Motherhood is a boon for every woman across the world. Whether it is Indian, Western or Eastern country every woman longs for motherhood. If you will watch the birds, animals, and insects every female organism looks forward to experiencing motherhood. The human beings cannot be said to be more privileged in this context as every organism on this earth looks forward to the privilege which has been bestowed by mother nature.
Whether you are a married couple or a single mother both have the same respect for their kids. The country like India where the mother, child relationship starts from the womb and the lady starts taking care of her child from the beginning of the childbirth.
The motherhood never sees whether the person is rich or poor. Childbirth is a gift of GOD and most of the couples after spending few years within the marriage system look for a child in their life. With the fast-paced life, one cannot think about having a child within the first two years of marriage. There are couples who have Double Income No kids and also they wait for the good times in their life when they get settled in their office and work environment. Once they feel well settled with the office environment they go for the kid in their life.
With corporates taking care through paternity and maternity leaves along with helping through the hassle-free environment it is a great help for the couple. Also, the Indian Government taking care of the masses which belongs to the poor sections of the society is provided help by the different schemes for providing maternity care.
In this way, the Indians are privileged in many ways to get most out of the God's gift which has been bestowed by nature. on the contrary Indian mindset is also about creating all kinds of problems through various sections of our own population.
The moment a locality knows about the pregnancy in your home the various mothers from your society come out with the social pangs of their own. It is a well-known fact that whether it was the Ramayan era or the Mahabharat none of the lactating mothers have been spared by their own family members. A child comes to this earth with lots of slangs which could be seen or heard by him while in the womb.
With no disrespect towards the characters from the Ramayana and Mahabharat era, it is a well-known fact that your own family members taunts are to be heard once you conceive. After that its the turn of the society and your change in the structure of womb is always noticed by the onlookers. Whether you are going for a regular check-up or any other such requirements of the doctor's help the lady along with the child has to face it.
It leads to an unhappy mindset which reflects throughout your life cycle. The unborn child understands every aspect and thus the mindset develops in the same manner. it does not make sense that once the child gets born then everything will get O.K. Apart from that in the highly educated and cultural household women takes care of her womb in her own ways.
She talks to the child and tries to give her pep talks since the birth cycle. it leads to a healthy mindset and thus in case the child goes through any turmoil in his life always bounce back with positive thoughts and a mindset which differs him or her from another person.
There are various ways to get attached to the child. It could be through religious discourses or by the songs which can be heard over the radio. One has to mind that a marriage should not be a compromise. It should be done with a free state of mind after knowing each other and has to be an understanding which should differ from others.
We have seen so much of cultural degeneration when we compare the 70-80 era and today's children behavior where they interfere to a large extent once they reach the age of 3-4 years. Its all because of the upbringing they have got in the womb. Also, during pregnancy and before copulation the girl should avoid any kind of drink or smoking behavior which could lead to a child with various antisocial effect.
Jessica Lange who is a well known American actress has put a lot of stress on the Mother-Child behavior can be understood through her statement:
"The natural state of motherhood is unselfishness. when you become a mother, you are no longer the center of your own universe. You relinquish that position to your children".
Whether you are a married couple or a single mother both have the same respect for their kids. The country like India where the mother, child relationship starts from the womb and the lady starts taking care of her child from the beginning of the childbirth.
The motherhood never sees whether the person is rich or poor. Childbirth is a gift of GOD and most of the couples after spending few years within the marriage system look for a child in their life. With the fast-paced life, one cannot think about having a child within the first two years of marriage. There are couples who have Double Income No kids and also they wait for the good times in their life when they get settled in their office and work environment. Once they feel well settled with the office environment they go for the kid in their life.
With corporates taking care through paternity and maternity leaves along with helping through the hassle-free environment it is a great help for the couple. Also, the Indian Government taking care of the masses which belongs to the poor sections of the society is provided help by the different schemes for providing maternity care.
In this way, the Indians are privileged in many ways to get most out of the God's gift which has been bestowed by nature. on the contrary Indian mindset is also about creating all kinds of problems through various sections of our own population.
The moment a locality knows about the pregnancy in your home the various mothers from your society come out with the social pangs of their own. It is a well-known fact that whether it was the Ramayan era or the Mahabharat none of the lactating mothers have been spared by their own family members. A child comes to this earth with lots of slangs which could be seen or heard by him while in the womb.
With no disrespect towards the characters from the Ramayana and Mahabharat era, it is a well-known fact that your own family members taunts are to be heard once you conceive. After that its the turn of the society and your change in the structure of womb is always noticed by the onlookers. Whether you are going for a regular check-up or any other such requirements of the doctor's help the lady along with the child has to face it.
It leads to an unhappy mindset which reflects throughout your life cycle. The unborn child understands every aspect and thus the mindset develops in the same manner. it does not make sense that once the child gets born then everything will get O.K. Apart from that in the highly educated and cultural household women takes care of her womb in her own ways.
She talks to the child and tries to give her pep talks since the birth cycle. it leads to a healthy mindset and thus in case the child goes through any turmoil in his life always bounce back with positive thoughts and a mindset which differs him or her from another person.
There are various ways to get attached to the child. It could be through religious discourses or by the songs which can be heard over the radio. One has to mind that a marriage should not be a compromise. It should be done with a free state of mind after knowing each other and has to be an understanding which should differ from others.
We have seen so much of cultural degeneration when we compare the 70-80 era and today's children behavior where they interfere to a large extent once they reach the age of 3-4 years. Its all because of the upbringing they have got in the womb. Also, during pregnancy and before copulation the girl should avoid any kind of drink or smoking behavior which could lead to a child with various antisocial effect.
Jessica Lange who is a well known American actress has put a lot of stress on the Mother-Child behavior can be understood through her statement:
"The natural state of motherhood is unselfishness. when you become a mother, you are no longer the center of your own universe. You relinquish that position to your children".
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