add fortune rather than biting the ears of others by creating false propaganda and an open mind is always given love and respect rather than a closed mind which speaks only worst for the woman and children and lastly I would like to state that neither I tried to exploit any friend nor any cousin or nephew and tried to remain alone in the Indian Society which knows how to burn a hardworking person!

BJP turning out to be a Bokaro Jhanda Party!

Once upon a time at Bokaro Steel City which was a Steel manufacturing Unit by the name of Bokaro Steel Plant, Sail saw many up's and downs in the life of people from various status of society. The city was functionally divided between Workers and Officers along with schools which were mostly affiliated to C.B.S.E. It is a well known fact that the city was worst in the terms of holocaust on Sikhs during 84 riots and during the Ramjanam Bhumi agitation it openly supported the Advani rath with people from various sections of society running behind the rath yatra like a maniac and also every inch was decorated with bandannas and various other ways to show solidarity to the Ramjanambhumi struggle.

It showed how much people were politicized and with all walks of society running amok towards the political parties after ruining all kinds of industries whether in BIADA which is Bokaro Industrial Area Development Association or in the biggest Navratna which is SAIL the people put their last ploy to put money into the BJP and the public fund which should go towards making the country stronger was further invested into BJP.

If one looks towards few of the people who pretend to be working in various capacities whose original name is not known to me but certainly people of the likes of various party presidents along with many others have got into one single umbrella to form the BJP which is turning out to be a Bokaro Janta Party.

It shows the people of Bokaro who are not only high into studies but have become a nation builder after investing their own money to give an upper hand to the party and selecting the right sort of people to rule the country. Although, it was known to be a state which is JHARKHAND getting into the least of the developed state if a person sees the current scenario the country has seen Jharkhand emerging as one of the highest GDP ratio inclined state. If a person wants to know the fact and figures then they could go through the link which shows that the state has grown leaps and bounds along with getting overall development as a mantra which has put way the poverty of the people a lot more behind and the state machinery is running into profit giving a high five to the state in every matter of the statesmanship.

The report by Dainik Bhaskar shows the right development done by the people who are into parliament and other state affairs from this city who have become the country who's who:

https://www.bhaskar.com/jharkhand/ranchi/news/per-capita-income-increased-admission-of-girls-in-education-more-035659-3723091.html

P.S: So, what matters is the education which is not to be found in every city and state but the propaganda against one person who is the writer of this Blog page should be thought for once in LIFE. Although, I do not expect anything in return somewhere down the line I know that my respect is in my eyes and in the world which is not to be found in INDIANS who certainly degrade the value of education and the thought of getting ahead in life without taking any political aid!

Indians disrespect friendship although my cassmates were different!

If I who is truly an Indian born person have been surviving in this country since birth and 40 precious years has taught me that Indians disrespect friendship. They are born to take advantage of each other and are hardly into the mode of JAI-VEERU from Sholay or any other films which portray films as the saga of the true friendship bond.

If I remember my school days at "Holy Cross" my friends were at my supportive best including the male and female fraternity except for a few girls like Meghna Preet and not to include any other names as one was enough to destroy the ponds full of fish and lotus but thankfully the teachers acted more like friends rather than tormentors which helped me to spent my early childhood with love and compassion to the core of my heart and truly defined the School which termed "LOVE SERVICE" as the core of humanity. 

This made me less inclined towards my neighborhood and me as a student after spending from 8:00 A.M. at my school till 4 P.M. which was school timing I was fulfilled with love and laughter although not a disturbing element in the classroom but at the same time a joyful boy who knew how to please the teachers and students without crossing the line.

The students who were near and dear to me always helped me to gain a Super Star Status in the games field and I was the center of attraction as a Goalkeeper during Football games, a good basketball player irrespective of my height which is medium and a good serving boy while playing volleyball. So, all in all, I was a guy who showed very little disrespect and with little scolding by teachers started running into tears which certainly was not to gain any sympathy but at the chirpy best in the school bus and at times showing my little adamant nature on young ones which is the nature of a senior not to prove supremacy but to give fair amount of my own thought of mind.

I never had any affinity with multiple girls in the classroom in general and neither had the habit to run behind trees (which was not a part of school curriculum) as my way of life was to be more in touch with the guys rather than girls. So, much of the attitude towards giving answers to the class teachers only related to studies I scored a fair amount in Unit tests. But as it happened that when a big tree is replaced from one spot to another it gradually either dies or take time to survive and with leaving Holy Cross School after tenth class could not adjust in a school called G.G.P.S which has much of the traits of hooliganism rather than  compassion shown by teachers except a few such as Mr. Verghesee, Mr Thomas and Mrs Urvashi Talwar who never apprehended me in terms of any bad behaviour but was confined by the shameless teachers like Mr. Madan Kumar and Mr. Ashutosh Kr. Mehto who could not bring any student in the forefront and none of them were near to any students in terms of getting an iota of respect to be very true.

Now, talking about Indians disrespect friendship although my classmates were different has been stated in the earlier para now to justify it I would like to share some of the incidents from the office life spent at Delhi. With marketing including customer service being the work profile in which I have spent much of the time with the guys and now into Digital Marketing who were more inclined towards having one sole aim to either get into disrespectful ways in terms of behavior towards a soft-hearted person or at the same time not being competitive where they do not consider  to put work in the front ways but using all spurious ways to get most out of the job by going either the hefty way to beat a person or show the same attitude of ruining a person image by any means.     

Now, thinking about few of my deeds which did not gather good reason of calling me as a person with better thoughts was of not creating any hooliganism but fighting for my rights which is the trait of a person with good workmanship and thoughts. I remember to carry water and other necessary things for office-mates without showing any attitude which could not be seen in people of Bihar who consider themselves to be from princely states without having any much of things in life.

Also, the office which is considered to be a workplace with little fun has always been kept as the same in my mind where I use to work tirelessly sometimes working the entire night on the floor during the customer service operations and still not having any qualms about it.

On the contrary, If I remember my father's friend they have put much of the negativity in the mind where they use to dine at our home including the relatives and then use to spit literally by showing their hefty attitude at Bokaro Steel City making my father a matter of negativity in his mind which certainly infuriated him and sometimes his anger use to spill back on both of us me and my sister who were the best of the siblings. The reason due to which we did not get inclined on the latter half of our lives towards any kind of relationship towards the cousin or any other such as maternal and paternal uncles including the father's friends who were none the less a bloodsucker or parasites.

So, as a person, if I have to be asked about keeping a relationship with friends in India or as Indians one should keep very less friendship and it is better to keep them at bay rather than sharing the food and drinks as it boomerangs in a bad manner in life to come when those people turn out to be more of the friends who have not shared foods with you. As the Indians at any place try to exploit the person who has a richer family background by fucking within the family and if the family ties are a little weak then they are fucked by outsiders who treat them with the same disrespect. 

So, the more famous you are the more you have to pay back with everything including your heart and there are very few who understand the right chords and act accordingly without showing you disrespect which is being a matter of words to term the character as abusive but not to be friend of friends which is shown by the people of the countries in Western side of the world.

Is changing of name and make-up a gamesmanship to find success!

With Bihar is in the News After all the Brouhaha about Super 30, One thing could be said that the saga could be full of attitude and non-glamourous lifestyle attached to the students who tried to enact in Super 30 with no more being the extras whether in terms of having the disabled thoughts in the society who may feel free to be born out of rejection and dejection. If anybody knows their life from near or far one could understand that none must have given the value to education and certainly must be from the character which has come out from the manhole to give the life a polished attitude just to show the colored feather.

If a person who is into IIT shows the character rather than the wish of giving and understanding the importance of being a math whiz kid as IIT is not about being a mathematician but it has given much of the answer to the society by giving better social beings who do not only turn out to be a single entity but become an entire generation builder after gaining the status of an IITian. So, Anand Kumar Super 30 is almost a failure these days as the educational institutes are not about the person helping them to grow but first of all if we see in an admission in Nursery the parents are first of all interviewed so as to understand how much the family is inclined towards helping the student to get into the study mode. 

The state of Bihar which has its own state of mind where students from cities like Patna and Darbhanga along with many other cities first try to put an impetus on driving an auto so that in case if they do not achieve something in life will immediately take the street to drive an auto and earn their own money must be showing the right way which is all about earning their bread and milk at the first instance rather than thinking about continue with the studies. This is the reason the area which starts from Gorakhpur although, in Uttar Pradesh and them moving towards Darbhanga, Bihar is the much of the zone which can be seen to be much of the porous side into Nepal giving a new headache to the Indian Union in terms of  helping in running all kinds of syndicate including prostitution. So, one has to understand that if India considers China to be a threat it is alarming that they have made inroads to Nepal and with Biharis taking all advantage of their languages and ethnicity much to the Nepali people where much of the Bihar Population is ruling in the form of Madhesi who are the Brahmins of Maithili origin such as Jha and others it makes easy to get into creating different kinds of ploy to run various gangs from Madhubani to Siwan and other such places.  

Bihar is a state where the much of crime along with the threatening of life and material is avoided by changing of a name. If  it is a life-saving tactic or one could say that getting more out of  a better name which is done through legal ways to give impetus to live it makes the life to run on a better side and at the same time if one thinks that is changing of name and make-up a gamesmanship to find success then certainly at one point of time it falls flat as it does not lead to help the person for a better way to grow in life but somewhere give jitters in life from which one could only survive with having some heavyweight person to be in tow and leading life with a murkier smile which does not give happiness in the long run.

Understanding the facts with relevant Webpage:

https://www.travelchinaguide.com/china-trains/nepal/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/China–Nepal_border

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/India-Nepal_border

Super 30: My own opinions & views about the Bihari Icon!

With much of the hype to the movie Super 30 when the Superlative Anand Kumar is not at his super best and IIT's are not the same as much of the syllabi has got changed as the Technology Institute has become a full-fledged institute where they are also teaching humanities and thus many avenues have sprung up. So, talking in terms of Super 30 which was heard in the Late '90s and certainly many households in the Patna as capital was looking into taking the coveted batch for getting into the IIT's through Anand Kumar Coaching classes people could see him offering many in millions  for helping with coaching not only to underprivileged but to the super-rich as well which he vehemently denied.

Now, here selecting the Super 30 as a batch was not only confined to get someone from the poorest background and then trying to make him a genius but it was more about helping only the meritorious from the poor and helping him to grow in life.

Here, the education system of Bihar is still to the same where the schools are in a dilapidated condition, all others who are into public schools are much into the show-off characters who turn out only to become a sticker personality where they try to change to one single man or woman from the public domain who may have got above else to represent the society and ultimately become a menace to the society and the public. 

If ever you get a chance to visit Bihar by train you will find how much of the filth could be found in every bogie and  station in terms of humans who are primitively backward in thoughts and their actions and most of them try to own the resource of others by loot, arson and every other possible way which could even be seen in terms of "luteri Dulhan" who is a common adage these days where women try to get married to some better household and then try to rob them off.

Also, creating rumors is a part and parcel of life and taking anybody for a ride through odd means is apart of their culture. Much of the education is divided into Hindi and English medium but the common crowd is the one who tries to ruin the image of women and then takes advantage out of it since their adolescent which is also a way the syndicate operates in the cities of Bihar and the women their try to save their own ass by sacrificing other family members.

So, all in all, I would like to say that only the Super '30s by Mr. Anand Kumar does not change the perspective of education in Bihar and getting selected into IIT is not only the end but the journey becomes tougher after that in terms of campus selection where the real merit comes out and there only the polished diamonds are selected for companies which pay them in crores while the others who are not into the mode of studies could only join the IIT but do not become anything which could be said to be great as the companies like Google or Microsoft choose only one out of IIT's every year and not the Super 30's from there as they look for the image of their own company first and not the brand IIT which has made India a country of better engineers and socialites like Chetan Bhagat and Harsha Bhogle who are from the IIT and IIM respectively but into different fields rather than getting inclined towards joining some companies where they would have given their contribution only towards machines or any particular industry domain. 

Propaganda does not make you bigger in Life!

There are Propaganda and also Propagandist who believe in creating ruckus out of every possible opportunity in life to make either name, fame or money. One has to understand that on certain issues in life the more a person gets muted the more it becomes fun to remember in the later days of life. If the life carries on in its own style even after many debacles it makes sense that the God has kept the records of the good and the bad deeds and thus he or she has given much of the better ways to lead the life either through many new and fairways.

I personally, my opinion is concerned about any kind of spat in life I feel that targeting one single person does not make you better and neither you should expect him or her to get laid before you without any concrete reasons. It is very much thoughtful like being a kid from where one has the curiosity of either getting into the path of every girl, boy or person and ask some odd questions and for that one is bound to give some quirky answer which makes some sense for a few and for other it might be utter nonsense.   

Now, thinking about making a question about demeaning someone's value by getting harsh on him and always trying to plot against him by keeping him on the center of the plot makes the person ineffective from inside and it sometimes leads to brain hemorrhage or tumor as down the line the mind somewhere strikes that I have to become better than him or her. 

Growing in life is a continuous process and it goes from one generation to another and all those who believe that getting confined to one particular person, place or thing gives them an upper hand in life could not make out anything out of it. Also, all those primitive theories of the people from Bihar who get into the rigid caste system ultimately has to suffer in life as with time the change in lifestyle and thoughtful ways makes our life altogether in a different thought process. If I try to buy some food item from a vendor and even if he tries to take some time in giving it to me I try to be my wittiest best and find smiling face of the child to be more bemused of his character and enjoy the moment rather than showing some supremacy which was seen to be in the behavior of many people who were not of that rich thought but considered themselves to be from a royal blood. Also, such people should never be given any reminders in life as they are already or almost down and out and they have only one way to retaliate which could be understood by the civilized person in a better manner.

Although, I personally thank my father that he tried his best to keep the lives of our two siblings on two different schools where I and my sister did not study together in the same school and went into each other's school after leaving Class Xth. Here, in my sister joined my school which I fondly have many sweet memories i.e. The Holy Cross and I joined G.G.P.S after Class Xth which was the most sorrowful school which has given me nothing but only wooden duster on my head and hands by Mr. Madan Kumar and Mr. Ashutosh Mehto along with many other teachers which still has those painful memories etched in the back of my mind.

So, I think that rather trying to be revengeful in any kind of relationship and setting propaganda does not make you bigger in life but certainly pulls you back much down under and when I see back into my life I feel that the statement "One who is down needs fear no fall" does not imply on me as I remain grounded throughout my life without raising hand on my seniors and juniors except in few cases and also in spite of being beaten and bruised by the public in general or by few teachers I never thrashed them back and wait for God to intervene in a better way to teach something good to the culprit in the time to come!

Feel surprised to know myself as a Middle Class Dream Child!

Sometimes. life takes an uncanny twist and turns with it where a person does not know about his social presence since childhood. I remember that as a guy during the Nursery school at Lions Club International, Sector 3, Bokaro Steel City, I was much into a healthy boy from thoughts and mind and use to prepare for joining a Bigger school of our city which was Holy Cross. My father Mr. Upendra Vidyarthi, who was working at SAIL, Bokaro Steel Plant was friendly with me since childhood and me along with my sister use to ride a tricycle to Sector 4, where I carried my sister on the back seat of the cycle and my father uses to accompany me.

Those were the sweetest and the fondest of the memories and the most precious moments of my childhood where it was a daily evening chore. The whole family was an entire bunch of happy unit including my grand-parents, Two Chacha, Bua, and the entire city use to look our own. I joined Holy Cross in the year 1984 during March and till then everything was O.K. but my father has got his own quarter and we moved to a more of a different kind of neighborhood where every home as almost 3-5 children whereas the family of ours have only two children and we have to listen so many of times " Arrey aapke 2 hi bachhe hai...kharche kuch bhi nahi...etc..etc!!!

I was not very much fond of my neighbors and neither I tried to be on any kind of fighting with them barring a few instances. I got my first educational certificate and prize when I come out as First in the Class during L.K.G and I was, of course, elated but as it happens that when I reached U.K.G my Class Teacher in the parents teacher meeting told me that it is not necessary to be first in the class but it is far more necessary to understand the studies and it will make you altogether a different person in life.

I think that boomeranged in my mind as I have the habit to mug up things which are akin to a student of L.K.G or so but gradually in the question and answer during exams and its preparation my father insisted me to study on my own without the help of guides and help books and I started putting more stress on finding out the answers on my own. This lead to a continuous struggle in the evenings and I put much stress in finding out the answer and spending considerable time in giving time to my studies.

Although I was not much inclined towards maths still I use to get good numbers except when the teacher was miss Kauvery Chaudhary, whom I was hardly fond of because of her hefty attitude. Now, talking about the statement I feel surprised to know myself as a Middle-class dream child as the family has a dream of giving emphasis on education and my both "bua" i.e.Rita Ji and Rekha Ji was also educated to graduate level although from Hindi Mediums.

On the contrary, my mother's family has more show-off creatures who tried to create much of the ruckus in life and they tried to take advantage of my father's money and his worth but still, my father vehemently denied it, due to which he was not in his good books. In spite of not being popular as a person in the neighborhood, my family was the most doted one and everybody uses to give importance to us except a few by the name of Raju Rai and his family along with T.N. Pandey who was adamant in showing all kinds of bad behaviors towards us.

Also, girls across all ages use to give me much of the importance and I was becoming the cynosure of all eyes still my grandparents have put some sort of mantra in my ear which use to make me wary of girls and also any little mistake use to cost me as I was although very much dutiful towards my parents but they never allowed me to get overboard under any circumstances.

Although, the city was totally divided into the lines of two where the tag was workers and officers my father who was a born socialist was a foreman in his capacity which was the post of junior level engineer as he joined with the tag of J.O.T still he insisted to stay away from the tag of officers and took his own style akin to Dharmendra Ji whom he use to emulate without the style of flexing his muscles.

So, our life was quite a beautiful one and the surprise addition to the family was a dog which made the family complete but to say anything about our teachers I would like to say that almost all the teachers in our school were from high socialite background but they never showed any discrimination towards caste, creed and color or races belonging to any ethnicity thus making a class in their own.

Although one can say that during the earlier 80's people certainly were not inclined towards family planning, savings and investments but my father was of different thoughts and he insisted on having a family of two children and parent  and at the same time putting emphasis on educating the girl child due to which my sister Sweta completed her IHM, PUSA Bengaluru exams in a great way and today she is a great person in her own capability while I have also been on top of any career path with learning by the help of teammates and fulfilling the expectation of my manager although beaten and betrayed by people of Bokaro Steel City, still fighting back with the help of friends who are nearer than anyone else in life at this point of time!