One should become a Self-Admirer & Self-Lover first "By Sonali Nautiyal"!

One night when my sister Sweta Srivastava was doing an Internship under The Hyatt, Bikaji Cama Place, New Delhi, I had a chance meeting to interact with her batchmate Miss Sonali Nautiyal who was the batchmate of my sister under Institute of Hotel management.

I was an Executive at Shelters and had a carefree attitude liked by fewer girls and boys as I was too busy in making my Career into Marketing, although I was good at managing my personal relationship with everyone. So, there I was coming back to home but I use to have my own mobile phone and as usual my sister called me and said a friend by this name has come to visit at home and if you can please get some Biryani packet for her.

I obliged immediately and bought two packets of Chicken Biryani, from Anand Restaurant, K.G. Marg, New Delhi as my office was at Shelters, Connaught Place, Surya Kiran Building. Once I reached home I found her to be a good girl who had few words with her to say and I was the same as timid and shy but remember one thing from my friend, not to be named that never rely on Delhiites in a matter of girls. They eat food from your hand take away your money and then before getting rid of you they just kick on your back and leave you forever.

Almost, the same thing happened with me as my Sister also went away very forward in life and the girl also did not come back and I took my own life towards studying and moving fast into the career but still I remember the statement which I have written as a headline. One should become a self-admirer & self-lover first " By Sonali Nautiyal.

Her personal attributes:

• I believe she still must be thinking about me 
• She is beautiful may be very fair and full of shine in hair and cheeks
• She talks a lot and is over-friendly
• She is afraid of no one and at times can slap you hard
• She is robust and may be good at everything
• We never got intimate as I was not that close
• I never dream of her as we both took to different ways

So, as she has said once that one should become a self admirer and self-lover because in today's scenario there is no one who could come near of far to you. You are your own boss, your own inspiration and your own leader who has to get ahead in your life and that also on your own. Not, even your parents stay back with you or give backing and sometimes it is seen that the over caring parents of yours may become over jealous of your achievements if you surpass them in terms of looks and career graph, thankfully which did not happen with me as my father was always better than me in looks, style, and performance.

I would always love to get the same set of friends back in my life because I have achieved what they wanted from me. They were aware of my talent and wanted me to hold a Masters's Degree in life which I have got through Maters of Sociology,  and soon I will be trying for the Ph.D. in Sociology and once they get back the fun including all group of friends in life. Because once they all will get back in life my life will be fuller again as I am staying alone but with my mother from July 2016 to this day of the year!