I always avoid controversies and controversial icons!

Always thought of mind has been drifting in the sense that opportunity lost is opportunities found. It cannot be compared with Bus, train or Ladki hamesha aati hai,,,kind of thinking which could be from some better entertainer movie. The motive remains the same to be good to others and then to myself. If I remember very early days of my life at School one of the boy who was the elder son of Sri Akhauri Ji from Bokaro Steel City visited our school in disguise as we have the same school uniform which was of D.A.V i.e White Shirt and Brown Pant. The boy whose name was not exactly remembered me got confronted by the friends during games period while playing football and before the brawl could take any ugly instance I interrupted and let him go safe. 

Although, I was surprised to hear that after many years of life he turned out to be a better foe and felt to an extent of giving back his remorse which could be the extra effort of his own mind. Similarly, when I look back the entire 40 years of life as the first two years a person is not obvious much about the surroundings the more I have saved people they went exactly against me with the thinking that was I trying to be a superhero which certainly my mind was never to be. 

It seems that the vigil in their mind which is more of woman-oriented has transcended every other thing and the thought of the mind which gives them solace is that they could be have been a better person with any woman whom certainly I never asked to be or rather not to be. Remembering, every other incidence sometimes whether, in the name of having a positive thought for the Bengali Ekta or the Singh Society along with the Bigger Bhumihar agenda, I could find myself to be on the better side were saving a person's life stood to be more of importance rather than asking him or her that am I the person behind your disgusting thoughts.

The same could be said about many such thoughts where the man in need is a man indeed rather than a friend in need is a friend indeed as friendship is merely a cheap terminology these days. Simply, speaking if I say that 40 years of my life has countless of those incidences where I have given back to the society rather than asking any bigger solace from them whether in the name of games, sports or general well-being.

This could be the reason that I always avoid controversies and controversial icons and when the so-called people find themselves to be at the receiving end then instead of thinking about the better return I have given them in life the cursing becomes easy for them as to curse is to add some better prospects by saying Dushman ka Dushman Dost Hota Hai...and with that, I always laugh off and move away thinking two incidences when an entire bunch of women was trying to drown a kid in City Park, Bokaro Steel, saying that if he is Kanhaiya he could save himself and the other could be many other days in life where I do not create hoax about any people or incidence and thus hardly malign anyone's image!