Anything in this world is gained through reputation!

Reputation is something that is inbuilt in everyone's life and is more or less a part of the legacy. For many people, it is easy to get onto each other's heads and create an atmosphere from where it is difficult to breathe but still, the person could work on his ethics in the best of the ways. I could feel that it is easy to say that a person remains lonely at the top but most of the time when a person gains height in life whether he feels proud about it or just moves alone he gets all the adulation without any particular ill-will for him.

Only if we consider the small town and cities of Bihar and Bengal people go on a large extent of going berserk and destroy each other personally in the name of killing each other's reputation. It is easy to term anyone as egoistic and blame the person for any kind of misdeeds in life but if we watch oneself closely then most of the time the person who has been termed to be a destructive personality at least in your thoughts turn out to be the better one in every aspect of life.

The same could be said about women who remain not only obstacles but also shackles in the life of many of their near and dear ones and they just cannot go overboard as most of the time their own life sticks to the single word reputation. The same could be said about many other people whether in the locality or any other place including college and other places where they try to pull down the achievers although themselves could be said nothing as compared to the other person who may be a better person in every aspect of life.

The shameless attitude of women from Bihar has destroyed many good people's career and when it comes to bringing shame then they go overboard by displaying their character of shamelessness akin to a whore. If we see many other people who believe in woman consider that they are merely a way to enjoy the flesh and then it just does not affect life for her as the woman always changes her role in the best of the ways and for her, it is natural to get into an act.

Now, think about the man who enjoys the company of a woman who may have always dreamed of getting into the best of life and without using her as a staircase builds himself step by step in life, unfortunately, is not given any importance even by the male fraternity. It is all because the male in society believe that once the other person may become wrong with her or any other woman the other group will take advantage out of the woman who may create a brawl to showcase herself as better one and the male in his house to be a negligent one.

Although, the world has been carrying the same thought since ages, unfortunately, all those who try to change themselves never are given any respect and are considered to be meek although they might initiate a bigger change in the society. 

Now, getting back to the thought of anything in this world is gained through reputation it is necessary for the people to make a person a butt of all jokes and this does not kill him but give him enough courage to get back into life after many failures and this built his reputation for many years to come as compared to those who are given many things free in life without doing the hard work which is the base of creating rapport and reputation in life for many more years to come!

P.S.: Women enjoy in life by killing the reputation of any person through any means since the age of Mahabharat when Draupadi and Amba almost destroyed the entire kingdom but are still hailed by many as the change in society which is just akin to a foolish mindset!

Fitness was a fad untill people discovered easy ways!

Being fit and fine is the necessity of every human being and helps to avoid many types of diseases and various other ailments. From the past many years, the people all across the world were confined to joining gyms and various other places where they use to spend hours to train themselves.

They use to get ripped in terms of muscle mass and it was all about managing and maintaining their bodies with the various types of whey protein and also getting obsessed with managing dietary instructions was one of the particular ways to enjoy a great bod.

After spending much of the time in gym's where people spend an enormous annual subscription or monthly fees people found that it was east to do it in the open park and places and the morning fresh air was also doing the magic in their life instead of those places where the AC Splits were putting all the dust into their lungs making it heavier which is more harmful than smoking.

Most such places have bigger AC ducts which although looks pumping finer air but at the same time it has all the heavy dust particles as most of the AC duct do not get the cleaning for many months whether one talks about auto-cleaning.

Now, on the other hand, those people who go for long walks or running and walking as an exercise get much of the benefits as they are constantly giving benefits to their every muscular part of the body. So, it gives a complete form of exercise whether it is the cardio-torso-biceps-triceps and stomach adding full part of the body movements.

Although, such people may or may not look muscular over the clothing and most of the time their faces may also look less oily the person gathers great momentum and strength with some little bit of exercise.

Those people who do not love lifting heavy weights could do a certain set of push-ups and planks which will give the same benefit instead of those who spend a fortune over personal gym trainer. So, one could say that fitness is rather a goal which could be done through some easier ways rather than getting into some aspect where you spend millions. Then all you get is a free place to get the ill-will and prying eyes of those who are always on the look for finding something which is a momentary benefit for some and less on good for the others where you burn calories by getting angry leading to hypertension and blood pressure in return!

I never like to be overhyped as a superdude or superdud!

Being a super dude or super dud is something which is the thought process of achievers whether made by the public or the family backing and at times because of their professional commitments. For me, life remaining more simple and the way of earning to be confined within the resources which could give me more of love and adulation rather than hatred and also the money which is in huge amount could give me satisfaction unless it is the hard work whether in sports or studies.

Anything akin to free money coming from any rom-com or maybe because of some affinity to any bigger people could give me nothing but some thought where I just cannot peace or solace. Also, I do not find too much of fun into poking the matters of others as I always take inspiration from those who have been great and laborious in true ways.

If I remember my early childhood while making a visit to Patna at the maternal grandfather home I got less of love from those who were more or less behind the thought that for anything in life their family comes first and the second thought was helping the others. I remember some of the very ugly fights between the maternal uncles and aunts in the name of promoting their children for various serials of Doordarshan although I was least interested in such activities.

Most of the time the woman in that house used to fight among each other on small provocations and life was all about getting some kinds of roles in the films which were becoming a bigger mockery for them although they proudly speak of being a part of Padmini Kolhapuri and many others which I just could not believe and neither I heed any attention towards their talks.

Although, if I talk about my own family which was under Sri Chitranjan Prasad as the grandfather he was more of a person with a simple mantra " First prove your capability, then get the opportunity." According to him, nothing is free in the world and his children have to earn their own money through fair means to continue with their education. 

His social upliftment way was to help the needy first and I did not have any personal privilege to be very near to him although I am the dearest to him. So, I could say that hard ways of life were all I could learn under him and I hardly argued with him and most of the time obeyed him just like a person obeys his senior.

These all ways of thought have imbibed me the particular way of life where I never like to be overhyped as a super dude or super dud and most of the time since I did not go into any mode of being very near to any political privilege I was more than to be an achiever on my own rather than a person with the thought of clinging to any person and making a mockery of the own family and always believe that father is like a banyan tree under whom a person grows less but remains safe which is more of a better approach in terms of survival!

Summer raise the temperature of Indian mindset & so does monsoon!

India is a country that is known for its diverse climatic condition and whether the monsoon as the rainy season creates any calming effect or not it just does not give any better returns to Indians. The country which has been a more or less political stage could be seen as the sudden movement of troops to its borders every year during summer. 

Any country which is wise will get some solution just like the Wall of China which was made to protect the country from Mongols. The same can never be done in the form of fencing but when Pakistan will keep itself occupied with making friendship with India then China will be staring at it.

Once China keeps quiet then Bangladesh will be taking the advantage and then at times Nepal or Sri Lanka will return the favor.

Once the year passes by certain particular days will be seen as the Border forces on both sides exchanging sweets and further showing the people their military strength and capabilities. Now, if we compare this with our society people it is more or less the same set of people who have reached at certain levels by adapting a few successful kids or using them by luring them into sex and from there on such boys and men will be nothing more than a personality who can run amok on you or anyone else without showing any mercy.

Such is the wayward and disgraceful life of kids and their foster mothers that they just cannot see each other with respect and also understanding each other is something which is just like riding cabs or auto of different drivers and then is on their easy mercy. It is more or less just like an auto driver who can dump you anywhere and may overcharge you which may be the women and children must have learned from their small cities were calling an ambulance was not a solution but taking the help of auto-wallah was far easier.

The same could be said about the teachers with half-cooked knowledge who could fight on games and sports day to show their belongingness towards certain wards and at the same time were ready to kill the aspirations of others and few could take a momentous step of showing desperation by trying to burn the face of any emerging athlete. This all used to happen with the women of small mentality at schools and the girl or the boy who used to run with the flame torch have to save their faces at their own expense which have created many controversies in the school.

One could say that summer raise the temperature of Indian mindset and so does monsoon where small-time politicians put all their effort to showcase the country to bring their think tanks to stand nowhere but divert the mind of the guys who are akin to pimps and for them, every girl is an opportunity to develop their own sets of prostitutes.

So, more or less the country is nothing more than a place for those who were deprived of basic needs and dirt and squalor is a part of life for many years but maybe a show-off is just a part of their skin or character. Study or education is just a thought which can never give them any way to lead as anything including politics and power is just an inbuilt game that only leads to chaos and destruction!

Nepotism or Bhai Bhatijawad is never a cultural aspect for India!

During the Mahabharat era, no nepotism was found and for the Pandavas and the Kauravas, it was all about fighting for their own supremacy. Similarly,  even during the British raj, all the provinces of India use to fight among themselves but the positive effect of British rule was the unification of all the parts of India under one common flag.

Now, thinking about Nepotism or Bhai-Bhatijawad is never a cultural aspect of India it is just a useless thought which is a part of this current generation. All I could say is that in the name of fake nepotism where we say that our own people are bigger than anyone else and one has to think about our own sets of brothers and sisters is just a passing thought rather than a permanent way of living.

If we see the current party which is ruling at the center as BJP it is not having any particular kind of Bhai Bhatijawad and most of the elected representatives are from different backgrounds. Similar, to say about the AAM Aadmi party which has people from different walks of life but if we remember Congress (I) then it could be certainly said that it was full of fake nepotism.

The two brothers Sri Sanjay Gandhi and Sri Rajiv Gandhi did not see an eye to eye and the same could be said about Sri Varun Gandhi (BJP) and Sri Rahul Gandhi the prominent person from the current congress scenario.

One could say that life moves forward with ease when we have different kinds of people as friends, philosopher, and guide from various states, towns, and also the village of our own. Instead of having two many camaraderies within their own family, it is necessary to have a friendship from all walks of people leading to successful ways of life.

One could say that for any small thing one relies too much only upon the family when we are short on resources or knowledge. Once the mother-father does everything for us it is our own responsibility to carry the life aspect through our own ways of earnings from where one could survive easily and a husband and wife could carry the life easier to govern life.

Think about the earlier civilization like Mohenja Daro and Harappa where the family set-up was all about doing agriculture within the family system and earning through peaceful means which led to helping the people to grow in life without much of a fight within the family.

Also, coming up as a family to pressurize others is done by a weaker mindset of people who just cannot stand on their own. For me as a person, my father always insisted me to stand on my own and he helped me with only my studies expenses and for my mother, he arranged enough for making her own home. Apart from that he never ever tried me or my sister to get over him or in any case overpower him for any kind of help which was not good according to his own set of principles.

Very early in our lives, we understood the meaning of patriarchal ways of life, and my sister Sweta Srivastava and I as Mukesh Kumar rarely thought of understanding or taking Nepotism as a principle to govern our life systems.

If the thought-provoking belief is coming up nowadays it is all about the civil society discarding the concept again and first thinking about oneself rather than considering the brother or sister from different families to get most out of it. If nepotism is existing it is all about getting under various political party flags and then devoting the wholehearted time and effort to get most out of it which could lead to finding better ways of getting the most out of life. I also believe for that particular thought of mind it is not necessary to get on the honking mode of one particular name which is "Mukesh Kumar" as I cannot directly or indirectly bring any particular benefits to anyone and the same could be said for me as well as I never tried to take advantage of my father's name Sri Upendra Vidyarthi or the grand-father Sri Chitranjan Prasad to gather any momentum in life or reap some benefit out of their bigger social cauldron.

Sleeping giant cannot reach the heart of others!

If we the people of Bokaro Steel City could look into each other and ask ourselves about the truth most of us who tried to be a show-off were more or less a sleeping giant. The city which has given temporary relief to the economy apart from few people into various IITs was nothing more than fluke who could be found into the coveted institutes maybe because of the quota system.

Apart from that most of the monstrous business was all with the help of Steel plant and it's an ancillary unit that was found to be within the hands of the contractors and businessman. The better name to be found was BIADA or Bokaro Industrial Authority Development Association. On the other hand, all those who were not from the part of IIT or the engineering trade could be seen into various other cultural aspects of life such as Radio Jockeying, Sports and also trying to move their life through various positive ways which could be into at times Television and Film Industry. All this has made the city once very much popular with people from all walks of life getting into each other helm and now most of the people could be seen getting into each other with a positive frame of mind without any ill will against each other.

On the contrary, there were few who believed that keeping a larger section of women and womanizing through the best of the ways could make them into a better source of people. If we see such kind of people then the prominent one was a person by the name of Mr. Thakur who although did not have any son or daughter of his own but few women for the company and was actually a person who was not more than a pimp for the officers and contractors at Bokaro Steel. He used to stay at Sector 4-G near Vishwakarma Mandir and his way was to showcase the women of young age as his children and with their help he uses to carry a lesser-known flesh trade. 

The person in him could be said a sleeping giant cannot reach the heart of others but was known to be dear within the coal mafia in the adjacent town which was Dhanbad. So, one could understand that all the bad vibes in the society start from the place which has a background of wine and women and most of the time such people are found to be someone among us which a common man cannot object but remains confined with their ways because most of us love the wine, women and both of these are associated with the power which is the most important or lifeline of politics as well.

One could say that as an ordinary citizen one could only find such people to be a part of well-oiled machinery who try to use their name and fame as camouflage to destroy the mentality of others and women, in particular, try to lift such people in the name of making money from them and lead a life of licentiousness or ayashi in particular. On the contrary, those who do not believe in such people and shun them away are considered to be a motley fool who just could not do anything on his own.

Women never shun negative vibes in life!

To be frank and precise when I see my life of the past 40 years I could find that most of the time while those who were at the receiving ends have been men at the mercy of the women.b at least in India. In any of the fields, it is the best of the honking done by the women who go on speaking against the male population and undermine their achievements. 

Although, everywhere the man has tried to lift the women and helped her to get their life settled and become prosperous in every possible way. Still, in India, the women never leave blabbering in their own weird ways and put all kinds of blames which leads to frustration in the menfolk in general. I was never a womanizer and never took any step in my life to be near to them in terms of finding their proximity and it helped me to stay away from something which could be the last weapon in the hands of women where they use there body or sexuality to oppress the man.

In most cases including politics what could be seen is that women first give all of her ways by shedding clothes and getting promiscuous with men and once the relationship reaches a certain level she takes the most out of it. If she is not given due importance then all the thought is to go forward to press and media just like any other woman who takes the disgraceful step of making her chances without getting into the better thoughts and ways.

The same could be said not for the American media where life is all about scrutinizing the male and female behavior on an equal pan of the weighing scale and then find out the reason to get the best out of any issue in the true favor.

Also, I do not believe in getting my name dragged for any controversial reasons as I have tried my best not to get involved in any kind of sexual or illicit relationship in all the decades which have governed my life. Still, with all those who do not believe that their children have achieved something in life and are not satisfied with their own achievements go on speaking against a person like me who has always talked the right length with my great grandparents to help the needy at any possible ways 

For me, the people all around me were more or less like the near and dear ones for me and I always tried to give equal status to everyone in any of the societies. One could say that having a sexual relationship without any reason may lead to shame but what about those who do not make the relationship and are still at the receiving ends which shows that the women involved are actually the disgruntled one and had a reason of being a kind of thief or disgraceful women who are not liked or enjoyed by the people of the society. 

I could say that my mother always saved me from such kind of woman and this just could not put me into any kind of catch 22 situation or getting a kind of evil sense within me which helped me to govern my life in the best of the ways. 

With always staying away from the women with nocturnal instincts it clearly shows how worse is the kind of human chain where the only way where the women know is to get fucked and then play tantrums which shows that women never shun negative vibes in life!

Nepal is the only country which has given everything to India!

Jail Nepal, Jai Pashupatinath!... Nepal is the only Hindu Country which has given everything to India from it's crowned jewels to the Mukut or the Crown. If we see the relationship with India and Nepal then the altercation could be found only on the Bihar Border but even the Gorakhpur shares its Border with Nepal. 

Just think about the person like Tenzing Norgay or the Nepali Rajbala Miss Manisha Koirala along with Patanjali co-founder Acharya Balkrishan. The other prominent person is Sri Sunil Chettri but as we see that there is some tension between India and Nepal one thinks what is the issue? 

The people from Nepal and India are found to be in natural bonhomie with each other and the good thing is that a person from Nepal even in the UK Army does not leave his citizenship even for money and life which is good in the UK as a comparison to Nepal.

This shows there fondness towards their own land and resources and the love in common which is found only in the people of Nepal. Any other country citizen immediately changes their citizenship and move to any other country but in spite of life being difficult in Nepal, none of the citizens at any cost leaves the nation although they can go for some other country or place to work.

In this way, one could see that in India whether it is the Gorkha battalion which is known for its valor and bravery take the country which is India to a great level and given many times the pride to the country by helping them to win many wars.

One could say that Nepal is the only country that has given everything to India and one could find that this year probably for the first time there is some cross-border fight between the two countries. I think both the country has to think about the prosperity for each other and as cross border terrorism is getting over so this might be the new plan for making the countries weak in politics and all other ways.

Both the countries are dependent on each other not only in terms of helping each other in terms of economy but in every aspect of life Nepal is known to be more or less like the most faithful friend of India and in this way, one could say that if both the countries will not think about carrying the better aspect of life, property and relationship then the country and the economy on both sides will suffer for a long time leading to the downfall of the nations!

Bandit Queen movie could not teach the woman!

The Shekhar Kapoor's movie Bandit Queen which was one of the best performances by many of the stalwarts including Seema Biswas and Mandakini just could not teach the woman about the society which is harsh in its own ways. The country which is India is more or less about suppressing the people who keep to themselves and it could be either male or female. Here, at every point in time, a person has to find his own ways to grow and vested political interest could reach the most common of the people.

Every one of us tries to get into the helm of each other and it is easy to become a person which is akin to becoming Godfather, Personally, I hate the terminology of being over-dependent on any person, company or profile and for me, my own thoughts are bigger and better than anyone else. The constant haggling and banters by all those who have known me from the past just make me believe that certainly, they could not have reached the kind of height in their life which could give them a solace of peace and solitude.

It was easy to study for me and also not being termed as studious while it was easier for the people to heap their achievements by pouring money at every place. Unfortunately, those people who could have become the guiding light for millions of students like us went into the thought of suppressing the students in the larger interest of their own children.

Thankfully, all those people who tried to give a status for their children to be a star performer into various technical institutes could be found creating a mockery of their own and it was akin to their flight getting back to discard them without any technical faults. Sometimes, the words are more powerful and if they have a positive influence on the world then the people who are merely pawns in the eye of society try to easily discard them while the world tries to change with the thinking.

On the other hand, all those women who believe that their uglier thoughts will prevail in society just try to play with the thoughts of the male and the same could be understood by those men with more of a feminine approach in life.

If we take an example of a movie which is Bandit Queen one could say that Bandit Queen movie could not teach the woman in India to be more thoughtful towards their better ways of living but their constant thought of having ill will against each other lead to something which is akin to their own frustration which just could not provide them an orgy.

Also, blaming one single person as an institution made a mockery of their own, and finding a new path to become successful is not their way of life. Getting into drug and prostitution is their last thought and they find it easy to use their own body to chart their path which could lead to more of frustration and if we think deeper in the terms of movie it was all about the frustration of the woman to find solace in getting raped and then kill those who were behind the tortures.

Similarly. the society is full of those primal people who believe that creating an image of a victim could help them and it could be seen in many people who try to persuade their women and their home as an open cage from where they could find a way to exploit others and get the most out of it by having fun out of other an to get into their helm and then it is all about exploiting the sense which is akin to guilt and shame.

I, personally feel that reaching the height without much of a help is not an easy way and contradicting each other from where discarding one person and trying to overpower others is not politics but it was the first step of downfall which has put many of the parties getting defunct and the same could be seen with many parties of Bihar were adapting 9 to 11 people just could not let them grow and then downfall was near as showcasing the women to become rich is akin to the selling of flesh and it could be well-understood nothing more as a technique of bandits who put everything at the stake by showing their supremacy of rape and torture on others as well as their team members!

An illegitimate child is always born by an illegitimate man!

With so many relationships where life is about bearing the word Najayaj Aulaad which has hampered the Indian mentality for many past decades and still doing so is all about making the child. Most of the time whether the woman or any girl who bears the child in her womb certainly looks for a relationship which should at least carry forward the name of the family however good, bad, or cruel the family is.

Any person who takes all obstacles in life to bring the child on earth tries to do it on his own and most of the time takes the belief that he will be able to get the best for him or her. On the other hand, once the family starts by any person there are many familiar characters in the form of goons or super goons who try to tarnish the image of the girl, and in many cases, it is all about bearing the bunt of producing illegitimate child not out of wedlock.

Thankfully, my father was a mature person and so was his father who was very strict on him and similarly my father also did not put any thought aside to beat the blues out of me on any small mistakes and although we were the only two children which were me and my sister.

Now, getting back to the thought of "an illegitimate child is always born by an illegitimate man" I personally deny that any person who is good from his thoughts and action will bear to have any children in this era where any thought about spending money on education to all kind of necessities is also getting difficult for the common people to bear.

On the other hand, there are people who took all the ways to give shape to the womb and from there on make the mockery of the woman by getting into desperate attempts to put their friends into dire straits by making her create a child. It is not easy to make a mockery of a woman by just producing a baby as it takes the male and female both to the receiving ends and still having an illegitimate child is all about many kinds of shame which carry a long way to be a matter of guilt in the society.

I personally may have heard at times "mujhe aapse ek baccha chahiye" but laughed it aside and never give any opportunity to the woman to have any kind except for the one who got married to me and this must have given my own mother something akin to peaceful existence which is very much necessary in her heydays.

Now, thinking about all those immoral ways wee the first thought is to make a woman pregnant and then take all away from her with the thought that giving back is as difficult as taking something away from her and since nowadays there are very less of Anath Ashrams it is not easy to behave like Pran Saheb (Just a Bollywood Trilogy) to create a child and then carry him or her to Haridwar from where the destiny could take better ways out of the child.

Also, it is difficult to make people understand as it is not the Shristi ka Niyam to give birth an illegitimate child and then find out any single person to make an easy mockery by adding the name of any person as the child bears the symptoms of his father even in the animals and that is called the base of civilization along with survival instinct!

No mother can become a father!

People say that every woman has some traits of the father in her but if I think it to be the right thought about fatherhood on father's day then it could certainly be said that no mother can become a father. A father is actually a person who has a genome to adapt his lifestyle all according to his capability and he can go to a bigger extent in life to give back to his family through his won survival extinct.

Instead of thinking about the person who has helped to attain motherhood to the woman she immediately carries the boy or girl in her arms and leaves the house in the name of finding another person who may either exploit her or throw her into many such ways from where the life could be into a vicious circle of enjoyment of her own.

If you will see a woman anywhere in society you will find that she inspires only to take the life out of you and then leave you at the mercy of various other persons who are not the social person. Most of the time one could find that if there are two ladies in one house who may be sisters they try to take the attention of the person whom the elder sister is married and from there on it might happen that the family may become the butt of al jokes. 

Also, these days one could find that two women and one man syndrome or one man two women could be found in many families and people either keep such type of lifestyle in the name of considering it to be a culture which is very much akin to some feudal owners. If in any case earlier if two sisters use to stay in the name of spending a few months then society use to object it easily but now the trends have changed or maybe the society has set up the new norm of social behavior.

Settling up with the failures and destroying the capable people to show the supremacy and tendency for those who just could not achieve anything on life but taking the advantage of political or any other well-known acumen could be said to be a way of the behavior which is akin to nothing but a disturbing childhood where the person must have got no fathers or fore-fathers but just a way to spend some time with the person who might be occasional visitors.

I personally think that testing the sexual capabilities at school is just a way to tarnish one's own image and from there on one just could not get the better response unless some girls who might be promiscuous in their won ways who persuade the guys to enjoy sex and make them feel small before the eyes of others.

Also, all those who just have the ability to show their masculine traits could be found to be good enough as jokingly land Zietesh had enough but was with a bitter taste. He easily uses to say that love is the privilege of the rich but when it comes to richness the style was found maybe with less fun and humor but a face which was found to be with enough guilt. It was akin not to give back anything to the world of humans and masculinity was akin to feminism making him feel like an overused personality. There may be someone who used him enough for numbers and I feel personally bad for the exploitation he faced in life!

Being less argumentative leads to depression!

Kahe or kyu are the two ways to start the arguments which could be said in English with one simple word i.e. "Why"? If you keep yourself limited to too much of a Yes Miss or Yes Sir ways in life then certainly the depression will get into your life whether you stay alone or with many people. For everything in life, there is something which is all about feeling free in your own ways, and for that, you don't have to consider yourself to be a King or a pauper.

In today's times when there are people who believe that choosing the right way to move ahead is removing the person who could be above you may lead to inner conflict in life. Giving backlash in the name of being less competitive may lead to making a mockery of your own. There are thousands of people in and around Ghaziabad where I stay have lifted themselves up through their own methods of life and also were with me during my school days and shifted the base after few years of life.

One could say that teaching our children about anything bad and bitter for a person like me will not only make you or any other person weak in your own thoughts, mind, and action but if involving your genes is concerned it will certainly create a negative impact on it.

There are different ways to tackle many things in life and certainly, everybody cannot take the path of relying entirely on the father's money to grow or just become something akin to a coolie in dockyard just like Sri Amitabh Bachhan in Deewar movie. I could say that I had a great image as a fan of Sri Amitabh Bachhan and for me, he still remains ever else but he never emulated any person from various sports backgrounds as he must not be very near to any sports after the coolie debacle.

Although, my way of life is not like him as it is impossible to compare a person with ordinary ways and still stay alive in the life of many people from my original city which is Bokaro Steel. I could say that as I used to discuss Master Navneet Kr. Sinha after visiting home from school so maybe other students must be discussing me. It was quite clear that the person who is now Mr. Navneet Kumar Sinha was all eyes during school days because of his antics in the classroom and was a great leg-puller.

Now, getting back to the point if I say that being less argumentative leads to depression so does having sex within the near and far family members also lead to the same sort of thoughts. For me, I was lucky not to have sex till the age of 32 and neither took any charge in terms of sex during school or in the neighborhood and not even within the family which is like cousins brothers and sisters.

This may have made a certain kind of mediocre image in their mind as in India most of the time the sex within the near and far family is done to create supremacy over each other and then count it in numbers to tease the person or make him look small in terms of deeds.

One thing is sure that if you have sex with anyone and if he or she refuses then you consider it to be a part of your ways of insult and at times it leads to conspiracy or also takes to various other theories in life whether practical or impractical ways including depression.

So, one could say that to stay in life without depression one should keep away from depressive thoughts also in terms of sex and certainly, anything related to being successful can be at any age later in life as for every person the life unlocks or gets locked at the right point of time and late boomers run for many long years rather than the early boomers who reach a certain height and from there they just stare at the endpoint of life considering that they have achieved everything including "Success".

Politicians cry true tears but make easy mockery of own!

Well if I say that after doing everything to the people of state or country once when the politicians look back to find if he has done something for himself most of the time he finds himself alone and lonely. Most of the people who take benefit of him easily try to hide the fact or most of the time run away from him or her thinking that they will take it away.

The image of any other defaulters in terms of using the ways to make money such as bank heist or any other easy way such as prostitution and gambling is not given any bigger importance but all those people who work under any political party when taking advantage of their banners then they are immediately prosecuted.

Any learned man does not take advantage of the people and most of the time the people who try to spoil their own home find to get under the tutelage of many people who may give political benefits. Such is the thought of people esp. in India that without the help of any bigger person none of us can grow in life.

The moment our children grow we start bowing before the politicians and it depends whether he takes advantage of the mother, wife, or child of yours or shows the right path in life. Also, those who are under the real tutelage of any politicians in their family system most of the time try to stay away or take benefits in life.

Few of those who get the benefits just try to show off in a different way and considering the person to be his Godfather try to give a thought of becoming the supremo from where the real face could be seen. The personality traits differ from one person to another and those people who consider themselves to be a kind of supremo just get the flak in the long run.

On the other hand, if you see the person who gets the backing to become something such as any particular post of benefit could find to be with all awkward sense of promoting themselves and at times when they just could not prove their worth are found to be of no use to the public.

If we think that people like Sri Rajiv Gandhi, Sri Vishwanath Pratap Singh must have done some significant contribution to lifting the Indian masses but certainly as politicians cry true tears but make an easy mockery of their own. They too got the similar returns which are the well-managed behavior of Indian masses and so the future politicians too will face the same catch-22 situation in life and the bitter truth will make them feel uneasy at times but certainly, such statements make them cry which is "aapne mere liye kiya kya hai", but few of them could say it with a head held high which will give them thought to be standing on their own without harming their political status!

Being a person with a tidy image in politics is almost possible!

With the time when the Internet has made the world a place to easily understand each other and analyze each other on a daily basis, the significance of Karma is getting over. All those preachers who talk about good and bad karma are easily facing the flak because the good deeds are counted not on a weighing scale and feeding the stray dogs to be precise.

It is all about humanity with broader perspectives as animals although take the food easily but have a real talking sense through eyes and expressions and give an equal answer about stating your shortcomings and better thoughts. The thought of those persons who were into various karma incarnations and then distributed their fortune which they have amassed after making people fools through mere talks could find themselves standing nowhere.

On the other hand, all those who took the path of serving the nation with a well-defined path from where they could make others grow through all the means just could not have got better time to be ahead all according to the good times which could be seen synonymous with their line of duty.

If many people are responsible for the motherland and the people irrespective of caste, creed and religion have got better vibes from the public and one could say that being a person with a tidy image in politics is almost possible.

Those people who have tarnished their image as an authoritarian and making their family to deliberately come first in life rather than lifting the common people could have an easy laugh on others as they are habitual to do so. Once life comes full circle it is easy to understand the way a person has guided himself and also his deeds tell-all about the past. 

Most of the time what one looks in a  man is his clean image where he has not been into any kind of immoral act such as bribery, murder, or any other such charges which carry on for a long time in life. Serving society is an easier task these days and thankfully the concept of Sewa karo, mewa milega is something which is just a mockery of an inner self. 

Since anything whether the medical assistance or modes of transport have become easy so people who try to talk about making a clear road for you in the field of politics also first try to see how much as a person you have contributed towards the society and how much did you take benefit for your own i.e. creating a fortune without being laborious.

So, one could say that if a person who has been not into image building or moreover finding a path of his own could not become successful as in India most of the time political advantage remains within the family system or like-minded people but for that one has to excel in your own field to get the right pat on the back and from there-on, you can be a person who could serve the interest of the public as well as the political leader.

P.S: With Bihar elections getting to be a different one as the voting could be online based the campaigns will be different and more Internet media will be the part of the campaign. It will help the tech-savvy youth to rule but as a person, for me, it will be more or less a speculative measure as I am inclined towards sports and studies. For me, politics is all about the battle of grey and silver hair which is 60 years and above i.e. the real age of maturity.

Depression is not an ailment it is a condition!

A case of depression is not an ailment it is a condition that is the most common occurrence in life. Different people get depressed due to some of the other reasons in life. Most people go through this situation and the worst thought is of suicide. One could say that to come out of it quickly one should try a near about death experience which could be safe but could prove to be an easy way to get rid of it.

It can be jumping into a waterfall or a small meandering river from where you could come out easily without getting drowned. The fear of death is the best way to overcome depression and such thoughts and once a person overcomes it then he or she may feel free forever. 

Also, those people who target someone on a permanent basis should know that the personal traits differ and there are chances that the more you think about someone and make him or her a target or a butt of a joke the heart somewhere inside starts getting rebellious against you. 

This could lead to suicidal thought and then you cannot get away from easily as once your heart takes the place of your mind in terms of thoughts and thinking then it persuades you to get into the wrong tide of life.

If one could ask you to battle an easy way od depression then it can be getting into the prayers mode or sports of your choice can help you to get over the sadistic thought. Also, thinking about one man or woman for a long period of time makes you suicidal as you take the terminology of either killing him or her or getting killed by some of the other ways. 

Also, visiting psychiatrists and taking medicines are of lesser use as it seems that the psychiatrist himself is trying to get cured by understanding you and in this way, the situation becomes more or less similar to nothing more than an absurd joke. 

The best way to deal with depression is to have sex with the man or woman with whom your compatible and getting into love under the shower or some wild places such as river bed or waterfall treats the best of the ways to come out of depression.

If one asks the reason for depression then it is more or less because your suddenly becoming incompetent and that could be either in studies, sports, or your own job profile. There are people who get praise from everyone and once he or she does not get that praise or get less of work and other such things which could make him feel underrated leads to depression.

One could also say that living in a very big house for a middle-class boy makes it easily vulnerable to depression as it leads to nocturnal fears and constant fear of people taking away everything leads to depression. 

So, the best way to deal with depression is to do your own things which could make one happier without hurting anyone and understand that depression is not an ailment but it is a condition from where one could come out easily and the best way to overcome is to conquer the fear of death and enjoy sex which maybe your fantasy but try avoiding sex with animals as they take a very heavy toll in terms of sex and they over-ride you after sometimes making you feel uneasy and so does humans who are sadist in nature!

Panchseel-Truly was a way to tarnish image with neighbours!

Panchseel Value which is one of the most well-defined Nehruvian Diplomacy has become non-existence these days. Although Sri Jawaharlal Nehru was able to formulate a policy with neighboring countries the most prominent of which is China, still the clashes between the countries have become common since India fought the 1962 War.

Now, thinking about what Panchseel means on elaborate terms the five principles were as follows:

1. Mutual respect for each other territorial integrity and sovereignty

2. Mutual non-aggression

3. Mutual non-interference

4. Equality and mutual benefit

5. Peaceful co-existence

By larger thought, panchseel-truly was a way to tarnish the image with the neighboring countries. The five prominent neighbors of India are China, Pakistan, Sri Lanka, Bangladesh, and Nepal. Although, Tibet also shares a greater boundary with India and so does Bhutan and Myanmar most of the time these three countries do not have any major conflict and if ever it happens then the easiest way is to solve it through controlled aggression.

Now, the bigger fact is that Sri Jawaharlal Nehru who used to take most of the issues with the United Nations never considered any bilateral talks with any country and he was less diplomatic and more of a person who tried to take forward the image of his father's lawyer instinct. Although, both Son and father were wary of each other but instead of understanding the way to provide a solution his easiest way was to get into fights and this could harm not only the nation but all its resources were most of the time spend on fighting wars.

It led to a country getting engulfed into poverty and the mind of people also become poverty-stricken. The other aspect was of people although not an aggressor with a smaller sense their fondness was to have girls from all these small nations and most of the human trafficking got through Nepal borders along with Bangladesh and further Pakistan and China making India a center of flesh trade.

On could say that places like China Town into Calcutta and many other markets were a part of Chinese cauldron and once the places were full of half Chinese and Half Indian Descent with Sikkim being the part for an easy movement it was obvious for China to find a way to India and try to annex the territory.

In this way, the same could be seen in parts of Punjab and Kashmir where infiltration was easy during the early days, and once the population increased their loyalty got superseded towards their parent nation. The same is the thing one could understand for parts of Bangladesh and further into Sri-Lanka.

So, one could say that if only India would have got a better Prime Minister to serve the nation then it could have been a nation with less of issues and more of progress but all the policies remained on paper and without getting into the productive mode people have also learned the easy way of brawls which could be seen in the thinking and working of people!

A true nation is one where citizens are given equal value as ex-pats!

If I say that a true nation is one where citizens are given equal value as ex-pats then it is our nation where the foreigners are always held a more of respect and this makes them garner our resources in the best of the ways. Although, it is the duty of our every citizen once I visited Cambodia and Singapore it made me understand that people from the smallest of the country whether economically weak or strong first give importance to their own nationals. 

This is the first step towards the thought of making the nation stronger and if BJP took a chance to win over the hearts of common Indians it certainly made a great deal about the nationality of Miss Sonia Gandhi. Earlier, the Nehruvian Era took a great way to praise all things foreign and foreign nationals with his way to give importance to foreign-related thoughts and also developing a softer side towards the white ways rather than African, Asian or even the Indian national neighbors.

Instead of creating a bonhomie with Pakistan, China, and even Nepal, Bangladesh, the country leaders put all its effort to destabilize the country.

It took many years of fight within the system and it was an easy way to put the nation into the darkness and plunder the resources which could be seen during the war of 1962 with China and it leads to the nation still having some tussles with the neighboring countries.  

Now, if we think about many other related fields where sports are prominent instead of nurturing some people from various other countries and giving them all the aspects such as making captains out of some different country nationals do not give any benefit to the country. In the long run, when it comes to getting into the International Federation matches only one single player makes everything go for a toss and the entire national team can at times get ousted without any reason.

If only people follow the sports to the core they could understand the guidelines, terms, and conditions and then select the players accordingly whereas all those who are naturally talented players are known to face the abuses.

So, it could be clearly understood that although age does not matter into sports performance matters and once you understand that however good a person is from a foreign descent he will first try to make his name bigger rather than thinking good for the nation which could be understood here as India but certainly we Indians first kick our own soul and trample them and then give a pat on the back of ex-pats who anyways care a damn for the nation and nationals!

India is a country where sure success gets the maidan!

Maidan is a terminology which is not very encouraging according to my thoughts. It is a word which certainly does not describe any playing field but a stretch of barren land which is full of spooky environments, some unknown and mystic hideouts and shrubs along with bushes which could be a hideout for stray animals whether wild or domestic. 

Although, my pointer is not towards the upcoming Ajay Devgan's starer movie Maidan if anyone of us has been into those places where a level plain must be crisscrossed while getting back from school or whether work then any such places could be your nightmare even at the daytime.

There are many incidents in school life and also at the college level when girls and boys could be found to be harassed at such places and this could haunt them for many years to come. Certainly, every Maidan is not the Gandhi Maidan of Patna but certainly, a maidan could be a place where people could also go to relieve themselves of the stool at that era when the toilets were scanty and made mostly for the woman of the house.

Now, getting back to the point India is a country where sure success gets the maidan or the place which could be a burial place or maybe the way his success could give mostly him a way to easily end up his career/

Most of the people in the high profile industry where the film and television are concerned could be found with a heavy dose of drugs and for such purpose, they are in need of money. Also, with great looks comes a big amount of lust, and people across all age and gender put an unnecessary pressure to have sex with such people. 

People who become habitual in terms of changing partners are always in the lookout of spending great times at pubs and on the bed of others as they are not aware of their consequences which are far or near in the form of deaths.

Most of the people who have a belief that compromise is the easiest way to get into the highest ladder of success forget that at the lowest point there are many people who are cutting the ladders. Most of the time such people are from the poor and middle class who always believe that there is less hard work involved and much of brawn involved in getting up to the top in life.

This is the reason maybe Sri Rahul Gandhi must have said that the eternal middle class is about to collapse in India as the expectations are high and chances are less from where most of the people just cannot get into the mode of finding ways to develop their acumen but one has to understand that removing someone not only creates an unnecessary void but humans are unreplaceable and nobody can take the place of others however similar in personality or traits a person may be in life!

People with better abilities are trolled more in India!

Having basic abilities and better ability in life is something that makes a difference in a human being. The country which is India has a social effect which is all about creating hindrance for the people from every sphere of life and then laugh at them with a wide mouth. Most of the time such practice starts at home and people who are near one's such as Maternal uncle, Aunts, and Paternal Uncle aunt's carry the same thoughts towards humiliating a kid who is better in every aspect.

Soon, the same attitude is carried forward by the people from various other people in the neighborhood and it is carried forward with casual remarks which further aggravates with harsher tones. In this way, one could believe that suppressing others and moving in life could be a way to start for reaching higher levels in life. If one could see movies like Amitabh Bacchan "Don" you will find that although he looks very ordinary in patches he carries his style throughout the movie of a semi-ordinary guy who is responsible for his duty.  

On the other hand, if you watch movies like "Wake Up Sid" it shows within the inside story were all bad means or rather wicked thoughts are to be implemented for making the society a place which is disabled by making everyone a center of humiliation which is just like the Hero or the Actor who has no good social presence.

Now, if the thinking is to be one of the main ways to understand the difference between the society during 1978 and by the year starting 2009 a change in three-decades could be seen in our thought process. Here all those people who have struggled with education and their parents had just enough to make them feel happy by giving their wards a way to enjoy at English Mediums could be found and the society almost hangs under the umbrella of such mediocre people.

Now, if we compare the society during the late '70s when actors like Md. Iftekhar along with Sri Amitabh Bachhan and many others who were the backbone of the film industry such as Miss Amrita Pritam and many others were carrying their acting skills in the most presentable way and were the reflection of the then society.

Now, if we compare the people with Akshay Kumar, Ranbir Kapoor, and Ranbir Singh less of the meaningful cinema come out and making mockery along with using gun tottering criminals and plastic women have become a part of their lifestyle. In this way, one could understand that if we closely watch the current generation their way to suppress the older and the people with an intellectual bent of mind could not be understood by me. It also shows how the womanizing, drinking and gambling have bought them to shame and from here onwards anything whether sports, literature or cinema is just a weird joke which is just in the hand of such people who love to be nothing more than a socially corrupt mind rather than a flourishing one! 

I found very tasteless people as friend since childhood!

Since as a child whether in the locality or even in the school people use to judge me in terms of money rather than the knowledge which is the real momentum for life. Any person not to be named till I grew up and after Class Xth when I joined G.G.P.S where I found few of the worst people who were more or less equivalent to being a person with a double mind.

Our city Bokaro Steel has a bad phenomenon in terms of schooling. Most of the schools are private and they find people from even Bollywood to experiment with their lives. Since the school uniform is the biggest disguise so people from Bollywood use to adorn it easily and could be seen crisscrossing the school premises without harming the atmosphere. It is the most common thing to be found in most of the cheap public school where people like Mr. Ram Gopal Verma, Md. Nawazuddin Siddiqui uses to match the steps with us.

Now, this too actor director had a very ugly symptom as both of them are not good looking but have a very self-ego or rather esteem and they go a long way to become a thorn in the flesh of many students and teachers. If you will meet Mr. Nawazuddin Siddiqui you will not find him as a hilarious character but it will look as if he has remorse for the world and he has no character but a deeper personality who only looks for slut at every place.

The same could be said for Mr. Ram Gopal Verma whose muse Miss Urmila Matondkar did all the special effect on him to make him a butt of the joke at every step of life. If you will talk to these actor directors you will also find that they have a very tasteless approach towards life and it is more or less as if they have got a bitter family background.

Since I have been near to them during my school days although in disguise as they never opened up about their real self I could add on my life page that I found very tasteless people as friends since childhood. If anybody would like to understand the deep pain in my writing then it could be better explained as the person M. Nawazuddin Siddiqui immediately started harassing my sister and mother during the first meeting at an age when I was a child.

Personally, these two characters are a kind of thought who are not enjoyed by anyone if anybody meets them personally, and generally, people are pissed off by their behavior still do not have the courage to speak against them.

The worst thing is that both do not have any screen presence and it looks as if they are from some tobacco chewing population which is akin to rickshaw puller and their way of life is to make others feel smaller before them which could be found in their genre of films which is certainly not like by people from a common background and I feel ashamed for the small amount of nearness to them which has never given me any peace but rather a thought which is about staying away from them and try to stay happier in life!

The only generation which loved me was of my father's!

If I remember my father's friend and their wives all have only one thing for me which was pure adulation. My father made me a very doting child who was not into the abusive mode and considered everyone as very near to me. My father's generation was between the late 1950s and above. Since I was born in 1979 most of the people who were born between 1955 to 1960's were at their age which was about 23-25.

I was a child when I started growing up was good at cricket and before India could win the world cup in 1983 at that time the country has less hatred for each other. It was an era of real intellectuals and every person who was into whatever profession could be a thoroughbred gentleman.

Neither there was a thought of earning big amounts and nor there were too many conspiracy factors involved in life. Once Sri Jackie Shroff and Mr. Kiran Kumar took to the stride the country suddenly saw an atmosphere where greed and rape, arson, and loot become a part of life.

All the things which happened in the neighborhood were the woman finding themselves to be neglected after Miss Madhuri Dixit and Miss Meenakshi Sheshadri took to the Indian cinema by storm and thus sports and all other aspects which were a part of athletics just went for a toss.

Neither hockey nor football flourished and all attention went towards Cricket which is just a manipulative game where much of the factors could be found to be a part of the bookie system. In this way, the people who are into the part of various glossy industries just could not be found to be with a bigger amount of money, and as per my belief, they somehow were able to meet both ends meet.

Making own stride in any field was just a way to be a mockery in this world and if I say that the only generation which loved me was of my father's and I was a part of his life rather than any women's life. Although, this did not make me a woman-hater one thing I could understand that after being near to the cosmos all I can understand is that somehow nature loves me more than any woman. But as an admirer of woman, I could say that they are not trustworthy and could go to any extent for their own benefits which are akin to throwing you into a dungeon from where you just cannot get back into life and man remains a pawn in their life!

Social reforms begins at your own stomach!

Fulfilling the needs of the stomach is the biggest thing a social reformer does in his life. Whether a person talks about doing a certain blockade to the extent of Bharat Ka Chakka Jam or maybe Rail Roko Andolan this is all a gimmick to fulfill the stomach needs along with pulling out the money from the coffers of the Government.

None of the social activists not to be named does good for the country but they are the kind of person who is out of the tax net and amass a huge amount of wealth in the name of their healthier NGO or maybe some organizations.

So, if we spend our time after any such people who take the procession or rally in the name of protest and then create a huge logjam then we are doing it at our own risk. Has ever people like Medha Patkar or Mr. Sunderlal Bahuguna has asked for the various accolades by the Indian Government such as Padma Shri or Padma Bhushan for their social activist who was rallying behind her or him.

When it is the time for the awards these toothless and spineless go and receive monetary awards and then their followers are found to be red-faced. They are sometimes jailed and then while the bigger names move out of the jail the common man has to get into the lockup and spend many years of life and further his family is found to be at dire straits.

Instead of making a mockery of the own bread and butter today's youth at times rush to do the gherao of parliament or maybe at Jantar Mantar in New Delhi and then it does not make sense when their leaders arrange for foods and after eating it during the summer-time all they get is stomach problem.

If we consider that social reforms begin at your own stomach it is very true as one could find that if the stomach is fulfilled then however angry you are you will not pull anyone and certainly mind your work. On the contrary, if you are not fulfilled by the food and wailing with hunger then you will find that it will be difficult for you to follow the norms and the social activist in you will do the disruptions by going the extra mile and from their onwards, it will be something which is akin to a useless social revolution from where all you will take away is the lathis by the police or maybe you will find your own family members discarding you which will be a bigger issue in life.

P.S: Look before you leap in life in terms of social movement as people can question you as most of the time in India places are divided into territories where the municipal office governs the system and the efforts may turn out to be futile!

I never use to lament on the past!

Whether it is any person who gets away from us just to see the fun out of the equation or may feel to be the thoughts of his or her getting strangulated under my ways of working all I could say is that I just move on in my life. I personally do not feel bad in considering that it is all your own privilege to enjoy your own freedom and thus the life decisions which my nearest on takes about is all I can give them in return.

All it happens is that once a person who feels confident under me and develops new friendship along with finding a way to enjoy his or her own existence move away by creating all the tantrums which are enjoyed by the people for many years to come.

If only the person in us has the courage to speak on the face and then move away it would neither cost each other a way to understand each other and neither one can feel neglected in the long run. Most of the time it has been a part of my own life cycle where although as a kid during my earlier years I proved out to be a person who has been a great help to my mother, sister, father, and even grandparents.

But one thing I understood about the harsh world is that the person who does without considering anything for his own gain is easily left out and all he gets back is to listen to all kinds of rumors associated with him which just may give him sleepless nights or maybe many other concerns in life.

Think about the yesteryear actress like Mina Kumari, Suraiya who took all their life and belongings to make other people something better in life and then found themselves to be on the receiving ends. 

In this way, all the thoughts which could come are that while people are everywhere to make fun out of you and maybe find a person in you who could be someone akin to making everything on his own from small ways and resources there could be someone who could be all praises for you and there the life may change.

Now, considering the fact that I never use to lament on the past and find new ways to get back into life through positive means all I could thin is that while people who tried to make a mockery of me knowingly or unknowingly helped me to attain a certain height at which I could breathe easily and fight to ger my own roti through my own earnings which helped me to enjoy my life on my own and thus add achievements to the life!

Life has been till date with me being as non-judgemental!

Although the Blog which I write has the heading as "Silence Judgement" which itself is not a controversial word and neither pokes fun at any person or political scenario. I am a person by the name of Mukesh Kumar is with a thought of not reacting towards any bigger or smaller situation in life and keep myself engaged with work in life.

For me, all those friends have been left behind who were with me during my school days and I love to remain at peace within my own thoughts and action which is about not involving in any field of sports, cinema, or politics.

The best way to remind me about all the good deeds and maybe something wrong towards me was nothing more than people trying to overpower me at any place just to make fun of me. I also do not understand that what was the necessity to put me into the limelight or rather a camouflage that could give them any solace.

Although, I personally believe that any person including any girl whether anyone's sister or girlfriend who could have asked them to become an obstacle in my life could have benefited from my end. Most of the time I tried to be as good to anyone and in between any moments of my life when people were arranging their ways and resources to run over me I just kept myself to fight back without showing the aggression.

Now, getting back to the point I neither used any big names to become something in life nor at the age which is just above 40 I ever tried to be an obstacle for anyone including my near ones who had thought of overcoming me without any particular reason.

Being reluctant was not my call of life but it was always like why should I get into any particular place from where the life could take any evil twist and turn and after that what remains in life is something for which no-one ever has to repent.

So, for any issues in life from being beaten by parents (which is necessary during childhood) or friends all I could do was a wide grin which just could give them solace. All I could say is that for me life has been till date with me being as nonjudgemental and in any case scenario if anything occurs in anyone's life then certainly I will be out of the blaming as my way is to remain on a highway which could lead to being with little success and less of failures rather than becoming a roadblock for any person or personalities!

Money earned is a pure contribution to GDP!

Our forefathers have always insisted that once a person attains adulthood he or she should get towards earning his or her own bread. If a woman works in her own home and is a homemaker she is still into the working mode although her contribution is negligent towards the economy but good enough for her own family members.

Once a person does some good job he or she is considered to be a part of the working population and always appreciated by the educated and the working mass along with the forefathers and the society in common. 

Anywhere around the world, society is bounded by some rules and regulations, and anyone of us who believe that our parents have done enough and one could easily sit back on their laurels just does not become a part of the economy.

The person in you can reach a greater height even while working on a small amount but all he or she needs to do is a sincere contribution towards the work which is following the orders of the supervisor and being loyal towards the work.

Consider two case scenario in the life of  a person:

1. A person who does not do any work sits idle and create hooliganism without any reason will get respect.

2. The other person who could understand the economy and his or her own perspective and work to fulfill his or her needs will feel better in his mind, body, and soul.

Anywhere, down the line, all those who feel that they have earned enough are not a part of the money circulation which is very much necessary in the economy. Any economist will say that money earned is a pure contribution to GDP and before that, it is more or less necessary to fuel your own stomach and body.

The big thing is earning the morsel in a dignified way which is only known by the people who have seen hardship in life rather than those who just put themselves either at the mercy of woman to earn though absurd ways or the others who believe that they had enough money and then ruin themselves along with their belongings and further could not get anything in return!

Educated people in India are public haters!

Education was a limited aspect of India for many years in the past. People were devoid of education in the rural and semi-urban areas. Many of the people who use to reside in urban areas did not have any wish to continue with education after completing the basic education. 

The fact of the matter is that all those who just do not reach a certain educational height in their life always take the path of becoming roadblocks for many others. People in Media who have a small-time reach in the masses just could easily make out more in terms of gossip for those who could not protest against them and most of the time it was a pretty good way to demoralize others. Taking revenge from a brother or a son who remained dutiful in any particular ways for many others who had ulterior motives and the fact of the matter is that while many among us had all kinds of illegitimate affairs it was easy to carry a camouflage for many other people to hide our own shortcomings in life.

This could all have happened because educated people in India are public haters. If the person who gets educated or semi-educated in India does not have any wish for helping others to get educated but creates many other obstacles which could be either poking fun or creating obstacles in an easy way.

If you see many earlier movies you can find that the women tried to create many ulterior moves to destroy the good person who could not be projected neither in an evil way nor in a bad manner but could be found to be ousted from people's mind.

There are very fewer people in the world who just get back into life after getting hit below the belt and at times such a person who is made mockery for many years does not have any revengeful thoughts but just leaves the life on God who is called to be omnipresent.

If you try to be good with any woman the first expectation from her is to drag you towards the bed and she makes many other ways to do it whether to feel her inner gut and maybe at the same time to make you feel nerd before others.

The other thing which could be seen is that once the woman feels comfortable in your shoes she does not try to take any advantage but give better vibes for many years. If people say that relying on any person may give a backlash then it depends on what kind of person you have been relying on.

Most of my life-experiences around my life revolved around my father as he was the person who loved me truly and always wanted me to be a person with education and with less of pomp and show in life where I could become a part of any industry which could exploit me with dire consequences.

On the other hand, there were all my friends and relatives along with neighbors who tried to make my studies a sort of apprehension in their life and that did not deter them to make me a symbol of revenge without me being a person with any political relations.

Their best thought was to get over me so that the ultimate wish of getting my father's pride to be hurt was the aim which unfortunately just could not get fulfilled. In the long run, I turned out to be a person with M.A. in Sociology within the preferred time frame and those who were nurturing their evil thoughts just could not do more but found themselves to be red-faced when their son and daughters just could not reach the height which was required in life to be termed as a person with an educated mind.

P.S. Thankfully, I personally did not take any advantage of situations in my life for any woman and that turned out to be my strength rather than weakness and helped me to remain a person with better thoughts as compared to the womanizers in the society!

None of the women ever tried to understand me!

When Sri Shah Rukh Khan said don't underestimate the power of a common man than he never tried to explain or categorize any person as for him the person whether educated or uneducated, rich or poor everyone was considered to be common. This statement is very apt as a common person has only made everything in this world whether it is the Howrah Bridge or Eiffel tower but surely under the able guidance of some good people.

Now, if I consider myself I could say that none of the women ever tried to understand me. A person who is a human always works according to the wish of the woman and if she challenges in a negative way then he does it whether in a brutal way or with the loving ways which could only be understood by the woman.

In any worst-case scenario if the woman takes the banter in the form of revenge then she never stays happier in life and most of the time her face becomes the uglier one and instead of becoming a cynosure of all eyes, she loses her respect in her own eyes for many years to come.

Most of the crime in the world is done on the behest of the woman and once she succeeds in making you a criminal all she can say is that you just become impotent and then for many years all you feel is ashamed in your own eyes and for which you cannot even repent.

That is the reason it is said where the woman is concerned the unexpected always happens. Now, the unfortunate thing is that in India whether it is the sports or political affairs along with many bigger things in life everything is governed by the woman who is from the bigger banners like Film Industry or maybe some Media conglomerate or let's say some bigger business house.

This has led to internal chaos and anarchy and one could say that the pimps have taken advantage of this situation very wisely. Most of the time what pleases the woman is her wish to get oiled thoroughly and do abrupt sex and with this thought flourishing across age all the woman is doing is uplifting those people who could be bedtime person for her or maybe a person with a good sense of sex. 

Most of the time every people on this earth are good in sex but not everybody is inclined to show their masculinity to get the situation under control and it is good that the person could speak better wit and humor which is not inclined sexually or else could also say that I can prove better over the bed but it is not necessary to do so. 

Also, all those people who try to hide the relationship status and run away are found to be getting red-faced at some time of their life but there are many who remembers every person including the near and dear ones along with the film characters. 

It adds to the good sense when you are good towards the mother and the father because they are the only responsible person while the others could be nurturers as they could either take advantage of you or could move away just like a fire brigade after the work is done as here fire brigade is the savior and not in terms of making quench your thirst.

Now, getting back to the point that none of the women ever tried to understand me and neither it was required because I get the fun out of animals as well and they turn out to be better as they understand my language. So if Miss Sonakshi Sinha has said that humans should behave like animals it is a very apt statement as animals' behavior is getting better. 

But one thing has to be counted that in every woman-centric magazine most of the time it is written about all those illegitimate affairs that it cost the woman badly and once the person takes the clue out of such thought he is personally left alone in the society which I never understood in life as I remain the most common person which could be understood first by me only rather than anyone else in life! 

In india people need excuses to get laid-off!

A country that has it's own laid back attitude with people leading their life in style in the name of ancestral money is all which could define this country. If you don't have money then earlier it was the Dacoits or Bandits who were popular in the form of Robinhood. Their way of life was to be like a terror outfit and then it was all about looting the rich or wealthy. To make matters worse the woman whose house use to get looted easily carried themselves with the dacoits by saying what will I do with you when you don't have money anymore.

The second best thing which got incorporated was the Motion pictures or movies and they were semi-educated dacoits who with their looks and hefty attitude got a great amount in terms of signing the films. They gradually took over the masses by either opening a few charitable institutes or laying the foundation of some small factories.

With popular clothing mills producing Digzam and Raymond's the half English speaking nerds started ruling over the masses by saying Shut-Up, Khal Khich lungi, or many other such words which were akin to saying Bull shit which is actually better in smell. 

Once said and done if I understand that in India people need excuses to get laid-off and if things become worse then they easily sell their daughters to various bigger houses or rather a production house and then it could be seen the cows running with black hairs in the United Kingdom and fortunately this time there was no peeping Tom as people are accustomed to such thoughts.

Now, getting back to the point since Ia m from an industrial town which is Bokaro Steel City and some of the scenes from the movie Namak Halal I could understand that people try to dismantle the country status easily. Those who try to achieve something on their own are not considered to be an example unless they get under the tutelage of a Godfather. 

Also, the woman in their life comes to destroy them from inside and it is more or less like destroying Noah's arc so that he should not reach anywhere while the other person who may be from a bigger household but not into great mind is pushed forward to become something on their own but have better jacks under him to push him upward.

If I remember the example of my Father Sri Upendra Vidyarthi, he was one person who also went to Steel plant during various Bokaro Bandh or Bharat Bandh which is a kind of stage drama by the various trade unions. It was not because he was behind the thought of earning praises or rewards but certainly his home and various other homes should feel secure as the complete lockdown could lead to the economic crisis for the Plant and people could easily get devoid of food. 

So, I consider him as a role model who was always with the thought of duty unto last and he was equally into the better mindset of Officers and Workers but he never acted as a leader. In this way, if anybody understands better in terms of lockdown then getting back to work is far more necessary rather than thinking about slaying the economy or any people because Democracy is always for the people, With the people, and By the people.

P.S: The Hindon Stadium has become a place full of grass and weeds which shows the public apathy where people thought about the benefits which can be pulled out by such places but do not think that as a bigger community which is Raj Nagar Extension along with Ghaziabad will get benefit out of matches at the nearest vicinity. After all places like Sharjah come up after Cricket made it famous.

My hard work in organization helped me to stay aloft!

When I was new to Delhi in the year 2000 and after a few years I was trying my luck at various organizations where I met all kinds of people than most of the places people were asked the difference between smart work and hard work. After getting selected in the organization most of the time my work ethics were surrounded towards hard work and the abilities to get my work done in the best of the possible ways.

On the contrary, all those who believed that their jobs will be carried on for many years with changing times just could not found many takers as they did all the same work which was required by a tyrant. Most of the people disliked me as a working person with sincere thoughts and at times made a mockery of my work style.

Once said and done after all the attention on keeping my wishes of becoming something on my own continued and with negative vibes it just could not cost me much as people who tried to dismantle my thoughts did not get any big takers in life.

Most of the people who were trying to make me a personality surrounded by evil thoughts just got a better backlash maybe by mother nature or their own ways of life and after crossing all levels of desperate attempts and also planning to settle scores could be found with no degrees or diploma which could give them a sense of pride and certification.

With political ethos all over the world suddenly crumbling and people who could be seen making a mockery of the political institution could find that the city like New Delhi with all its charm has no money to pay for the Government officials and it could soon catch up with the various private based organizations.

It is just the beginning where the country will get managed because of the people's own survival instinct and that could be all because we have given the freedom to those people and thoughts who were all around us to overpower without any reason.

At one time during my life, I could have certainly said that if you point 1 finger towards others three others could be pointing towards you and with that for all those people who do not have anything in life but a way to pat their own people including mausi, chachi and bhabhi just could not find themselves to be safe whether in wit or humor or in realistic terms.

If we believe in superpower and also the interference then only the sea which is boiling with cyclones may convert to super cyclones and with every day tremors of lower intensity could suddenly reach to a level which may devastate the city.

Now, getting back to the point when nothing remains in life then all one could do is remember the bad old deeds and feel sorry about it but for me, if I remember since my birth I just could not find anything which is an as venomous or bad ethos which was a part of the culture of people surrounding me and when they do not have anything to say all they could say is Mujhe Kuch mat kehna although they must have tried to be of no help although trying to be as cynical during the good old days.

Thankfully, I could say that my hard work in the organization helped me to stay aloft and my eyes just could not get into a mode of hanging with shame as I always managed my life within the respect of family and that also helped my thoughts to survive which all because of hard work and no bad vibes towards any other person which just could not be found in those people who try to move within those circles from where they just could neither come out nor get out of strangulation!