Thursday, 8 March 2018

International Women's Day: Tribute to some known female Protagonist

Today, the life has become very hectic and there is less time for each other. We generally try to avoid every other person and stick to our duty and work which is necessary for us. Whether we live in apartment or row houses the person faces the problem of leaving the home as once they reach back the first level of interaction i.e. the society gate he gets a badmouthing person in the form of security guards.

Then, further, the bad life continues as most of the time the neighbors do not leave any stone left unturned in pulling the pants down. It actually happens with both the sexes. Anyway, today's discussion is not the same but it is about understanding the women who have bought changes in my life esp. since past few years.

When I talk about the International Women's day I would like to thank the God for making this beautiful world of ours with the right of reciprocation given to the women which starts with a gentle smile and ends with a large grin. 

I was never close to anyone more in my life rather than my younger sister "Sweta" who left to heavenly abode in the month of August 2004 and last heard she was brutally murdered while completing her Hotel Management degree at IHM, Bangalore.  Although, we went to her funeral ceremony still nothing could be done with lack of evidence. The void never got filled again.

The next lady of my life is my mother around which my life spins more since the year 2009 when my father left for heavenly abode. She takes care of my food, clothing, and thanks to her efforts I stay in my all paid home which is free from Loan atAjanara Integrity, Ghaziabad near New Delhi.

There have been many people in form of my Manager, co-workers and of course many others whom we interact on daily basis but the highest influencer on my mind since last year are these ladies who helped me to recover from a brutal assault which was done by the security guards and other such people at my apartment on 16th of March 2017.

Poonam Bisht: Delhi Police- I went for few months to Chandigarh for the preparation of Ph.D. although could not secure a seat. The incident happened when I was at the New Delhi Railway station. I just went towards the ticket counter to know the status of my seat in the Jan Shatabdi from New Delhi to Chandigarh. Since I was feeling completely broken although collected myself before giving my exams for M.A. in Sociology and got a second higher class.

So, as I was passing through X-ray machine where we put our belongings the lady in uniform was checking the goods of people. I was feeling very low as a few months back I was beaten brutally so I don't even remember how I drifted towards her and for few minutes I was standing in front of her dumbfounded without speaking any words. I could not say anything and she did the same although she was taller in height. That really helped me to bounce back in my life as after some time I come back with a full attitude and also went to foreign locations such as Singapore and Cambodia.

Lady Landlord, Manimajra, Chandigarh: I stayed at a house in Manimajra Chandigarh and the landlady was very supportive. She used to treat me like her own son and the family was very supportive in every manner.

Red FM RJ, Shatabdi Bhatnagar: If you stay at Chandigarh then don't forget to listen, "Menz Only" programme over the Red FM as the vivacious and bubbly girl who is the lady love of entire Chandigarh is Shatabdi. She turns out to be a soulmate for all those guys who stay at Chandigarh and the nearby locations. With her voice which is full of charm certainly, anybody could get floored down. So, apart from playing songs she also solves many small issues of the public and is a known figure.

HDFC Bank Cashiers Chandigarh, Sector 47: I don't remember the name of this girl who refused to have a cup of coffee with me on the pretext of being married. This was the first time in my life I have gathered the courage to ask a lady out for a coffee. She used to give a beautiful smile and talk very politely which can be seen at any of the nationalized banks or the private ones throughout Chandigarh. This beautiful behavior is rarely seen by the lady bank officers at Delhi, NCR.

Women of Cambodia: Although, few of the women at Cambodia are arrogant, in general from the hotel to bar and restaurants along with many places of entertainment and airports the women are very beautiful in thoughts and behavior. They love people from outside and give them the due respect. One completely feels at ease in their company and all sections of women have given me lots of love along with food and shelter when I got short of currency as my card got blocked.

Also, the Air Hostess of Malindo Airlines through which I made a comeback to India are very beautiful and if you do not cross the line which is generally a term for the women throughout the world then they get all out to help you.  

Zee news readers: Since I have been staying at home sometimes working on Freelance projects which come on and off as part of my Content Writing works. I have got a new and very essential way of giving importance to World News and my personal and favorite is the Zee News team.

Whether the lady with some serious intonations who is Mimansa Malik or the personal favorite of the general public Miss Rubika Liyaqat one cannot come out of their style and the hold which they have on their talk shows. The students of Mass Communication could learn a lot from them.

The only issues with the Indian women are that they never let others know about their personal relationship. If you ask them whether they are married they will give you hundred excuses and not the correct reply at all.  You just could not figure out from even the vermillion these days as they mischievously reply Wo toh pehle wale ki yaad mein laga rakha hai.....

Also, nowadays the desperation in the society has grown to a large extent. You get to know one girl and more than 1000 people start having an idea of connecting with her. So, the only thing which comes to mind is that do not bring the girl to your home.

As a person who is a divorcee, I just stay away and live in my own virtual world where most of the time after my work I spend on blogging sites, news channels and also music through Youtube.

Not to forget that I am trying to become a Professional Marathoner as I have clocked the time of 2:36:06 seconds at Angkor Wat Half Marathon, Cambodia on 3rd of December 2017. Hopefully, I, become a professional Marathoner and do not remain an amateur.

























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