Being less argumentative leads to depression!

Kahe or kyu are the two ways to start the arguments which could be said in English with one simple word i.e. "Why"? If you keep yourself limited to too much of a Yes Miss or Yes Sir ways in life then certainly the depression will get into your life whether you stay alone or with many people. For everything in life, there is something which is all about feeling free in your own ways, and for that, you don't have to consider yourself to be a King or a pauper.

In today's times when there are people who believe that choosing the right way to move ahead is removing the person who could be above you may lead to inner conflict in life. Giving backlash in the name of being less competitive may lead to making a mockery of your own. There are thousands of people in and around Ghaziabad where I stay have lifted themselves up through their own methods of life and also were with me during my school days and shifted the base after few years of life.

One could say that teaching our children about anything bad and bitter for a person like me will not only make you or any other person weak in your own thoughts, mind, and action but if involving your genes is concerned it will certainly create a negative impact on it.

There are different ways to tackle many things in life and certainly, everybody cannot take the path of relying entirely on the father's money to grow or just become something akin to a coolie in dockyard just like Sri Amitabh Bachhan in Deewar movie. I could say that I had a great image as a fan of Sri Amitabh Bachhan and for me, he still remains ever else but he never emulated any person from various sports backgrounds as he must not be very near to any sports after the coolie debacle.

Although, my way of life is not like him as it is impossible to compare a person with ordinary ways and still stay alive in the life of many people from my original city which is Bokaro Steel. I could say that as I used to discuss Master Navneet Kr. Sinha after visiting home from school so maybe other students must be discussing me. It was quite clear that the person who is now Mr. Navneet Kumar Sinha was all eyes during school days because of his antics in the classroom and was a great leg-puller.

Now, getting back to the point if I say that being less argumentative leads to depression so does having sex within the near and far family members also lead to the same sort of thoughts. For me, I was lucky not to have sex till the age of 32 and neither took any charge in terms of sex during school or in the neighborhood and not even within the family which is like cousins brothers and sisters.

This may have made a certain kind of mediocre image in their mind as in India most of the time the sex within the near and far family is done to create supremacy over each other and then count it in numbers to tease the person or make him look small in terms of deeds.

One thing is sure that if you have sex with anyone and if he or she refuses then you consider it to be a part of your ways of insult and at times it leads to conspiracy or also takes to various other theories in life whether practical or impractical ways including depression.

So, one could say that to stay in life without depression one should keep away from depressive thoughts also in terms of sex and certainly, anything related to being successful can be at any age later in life as for every person the life unlocks or gets locked at the right point of time and late boomers run for many long years rather than the early boomers who reach a certain height and from there they just stare at the endpoint of life considering that they have achieved everything including "Success".