An illegitimate child is always born by an illegitimate man!

With so many relationships where life is about bearing the word Najayaj Aulaad which has hampered the Indian mentality for many past decades and still doing so is all about making the child. Most of the time whether the woman or any girl who bears the child in her womb certainly looks for a relationship which should at least carry forward the name of the family however good, bad, or cruel the family is.

Any person who takes all obstacles in life to bring the child on earth tries to do it on his own and most of the time takes the belief that he will be able to get the best for him or her. On the other hand, once the family starts by any person there are many familiar characters in the form of goons or super goons who try to tarnish the image of the girl, and in many cases, it is all about bearing the bunt of producing illegitimate child not out of wedlock.

Thankfully, my father was a mature person and so was his father who was very strict on him and similarly my father also did not put any thought aside to beat the blues out of me on any small mistakes and although we were the only two children which were me and my sister.

Now, getting back to the thought of "an illegitimate child is always born by an illegitimate man" I personally deny that any person who is good from his thoughts and action will bear to have any children in this era where any thought about spending money on education to all kind of necessities is also getting difficult for the common people to bear.

On the other hand, there are people who took all the ways to give shape to the womb and from there on make the mockery of the woman by getting into desperate attempts to put their friends into dire straits by making her create a child. It is not easy to make a mockery of a woman by just producing a baby as it takes the male and female both to the receiving ends and still having an illegitimate child is all about many kinds of shame which carry a long way to be a matter of guilt in the society.

I personally may have heard at times "mujhe aapse ek baccha chahiye" but laughed it aside and never give any opportunity to the woman to have any kind except for the one who got married to me and this must have given my own mother something akin to peaceful existence which is very much necessary in her heydays.

Now, thinking about all those immoral ways wee the first thought is to make a woman pregnant and then take all away from her with the thought that giving back is as difficult as taking something away from her and since nowadays there are very less of Anath Ashrams it is not easy to behave like Pran Saheb (Just a Bollywood Trilogy) to create a child and then carry him or her to Haridwar from where the destiny could take better ways out of the child.

Also, it is difficult to make people understand as it is not the Shristi ka Niyam to give birth an illegitimate child and then find out any single person to make an easy mockery by adding the name of any person as the child bears the symptoms of his father even in the animals and that is called the base of civilization along with survival instinct!