A person who is neck-deep involved in the conspiracy is always forgiven by the forces of nature. I have seen people who have put the world to shame by burning houses, children and other belongings getting great respect from the society. The society considers them as a macho personality and treats them as savior making them great leaders or even considering them as "GOD".
Also, if a person who has multiple sex romp in their life gets the best out of everyone and whether it is the children or the grown-ups never try to look towards them in any objectionable ways but try to give them a look which gives them instant sexual gratification.
Such person is hailed by women as the person who could be behind their satisfaction of the sexual urge and thus she feels happy in her company at the cost of their family and belongings. This could generally be seen in the deprived and background state of families where there is a famine of love, laughter, and thus leading to the loneliness of women folks.
It can be considered as the weaker mind which immediately looks for multiple sex or orgasm with various partners and thus making sex as the only way to satiate their hunger or the bodily needs. If we see the more civilized society there is an urge by the men and women to be happy with their work, get some tours and travels, if the job gets monotonous and try to get near nature which could lead to satisfaction beyond comparison.
If we talk about certain sections of society esp. the Bhumihar clan and in any case you get a chance to go through their verbiage they generally talk about their sexual encounters which are applicable to both sexes. In comparison, the locality which earlier the people use to consider as untouchables or the scheduled caste and scheduled tribe never talk about their sex-related encounters in public domain.
They mostly keep mum about sex but at the same time do not consider sex as a taboo. The same thing could be said about the Santhal Parganas as a place, or the local population people from Jharkhand. They are known to be very humble, have their own group of people and their own methods of the get-together with nearness to nature and animals.
They do not generally cross the society which belongs to us and neither allows the outsider to enter their private life. It leads to happiness in their life and loyalty could be seen in them since early childhood. They believe in one sexual partner and remain happy within themselves. If any person who is a sociologist and has got chance to understand their social behavior they will come to know that truth, honesty, and love are all together under one name for them.
Break-ups are rare in their life and they give wholehearted support to their life partners. The simple theory of their life is to either work in the paddy fields or cattle grazing along with food hunting. Once they come back singing the folk songs their wife with the children stays back at home to cook food for them.
The smiles which spread from ear to ear tells enough story about their life. Even after social ups and downs which generally they face or during any fair where the person from the neighborhood who has gone to the city to earn comes back with clothes and various other such gifts may be frown upon by few of the people.
They are generally self-satisfied people who drink their indigenous drinks and food is all about the simple one or one can say rice and fish as the staple food with occasional Chicken or Mutton during the festivities.
On the contrary, we as city dwellers run from pillar to post for fulfilling all the basic needs but do not get the satisfaction from within. Our own depression comes out in the form of tears or passing remarks to the person who does not either reply back or come out with hordes of slangs which ultimately leads to fighting. It further leads to domestic violence and if the wife is not educated or just a girl who is ready to fight then the world can see the "Great Indian Fight Club".
The same gets avoided if after a heavy day of work both share the daily work talks with each other while sipping the coffee or favorite drink and eyes which could deeply understand the emotions thus making a fresh start every day with their love life.
I do remember my late father who use to come back from a heavy day at his work while he was posted at Bokaro Steel Plant. My mother would immediately prepare tea and both use to talk with each other and he would tell about different kind of work at the plant. It uses to be their talks while I sometimes played with my sister ( who is no more) or with my dog "Moti" who was an inseparable part of our childhood days.
Now, as a person who has been staying at Delhi for past 17 years, I still am alone with only my mother staying with me. Thankfully the headline which is "Break-up gratification experienced satisfaction" has not been a part of my life as I keep away from any unwanted sex life rather than keeping myself busy with my work.
According to me a good sexual life only can be achieved if there is the deep love for each other rather than satisfaction involved of counting how many sexual encounters a person had in life. It gives a terrible headache when sex with a person comes out in the public domain. Whether, a person belongs to higher, middle or lower strata of life the society just cuts into left, right and center through words which are more than poisonous in their own ways.
I would like to say that it is totally upon the person to have multiple sexual partners or wait for the Mr. Dependable, as a long-term relationship where one could spend the life till old age with each other is certainly more fruitful. It is far better for the social structure of family and upcoming generations rather than spending one night with a stranger and then washing the dirty linen in public which is generally the forte of every other Indian household!
Also, if a person who has multiple sex romp in their life gets the best out of everyone and whether it is the children or the grown-ups never try to look towards them in any objectionable ways but try to give them a look which gives them instant sexual gratification.
Such person is hailed by women as the person who could be behind their satisfaction of the sexual urge and thus she feels happy in her company at the cost of their family and belongings. This could generally be seen in the deprived and background state of families where there is a famine of love, laughter, and thus leading to the loneliness of women folks.
It can be considered as the weaker mind which immediately looks for multiple sex or orgasm with various partners and thus making sex as the only way to satiate their hunger or the bodily needs. If we see the more civilized society there is an urge by the men and women to be happy with their work, get some tours and travels, if the job gets monotonous and try to get near nature which could lead to satisfaction beyond comparison.
If we talk about certain sections of society esp. the Bhumihar clan and in any case you get a chance to go through their verbiage they generally talk about their sexual encounters which are applicable to both sexes. In comparison, the locality which earlier the people use to consider as untouchables or the scheduled caste and scheduled tribe never talk about their sex-related encounters in public domain.
They mostly keep mum about sex but at the same time do not consider sex as a taboo. The same thing could be said about the Santhal Parganas as a place, or the local population people from Jharkhand. They are known to be very humble, have their own group of people and their own methods of the get-together with nearness to nature and animals.
They do not generally cross the society which belongs to us and neither allows the outsider to enter their private life. It leads to happiness in their life and loyalty could be seen in them since early childhood. They believe in one sexual partner and remain happy within themselves. If any person who is a sociologist and has got chance to understand their social behavior they will come to know that truth, honesty, and love are all together under one name for them.
Break-ups are rare in their life and they give wholehearted support to their life partners. The simple theory of their life is to either work in the paddy fields or cattle grazing along with food hunting. Once they come back singing the folk songs their wife with the children stays back at home to cook food for them.
The smiles which spread from ear to ear tells enough story about their life. Even after social ups and downs which generally they face or during any fair where the person from the neighborhood who has gone to the city to earn comes back with clothes and various other such gifts may be frown upon by few of the people.
They are generally self-satisfied people who drink their indigenous drinks and food is all about the simple one or one can say rice and fish as the staple food with occasional Chicken or Mutton during the festivities.
On the contrary, we as city dwellers run from pillar to post for fulfilling all the basic needs but do not get the satisfaction from within. Our own depression comes out in the form of tears or passing remarks to the person who does not either reply back or come out with hordes of slangs which ultimately leads to fighting. It further leads to domestic violence and if the wife is not educated or just a girl who is ready to fight then the world can see the "Great Indian Fight Club".
The same gets avoided if after a heavy day of work both share the daily work talks with each other while sipping the coffee or favorite drink and eyes which could deeply understand the emotions thus making a fresh start every day with their love life.
I do remember my late father who use to come back from a heavy day at his work while he was posted at Bokaro Steel Plant. My mother would immediately prepare tea and both use to talk with each other and he would tell about different kind of work at the plant. It uses to be their talks while I sometimes played with my sister ( who is no more) or with my dog "Moti" who was an inseparable part of our childhood days.
Now, as a person who has been staying at Delhi for past 17 years, I still am alone with only my mother staying with me. Thankfully the headline which is "Break-up gratification experienced satisfaction" has not been a part of my life as I keep away from any unwanted sex life rather than keeping myself busy with my work.
According to me a good sexual life only can be achieved if there is the deep love for each other rather than satisfaction involved of counting how many sexual encounters a person had in life. It gives a terrible headache when sex with a person comes out in the public domain. Whether, a person belongs to higher, middle or lower strata of life the society just cuts into left, right and center through words which are more than poisonous in their own ways.
I would like to say that it is totally upon the person to have multiple sexual partners or wait for the Mr. Dependable, as a long-term relationship where one could spend the life till old age with each other is certainly more fruitful. It is far better for the social structure of family and upcoming generations rather than spending one night with a stranger and then washing the dirty linen in public which is generally the forte of every other Indian household!
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