Wednesday, 6 May 2020

Multiple marriage system seems to be thing of past!

Multiple marriage system seems to be thing of past as when we were reading in history about polygamy and polyandry the thoughts were the same that at the other's end or receiving end rather either the rich woman or man must be keeping a big number of wives or husbands. Although, I was not ignorant in life I was a person always kept in mind that I am answerable to myself and if the deeds are to be weighed on a balance scale then it has to be well balanced where the pros should be in my favor and the cons for others.
If considering the wife for me I never looked for a super glamourous woman in life or the one with multiple affairs and if thinking back during the school days I was nowhere near to be romantic and avoided the company of girls and women. Although, I was not aware that why and how life becomes a little bit into the mud-slinging scenario but I tried myself to be with a clean image. 
I was liked by both gender the boy and the girl but my approach was rather very simple wherein the school after every three months the parents-teacher meeting was held and there on I was cautious so that my father should not be told about any kind of mischief so that I should remain spic and span which will help me to be known as a better person.
This clearly made to show me as a person who was cautious about his image although I was playful in my own ways only in the sports field and music was my passion as I was good at singing. Now, the fact of the matter is that for me life was all about learning as much as I can but if somebody thinks that I go on speaking about school then it was all because after schooling I did much of the education through Open Schooling rather than spending time at college.
For me, it was about earning my own pocket money rather than expenses which were at times send by my father when I use to be with less amount or was not into jobs. The various private organizations where I worked from selling personal loans to getting into call center whether inbound or outbound I earned my own money and then finally into digital marketing through which I earned till this COVID-19 or Coronavirus took the world to a storm.
Now, thinking about the fact that I avoided taking any step to get into any womanizing ways may have given me a secure future or a better image but somewhere women of different age group seems to be giving the same odd look which is neither sympathetic nor any person with begar outlook who may be looking to thrive on woman's money.
This made me a bit odd in the eyes of people and although I use to feel displeasure by few people's behaviors but made sure that people do not consider me unethical and rather going towards any women's household to ask for marriage.
If I see people around me they could be seen down the line with make-up to boost their image and sometimes found to be in the company of women who at last consider them nothing more than gigolos and in the long run are from a less moralistic background.
They could be seen exchanging bed and are somewhere inclined towards having group sex which does not fetch a good social image and in the long run, are discarded but when I see them with various people it seems nothing more than the kind of hypocrisy which they surrounded themselves and to an extent, their wish was nothing but to demean me.
This is the reason I remain at peace from inside but may feel to be appreciating all those people who consider themselves to use and throw mechanism and leading to any question on the institution of marriage which seems to be dumped in India and free sex has become a part and parcel of life and for that, I just cannot say "Koi Shaque...." as it is certainly not my matter of concern! 
 

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