Anything in this world is gained through reputation!

Reputation is something that is inbuilt in everyone's life and is more or less a part of the legacy. For many people, it is easy to get onto each other's heads and create an atmosphere from where it is difficult to breathe but still, the person could work on his ethics in the best of the ways. I could feel that it is easy to say that a person remains lonely at the top but most of the time when a person gains height in life whether he feels proud about it or just moves alone he gets all the adulation without any particular ill-will for him.

Only if we consider the small town and cities of Bihar and Bengal people go on a large extent of going berserk and destroy each other personally in the name of killing each other's reputation. It is easy to term anyone as egoistic and blame the person for any kind of misdeeds in life but if we watch oneself closely then most of the time the person who has been termed to be a destructive personality at least in your thoughts turn out to be the better one in every aspect of life.

The same could be said about women who remain not only obstacles but also shackles in the life of many of their near and dear ones and they just cannot go overboard as most of the time their own life sticks to the single word reputation. The same could be said about many other people whether in the locality or any other place including college and other places where they try to pull down the achievers although themselves could be said nothing as compared to the other person who may be a better person in every aspect of life.

The shameless attitude of women from Bihar has destroyed many good people's career and when it comes to bringing shame then they go overboard by displaying their character of shamelessness akin to a whore. If we see many other people who believe in woman consider that they are merely a way to enjoy the flesh and then it just does not affect life for her as the woman always changes her role in the best of the ways and for her, it is natural to get into an act.

Now, think about the man who enjoys the company of a woman who may have always dreamed of getting into the best of life and without using her as a staircase builds himself step by step in life, unfortunately, is not given any importance even by the male fraternity. It is all because the male in society believe that once the other person may become wrong with her or any other woman the other group will take advantage out of the woman who may create a brawl to showcase herself as better one and the male in his house to be a negligent one.

Although, the world has been carrying the same thought since ages, unfortunately, all those who try to change themselves never are given any respect and are considered to be meek although they might initiate a bigger change in the society. 

Now, getting back to the thought of anything in this world is gained through reputation it is necessary for the people to make a person a butt of all jokes and this does not kill him but give him enough courage to get back into life after many failures and this built his reputation for many years to come as compared to those who are given many things free in life without doing the hard work which is the base of creating rapport and reputation in life for many more years to come!

P.S.: Women enjoy in life by killing the reputation of any person through any means since the age of Mahabharat when Draupadi and Amba almost destroyed the entire kingdom but are still hailed by many as the change in society which is just akin to a foolish mindset!