Patriarchy is always a character but the mother always destroys a Child!

Well after attaining adulthood and understanding the world through my own eyes I would like to share my views on all the hip and hoopla going over the patriarchy which is a volatile subject these days. When one goes through movies like Thappad, which I have not seen but through promos and other related reviews over the internet I understood that it is just a way to express the anger and dissent which goes across the mind of the protagonist for a long period of time. When one sees that the father is busy with his own life which could be the work as it is the only way to earn the livelihood and the mother sets the child free with the tagline Ignorance is the Bliss then certainly it is easy for the woman to put all the blame on father who may get into the way at times.

In any age what the woman wants is her basic freedom which is about having multiple relationships with either the king or the pauper as she hardly discriminates between the mind, body, and soul and in spite of her believing that a human is just a bodily form she forgets that there is something in the mind which is all about putting the soul of the man who could be the father, brother or any male member of the family at risk first and then asking the person who could be the would-be or boyfriend to get bad mostly before father to feel him kneel down or naked in his mind.

This is the worst thing that happens in the life of a father and that is the reason all those who are not blessed with a girl child feel free at any time and remain with ease in life. Just think about the days when your father must have pleaded with the eyes or at times must have raised hands on you to curb your instinct, is all because he must be aware how the world reacts on all your insignificant behavior before her which you do to make him feel downtrodden. At times the male member of your family may get weak before you but then, of course, it is you who has to take the charge in the most prolific manner and staying away from humans with the sense of maintaining a safe distance is the best thing to do. 

The one thing is for sure that however weak your husband may feel or look and whether the society likes him or discard him the aura which is superficial understand him better and the mother nature certainly bestows him with the charm which cannot be ignored. So, at any times if the man is not found to be guilty in his life the superintelligence which prevails in various life forms give him back everything which is akin to love, life and laughter and certainly it could not be understood by a woman who always terms every other person to be cheap. The person who is a man or woman does not get birth with a religion or a sect but his inner thought and behavior define the religion which transcends in the thought process and in long terms the woman who are more liberal in thought choose the man across different religion which she feels to be near and has understood all according to her own comfort level.

Now, getting back to the point patriarchy is always a character but the mother always destroys a child by saying in her own language that let the child be free and learn everything on their own but certainly all around her she is unaware about her own words which shake her from within and she could be seen wandering aimlessly either in the thought or at times when the child is either at school or anywhere else.

Remember, if you speak to someone about your gild child that isse to aap hi bada kijiyega, which is like you will take care of her, certainly the looks will be lagta hai aap abhi tak badi nahi hui, pehle aapko bada kar doo which is like let me make you bigger first and then certainly it is upto you whether you keep your life in a latch or lurch as life fights back worst than anything else on planet and it revolves around your soul!