When we talk about Indian Marriage System it is nothing but a pomp and show of great Hindu Culture. If we talk about the age of Ramayana, then it was more about swaymvar style marriage where the kings used to marry their daughter in style. If it was a myth then also it was picturized in such a way to give glitz and glamour a new meaning.
The economic condition in today's context has changed but if we talk about the social thinking of people they are still following the age-old marriage system where dowry. same caste marriage and all the great stories related to marriage which was more or less about the age of their great grand-parents are tried to be repeated.
If we talk about the Band, bajaa, baraat style marriage then people use to spend on farmhouse locations, banquet halls and various other styles of marriage system in which even actors like Shah Rukh Khan come to shake a leg and for few hours jump and dance thus giving the crowd a new way to rejoice and enjoy the marriage.
These all things are good with those people who are the likes of Neerav Modi giving enough style through different kinds of scams and earning through the same ways which could be engaging the Government officials for taking money out of the banks.
Now, if we talk about the common people who do not think twice about spending money in the form of dowry and various girls who do not get married because of the high demands of dowry and thus stand in a difficult situation in the society are not be blamed for.
Such girls neither get any respect in the society and take to criminal ways thus leading their life into a whirlpool from where they never come out. Neither, their parents are to be blamed for the issues created by them nor the society takes their responsibility and thus they find themselves to be in a difficult situation. There have been the situation in many Hindu households that even if the Groom is understanding enough not to take any dowry, still in the name of giving a show-off style a little bit of amount is put into the Groom's hand after which he is to behave like a bonded labor forever. He is bound to behave with their family members and every other person in his household in nothing more than a beggar.
At least, I personally feel free from such bonded labor theory as my home has been built by my father's money, no such record of any evil done towards any girl and waiting for a marriage which should bring reputation in my life even at the age of 39. If ever I would get a girl in my life then she will be from an intellectual background with no dowry-related marriage and a simple court marriage in the presence of the parent and no need of banquet style with my own lovely car Alto K-10 to take my bride as she will be driving my car to the home of her choice.
Philhaal, this is the only dream while it depends upon Sri Ganesh Ji what he thinks about my future in-laws as "Marriage is made in heaven and solemnized on earth".
The economic condition in today's context has changed but if we talk about the social thinking of people they are still following the age-old marriage system where dowry. same caste marriage and all the great stories related to marriage which was more or less about the age of their great grand-parents are tried to be repeated.
If we talk about the Band, bajaa, baraat style marriage then people use to spend on farmhouse locations, banquet halls and various other styles of marriage system in which even actors like Shah Rukh Khan come to shake a leg and for few hours jump and dance thus giving the crowd a new way to rejoice and enjoy the marriage.
These all things are good with those people who are the likes of Neerav Modi giving enough style through different kinds of scams and earning through the same ways which could be engaging the Government officials for taking money out of the banks.
Now, if we talk about the common people who do not think twice about spending money in the form of dowry and various girls who do not get married because of the high demands of dowry and thus stand in a difficult situation in the society are not be blamed for.
Such girls neither get any respect in the society and take to criminal ways thus leading their life into a whirlpool from where they never come out. Neither, their parents are to be blamed for the issues created by them nor the society takes their responsibility and thus they find themselves to be in a difficult situation. There have been the situation in many Hindu households that even if the Groom is understanding enough not to take any dowry, still in the name of giving a show-off style a little bit of amount is put into the Groom's hand after which he is to behave like a bonded labor forever. He is bound to behave with their family members and every other person in his household in nothing more than a beggar.
At least, I personally feel free from such bonded labor theory as my home has been built by my father's money, no such record of any evil done towards any girl and waiting for a marriage which should bring reputation in my life even at the age of 39. If ever I would get a girl in my life then she will be from an intellectual background with no dowry-related marriage and a simple court marriage in the presence of the parent and no need of banquet style with my own lovely car Alto K-10 to take my bride as she will be driving my car to the home of her choice.
Philhaal, this is the only dream while it depends upon Sri Ganesh Ji what he thinks about my future in-laws as "Marriage is made in heaven and solemnized on earth".
So, its wise enough to understand that in Today's Indian Marriage System one should avoid misguide youth and pomp syndrome to enter the lovely Godrej house at Ajnara Integrity which is right now open for bride from any caste, color, creed or religion while the heart is directing to a girl who goes through my blogs and talks about it with her friends which could be just like "DDLJ...Mere Khwabon Mein Jo Aaye". She could be of my age or a near more than my age but not less than that...till then Kahi karti hogi wo mera intezaar jiski tamannah mein firta hu beqarar......!!!!!!!
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