Gradual growth is better than unlimited success!

In the Indian sub-continent, if we see any field whether film, television or any Government sector people get promotions or in the case of movies they are suddenly worshipped by their fans. All the adulation and craze about cricket players could be seen with their few performances and people keep them on their heads and shoulders. Once, they reach the crescendo of their life they are found to be reaching a greater height of luxury and after that their downfall starts for many more years.

In between, they form many enemies who could be jealous of their achievements and thus it leads to a virtual fight and further the people who are not successful find it difficult to take the success of their counterparts who could have studied with them.

Just think about those stars like Sir Sachin Tendulkar who got booed in their own cricket grounds like Wankhede Stadium after performing with some bad knocks in few series. Even Mr. Mohammad Azharuddin who also faced bad vibes by people after his few dismal performances. Sri Kapil Dev has to cry publicly many times but nobody tried to wipe their tears. It is all because of the education system which is so much competitive that 10+2_3 is considered to be the formative years. If you are not good at all these years in education, you can venture into sports and any other field of your choice but you have to become successful to earn rupees and reputation. 

Also, to make matters worse not only because of the peer pressure but your own siblings try to overpower you if they find you to be a bit weak and the same is for the nephew and cousins who start overpowering you and further, the neighborhood do the same.

Now, if I think about gradual growth is better than unlimited success one could take the examples of countries like the USA and Canada where people after completing their formal education venture into the trade of their wish whether they become a truck driver or a train driver or the road worker. They remain happier with their lives and do not look for stupendous growth but try to earn money since childhood, make their own home at some Texas ranch keep domestic animals and remain happy with farming and other necessary things. This is the trait of a cowboy person in the USA. Now, people from India who go for becoming an IT entrepreneur put all their efforts into building the capital and wealth but ultimately stay at hurricane zone places and after buying homes are suddenly found to be surrounded by floodwaters and thus lose everything within moments. It s because the locals there are more aware of the climatic conditions and while the rich Indians are unable to think far and thus weigh their money in today's terms rather than thinking about tomorrow.

Now, thinking about the current China-America fiasco Indian entrepreneurs could immediately take the help of selling their goods to China because China was most of the time taking the help of American companies to produce their goods and services. 

Now, getting back to the point where thinking about gradual growth is better than unlimited success because stepping up is a continuous process and when people who are into movie reach the age of 40-45 years and are out of their particular role they feel bad about it and thus leads to problem in their life which leads to super-ego which crushes them. On the other hand, a common person does not have such issues and he continues his life with much of fulfillment and it takes him to a better lifestyle which he enjoys for many years in life.

To conclude one could say that if your child is not into the thought of being into running towards achievements let him feel free and then he or she will gradually make his own life in a better way through destiny which plays a greater role in life and other people have regrets left for underestimating the common man!