There are people who could be your senior, junior or the peer in your office. The equation must be good with you or anyone else but a person with a good heart is hard to find. People all over the world have one thing in mind which is to create a ruckus, find the best way to hurt someone and then pull out an advantage from him or her. I remember my early days in childhood when life was less ordinary for many among us, still, the schooling was provided by the parents with the best of the ways. The people who themselves have got good education carry with the belief that the ward or the child should get equivalent education. But what one has to say to the person who believes that she could do each and everything in life without creating much difference in the life of others. If I remember then I have seen that in spite of every good or bad aspect my mother Kiran Bala Devi stood to be a gem of a person and helped me to survive good and bad times without making me too innocent in life which surely does not match with the lifestyle these days.
The same could be said about my father Mr. U. Vidyarthi and sister Sweta Srivastava who put emphasis to give me pep talks and make me understand life values and the way to survive in this world. Today, after reaching 40 years of my life I do not find any person who could be a long-fought enemy for me as I always tried to keep myself confined to my thoughts and never had any illegitimate child in my life along with no sexual intimacy with any women whether in office or at any place. That was not the thought of any superiority complex and neither I felt weaker in front of women but the only thought was to understand a woman first and then carry a good fulfilling relationship with her.
The only issue which comes out in my way was that in this time of instant sexual gratification people are not concerned about a person with a positive frame of mind is not to be found in the world. The world has certainly become a place where people get into each other ways to get sexually satisfied and then move on. But what about the person who is macho in the sense of carrying his own burden but look towards the life which could cuddle him give him full love and make him feel equal in her eyes without demoralizing him. It's basically about being a nurturer rather than getting notorious and then make issues in life by spreading rumors which is a way to make a man feel surrender before the woman and take as much advantage out of him.
If I relate to some Bollywood movie then my thought process is about Miss Perizad Zorabian and Mr. Rahul Bose in the movie Mumbai Matinee which is very close to my heart and it is a very meaningful movie to understand about the sexual relationship and give importance to love and sexual life without the big word or terminology associated with it which is called "EXPLOITATION".
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