Thursday, 14 November 2019

Real Peer Pressure starts with your Ward admission into School!

Indian Schooling System itself is of such a great tension that it leaves the parents into the dual strait of mind. The moment the son or daughter takes admission into the school and with the time when he is sent to a school bus, the discussion starts from forefather to the father or the mother and comparison of the report card is not done only with the result of the neighboring children but the problem could be found with all the school kids.
The question in tandem will be the same, why your number is 46 or 56 in class, as the class teacher will have no time to calculate the actual result of students as compared to every classmate (which is not actually necessary) and the father will grudgingly ask so you are the lowest among the students but the number mentioned will be the total numbers of included students in class. If it is today's students he or she will say it is the case of bottoms up but earlier it was like you have to get it clarified by the teacher and the next year you will be given the cane all over your body to show the exact position in the class.
Still, the courage goes on and student somehow will be reading every answer by heart and after a few years in the third unit test, he will be getting more than 26 marks in almost every subject including maths out of 30 but again the person who is loafing around and singing Nayak nahi khalnayak hu mai...and the guy in me will say dikhne me nalayak hai tu..so the city will hold another grudge to continue for generations or decades.
So, with due respect, my heart got content when I become an adult after 32 years and got a kid without IVF treatment and felt O.K. about it but decided to be easy on the fact that whether the son stays among the studious one or become a Nalayak it was not my matter of concern, I will earn for my own bread and butter along with being good to myself. It was all because of some idiot out of that third world generation use to say Hame jab bhagwan pet diya hai to Roti bhi wahi khilayga...and much of the people got misguided by him whom I do not want to be named (actually here goes the name below). He could still be seen loitering around making people feel afraid of him and certainly, there is no respect for him but people must certainly be fearing "Rajesh Bhaiya" who has a semi-dacoit status at Bokaro Steel City, Sector 3 C.
So, talking about peer pressure starts with your ward admission into School, thankfully today's generation out of whom much are convent educated know the value of the study, play and creative activity which has helped to lift their children up and become more confident about their own thought process and they will certainly come-up trumps as compared to the 80's generation who were more of a distinctive feature of Paap ko jala kar rakh kar dunga...and the first papi or culprit was someone in his or her thoughts who did not allow them to go astray and tried to make a sincere citizen out of him or her!


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