Winter time Deodorant creates more bad odour than the sweat!

Wintertime in Northern India is of the laziest one where people, whether they are a student or office goers, try to avoid taking bath and spray deodorant on the body to smell good. They put the best of the Deo whether it is the Axe, Park Avenue or maybe any other. The basic principle during winter is that the pores of the skin are less open and sweating is very rare but still the person in us to feel fresh put the deodorant instead of bathing.

It is very true that one cannot take a bath every other day and there are people who take a bath once a week. The simple way to avoid the bad smell or odor is not to put the deodorant in the armpit or anywhere else and the Nivea creme, Ayur Milk Cream or Else any lotion by Patanjali could work which should be put in the armpit where you can feel the sweat or bad smell to occur.

The issue with deodorants is that they have too heavy aerosol and other chemicals that put layers after layers on the body and soon the armpits become black in color and then it is difficult to remove that black stain which sticks forever with the body. Also, applying winter time deodorants creates a more bad odor than the sweat and instead of doing it one could put any perfume on the cloth and wear it easily. Also, the perfume has a different kind of mix which creates immediate itching and can also give you rashes on your skin as it is a heavy concentrate so it is always better to use the perfume on the clothes and handkerchief thus helping the person in you to look more professional and articulate.

The food habits are another better thing to be taken into consideration as winter is the time when one goes through too much intake of coffee and tea but we forget that too much of caffeine and nicotine adds to any kind of issues and it's side effects carry on to another season of the year. So, to keep your skin glow intact and more beautiful which is the consideration of both sex these days it is necessary to have an equal amount of water. One could substitute the water with coconut water but it has to be noted that everyone cannot go for the coconut water as it is costlier. So, occasionally you can squeeze a lemon in your water bottle with a little bit of sugar or honey and take a gentle sip after every ten minutes or so to keep the skin hydrated in the long run.

In that case, it makes sense that instead of drinking aerated drinks which are better for summer one could go for the plain water and also if possible one could drink half a glass of plain water before drinking tea or coffee to neutralize the effect of caffeine in the body.

If the skin or the face becomes dry it is always good to apply Pond's cold cream which is in anyways cheaper these days and the small packet just costs you Rs 10 and since Winter is a very mushy month so before you take the flower from someone immediately do not start smelling it as it can have some surprise element like chloroform to give you a dizziness instead of giddiness which can immediately give the chance to the chimpanzee to take you on his hiding and from there on you can spend your entire month in captivity as one could understand that winter is the time of many fairytale romances to bloom or get killed forever! 

In India Managers don't have hiring but fucking problems!

Well, whether it is a private corporation or a Government Organization, Indian Managers face elaborate issues where few days after hiring the man and women start showing their chameleon instinct. After getting hired and breaking the ice syndrome which is a new way of onboarding and understanding the job instead of creating the name by knowing the nuances of workman and woman immediately try to find out the simple loopholes to get towards the bed and enjoy intimacy from managers.

In case, if the manager is macho and has power in terms of manhood to face the world with multiple orgasms with different women things go smoothly for him for few years, after which the issues starts where the Director starts finding the loopholes even if he is able to work better with his subordinates. Also, once the manager becomes weak in terms of having a sexual relationship the office atmosphere goes for a toss and however rich or influential he is the issue becomes out of control and the woman takes the undivided affection on her to get divided into other subordinates. Once the crescendo is reached the male manager has to either switch his job or have to face the taunts of every other person and he feels the burden in his life which could be about the double edge sword.

The same could be said about the female managers who just could not get hold of the corporation until she if gets cozy to one person, has to share her body with many other men as people try to overpower her and then her self respect goes for a toss. Under any circumstances the situation becomes unbearable and although she tries to take control of the situation she has to face multiple taunts everywhere whether if she goes to the petrol pump or grocery store the same greedy eyes follow her everywhere.

On the other hand, there are few loyal people who understand the world and its limitations in a better way and believe that today's issue of harassing the female or male colleague will cost them their better tomorrow. Their thinking leads them to many hardships as whether it is the male or female behavior their own ego hurts in a manner where they think that the subordinate not coming under him or the male manager may overpower and could topple to take the place in the eyes of management.

So, however beautiful or good a manager is he or she should never believe in the office romance especially and if she or he does so then it should not be with the subordinates which are junior colleagues however good he or she is. It should be done outside the office and to that level where their name should not be considered in their derogatory list thus making their career spic and span which should help them to continue with a great lifestyle forever as in India even if you beat a dog or kill an ant it is remembered for many days and then taunts are for free forever!

"Many of the world's greatest next of Kin remain Vagabonds"

Whether it is India or world the common things which happen in the society is that "Business Man Works" whether he is in Service or is into any other profession and here in business does not stand for the man working as Self Employed but all kinds of people who put their duty first in life. So, one could say that in life a person who puts the priority to work or study is denied much of the times in terms of love and laughter and the other people who are dependent on the wealth take advantage of his money.

For any small or big thing in life, the man who is wicked or have an unsolicited thought of mind takes advantage of the weaker section which could be woman or girls in his family and thus tries to take advantage by creeping into their home and further start blackmailing the woman folks to get much out of her. In one way we could say that the person in question could not be your son or daughter who may take advantage of your belongings and life but the near and far relatives along with your friends or the friends of women folks who are always in the insight of taking advantage of any weaker thoughts and from there on exploiting the woman for many more years to come.

These people could be of specific blackmailer's tribe and so is the thought of their children who have seen such behavior in their household and become a terrible headache in other ways by giving priority to themselves in terms of love and sex and go to any extent to make or break any household. Also, the habit of such a person is to put their failure in life on other's people's heads and from there on behaving the same manner to get more by putting themselves as dice or pawns in the life of others. Such people immediately give all the advantage into other's people live and most of the time such behavior could be seen nowadays in the menfolk who remain unsuccessful and most of them turn out to be nothing but into a therapist of a different kind who could be masseurs or other such activities governed by the people who are weaker in terms of money and also are not into any particular hobbies which could fetch them money with respectful ways.

So, such people form a ring around the rich man and woman and many of the world's greatest next of kin remain vagabonds who could be from certain illiterate groups but could show their hefty ways to overpower woman and man and this happens within the upper-middle class where for every small thing one cannot bring in the security guards or Police. Their women also to some extent are of the same thought process and try to play as a hooker and thus give preferences to money rather than characters and thus could not find themselves to be in the better thought process of civilized citizens.

With most of the thought process tilting towards those people who remain confined to their own thoughts and family members and the law of the land which is Police who understands the behavior of a man or woman immediately such people generally remain an eyesore in public eye's and the blackmailers are taught better lessons in life by society who in return run for a long time behind any particular family people as they must have been declined in the general life and people could have understood their motive which may remain a thorn in their flesh forever! 

Achieving milestones in life without greasing palms remains in our family!

Well after many days of continuous writing I, Mukesh Kumar, feel to get into the mode of writing about my own family since my forefathers or let's say the earlier generations. When a few years back after completing my diploma in Digital marketing I changed my path drastically towards content writing I immediately started getting jobs due to better writing skills and that helped me to gain confidence with trying my wish to complete my Masters in Art from Sociology and my numbers were good enough in terms of final results which I got 56.8%.

This has given a mouth full of jibes to the people who always considered me mediocre before them and I started preparing and continue my studies after the age of 32 years which shows that there is no age for studying and if there is an inbuilt thought of getting into the mode of studies one could get much into the thought process which one could govern at any moment in life.

The same could be said about my father Mr. Upendra Vidyarthi, where he always taught us of all the hardship which he has seen in life and still his name remains in the words of Gold at Bokaro Steel Plant, Jharkhand as he put all his sweat and blood while working and earned praise from his officers. He too has seen much of hard work and dedication in life and his life remains an inspiration for me although his illustrious life was all about governing his own ways where he never took any offenses in his life and lead a life of being very much secure and sincere giving us enough in return with the terms of social security.

The same could be said about Mr. Chitranjan Prasad who was my great grandfather and he was a person working at Employment Exchange as the Bada babu and put all his emphasis to choose the right person for many government organizations and his work could be considered as illustrious as anyone else in terms of nation-building. His career was very illustrious in the sense that he never differentiated between caste, creed, and religion and give them the equal status of thoughts to all including Scheduled Caste, Scheduled Tribe and General people. Being a Srivastava which is an Upper caste in the Indian Caste system he still took all the care for the people from lower caste to uplift them and never took to bribe for helping with employment to others. The people who were most near to him from his office were Mr. Karu Ram and many others who use to have tea and snacks at our home and me as a kid used to sit on their laps where various wise discussions about the then status of the country use to get discussed at length.

The next to my father was an elder brother Mr. Rajesh Kumar, who was better  known as Pappu use to have all the fancy lifestyle as he also started working at Bokaro Steel Plant and he looked smart in the way which is akin to tall, dark and handsome and he was taking me to watch various films and circus which use to come at near theatre and circus ground at Bokaro Steel City. His way of life was very carefree and he was the most lovable person in the neighborhood. 

The smallest one is Mr. Rajeev Ranjan Srivastava who was very much fair in skin color and in thoughts as he always tries to build his reputation by earning his own money for studies and got a job at LIC without paying any bribes. He was good at arithmetic and commerce based activities and kept away most of the ugly characters form our life including me and my sister Sweta Srivastava by keeping a watchful eye on our behavior till we did not become an adult.

The other beautiful lady who was the elder bua in our home was Miss Rekha who kept a low profile as she was totally under the sewa thoughts for the husband Mr. Awadesh Kumar Srivastava who was into education department at Bihar Government and he has his own social presence in various secretariat and other big government offices in Bihar and Central Government.

The smallest girl in the house before my sister was Miss Rita Srivastava who is still very beautiful and completed her graduation at a young age and further got married to a person by the name of Mr. Tapeshwar Lal, who was a manager at Gramin Bank in Bihar and he was a simple yet honest person.

The above all character is Mrs Arti Devi, The Great Grandmother who always taught us to be a better human being and her words were very much into the deeper sense of life and she was solely responsible for building my moral character and the authority in me was all because of her sense of uplifting me and my thoughts.

My sister, Sweta Srivastava, who was the only one in my house never use to show too much in terms of studies but she was the best as she took care of any person coming to the home like nephew and niece along with cousins and has a very pure character as well as humble creating her own social presence. She completed her Hotel Management soon after completing her 10+2 Exams from Pusa and took to great heights in life.

My mother Kiran Bala Devi, who remained dutiful towards us throughout our student days in terms of preparing food and other necessary things like school handwork was the pillar of support for the family and was known to separate us from the anti-social elements who could be found anywhere in the society and the block and always use to keep an eye on our ways of thinking and life which helped us to become better human being.

Now, this remained my family tree and the most beautiful of the entry was of my Dog Moti who was a brown color Indian Breed dog who took care of us since childhood days and was the true companion due to which I remain near to the mother nature and also the God who is omnipresent in every soul.

So, if I say that our entire family system where everybody has achieved success on their own never begged for anything and achieving milestones in life without greasing palms remains in our family which is just an example of a shining and illustrious career whereas people from various other walks of life talk either too big for themselves or define to be a one with the tags of officers are still very much hollow from inside which could be seen in their behaviour.

So, one could say that we as a person were always fond of our father and forefather and learned about Duty comes first through their ways of work and thankfully the life building through better molding ways remained in us and we faced all the beautiful circumstances without turning evil in life!

"What for is Women Empowerment when they rake issues out of ZERO!"

Since childhood in India, we all must be hearing "Women Empowerment". It actually means giving respect to women, uplifting them, protecting them to some extent and then also fulfill their wishes without overpowering them. It could be something which could be since time immemorial but has got changed with Ramayana. The very ancient scripture of Hindu Mythology saw Queen Sita be used as a pawn who was kept as bait and once she took on Ravana the Tatvagyani or the King of SriLanka got Killed.

Now, think about the same in today's context where one could ask oneself that "What is for Women Empowerment when they rake issues out of Zero". Most of the time in today's society women throw themselves as a dice where she uses all the ways to demoralize a man, woman or any other character and when the time comes put the men at risk.

The only thought is that has manhood become so easy where the other so-called MAN takes the other's man life for the Vagina which in any case remains under the control of a man with love, laughter, and loyalty. The certain section of man who immediately gets attracted to the woman to have her for once and then moves on to others whether they are in the mode of having sex with multiple women and then feel proud about it is just an extension to Polygamy. The people whom you see around however rich or poor still understand a person mediocre who does not give much attention to the woman in terms of getting close to her but give priority to the work which could fetch them money termed as respectful in one or the other ways. If you go through current media journalists none of them seem to be sticking to the substance and they could not be found with great hold over any of their news bulletins. There was a time when Mukesh bashing was in the air which could be any name although I share the same name "Mr. Mukesh Kumar" and do write "Silence Judgement"  with the surname "Kumar". Now the time has come that Mukesh's name is gaining respect but may I ask what for they are dragging the name with or without reason even knowing that I always remained apolitical in my thoughts and expressions although shared my views over every social implication.

Also, now thinking about Women Empowerment there are many who believe that getting close to a woman may be only through Sexual ways and it may be true to some extent but certainly one cannot take on a woman who may be very much older to you and her presence could be near to your family members apart from those who could be your mother or sister along with other family members.

For me, it has been more or less about thinking about my own dignity first rather than taking away the respect of the woman and a few instances where I could have been on the wrong side of the right one as compared to others I kept myself to be a bit low in sexual behavior even with my tuition teachers as in India most of the time the better thought in sexual ways are first of all provided through the tuition teachers. One could think that my way of life was very much in my own ways where I have given respect to my school teachers and also to the Classmates and thought it to be a better way of self-empowerment rather than keeping women at the center I still feel that my 40 years of life on this Earth stood out to be a part of humiliation as the woman herself rarely understand the meaning of respect and she gives back in all terrible ways to the man who understands the better difference between respect and rowdiness!

None of the Sports denied me Success but I choose to Run otherwise!

During my school days at Holy Cross, Bokaro Steel City, I was very much full of enthusiasm and since the school had every sports-related activity I tried to pursue one new game every year at School competition level. My sporting acumen was very much into Football, Basketball, Volleyball and various other outdoor games and also enjoyed a bit and of Table-Tennis. The same could be said for cricket where I opted as a good part-time bowler and use to keep low scores during the innings with leg-spin being my forte. One thing I always kept in mind to give my 100% in sports and the annual sports events saw me joining in the cross-country race in which I use to complete the 14 km race in about 1 and a half hours.

For me, every sport was more or less like achieving the best where my friends were certainly praiseworthy and whether it was basketball in which I tried to score once or twice in every session of the game. For me, the game was more towards the learning mode and since I could not carry all these particular sports apart from my school level, I put my thought to continue into running once I settled down in my career aspect. So, if I say that none of the sports denied me success but I choose to run otherwise it not only helped me to get back at every moment but it helped me to get into the mode of Marathon running which has bought popularity of sort for me.

The Marathon which I have been throughout to date was of the reputed ones which started since the visit to Cambodia and from there on my running bought me a fulfillment. Before I explain my running details I would understand that in India although much of the people who are into active sports put much of their concentration since a particular age and their wish is to get name and fame along with quick money. Games like cricket, tennis and various other group games need a lot of practice and money is the main concern where you have to give the best through investing in coaching and getting a professional coach.

On the other hand, running does not ask you much in terms of money and you just have to get running shoes along with a tee and also you just need to find the right track. Once you find the forte in running it can give you some extra benefits which are better concentration and mind power along with energy in abundance and it is the most simple exercise giving huge benefits in return.

Thus, one could say that all those who don't believe in getting active in any particular sport should opt for running as it not only helps you to become a professional of sorts but helps in many ways to get the best in life without much of the resources in terms of investments!

Green revolution-The way to fulfil life at every step!

With people understanding the value of food and shelter and everybody coming up with the plan to have their own home which is becoming the trait of the "Millenials" the next best thing could be procuring enough agricultural land to get back into the mode of creating another Green Revolution-The way to fulfill life at every step. One could think that how important food is when one has either to stay away from food for two or three days or has to beg for food. In both instances, one understands the value of food and I believe that every person in the world including animals must have understood it in a harder way.

The problem with us as a human being is that we forget our bad days in life and honk with a little bit of happiness without thinking about the consequences which we have bear in life in our past. I think that for me food is important and I personally thank all those people around Ghaziabad who have given preferences to a small piece of land and grow their own vegetables along with cereals and feel proud of it. 

A time well spent at a farmhouse is far better than whiling away the time in creating issues in someone's life which could be waiting at the Bus Stop for an unknown person with whom you are not related or just whistling and making fun while sweeping the floor while you are born to do something better through your own resources and then put all the blame on the children. For me, I feel that if I move out of my city which is Ghaziabad I put the thought of taking some productive steps behind it and do not while my time to visit any city for harassing someone in the name of being an ideal boyfriend.

Now, getting back to the point the Green revolution was initiated during the tenure of Congress and to some extent, India reap huge benefits out of it but since today's generation is not only inclined towards enjoying the food but also has a thought of learning new things every day with the help of internet. The internet has opened the door of opportunities for many people and the ITES, BPO, KPO industry has given the sun to rise again with new hope at the horizon and it certainly has given a new way to get back in life. The other thing is that apart from the Sunshine industry which the BPO Sector was called it has given wings to many people from the generation X and Millenial generation to buy their own home thus creating a boom in the realty sector. So, much of the people who took to the thought of getting into the mode of buying their own house saw a big monkey off their back and paying in a rented accommodation went for a toss and being the proud owner of the new home changed the life for many.

Also, the sports sector which saw not only the reliability of cricket but other games like football and hockey saw a revival and players from Kashmir and Jharkhand could be seen into various games from Hero Premier League to the Euro Cup Football which could be a welcome surprise. The same could be said about the Television Industry which saw the entrants of people from all walks of life and the rise in the Media and Television industry bought not only the people to work in the lead roles and be a news anchor but the Media and Television Industry saw various other roles such as cameraman, crew members and make-up artists along with many other various roles which lead to the growth of people from all sectors and state.

Now, if we look back towards the actors of the likes of Rishi Kapoor and Amitabh Bachhan along with many other great stalwarts who put most of their money on foreign lands such as Dubai, Singapore and many other countries such as Canada in terms of investment, if only they would have put emphasis on making India a place to look great then much would have got changed 30 years back and India would have seen growth at a better rate. In any case, if we compare people from our generation they if earn in crores not only look in the growth of the people from their neighbourhood but also do considerable charities without coming into the limelight and do not make the mockery of people from their home who could have given them enough love including the bread and butter with respect at times.

This could be said the change in mindset which could be seen from the past 8-10 years once the Indian Government is taken care of by BJP which is a pro-public Government whether it is given bad remarks by few in the name of OBC led Government. So, I feel that much of the bureaucratic hurdles are either lifted or there are a change in terms of red-tapism or Lal-Fitasahi and at our society, the "Police Chaupal" was held yesterday to bring the Police-Public near to each other will certainly give an uplift in the mindset and one should remember that Roti is certainly not to Kick in the air and play or mutilate it but it has to be respected as it takes time and hardship to cook it!

Here is the link giving emphasis on the Green revolution:
https://testfunda.com/examprep/mba-resource/user-resources/article/need-for-second-green-revolution-in-india.htm?assetid=1e2e53cb-bdeb-4e08-983c-85085c6c365f

Migration is a perennial problem because of Indian Mindset!

Indian Economic System is very much an overhyped and an issue that always needs to be thought about as the country is always into a political and social mindset of improvement in the economic system. The country which is highly populated and just second after China in terms of economic growth see the onslaught of people getting into migration mode and moving towards bigger cities from small villages and towns. Although, the big cities absorb the people just like the Sea or the Ocean takes as much as the water but the real problem starts when people from one particular community or city turn out in large numbers at a particular place or township.

There -on starts the problem as much of the people are aware of each other's social status and the way of thinking is known to each other and the thought of living peacefully in a particular neighborhood is not achieved by everyone as there are clashes of the social impact and the people take much of the advantage of each other by trying to pull every other person down.

There are few who are known to be the culprit for many years and the family system which is a mostly small family in India these days are quite aware of their antics. The other thing is that within the last few decades the Generation X which are a major part of us born after 1977 could find that there was more of clash in thoughts and attributes as the country was opening up into new mindset and people staying at modern cities especially the industrial ones could see much through television and internet. The only issue was that since the earlier generation was a very slow-moving one and thus the one with forwarding thoughts of producing one or two babies could find it easy to survive with the instinct of savings and investments which got imbibed into the mindset of children who turned out to be better professionals.

The new opportunity of media and television which just saw hordes of people working for a good amount of profit with the teleserial industry as the money was easy with less education required found hordes of people into this industry which only promoted hatred as most of the teleserial talk about the same old thought of finding women and men after which the sexual exploitation as a social drama continues for namesake but certainly the current generation learns the same.

Now, since migration is a perennial problem because of Indian mindset where people get lured towards reaching the metropolitan cities to earn more but since do not get well settled, either through the issues related to lack of education or unable to fulfill their resources and also basic needs could not be achieved. In this way, the easy way becomes the body-shaming methods and many of them get into an easy way of earning money either through sex racquet or various other anti-social ways of earning.

Certainly, the issue cannot be resolved immediately but there are many NGOs along with the current Government of Uttar Pradesh which has bought skill-based training for peasants and laborers along with agricultural tilling on lands which were barren so that the people should benefit through the earnings.

Since I stay at Ghaziabad I could see many developments in the interiors and people feeling proud of their status thus linking themselves with prosperous ways of living. The only problem remains is that the migrants even if achieve resource of their own with food, clothing, and shelters just could not take away the greedy eyes on each other resources and the temperament of snatching from each other remains the same which brings derogatory behavior in their mindset and poor thought process before others which makes them feel derogatory in their own eyes but is never understood by them.

So, if this situation could improve and peaceful attributes gets back which cannot look near about achievement as from the inner soul most of the people remain poor and wretched nothing can change and the Indian Government certainly cannot bring happiness as India fairs poorly in terms of Happiness Index as the number stands out to be 140 in the world as because we kill each other's happiness on daily basis and neither remain happier nor allow others to do so!

India's Happiness Index Result Link:

https://www.businesstoday.in/current/world/indias-happiness-ranking-drops-to-140-way-behind-pakistan-china-bangladesh/story/330018.html

Being professor is easy but teacher is difficult!

It is a well-known fact that unless you are not taught by a teacher you cannot become a man, woman or human in general. The fact of the matter is that whether the education is of kids, adults or any other form of informal or formal education one has to go through the teacher who gives enough knowledge and takes responsibility to make you a citizen. once you grow up you do not find your teacher's face in your teacher but relate the particular face with other woman or man and feel the same energy which you gathered while she or he use to teach in the classroom.

Some of the people who may question the integrity or behavior of yours may laugh on you and think you to be an insane but the teacher who used to be a hard one is related to the city Superintendent of Police and most of the time it may be Maths or English teacher as in India these two subjects are considered to be draconian. Similarly, your father, if he is into the mode of creating discipline at every moment, is considered as a Physical Training teacher and most of the time the son or daughter gives the same respect to the person whether he is your father or the P.T. Teacher. 

The student who is the jolly fellow in the class once reaches the crescendo in his life starts behaving the same which he used to do during the school days and people take less of attention as he is not considered to be a troublemaker but few starts showing the same fiery eye maybe to their son and daughter along with reminding that the particular boy in question never created any issues in their parent's life.

So, the problem could be seen in your cousins and nephew faces as comparative analysis could be found within the home and outside making a virtual headache for many. The same sort of behavior could be seen from one generation to another esp. in a country like India where every detail becomes scrutiny for a long time and little bit of deviation creates issues for a long time in life.

Now, think about the statement "being Professor is easy but the teacher is difficult" as the teacher has to mold an entire generation year after year through his or her teachings and although however monotonous is the subject she or he puts all the efforts to make it easily understandable for the students. One could say that students are still into the mode of Mitti ka Madho and they need to get mold into a definite character along with students understanding the concept and few others into the mode of getting the details to byheart all according to the subject. On the other hand, once a person reaches college where they are not considered to be minnows and have a considerable amount of knowledge it is easy for the professors to guide the students and thus they could turn out to be self answerable for their deeds and answers making things easy for the society and also for their colleges. So, most of the time if the professors are treated badly by a few people and in few cases where the professor may become a hardliner then it is neither the blame for society nor the college but think about a situation where Indian Government Colleges are becoming a place for drug addiction and many social evils then it could be clearly understood that since job opportunities are many so the students should themselves look towards deemed universities and private colleges where professors put emphasis on teaching rather than creating anti-social elements who become further a threat to the nation!

Happiness is not sold anywhere but it has to be bought!

Happiness is not sold anywhere but it has to be bought may be the thought which could provoke many kinds of thoughts in you. The best way to express in the different age group can be said through simple examples:

1. Any child if provided with chocolate feels happy about it.

2. Any hungry person if gets food feels happy about it.

Similarly, a person who is always in quest of proving himself to his inner soul in anyways from the beginning of his life still feels to get it through 100 of means. The statement "to be or not to be" changes much in life and that is the thought which makes all the difference. What actually brings happiness could be the same thing which could be the internal aspirations i.e. what you want to be in life. 

Thankfully, India is a place where much of the life people use to learn how to earn bread and butter and they cannot come out from inside which makes them feel unhappy. The goals which one set in life should always be unrealistic and with that, the movie "Deewar" of Sri Amitabh Bacchan and Shri Sashi Kapoor Ji comes in mind. In the entire movie, the film takes the antagonist and protagonist of the flashy lifestyle which was the wish of the then and today's youth. With both superstars working like two sets of mind where the mind cannot decide into good and bad such as Amitabh Ji taking his life in his stride and portraying himself as a person with the character of Cooley turning into a Don looks very much contemporary. On the other hand, Sri Shashi Kapoor Ji taking the role of Police Inspector suits to the "T" and his thought of being very sincere towards his duties makes him famous for many years to come.

Every character is so lovable and teaches you through a sense of rigorous thought-provoking ways which certainly shows the fulfillment in the eyes of Sri Amitabh Ji before he dies there is no remorse as he has lived his life to the fullest. For me, I always wanted to be a person who is socially responsible but was never a sadist as my thought was more towards sticking to my ways of life where I was always obliged towards anyone without annoying anyone.

For me, I firmly believe that happiness is not sold anywhere but it has to be bought and the thing which could have given me immense pleasure was getting ahead in life by my studies only. Although, I was denied much of my journey in studies by many but ultimately where I reached was not to become a politician or a propagandist but did my Masters in Sociology and still the quest of knowledge did not get over, thus felt applying for Ph.D. 

My wishes just could not become an obstacle in anyone's life as I was not into anyone's nightmare or bad dreams where any girl on this earth or maybe a woman could find me giving her sick vibes or a threat which could be about getting into her ways in any negative thoughts. So, I just do not feel guilty about any issues in life because of the sensitive mind which could believe in the repercussions of a different kind which could land me in further trouble.

The only thing which I feel bad about is that apart from behaving well I still could not be able to make myself into the good books of my cousins and nephew who still consider me a tormentor but the firm belief in me gives me a boost to reply my mind that fortunately, I did not create any problem in  your bad thoughts nor I took away your happiness and at last I feel deeply obliged towards my friends from HOLY CROSS SCHOOL, BOKARO STEEL CITY due to which I always felt my innerself to be alive and kicking because they remained my soul inspiration.  

There is a woman to upset you at every step and pull you down!

Behind every successful man, there is a woman, the proverb has changed so much in this contemporary world that the woman who was there to raise a man apart from the mother who is the nurturer seems to pull him down. It could not be a thought out of the page of some great books but if we see the ancient texts such as Ramayana, The Sita went to the extent of becoming the death of Ravana. The same could be said for the Mahabharat from the fall of Kaurav to Sri Krishna the women folks were responsible. 

The same could be seen in today's context where the woman who could lift the man whether he is the near one or dear ones feel pushing him down and the thought is to keep the guy under their stronghold to give a feeling of servant rather than manhood. On the contrary, the real man always enjoys the pleasure of women whether in the form of attention or any other ways where they feel close to him even in their talks and the thoughts which could be felt through their views and expressions.

In the worst-case scenario, the bitter taste occurs in the mouth when a person sees the retirement from the job and the woman deliberately speaks about the incompetence of the man and then the land under the man seems to drift away. Neither money nor sex is the factor that attracts a woman and nor there is any personality factor but much depends how the man has portrayed himself in front of her during those moments which could be said to be very much intimate and in the other thought there is a woman to upset you at every step and pull you down.

There had been enough instances in life when people left everything in life from the kingdom to the bigger things such as Prime Ministership but then they could be seen tottering before their menfolks as the woman must have completely rejected him after reaching the ultimate feeling that he has been defeated in his own eyes. This gives the solace to the man as well as a woman and the new generation kids also feel the same when they find the same thought to be portrayed by the woman. The other good thing is that one has to be very lenient in their own thoughts and perceptions and until the woman in life does not rely on you, then what is the use to stick to such woman. Also, there is very much thin line between the behavioral aspect of the society as the more you are good towards the people of any age or gender along with sex, the more you are ignored and in case the more you are into activities which are pertaining to getting into their life they feel that once the person will be undone with her the gates will remain open for others.

Also, in the time of VFX and VOIP, there are many ways to pull down the image and if I remember the thought of my school teachers they use to speak that image building remains a gradual process and it could be seen with few who know how to defend themselves. So, if in one word a person is to think then the sexual power is not the only aspect in life which gives back love and affection but the regular dose of comfort and compatibility takes the man's life to the crescendo and from there on he wins the heart of woman who in any other way is just a troublemaker in everyone's life!

Higher studies needs to get through compromise & begging!

India may be a country with modern developed minds and people may look to speak in the public domain about all the achievements in life coming with ancestral backgrounds, but at one point of time what makes a person class apart is his way of understanding the Gurukul way of the system which is imbibed in our culture. Certainly, today's schooling or college does not ask you to go and beg for the chawal (Rice) and Gehun ( Wheat) along with other necessities in life to serve the students and teachers but what we can beg is for the studies. 

On the contrary, what we see in colleges is the hooliganism which becomes a part of JNU i.e. Jawaharlal University which has become a big headache for their professors and students alike. The same could be said about BHU which is Benaras Hindu University and every other college in India which are publicly funded i.e. the Central Government funds takes care of such colleges. Think about the subsidized amount of studies which has been provided to the student of such colleges from where they have to pay a minuscule amount in terms of money and get the degree which fetches them crores in multinationals. On the other hand, there are students from Private colleges in India like IIPM, Jaipuria and many other such colleges where they put their hard-earned money of their parents, come out with great numbers but are still considered poor in terms of mindset as the students coming out from Government Colleges are given preference in Government jobs and many other such institutions.

If the current row is thought about the JNU fiasco where the agitation is all about rising the fees of college hostel and food facility why such students did not go on a protest when there was a rape on the campus or the Ganga Dhaba was getting close. What's actually happening in such a campus is that since it is near the ridge of South Delhi and quite a secluded place all kinds of anti-social candidates from all parts of India take advantage of joining the protest and create ruckus thus making the life miserable for all strata of people. They take the professors on ransom for without any reason and last year many of such professors faced medical issues as they were supporting anti-Indian sentiments for the Kashmir cause. The crackdown by Delhi Police on such agitation is not bad at all because what such students and Professors are giving back to the Indian economy. 

Is it today the world for the "jhola" chap candidates who could look like a gun tottering youth and then the other ones's could be an avatar of a modern hippie woman who could just look sluggish with an overdose of drugs and still could pertain to be of use to the new millennia kids who understand the motives with a blink of the eye.

I believe that higher studies need to get through compromise and begging which is just a way to get ahead rather than showing the hefty ways with the help of NSUI and ABVP where the ladies take it to good skin shows and further get the best use of their valuable assets and the boy submit their girl folks to get marks which are above and else than anyone else and those who try to get back in life with studying hard remain confined with war of words and has to face assault on their body which becomes unbearable for a long more time to come.

So, if one could say that the Government should opt for Privatization of Colleges on a large scale then it will not be a wrong move and Deemed along with Private Colleges are an answer to the current education system which is anyway producing IIT students who just could not make any leap in life but speak out "Barrod ko Vishwanath kehte hai...aur AAG ko rakh kehete hai..." making a self mockery then better is the money power because in India paise se behter Roti kharidte hai...!!!

A well-programed mind is a cultural mind!

Have you ever understood the concept of well-to-do families? It is not about a family that has big ancestral lands, primitive cars, and Havelis to show off, but it is just a concept which is all about a family in which every person feels settled and does not have to ask for every other thing in life. Today, self-sufficiency could be seen in the people who ride autos and have a small piece of land to meet their weekly and monthly requirements and are still happy as they are not into any list of anti-social misdeeds. 

Their wish is not to unearth a fortune and get something by owning big petrol pumps and must have the ownership of hotels. Think about three eggs costing Rs 162 at 5 Star Hotels, can anyone imagine the thought of having such a bill without any reason as three boiled eggs can almost cost you Rs 30 under any circumstances whether it is produced out of organic or inorganic hen.

Now, think on the other hand people who can see their women dancing at any fair or somewhere else just by blaming some other person to carry on with their nocturnal wishes cannot be blamed as it may be their wish but certainly, they are somewhere down the line hurting the sentiments of the husband and other family members. On the contrary, a well-programmed mind is a cultural mind could not be a shocking thought as by sticking to the life goals and carrying on with his well-managed way of life which he may have learned from his forefathers and grandfathers along with father, mother, and sister as ever good or bad thoughts carry for generation to generation and whether a person shout from the top apna time ayega have you eve tried to take time in your stride

Taking the time in your stride means conquering the mind to some extent, although you or anyone cannot change the time which is inevitable but carrying the thought of making good out of every knowledge which you have earned pays you back without getting that compulsive behavior disorder.

I remember the days when I was young and stayed with my father, an uncle by the name of Mr. Sahay at Sector 6-D kept me and my sister under the strict scrutiny of his thought process although he was nowhere related to us. The same was for the other people in the block which could be counted as Mr. Tiwary, Mr. A.K. Verma and Masterjee were also there including their children and Vikram Bhaiya. Still, I use to feel happy even if my father used to beat me occasionally and I could keep myself a bit wary of other children who could term themselves to be from the executive lot and maybe any other dismantled thought which turned out to be propaganda of their own.

Any mishappening whether it used to happen in any person marriage which could be an instance to be shared where a girl called Rani Didi marriage got disrupted for a few hours was quite laughed upon by Mr. Sahay and Mr. Rukhiyar by saying that Ganjedi ke aulad ki shadi ka yahi hashr hota hai...to elaborate it he use to say that the person who takes marijuana faces the same issues in life.

The same could be said about many other people in the street while my father used to keep his mouth shut for many long times of years braving an idiotic assault completely on his mind, still use to keep numb before them. So, much of the trauma and evil-doing was faced by my father without being near to any personal mistake and I could also see that while people like Mr. A.K. Verma from Sector 6-D, 2525 was also with all bad thoughts where he used to portray himself as Mr. Jackie Shroff of the entire area and was ably supported by people like Raja Babu and his brothers where their equal thought was to create brothel like situation in every house.

Unfortunately, I am not against Hindu or Hinduism but could certainly say that we categorically feel about taking advantage of the situation of our own weakness in the family system which we proudly call Kunba and then make mockery of our own family by fucking each other's women and daughters finding solace and then considering it as a medal forever.

On the other hand, the person who keeps confined to his thoughts and believes in himself for a lot more time is termed to be a person with less in terms of achievements and thought to be creating a rift among each other. So, one could say that finding a weakness in others is the worst thing and giving a befitting reply along with taking the right time to strike back is the best way to resolve the issues rather than taking the step of Gol-Mej conference which was just a fucking thought of producing nothing but creating futile results out of nonsensical ways of living which is condemned for a long more time in life!

Near about relationships should not be helped with money!

In today's world when money has become everything for many sections of people within the family and outside, it makes sense to be money wise and does not give to any person unnecessarily. The money which is not only the basic necessity before food, clothing, and shelters should be invested wisely and one should not be generous enough to help the near cousins and nephews to easily get into the system which is your own house and keep them apart for your own better days of life.

The simple thing to believe is that the more you lose your purse strings the more people come out to fuck you in a deliberate way and a time comes when you part away with your money and valuables and there is nothing which gets remained with you. There are instances of many people who lost much behind the near and dear ones and then never got back into their life. They just went on paying back either to hide the fact of their multiple relationships or any other ways to know more about some matter which must be close to their heart. The truth is that if you bare all befoe someone then you are on the receiving end and then nothing can compensate you, rather your own ways to mend it which stands futile and from there on the person takes a better edge in life to get the triumph.

So, it is all about keeping the thought that all kinds of penetration which start at home is from the near one which means that the key to your almirah or the locker gets into the hands of the person whom you are just trying to keep as a henchman and from there on he or she takes away most of the money without asking anything. So, the sole-bearer in you just could not make out anything and it all may be happening just to overpower the real person whom you must be loving or trying to win him over but in the end, what you could not crush is your own super-ego. The more a person tries to give back to society the more people start expecting from him or her. So, in this world where everything is getting governed by money one has to keep in mind that near about relationships should not be helped with money and also one has not to be only money wise but not also pound foolish as every cent counts these days!

Rolls King-The Mexican Food at best now at Raj Nagar Extension!

Rolls King- The food on which I used to drool once in a month at Noida, Unitech Towers while working at IBM (I) Pvt Ltd. The company which becomes a great one before I opened my eye's on this earth was something which becomes synonymous with many big and small firms in India and the best thing to happen after Charles Babbage.

The same thing should be said about Rolls King, the substitute to an Indian roti which is made with much love. So, as I talked about the Rolls King at Noida while the executives who use to wait patiently for a Caravan type food truck which gives it's best by creating Rolls of a different kind from Egg to Panner Bhurji roll and also the other one's which one could find by visiting at this particular food juncture.

Now, think about the same days when many of us working at companies like Metlife, IBM, Cognizant and many others at these towers could get easy way to satiate our hunger and from there on got back enough energy to get back to our work seats and carry on with the headphone to give back the best to our customers and the company. It is said that food is not only a bonus for hunger but it also adds fun in mind along with satisfying the thought of leaving the hunger behind.

The same thing could be said about the small but decent outlet by Rolls King-The Mexican Food at best now at Raj Nagar Extension, VVIP Mall, Ghaziabad where the food is served at few tables and also Zomato packing is provided for take-aways. The one thing which feels me to the hunger is that I immediately see the food owner and he somehow reminds me of some yesteryear superstar.

The person who is the owner here has a quick resemblance from the song "Jate ho Pardesh Piya...Jate hi khat likhna...and the guy seems to be certain from the yesteryear to the new genre guy with smartness overloaded to the brim.

Talking about the food quality who does not love Rolls King from our generation and certainly, the Veg and Non-Veg varieties are the best which are worth spending money on it and the food quality is fresh along with the best. It is for those people who understand the quality and quantity and do not go for the absurd word "DEAL" on every small thing to make a mockery out of it. So, get the best to satiate your hunger and one could say that hunger conquers all whether it is the urge to study or get more out of your resources but certainly, those people are not liked by anyone who could be found to make a wound over other's body and then enlarge it every other day with their only thought to get the most out of him or her which could be seen by many from their words, expressions and thoughts! 

Today's generation is relying much on the women-folks with earnings!

The generation has changed and so does the thought process but what has not changed is the need for money. Whether it could be as minuscule as pocket money or the entire way to spend money to run a home economy, the man is seen to be relying on the women-folks. The glamour industry along with many other industries from Digital marketing and various other works that could be called the softcore industry where heavy machinery and equipment are not required, one could see women taking up much of the position from top to bottom.

If we take the example of the news broadcasting industry in India the woman has engulfed almost every position and most of the channel head to news-readers are females. The only disadvantage which could be seen is that it has opened a new can of worms from where one could see that today's generation is relying much on the women-folks with earnings. Whether a person is a son, husband or any elder his thought process is to work less and become a homemaker while the woman carries on with the work and way of earnings. Now, think about those women who look for equal paymaster or just try to avoid the marriage system which has bought a new trend in India. 

The people who look for changing their thought process has always been the girl on this earth from the few to be named as Ahilyabai Holkar to Rani Laxmibai and many else. Now, with the entire effort of women to carry on with the incompetent personality is to weigh down with all the pros and cons of a person and then choose the right one to get in her life. The other aspect is that much of the time she lifts her man to a large extent and puts them on a certain pedestal from where they gain a respected position in society. On the other hand, there is the woman who tries to use the man to a great extent and when he is drained out physically and emotionally then he is thrown out of his life and the other person takes his place. For this thought, there are many people who are either emotionally strong or mentally strong and too many extents physically strong characters are also found to carry with the lifestyle at various stages.

Now, the equation of life is that last but not least the man who gets respect in the eyes of a woman is the one who gets the constant factor of zeal in his life and tries to do much on his own till he does not get some respectable place and job in the society. So, the fact of the matter is that Indian rich woman who looks for the man for their physical needs should be cautious enough to find the right man rather than pulling out their Kings from any strata of life and then feel bad about it for a long more time and feel bad in their own eyes when the society starts blabbering on them and ultimately it could make them weak in their own eyes and finally they become a laughing stock in the eyes of people with carrying the burden of punctured assholes who just splurge on their money for the petrol and other needs from where the own respect of woman fades away forever!

Real Peer Pressure starts with your Ward admission into School!

Indian Schooling System itself is of such a great tension that it leaves the parents into the dual strait of mind. The moment the son or daughter takes admission into the school and with the time when he is sent to a school bus, the discussion starts from forefather to the father or the mother and comparison of the report card is not done only with the result of the neighboring children but the problem could be found with all the school kids.

The question in tandem will be the same, why your number is 46 or 56 in class, as the class teacher will have no time to calculate the actual result of students as compared to every classmate (which is not actually necessary) and the father will grudgingly ask so you are the lowest among the students but the number mentioned will be the total numbers of included students in class. If it is today's students he or she will say it is the case of bottoms up but earlier it was like you have to get it clarified by the teacher and the next year you will be given the cane all over your body to show the exact position in the class.

Still, the courage goes on and student somehow will be reading every answer by heart and after a few years in the third unit test, he will be getting more than 26 marks in almost every subject including maths out of 30 but again the person who is loafing around and singing Nayak nahi khalnayak hu mai...and the guy in me will say dikhne me nalayak hai tu..so the city will hold another grudge to continue for generations or decades.

So, with due respect, my heart got content when I become an adult after 32 years and got a kid without IVF treatment and felt O.K. about it but decided to be easy on the fact that whether the son stays among the studious one or become a Nalayak it was not my matter of concern, I will earn for my own bread and butter along with being good to myself. It was all because of some idiot out of that third world generation use to say Hame jab bhagwan pet diya hai to Roti bhi wahi khilayga...and much of the people got misguided by him whom I do not want to be named (actually here goes the name below). He could still be seen loitering around making people feel afraid of him and certainly, there is no respect for him but people must certainly be fearing "Rajesh Bhaiya" who has a semi-dacoit status at Bokaro Steel City, Sector 3 C.

So, talking about peer pressure starts with your ward admission into School, thankfully today's generation out of whom much are convent educated know the value of the study, play and creative activity which has helped to lift their children up and become more confident about their own thought process and they will certainly come-up trumps as compared to the 80's generation who were more of a distinctive feature of Paap ko jala kar rakh kar dunga...and the first papi or culprit was someone in his or her thoughts who did not allow them to go astray and tried to make a sincere citizen out of him or her!

Indians carry dual-mindset of revenge and repetitive thoughts & action!

Indians who are always talked about the family-oriented system since primitive times or more to say about the joint family system are never near to such aspects in life. Friendship, on the contrary, is also another name of fluke and family values are rather confined to the meeting, greeting, pulling the legs and if possible getting clothes off maybe another aspect which could not be discussed at length. With the ability to carrying their own lifestyle as a disguised manner, it seems that the time will come when the real person in them will be out and the more difficult of their dark side will arise. 

If one talks about Hollywood movies few of us who are not aware of the trends will be surprised to know that their portrayal of the entire movie theme whether revenge, sci-fi or any other thoughts are totally based on Indians. 

The people in the USA are known to be very much inclined towards thinking with the fact that Indians are far more into the family culture and are away from propaganda but soon the entire thinking got changed and the country has very much gone into the thoughts of helping each other with their sex tapes and much more atrocities which could see an entire generation to become a laughing stock. If one could see the thought process of Indians carry dual-mindset of revenge and repetitive thoughts and action. The gag which is attached about a generation after generation issues could be rather seen in the cities rather than villages. Making issue out of unscrupulous thoughts and few of the person whose beliefs are certainly not about their own respect but getting laid down easily and then talkback with the same mongrel status could not be anything but more hilarious where they could be seen getting used still feeling the awkward charm to carry on with their life.

They could be said to compromise on their value and there is nothing called a mindset as slavery has been a part of their thoughts and moreover getting into other's throat by getting decisive has already given the worst of the nightmares in their own life.

Although, rarest people belong to the trustworthy genre or beliefs as the term trustworthy is something which could be only within the near about family and a servant, yes a servant cannot be trustworthy even if he is carrying the trust of the definite Ramu Kaka for the generation to carry-in life and at any point he or she may bite back with vengeance because they do not remember the food, clothing and other necessary things provided by the landlord but they carry the grudge for many years to come which could never be understood by a person unless he loses much just like the movie "Waqt" made in the year 1965.

Varchasava or absolute dominance is not a part of folk-lore these days!

Varchasava or absolute authority is something which is not a part of folk-lore these days and fools are concerned more about it rather than the one who goes on steadily with the flow. The very thought process which was a part of folk-lore is related to only a few derogatory women who are neither the part of the world which gives them any respect nor have a behavioural sense to lift themselves up with the help of knowledge which certainly is more appropriate rather than the one who tries to give a spa treatment with much belief to captivate the world. 

One should think that in the morning if you see a woman after 11:00 a.m. in the bylanes of Vaishali Trade Centre helping their clients to get the love and lust satisfied together with the magical hands how praiseworthy you will be of his beautiful way of making the client relax in her arms. On the other hand, several other women on this earth who get up, pack the tiffin for the kids and then leave for the office are mad enough to do the hard work in life and still feel the pangs of being less dedicated in terms of other people.

Now, thinking how much benefit the spa and beauty treatments have bought to a society who knows how to get refreshed by working till the retirement age and from there on carrying the life with the same zeal to get something better through the work experience he or she has gathered in life. The greater thought in life is to be a good person after every hurdle which is created much by the people who feel to be complicated and pursue an easy way to earn rather than taking life with bigger measures and complimenting themselves with good measures which helps the growth in life to come one after the other in form of achievements.

While the first kind of person who believes in making people feel small by overpowering them with their skin show and turn a personal grudge for those who love to avoid such people are certainly given a face-lift by the society and the few of their partners who are running after them for their own well being. The erotic spa business which has turned many onlookers and visitors some bad way to earn has still not bought shame on the faces of people who believe to govern their own terms and since money is not only a way to earn much of the accolades and buy the people who may be from certain section of media and politicians still go on blabbering with the truth in mind that if the person does not feel ashamed about certain lifestyle then nobody could help them to grow. This is another aspect where all such people are constantly under police scanner and had to pay back to the certain section of administration which makes them worse in their own eyes and thus make them a social prostitute rather than a better civilian even after spending a huge amount of money by their father in educating them.

On the contrary, the hard-working citizen who loves to enhance his skills and take the life towards his stride by all those good means which is revered by God about the greatness which is certainly provided to him through the bigger "D" which means dedication. 
Now, thinking about the fact of the matter is that planning something for better in life through pious ways stand to be better with the sense that if one see and compare purity in life to be a natural way to get ahead then nothing could harm him or her as the purity is not only confined to sex but being dedicated towards the law of the land and carry with better thought process towards working for the benefit of the most common person in this country who could be from her own background irrespective of caste, creed or religion.

A person with positive frame of mind is not to be found in world!

There are people who could be your senior, junior or the peer in your office. The equation must be good with you or anyone else but a person with a good heart is hard to find. People all over the world have one thing in mind which is to create a ruckus, find the best way to hurt someone and then pull out an advantage from him or her. I remember my early days in childhood when life was less ordinary for many among us, still, the schooling was provided by the parents with the best of the ways. The people who themselves have got good education carry with the belief that the ward or the child should get equivalent education. But what one has to say to the person who believes that she could do each and everything in life without creating much difference in the life of others. If I remember then I have seen that in spite of every good or bad aspect my mother Kiran Bala Devi stood to be a gem of a person and helped me to survive good and bad times without making me too innocent in life which surely does not match with the lifestyle these days.

The same could be said about my father Mr. U. Vidyarthi and sister Sweta Srivastava who put emphasis to give me pep talks and make me understand life values and the way to survive in this world. Today, after reaching 40 years of my life I do not find any person who could be a long-fought enemy for me as I always tried to keep myself confined to my thoughts and never had any illegitimate child in my life along with no sexual intimacy with any women whether in office or at any place. That was not the thought of any superiority complex and neither I felt weaker in front of women but the only thought was to understand a woman first and then carry a good fulfilling relationship with her.

The only issue which comes out in my way was that in this time of instant sexual gratification people are not concerned about a person with a positive frame of mind is not to be found in the world. The world has certainly become a place where people get into each other ways to get sexually satisfied and then move on. But what about the person who is macho in the sense of carrying his own burden but look towards the life which could cuddle him give him full love and make him feel equal in her eyes without demoralizing him. It's basically about being a nurturer rather than getting notorious and then make issues in life by spreading rumors which is a way to make a man feel surrender before the woman and take as much advantage out of him. 

If I relate to some Bollywood movie then my thought process is about Miss Perizad Zorabian and Mr. Rahul Bose in the movie Mumbai Matinee which is very close to my heart and it is a very meaningful movie to understand about the sexual relationship and  give importance to love and sexual life without the big word or terminology associated with it which is called "EXPLOITATION".

Why rivarly carries from one generation to another but friendship gets over?

If anybody would have been influenced by Bollywood the typical movie must have seen the rivalry concept carrying to all the 7 generations. Whether the person who is from the typical Thakur family or any mediocre one both do not bury the hatchet for a long more time and keep one or the other reason to burn themselves in thoughts. It could be said that the thought of fighting generation is the widely accepted concept in the Indian subcontinent and Holi is just a fluke where people try to forget each other's misdeed and carry with giving harmonious thought processes for each other. 

India is certainly not an internal war conflict zone just like Somalia or many other nations but there are many places whether in villages or towns and cities which has seen people getting into each other's throat and carry on with the fight which could be called the war of words.

If any particular family is to be seen the first place where rivalry starts is your neighborhood or your own thought process which does not match with another person who could be trying to get ahead of you just in the name of caste, creed, and religion. This is a symbolic way to carry on with your own misdeeds and overpowering in the name of being a heavyweight person which is said as a Bahubali in local terms. 

Does anybody have ever thought of any particular reason why this particular thought got initiated?

It is not because people want to get anyone's else character but thinking oneself to be ahead since generation makes the person with a superiority complex and it never makes to accept failures in life. This could be seen with people who are adamant about giving themselves a position in society by speaking heavy words and do not take life to give them better opportunities rather feel to snatch and then move on. Such, people are found all over in India and they also keep pawns in their life with an easy way to let their supremacy flow from one generation to another. They keep small things in mind and thus keep a string of beads which reminds them of their own deeds and the other person misdeeds. You could hear children from their families speaking openly that once I become something in life I will teach you a lesson without thinking that maybe the person might be right at certain points of time. Such, people put their son and daughter as pawns and let them get fucked by the people from every other community which leads to creating a gang of sympathizers for them and thus it gives a tense situation in the neighborhood for many generations to come.

In a practical sense, it only makes a mockery of their own education and deeds and such a person still gets respect by society because the other people fear to lose their life or property and do not raise any question on their thought process. They also carry the ill-will and start counting the deeds and misdeeds of their rival who does not give importance to any particular word which is called Challenge or rather a competition making them feel different and the thought process of such person is to think about his or her own progress along with his family. So, it could be a question in their mind to asses that "Why rivalry carries from one generation to another but friendship gets over"?

Arousal is becoming my Instinct and makes me Excited!

In the morning when I get up at the age of 40 exactly, I see myself with a stiff one inside and that also when I did not have sexual penetration in winter for the whole of my life except few early months of a failed marriage. I had a woman in my life who took herself to some different ways and she always uses to leave me in the cold winters purposefully to make me feel the pangs of winter blues.

I got married to her without an enormous amount in terms of dowry and kept my amount to be as low as Rs 40,000 but faced a great backlash in my life to the extent that I took a plunge in the River Hindon at Ghaziabad but was pulled out safely after drowning for a Kilometer. Still, the atrocities never got over from my life whether in the office, home or by my society and after a few years of that drastic step before giving my M.A. Exams people have beaten me black and blues in my society. It is true that in India woman can take any step to demoralize you and find ways to get rid of you just to take your property and any other things in life. I stay at Ajnara Integrity, Ghaziabad with my mother and she owns the home but after the woman who left me for helping herself in her own ways did not affect me. I took to Marathon races and started practicing very hard for it by early morning walk and exercise in the open air which has given me better lungs and strength which is unmatched as although I did not have active sex for the past three years still I never faced any issue of Erectile dysfunction.

Here, in Ghaziabad whatever the media says about poor air quality but things at Raj Nagar Extension are quite different as because the Super Mother, Hindon flows here and if people say that it is polluted I have to say that she has the biggest storage of Sulfur or Gandhak which is not a harmful chemical and helps human in more than one ways.

Also, the river ecosystem has some mystic appearance in her and she creates a lot more changes in your thought process which helps in the long run. I have been a fan of rivers since Childhood and my father use to take me to the riverfront at the Ganges when we use to visit Patna as I stayed at Bokaro Steel City. Also, when I left Bokaro Steel forever before that my house was at a place where the only River of Bokaro Steel City which is Garga river used to flow a few meters away from my home. This made me very much near to the rivers of India.

Now, coming back to the point that arousal is becoming my instinct and makes me excited naturally without any viagra pills has certainly given me a better libido. Still, I keep to myself as I  know the long implications of staying in society and believe that in the long run, my life will see better changes as I was never bad when it comes to giving Love to the better half of the world and they will certainly understand with a change in their mindset which can be termed as loyalty remains above anything and everything else in life!

Feeding Gali ki Kutiya or Kutaa (Dog and Bitches) is the biggest satisfaction!

There was a time when a person uses to live at secluded places even in India where the dogs were kept in hilly areas to make secure from leopards, hyenas and other animals which could be wild. Even at places where one use to live in big cities in India, there were chances of staying alone as in places like Gurgaon and Faridabad have fewer homes and at times to protect oneself one has to keep a dog. Nowadays keeping a dog is expensive and one has to take a lot of care of them and at times they become aggressive in nature because they suffer loneliness and even while staying with you they rue for their own specific ecosystem which could be of any other decent such as Greyhound or Labrador.

Keeping aquariums instead of Dog is more feasible as they are less expensive and help you to gather more positive energy and on the other hand, the Indian dogs which have much of a mystical presence give you more blessings in return. They are the instant changer in your karma and life-cycle and give positive energy in return if you take a little care of them. My father has kept a few pet dogs from Indian breed and they have helped us in invisible ways but since everybody cannot keep or make the Indian breed dogs easily as they might be afraid, feeding the Gali ki kutiya or kutta (Dog and bitches) is the biggest satisfaction instead of hurting them.

It could not be understood by you but gradually you will feel this if you start believing in the ecosystem of this country. The expensive dogs which ask for pedigree and much of care which is akin to carrying the burden of their lifestyle and then making them helpless to be an unnecessary dependency factor does not give any positive impact in life. The dogs at home unnecessarily abuse you and you certainly feel perturbed from inside which makes you feel lethargic and adds much of the bad karma in life without any reason. If one thinks about giving the same generosity without adding any extra pressure in life one could feed the Indian breed easily with biscuits which cost Rs 5 or 10 even of Brittania Good Day and they certainly do not get any disease attached by such biscuits and do not ask for any extra care like milk and meat.

The best thing is that you do not have to take such dogs to vet and there is no extra burden in life and if they increase in number then there are People for Animal dog squad which takes them to a distinctive place near the Nandi Ashram. So, if you ask for soul satisfaction once in a month you can feed any stray dog and become the star of their eye without attaching any expense and believe me you will find yourself to b a more satisfied soul rather than the one who carries a dog with a dog chain and it gives you much of the look of a problem in personal life making you feel bad from inside which will never be understood by you as having a dog in life is a very difficult thing and the same could either change your fortune if left alone and make issues in life if you do not take sufficient care of the DOG! 

UNESCO report states the lack of skills in Indian Students for Global Jobs!

The UNESCO report which has been out with the Prime Minister, Shri Narendra Modi visit to Thailand has come-up with poor job skills by Indians who are preferring to be the Tenth Drop-Out and do not consider the education as a prime force to get growth in life. If Indians are to be believed from the time of Ambedkar to date has given educated people a frown and the common behavior is to make a person wayward with his skills so that he or she should not reach a social status in life. Any good person in Education has to find much of the burden and all those who are less educated or highly educated create a problem for him or her for a long more time in life.

This is the primary reason that the interest in studies goes for a toss and from the school days a student who is good with speaking skills and better in terms of understanding the subject is frowned upon by the students as well as teachers. It is not about making a mockery of the education system in India but certainly few schools which are guided by the Christain Minorities and various others give more emphasis on educating the students while the common schools like the Government and Kendriya Vidyalaya try to make a more of a wayward civilian whose easy way in life is to do various clinical jobs such as getting into the jobs which are given through the politicians for the people who are under their umbrella.

Now, talking about the "UNESCO report states the lack of skills in Indian Students for Global Jobs" and it is all because people think that the way life governs is through the semi-skilled workers who could make into technicians, highway workers and others who need not get any professional requirements in life. The only thing which was done by the Congress Government was to introduce the IT studies into the system but with bigger companies like Cognizant and IBM winding up and much of the IT passing into the hands of Analytical Engineering and Artificial Intelligence majority of the workforce has gone defunct. The same could be said about the people who are ruining each other's life by projecting themselves into Bollywood just could not make much out of it and the time will come when Bollywood will take the same mode of using the picture-perfect photograph of a person and there will be no need of acting skills which was seen earlier in the movie. In this way, the Indians will certainly find themselves getting back to the same old age history of unemployment and uneducated people who will carry their certificate without carrying their humanity skills which comes first as soft skills and also the human behavior which is needed to get more out of the world.

Now, thinking about the MBA which could be coming out in herds just does not make enough for the people of India as the time will come when the person who is working among the people whether senior or junior will get promoted. Indian Government is also coming up with plans to give better technical education and help to get skilled professionals rather than the common students who go for BCA and MCA along with Engineering Education of all kinds and find themselves loitering around without any common cause to grow-up in life. 

So the better working person will get a job with higher remuneration and better opportunities. One has to compare the education and do not go blindfold but understand that Education is all about acquiring skills and the vocational on-job training will give an upliftment rather than going with 10+2+3 system of education on a regular basis which will make you unproductive and the time will come or it has come when people from ordinary backgrounds will make big in life rather than those who love to sit back and wait for the bigger bucks to come in life from any unsolicited activities which could be showing the radish or carrot to be put inside and then say "Muli Dale hai..aage dekhiye kya hota hai"!!!

Reference Website:

https://www.businessinsider.in/careers/news/over-half-of-indian-students-will-not-have-skills-for-21st-century-jobs-warns-unicef/articleshow/71938857.cms

https://www.firstpost.com/india/unesco-47-million-youth-in-india-drop-out-of-school-by-10th-standard-2961334.html

https://targetstudy.com/articles/new-careers-in-the-21st-century.html

For men doing sex in love is alright but for money is very negative!

Sex is something which is done for pleasure and it brings man and women near to each other from where they do not get away emotionally and physically. The sex has given many people a new life who has become personally weak in mind as somewhere down the line sex helps them to revive in life and make feel upwardly active. The person in love feels complete once the sex reaches its crescendo and there has to be no time-bound sexual pleasure to de derived from each other. Sex is not about running for any time period or limitations but certainly, the one which reaches for more than 20 minutes is called the ideal one. Although, sometimes two minutes of sex also gives the same level of satisfaction which could not be measured in terms of spending time for hours,

Now, coming to the headlines "for men doing sex in love is alright but money is very negative!" is very true as manhood is all about raising the head and moving forward in life. Once you start taking money for sex as a man it demeans you and demoralizes and whether you are a massager or a sex worker it gives you a setback in life for many years to come. Man is known to do good deeds in life and if one talks about the brothels being operated in ancient history then certainly there were no cases of the man involved in it. It showed that man has got all the right to work hard whether in agriculture or any other relevant field in life and from there taking his life forward rather than getting into sexual activities and earn money from it.

So, if anybody would like to know what our Superstars from Bollywood do when they don't have any movie projects lined-up they work all according to their qualifications and hobbies rather than go for any activities from where they could demean their character and face value in life. The superstars, if you will look closely, will be seen taking the job into any superstore in disguise or can go for working with auto and cab drivers and at times could be seen even as a security guard on ATMs in society and other places. But they are never into the thought process of working as a gigolo and in return earn money out of it. 

It is some of the common people in us who believe that working as a gigolo will not only give easy money but also help with new women every night. But the fact of the matter is that nature and the currency do not help such a person and gradually the person loses respect and charm in himself which one could never get back in life again. So, if there are no ways to earn money then there is no need to beg or become a social prostitute but can even join a farmhouse from where one could earn Rs 6500 per month even in the area of Ghaziabad around Raj Nagar Extension rather than whiling the time around and one inside story is that some of this farmland is of beautiful stars from Delhi and who known luck by chance you can get some love in return which blooms while working in the agricultural fields! 

The attrocites of lawyers on Indian Citizens and Police System!

Does a vakil babu has the right to create hooliganism on the road and beat citizens and police? Do they have the right to make a mockery of the Indian laws by giving back only dates in the name of cases and asking you to pay money after every date to do with the proceedings? Does the Indian judiciary system has not harassed the common man in the name of dowry laws? Are they not doing the criminal offense by giving issues into a women's life by saying that they are open to having free sex and the husband cannot go to apply for any petition.

The law of the land is all about taking an LLB Degree from any University and then put you in the ring of issues by creating your head a desk to thump the wooden hammer. If I say that the Police have not done any wrong by beating a few of the lawyers with black and blues and unfortunately sustaining injuries on their own bodies we as people of India should feel the same about the draconian laws which are imposed by the lawyers for their own benefits. 

If it would have been a China or Pakistan the whole country would have seen the implications within few hours but thankfully Indian Police System is far better than anywhere in the world who do not take the law in their own hand. They are creating an atmosphere of peace and tranquility from where everyone is allowed to live in peace.

When we talk about the Police we forget that they come out of a very serious and stringent selection system where they appear for the IPS exams and training which is not possible for every person. On the other hand, anyone whether he is short in height or long in terms of their weight which is all about coming from any MAGADH or NALANDA university and with few bucks to pay at the court procure an experience certificate after which they get inducted in the law bar association.

So, the better thinking person in Indian society may think that the entire thought about Police beating the common people on road and creating a problem is only to be seen in the movie which is typically Bollywood based while the lawyer is not the solution provider in every case.

I really feel bad about the atrocities of lawyers on Indian Citizens and Police system and as a Blog Writer on the webpage Silence Judgement which is my own Blogging page on Google condemn the ruckus created by the lawyers and thanks Police to handle it in the most genuine manner. I hope that the Indian people who known how to make a mockery of any good or better thought should feel the pangs of the judiciary and think the right way to cooperate with Police for their better lifestyle which could be seen in countries like Singapore and Malaysia where POLICE is a commanding force rather than everything left to Media and Judicial System.

Being humble does not make a person irresistible!

A humble person is denied all the facilities and fortunes but he has to understand the way governs in his beautiful country. The Indian mindset is changing or not is not the thought but the way things go in the life of any person who stays away from the people who try to condemn him does not do any good in his life. If I remember my life instances my upbringing never denied me anything in life such as food, clothing or shelter and the schooling was in the best of the school.

The positive way about my upbringing was that I was never inclined to demean any girl in the school or rather say female teachers and my thoughts were confined not to be a playboy but a person with a good sense of humor which was certainly not understood by the rigid Biharis. The people from Bihar from any sect and caste scheduled or general are not that good and if one thinks about the pollution level in New Delhi or the Old Delhi it is not only in terms of fog or smog but the one which is the verbal slangs are creating much of the issues in life.

If in-person I think that I did not take any advantage in my life for any moment it was certainly not the weakness in me but my ways are somewhere more which cannot be compared with any other person. I do not believe in the thought that being humble does not make a person irresistible and the body is there to be baked for the advantage of finding out a better position in society. A body is there to flaunt and inner power along with stamina is there to show some good rather than buying people by selling yourself in the fish market. 

At last, what takes you up in life is not the money or the power but the wisdom which you carry through generation which certainly cannot be found in the person with the low-minded thought process. With all the mudslinging on me from the past many decades, rather few years after my birth did not deter me to reply to everyone but when the right moment showed the light to me I always replied with a better sense which could be a combination of attitude and gratitude. If I remember a girl in my life there stands none of those who were too close to me in terms of getting physical but certainly I always fetch respect from them apart from the few who were adamant to demean me and did not understand the true meaning of sexual penetration which does not fulfill the bodily needs but it takes you to the crescendo which gives back everything to the soul rather than the body.

So, at any point in time my mother and my sister along with my father and my grandparents who were not only behind me to lift me up but rather played a crucial role in my life apart from all those who were the only detractors in life.

I feel thankful to those school friends of mine who treated me as a friend rather than use and throw buddy and never tried to exploit me physically or verbally and certainly it was all because of their good upbringing. So, I could clearly say that I remain in a complete persona mode because of the woman in my life apart from the one who has come in the form of a female acquaintance a few years back to give me the disrespect and demoralize me but certainly, the stronger soul in me took me to the right path and thus I  remained a consonant factor in my own life and attributes!