In India most of us are connected to our own homeland which is village although we may dwell in the city for a living. Also, with cities suburbs emerging very fast most of us are helping ourselves with a budget home and it is our own beautiful space. But all we love is that somewhere down the line we do not forget our homes in the ancestral land and also cry for the beautiful village within our mind.
Now, the best way to reach back to our own land is to get married to any guy and girl from the village for a man or woman respectively. Following our own tradition and customs give us happiness while adapting to others tradition and customs feels like a burden. However, it may sound good or beautiful in mind but a person in the neighborhood who may look your own will only marry to make you feel dejected, ashamed before your parents and will think about his own benefits through your own end.
It is like a suffocation which never ends and although I do not cite any example but the huge benefits which any poor man could take out from you if you are a rich girl will only be understood by the society once everybody takes the privilege from you and then your life will more or less look like a person with no personal favor towards your own existence.
Most of the time the marriages which are far from homes are more suitable rather than the marriages within the same gated community. People can lampoon you or criticize you for all the bad vibes which could be on their part but what actually looks is the more you try to find the woman or man from the societies which could be of the wine gulping and an extraordinary feeling of glitz and glamour attached to it looks great but it gets finally into a system which cannot be carried on both ends.
On the other hand if Indian girls and boys should marry in their villages and own community it gives peace and solace for many years to come and leads to health, happiness and vigor along with attachment which carries for many long years.
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