India is a country where the bad you are the more praiseworthy the world is for you. One thought after others let me think that anyone of us who has vague principles in life could be good to society in his own ways is not liked by the general people and even at times by their own parents, teachers, friends, and relatives. It is not true that you have to be a very handsome personality or be super rich to do some odd things in life until you are Sri Charles Sobhraj. But any person who could be weaker in looks could do bad to you under your nose which could be understood by those days when the entire Hindi movie or Bollywood was like showing the servants overturning the Seth or the landowners and vice-versa.
It is very common thinking that the person who is near to you may overturn your life in a very wayward way and you just can't do anything out of it. People play with the biggest thing which is Caste system and much of them are into all sorts of ditching, treachery and moreover getting into the household of each other by taking the help of titles or surnames and it leads to utter disgust that after getting the truth the person says actually I am Chamar or anything else by the caste but since you were propagating that everybody is equal so I decided to adopt a bigger title and get into your helm.
The other thing is that the woman's weakness or wicked sense both cost you more than anything else in life and once they get into your life they could either destroy you or make you something which you can never understand. My personal ideology and belief were all because of my first kindergarten school which was Lions Club International, where most of the time the school lady teachers with names which I remember as Pandey Aunty or the Principal Miss Bedi helped me to understand the life's perspective ad the importance of schooling during the early '80s. Also, they taught me the bigger meaning of the family system and also the middle-class culture which was too many extents similar to the thoughts at my home which were a joint family under Sri Chitranjan Prasad who is my great Grandfather.
I was in very much awe of them and never took to any kind of bashing against them but certainly would say that the more I tried to give the good vibes for them and keeping them get rid of all tensions including the abrasive behavior of my maternal home people who were constantly behind them to get the better out of them and make them feel low before the society.
I could understand all the scenario very soon at an early age and was the person asking my father to leave his father's home and start with a small family so that none of us should face any issues in life and thankfully this way worked well in life at least for my grandparents, other elders like Bua, Chacha and many others in the society.
Also, the same strategy was adopted by me in school days where most of the time the classroom was always into a great cheerful mode and I never ever took advantage of any girl or boy classmates and even teachers. Within the weakest of the situations in life (which happened only few times with me), I first took the thought of being good before getting into any shameful act but unfortunately after I never took any advantage of friends, teachers or neighbors and got negative vibes my belief on Indian social system just could not make me feel easy as the more good you are the more blows you face in life and people who are stronger have to face issues when they become old and then society gets back to them which shows that Indians are not less than any anarchist in any possible ways and nobody could change their mindset which is either Sri Kejriwal or Sri Modi ji.
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