None of us has to fight for father's and village pride!

Earlier when we were a child watching movies of Bollywood made us feel nostalgic about our fatherland which is a village or ancestral place and much of the films were based on Ghar ki Izzat etc. Now, the fact of the matter is that there is no such sense prevailing in making us feel ashamed by killing other people in such name while the eye of ours must be towards the ulterior motives of woman, land, and power.

If we understand the basic necessities along with food, shelter, and clothing much of us have reached the level where one could fulfill life's happiness easily or else most of the time the Indian Government is also helping the people in different ways. The difference between the poor and the needy or the greed and the greedy is almost changing at a fast pace and the social and economic reforms in the past 10 years are also helping the people to come out of the jails and lead a life of their own.

The reason behind the lockdown according to me is to find the tendency of people and their intrinsic behavior and also make people understand the value of Roti along with good health. Although we could hear every day about people dying in large numbers we forget the fact that in India people carry on with their lives by at least 4 names and as many certifications.

People easily try to carry on various names until they reach a saturation point where they do not coincide with any names in life and found to be into disarray. But also there are people who get lovingly changed by women in their lives knowingly and unknowingly after which they carry the approach of either forgetting her and moving away.

Most of the time the woman understands her good and bad easily and it leads her to make a correct decision in life to stand by the man whom she understands better at any point in time rather than their parents or brothers. The thought of spending her life into the arms of a person who may give her soul a better life is understood by her.

There was a time when the woman uses to take an impulsive decision about spending her time and life with the one who could even sell pens on the road but ultimately tends to sell the woman's flesh, in the long run, to buy food and necessities to carry on with life needs.

In the long run, such a beautiful statement looked out to be from a fool's paradise by stating that mai tumhare liye kuch bhi kar sakti hoon or many other similar ways. On the contrary my thought was not to get into the women's hide or skin and abruptly say Mai aapke layak nahi hoon and move away without spending a dime or time on her. It is all about not getting balmed in life because a woman who is not mature always has ulterior motives.

Now, getting back to the point none of us has to fight for father's and village pride because if we do so in a clear scenario it is for any woman rather than an aging father who just asks for a little bit of respect as most of the time in life he has done more to give you the roti and the necessities rather than asking your girlfriend to spend time with you.

The other aspect of life is that getting a woman who is already into some other person's life may help for few days or years but the moment the woman gets the chance she shows her loyalty towards the real person who was in her life and then nothing can make her get back to you. That was the reason when I tied the knot I asked about the woman will you marry me?

Now, also getting back to the point I just do not find solace in the company of multiple women and it takes me time to hug and understand her priorities thus I do not get into the mode of having serious or even casual affairs.

So, one should always keep our own pride and prejudice before us and none of us has to fight for father's and village pride because it is all about living in a fool's paradise after all we are not into a land of bandits but is our own land and money which we have to keep for us for many years to come!

P.S: My father although he loved me but was always infatuated by a person called Vicky or Jayant Manohar because of his good mannerisms and his taunts at times were all about "Vicky Tumse acha ladka hai" made me feel bad but still I did not have any ill-will against both of them!