Being a super dude or super dud is something which is the thought process of achievers whether made by the public or the family backing and at times because of their professional commitments. For me, life remaining more simple and the way of earning to be confined within the resources which could give me more of love and adulation rather than hatred and also the money which is in huge amount could give me satisfaction unless it is the hard work whether in sports or studies.
Anything akin to free money coming from any rom-com or maybe because of some affinity to any bigger people could give me nothing but some thought where I just cannot peace or solace. Also, I do not find too much of fun into poking the matters of others as I always take inspiration from those who have been great and laborious in true ways.
If I remember my early childhood while making a visit to Patna at the maternal grandfather home I got less of love from those who were more or less behind the thought that for anything in life their family comes first and the second thought was helping the others. I remember some of the very ugly fights between the maternal uncles and aunts in the name of promoting their children for various serials of Doordarshan although I was least interested in such activities.
Most of the time the woman in that house used to fight among each other on small provocations and life was all about getting some kinds of roles in the films which were becoming a bigger mockery for them although they proudly speak of being a part of Padmini Kolhapuri and many others which I just could not believe and neither I heed any attention towards their talks.
Although, if I talk about my own family which was under Sri Chitranjan Prasad as the grandfather he was more of a person with a simple mantra " First prove your capability, then get the opportunity." According to him, nothing is free in the world and his children have to earn their own money through fair means to continue with their education.
His social upliftment way was to help the needy first and I did not have any personal privilege to be very near to him although I am the dearest to him. So, I could say that hard ways of life were all I could learn under him and I hardly argued with him and most of the time obeyed him just like a person obeys his senior.
These all ways of thought have imbibed me the particular way of life where I never like to be overhyped as a super dude or super dud and most of the time since I did not go into any mode of being very near to any political privilege I was more than to be an achiever on my own rather than a person with the thought of clinging to any person and making a mockery of the own family and always believe that father is like a banyan tree under whom a person grows less but remains safe which is more of a better approach in terms of survival!
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