Being Sadist is a trait & should be abolished from mind!

Many a times when we are innocent and adolescent (which is a boy or a girl) under 18 i.e. not adult then we are bound to fall in love, temporarily or just an infatuation. Although, few of them are smart enough not to get into the mold of keeping their social behavior within their own check where they dare not to cross any path of dare-devilry. 

It is also not love but mockery of love where they have got so much of freedom from the parents still under being a bounded behavior which do not make them to stray wayward in life. For me it was the same thing as I kept thinking about love in small happiness like good food, good schooling, sweetmeat every weekend with new movies to watch at the nearby theater. The same was for my sister "Sweta Srivastava" who has her own bout of happiness as my father use to take care of her life in the same manner without creating any difference between me and her.

Now, coming back to the title which says "Being Sadist is a trait & should be abolished from mind" as it creates bigger harm to life and most of the time it happens due to dissatisfaction. If I remember I was never reprimanded by my teachers or fellow students in the name of showing any aggression of a sexual or explicit behavior with the classmates and I always drew a thicker line which kept my friends to behave in the same way because they were also from the same social background of high class educated and thoughtful person. 

Most of the time during parents teacher meeting the teachers used to praise each other students behavior and I was never the one who took any offensive measures in school days.N ow, think about the scenario where any particular person who becomes offensive and disrespectful and further get towards any crime or maybe going for an acid attack on women which is the sign of a jilted lover leads to the story line of the upcoming movie Chappak.

Just think about the impact on the life of a woman when she receive a serious stab wound because the spurned lover must have crossed all path and to seek her attention may have been giving a deeper impact through knife and sometimes the woman gets killed. Such, scenario are generally done by the juveniles and there comes the part played by moral education which is bigger than sex education in schools.

Our school which was Holy Cross at Bokaro Steel has a special subject which was moral science and it helped us to segregate our thought process to become a good citizen and it further helped in life. Although, for me sexual behavior still remained a taboo and after reaching 40 years of age I am still not free from mind to ask for sexual favors which does not make me desperate as I have seen that the more we do sex the more belonging feeling comes in our life to have it once with everyone and that leads to the enjoyment which could be harmful at times as money is not always the return gift for doing sex!