People say South Indians love tantrums but Punjabis love it to core!

Do South Indians love tantrums and the way Sri Rajni Kanth or Mr. Kamal Hasan took the industry by storm ould be more or less just a thought which was all because of the atmosphere at that particular period of time. With few of my frequent visits to Chennai and Bengaluru, in particular, I found both the cities with more serious people than anywhere else.

People are moving with stumped faces as if they are always in thoughts and rarely could anyone see any person having any zest in their thoughts. The people could also seem to be very serious about their work although they have resources in the form of land and also city dwellers have capital in the large amount.

The only difference is whether the person is super rich or an intellectual they behave more or less like commoners and eat and dine at the same place where the most common of the person stays and eats. Also, the actors try to mix by plying auto and become a conductor in the state bus corporations with the way akin to Sri Rajni Kanth and it gives no pleasure to any person in particular.

I think it is all about playing safe and making your own publicity in an easy way. With my few visit to Punjab and even beyond Chandigarh I could find that people are although serious but once they know you for a few months they easily get into your helm and there is less suspicion and doubts for each other.

One thing to be observed by me is that Chandigarh Police has a beautiful penetration within the minds of people and students across all mediums have a close affinity with the police. The Police listen to children and keep an eye on every person with the best of the technology. They are also with the total call of protecting every citizen and with their robust looks and hefty style or approach it is difficult to do any kind of immoral activities.

Although, people are understanding in one or other ways in every part of India when it is about the better score in the way of living all across Punjab then maybe people say South Indians love tantrums but Punjabis love it to core understanding about the intellect and intellectuals making it a better place even the insurgency may have maligned it's name but not forever! 

I feel satisfied when I see the disgruntled parents who were against me as a kid!

Nothing beats the feeling of being nurtured by the thoughts of the own where you neither feel defeated nor a victorious person but remain a commoner who has not achieved in life by bowing before the so-called King of Thornes.  In India, whether you talk about democracy or the mobocracy which has been the essence of life in every aspect whether study, sports, or recreation. Here, at every step people try to overrun you, and then you are at the mercy of some political leaders or maybe any other social activist and further any person who has a deeper penetration into sports or Indian Cinema.

The people in small towns and big cities have to succumb to various pressures which are above all and every other aspect of life. Either, the local MLA or even the hefty teachers in the school run behind your beautiful women or the growing kids who reach adolescence in terms of girls child and most of the time the parents have to put away their ethics and every other thought to find growth in life for kids at every step.

In this way, one could say that a kind of lobbying starts at a young age where the students and the teacher get into each other's and it could be easily seen at the political stages from various student political wings. The person whether rich or poor once reach the Government college could find themselves to be supported by various political ideology supported by NSUI, ABVP, and many other local political bigwigs.

The talent in you is also to be laughed and made a mockery when you do not resort to oiling the well-managed machinery of pimps and prostitutes and further standing on your own at higher pedestal does not happen without getting into their helm. Many times "Kya kar lega" is a terminology which is just not found to be limited to the parents but it reaches to their younger ones and then life becomes a fight where the person is either found to be alone most of the time.

People who tend to find the truth behind very few of the good bad and ugly who have reached to some bigger levels most of the time exploit and move away without getting into the act in front of the camera. Also, Indian media however bigger is lauded just do not try to pull out the right stories and most of the time it leads to propagandas which is bigger than any Breaking news.

One could think that for any good post in life a person just cannot resort to being a sex slave or something akin to get under a particular Umbrella organization which was found everywhere during the late '80s. One such example was an "A" in the Hindi alphabet. People who were from the Jha community just flocked under it but could not get large scale benefits from it. Similarly, there were many other such organizations whether political. social or also under the religious aspect which leads to many people getting their thoughts dismantled for many years.

Being a part of society does not make into remaining in its helm and following its order but remaining neutral and then not also stay in their eyes which could be akin to dirt in the eyes was the way my mother-father remained throughout their life which help me and my sister to get settled.

Now, if I look back and see the families from where the kids had overthrown the mentality of their parents to become something very bigger in life and leading their life in serving the society and making a big name just to be being a point of mockery I feel satisfied.

Also, as a kid or a younger boy when I was a part of a thought process who was overwhelmed by my results but at times was found to be on the receiving ends of the parents from other kids I feel satisfied now when I see the disgruntled parents who were against me as a kid. As I could see that their much-lauded kids just could not reach bigger heights and remained according to their own wishes, thoughts, and action removing the over-involvement of the bigger names of their parents to dust!

Anybody should never feel demoralized under any circumstances!

People who have the ability to stay strong stay positive are selected in the Indian Army, Police, and various other paramilitary forces where they go under heavy training and also a way of life which is imbibed totally under discipline. The reason behind the civilians and the people in uniform could be seen not only because of their wit and humor at times but the way they keep themselves fit and fine making it a way to become an example for others.

The alarming rate of people who are getting affected by the Corona Virus in Police across various states across India is a bad thing to happen. Earlier, when people were dying at a city hospital or any other place then the reason must be any other such effect but we rarely heard something akin to Coronavirus.

Now, if one could think about the physical stamina most of the time people in Police are unable to pass the various physical test at Hyderabad Police Center which is all according to the Media reports over the internet. The people all over the world have got affected by a thought process of being into a net of supremacy over each other without having the ability.

Think about the Movie Ab Tak Chappan, where the nearest rival of Sri Nana Patekar tries to count all the reasons to find out the failure and believes that he could prove the person wrong at any cost. The same could be said about the generation which has been found to be in the form of securing themselves a place on earth during the '80s to '90s. Unfortunately, their parents did not understand the value of  Dedication and discipline and most of the time were full of Paan and Tobacco are strewn everywhere. 

For them, it was easy to find out other's people's mistakes and their children also use to make an easy mockery of others for those who kept themselves at bay or few hand distance from others. Once any person who tried to be into office after joining any organization their children were using a combing method to put themselves on a higher pedestal without much of the degrees as it was a better way to get into the surrounding web and thankfully Internet helped them in a different way.

Also, making the mockery of each other by casual sex throughout the cab into the call center made them feel easy. Once al said and done a few of the people with a political mindset just took the penetration by using the absurd world of Wine, women, and wealth which was propagated by few.

According to me, the Police stood to be at different perspectives and all those who were from nowhere will bite the dust sooner or later while the forces will reckon themselves to be on top.

So, according to me anybody should never feel demoralized under any circumstances and the people who are into various social stigmas sooner or later will get under their own plight of doom.

P.S: Although, anybody should keep the morals O.K. and high at the same time Police need to be free of any such danger as they stand to be the most important pillars of democracy as the Politicians or rather on a higher pedestal. So, the Police and Armed forces should always consider themselves a tad above rather than feeling low at any cost.

Running on your own makes people laugh for long!

I do not believe in the word Sifarish as it pinches me a lot and for that reason most of the time my lifestyle remained private. Although, it could be an easy way to say my thoughts have been more or less to be dependent on me at times with the help of my father's money as he was generous towards me.

On the contrary, my maternal uncles had a special dislike for me, and even during my childhood they along with my maternal aunts use to beat me hard even while I was a toddler of 4 months. Although, this is something which has been told to me but by the age of two when I visited my maternal grandparents the children from the other side use to be rough towards me.

The same odd scenario could be found when I joined the school as my classmates did not have some great affinity towards me although I did not create much of the dents in their thoughts. Now, not getting into the same mold of getting into the thick of the skin I rather could think that God helped me in more than many ways by staying along with me in every form.

I just could thank my stars that in spite of the world trying to put me down in every possible way I most of the time was able to raise my standards and for that, I am thankful to those who were kind towards me.

India is a country where people dislike the approach of a person becoming something on his own and most of the time for a male it is sharing the bed with women and for the female sharing the bed with males. In a large manner to think about the thought process, it is just to pay back band also to save the own weakness it is one of the best modes to resort with bad vibes towards any person.

To add to the thought of getting yourself to be a sort of pygmies such person who is negative in traits should not be allowed within your mindset as people who are unsuccessful most of the time are more revengeful than the one who has got a taste of sweetness n the form of success.

The country has it's own mythical stories that just do not much in terms of understanding the thoughts in the right perspective but people who are found to be within their limits or standards are considered to be self-centered.

I always have one thought in mind that while 90% of us are into all odd ways of getting things done and also with a criminal bent of mind the other 10% could be found to be good making things easy for them to face in the world.

There are many people who are born with intelligence others put tremendous hard work in life and the last person is the one who believes in keeping the mind brimming with anger and considers to be a part of injustice.

Such, people are obviously from the mind which is all about creating all odd scenarios for others and thus make the people feel bad or rather say the people just do not feel like mixing with them. In this way, if I talk about myself I rather had always been a person who did not mind my friend's behavior of any kind of intolerance but once I grew up and be a part of my own earnings I took to a complex social way of avoiding those who are not needed while keeping a closeness with those people who could be good with me at various steps of life.

Although, running on your own makes people laugh for long but then there are people who are aware of my work ethos and I get the better vibes by many instead of those who remained the slayers or the thief in the skin of a goat!

"Dum Maro Dum" generation did not changed their ethos!

If we remember the movie by the song Dum Maro Dum and the film title Hare Rama Hare Krishna it was one of the tasteless and with no thought-provoking sense coming out of the film. The film was made in 1972 and was nothing more than a way to promote hippie culture in India. The star of the film Zeenat Aman showed all kinds of rebellious lifestyle and was appreciated by the people who were from the upper and rich household and few other vagabonds who are from the Brahmins,

The film entirely revolved around the woman resorting to chewing and smoking weeds, not for the medicinal purpose but it was just a thought to enjoy and forget life responsibilities. Although, I was born in the early 80's I was aware of the movie nostalgia as the songs were always a part of Doordarshan and also it showcased on a few of the Sundays.

Now, the fact of the matter is that few of the people in schools and colleges were extensively promoting the ganja culture and the place where I resided earlier was full of some cynics at Sector-3 and although I don't remember the name people belonging to upper castes such as Tripathi, Tiwari, and Mishra used to frequently smoke Ganja and they just did not find it bad.

In this way, the personal traits could be said about missing the better ways to get towards the study and other social ways but just to get into the heavy effect of smoking weeds. It could be said about the generation which does not remember their bad and anti-social deeds but respond too quickly but demoralizing others in front of others was the motto of life.

It could be said about the same thought where nothing is known in terms of study and still giving the lectures and if that does not give enough or better response them flexing the muscles is the best of the way or reporting to abuse.

Generation awakening is the worst thing to be done these days and with people who are into all kinds of short movies and other such documentaries could find themselves into a net from where they are nothing more than an outcast. To tell yourself at a higher pedestal is something which is akin to leaving in fool's paradise and most of the time such people who were into all the anti-social campaigns at one time have become a part of promoting themselves to be into all negative attributes of life.

Neither, the country has got into the mode of adding values to life and nor they could be into creating awareness which could give happiness to their life. Once all said and done the person who reaches a better point in life is given a thought which just does not match as the society around him seems to have fallen.

I, personally think that Sri Vivekananda or Sri Aurobindo Ghosh have helped enough to give the status of an educated society to Indians but what has harmed is the thought of imitating Thailand where only Phuket is the part of the sex trade and illicit drug channels becoming a heaven for the people from the USA and other countries from South America.

So, one could easily say that Zeenat Aman did not put any better contribution towards the Indian cinema and the "Dum Maro Dum" generation did not change their ethos and the Bihar which shares the border with Nepal lost its credibility and soon it was a haven for drugs and other such illegal trade which made the people from this state weak and defunct in thoughts and life values!

Desi Dogs getting to the forefront in India!

The dogs which are of Indian breeds and especially the ones which were called stray have become the most important aspect. Although, they are the ones who have been found to be residing by the human civilization for ages and could be found with a mention in Mahabharat as well. The feeding during the COVID-19 has helped them to survive and it was the most necessary step by the youth who understands every generation with ease.

The dogs are said to remove all kinds of bad omen in life and most of the time find the good and bad by merely a sniff. If we see the well-managed dog breed which is indigenously Indians then they are either in the black, brown, or spotted color. Although, I would not like to go specifically towards the scientific and common name of the dog breeds certainly one could say that these dogs are better than the one in captivity who is called the foreign breeds.

The well-managed dogs are found to be taking care of their food habits and breedings on their own and it helps many of us to get friendly vibes with them. They have the biggest survival instinct although they have a shorter life span as compared to humans most of the time it seems that they know you from ages because of their similar looks and characteristics.

I had a few dogs in my childhood days and they were very much desi in nature in which the most prominent was Moti a brown color dog who was with our family when I was 3 years of age and survived many of the familiar problems in the family with being the best pal behind my side.

He has given me the best of the love and till my class 7 he was with our family but once we grew up to be adolescence he left the home. I could feel his presence in life and every time after coming back from school I asked for his whereabouts and the best thing was that in spite of roaming all around he exactly use to come during the time of my getting back from school.

So, it was all a generous love where I use to feed the same time when I had my food and the companionship was to be understood by everyone near the home. One day a Gehuwan snake was found in the vicinity and I was playing outside my home when Moti confronted the snake and after a few hissing the snake tried to bite him on the nose and was successful to do so but we immediately provided him with medicine which was a homeopathy one and he survived the blow.

So, it was all a kind of magical set-up which could be from some story of Ruskin Bond or Leo Tolstoy but certainly, I could say that desi dogs getting to the forefront in India and it will give a different perspective of the human-animal relationship which will raise the intellectual level of the society for many generations to come as dogs are the biggest one in terms of artificial intelligence!

None of us has to fight for father's and village pride!

Earlier when we were a child watching movies of Bollywood made us feel nostalgic about our fatherland which is a village or ancestral place and much of the films were based on Ghar ki Izzat etc. Now, the fact of the matter is that there is no such sense prevailing in making us feel ashamed by killing other people in such name while the eye of ours must be towards the ulterior motives of woman, land, and power.

If we understand the basic necessities along with food, shelter, and clothing much of us have reached the level where one could fulfill life's happiness easily or else most of the time the Indian Government is also helping the people in different ways. The difference between the poor and the needy or the greed and the greedy is almost changing at a fast pace and the social and economic reforms in the past 10 years are also helping the people to come out of the jails and lead a life of their own.

The reason behind the lockdown according to me is to find the tendency of people and their intrinsic behavior and also make people understand the value of Roti along with good health. Although we could hear every day about people dying in large numbers we forget the fact that in India people carry on with their lives by at least 4 names and as many certifications.

People easily try to carry on various names until they reach a saturation point where they do not coincide with any names in life and found to be into disarray. But also there are people who get lovingly changed by women in their lives knowingly and unknowingly after which they carry the approach of either forgetting her and moving away.

Most of the time the woman understands her good and bad easily and it leads her to make a correct decision in life to stand by the man whom she understands better at any point in time rather than their parents or brothers. The thought of spending her life into the arms of a person who may give her soul a better life is understood by her.

There was a time when the woman uses to take an impulsive decision about spending her time and life with the one who could even sell pens on the road but ultimately tends to sell the woman's flesh, in the long run, to buy food and necessities to carry on with life needs.

In the long run, such a beautiful statement looked out to be from a fool's paradise by stating that mai tumhare liye kuch bhi kar sakti hoon or many other similar ways. On the contrary my thought was not to get into the women's hide or skin and abruptly say Mai aapke layak nahi hoon and move away without spending a dime or time on her. It is all about not getting balmed in life because a woman who is not mature always has ulterior motives.

Now, getting back to the point none of us has to fight for father's and village pride because if we do so in a clear scenario it is for any woman rather than an aging father who just asks for a little bit of respect as most of the time in life he has done more to give you the roti and the necessities rather than asking your girlfriend to spend time with you.

The other aspect of life is that getting a woman who is already into some other person's life may help for few days or years but the moment the woman gets the chance she shows her loyalty towards the real person who was in her life and then nothing can make her get back to you. That was the reason when I tied the knot I asked about the woman will you marry me?

Now, also getting back to the point I just do not find solace in the company of multiple women and it takes me time to hug and understand her priorities thus I do not get into the mode of having serious or even casual affairs.

So, one should always keep our own pride and prejudice before us and none of us has to fight for father's and village pride because it is all about living in a fool's paradise after all we are not into a land of bandits but is our own land and money which we have to keep for us for many years to come!

P.S: My father although he loved me but was always infatuated by a person called Vicky or Jayant Manohar because of his good mannerisms and his taunts at times were all about "Vicky Tumse acha ladka hai" made me feel bad but still I did not have any ill-will against both of them!

Indian population has gone through traumatic times since ages!

If one goes through the Mahabharat and Ramayana which are epics then we will find that they are based on family feuds that are fighting among themselves from generation to generation. Once the Mughal era descended people were said to be prosperous but again the same fight for land and money took to many cruel aspects with Rajput rulers.

Once, it got over and the British took the rule then Indian masses took to the freedom struggle and it carried for 100 years. After, the independence struggle the different states started fighting with each other, and then China tried to annex Indian territory.

Pakistan also carried with easy gun battles and then the JP revolution took to the core where studious were devoid of studies and the people who were brutal took the University system to be a place for political advantage.

This all led to insurgency and annexation of Mrs. Indira Gandhi and then different riots along with difficult times for India carried with most of the time in the name of religion. So, to ask for all the developments aspect the Indians personally do not like to be well-behaved and take further steps towards socializing themselves in the best of the possible ways.

Their tendency is neither allow growth for others nor grow themselves and if any person tries to break the stereotypes then he has to pay back to the Indian mindset in the worst-case scenario. The only way to rejoice is through Bollywood where the competition has surpassed all limits and their wish to remain on top has defied all logic.

If we see the earlier movies during the era of '70s to'80s the movies were found to be within the backdrop of villages and small towns and the real sense could shake you from within. But, once you go through the beyond 80 themes then again you could find the cheerful impact as maybe the generation must be changing.

Now, if getting back to the point that the Indian population has gone through traumatic times since ages it seems the country just does not believe in keeping the status as a nation to remain on top but loves to be controversial.

Neither, they allow the good people to remain in better strata of mind but most of the time it is about following each other to a ditch and see that who falls first. I think the land is rather of elephants where the tuskers in trodded towards the ditch with people blaring all the horns and once he falls into it than society are always there to take the advantage.

It is good that the more one understands the society from near and far it makes easy to decide about Being Indian and Buying Indian thoughts which are always there to give you a fighting spirit and it has made our countrymen to fight something as deadlier as COVID-19, which may help the country to stand back even in the mode of isolation!

People who use to follow me like a bad dream everywhere!

Since the day I left Bokaro Steel City in the year 2000 I did not face much of a challenge in life and with my wholehearted efforts and some past good deeds helped me to become a better person day by day. In the year 1986 when my father Mr. Upendra Vidyarthi got trapped in a volley of fire at Steel Melting Shop along with a few of his friends he was able to save Mr. Rastogi who was an officer at the Steel Plant.

When I use to visit my father at the Intensive Burn Unit at Bokaro General Hospital with my mother to look after him although I was a seven-year-old child few people such as D.N. Prasad and others created issues on the day of Saraswati puja at the hospital but a lady who almost must have got trapped was just able to get away as I went shouting towards them.

The lady was none other than my mother Kiran Bala Devi who was feeling aghast to see the details of the burn on the blackboard and it was somewhere near 50%. Still, we were brave enough to fight back the crisis and from then on my father was as always the biggest pillar of support after getting treated well.

Although, few people who were not well-wishers such as S.N. Srivastava and others were always with the thought of making the mockery of any issues in life, and then the above-mentioned person become a big name at Dhanbad Coalfields. Although I was not a social activist as a child, I could only concentrate on my studies and it helped me to understand that the only thing in this world which could save me is my studies and such a major accident after the 84 riots just made me feel a little vulnerable.

Now, talking with a good sense but the awkward behavior of all the people who use to follow me like a bad dream everywhere I just do not feel much to get in their comfort zone as I am aware that maybe these people who maybe not so recognized faces but from some heinous background must have some ulterior motives.

I genuinely believe that in any of their involvements including their multiple sex sojourns I have never been a part and parcel of their life. My life always uses to revolve around the happiness of my well-wishers who were although few as all my friends have the same approach that he will be able to do something good in his life.

They knew that I did not have any bigger political support and in spite of a few Media channels who may go berserk about the name Mukesh then I would like to tell that although I share my first name with many big iconic people in India such as Mr. Mukesh Ambani or Mr. Mukesh Khanna for me, my last name remains Kumar which could be called as Mr. Mukesh Kumar.

With all the fun and frolic attached in life, the people who just could not carry with their bigger names of their father or rather say legacy may fight with each other but in spite of being a common person, I believe that I may stay out of their thoughts and action because I am not a contributor in their life good and bad deeds and neither helped any of them to be a mother except for a woman whose family mockingly tried to be near to me and once she proved to be a mother of a child her own tantrums led her to move away from my life which certainly did not make me insecure!  

P.S: A time was there when my sister Sweta Srivastava who was a student of IHM Bengaluru was with us but as she got into her own job profile there was less of interactions. Also, my father Mr. Upendra Vidyarthi chose to be in his own whereabouts and the family with whom I got hitched turned out to be a makeshift one akin to "Suddh Desi Romance" and when they found me to be good but not to part with my moral thoughts and not a spendthrift then they left me for which I did not have any qualms either.

I was only influenced by Sri Premchand writings!

Md. Sadat Hasan Manto may be the talk of the town these days after much of his portrayal into movies and Urdu recitals but if India has got much of its life and blood into its veins then it is the work of Munshi Premchand ji who was an eminent writer during the Indian Independence Revolution. 

I never went through Sri Rabindranath Tagore literary works although I heard much about his Gitanjali and also his ways of work to bring a kind of renaissance into Bengal I did not found enough time to go through any of his writings.

Now, talking about the icon in terms of writings and his literary works Munshi Premchand Ji puts stress on Indian rural mindset and although his books are not into much of the people's mind as none of the movies portray his stories it is all because his stories are about very common people and their struggles to get the daily necessities of life which is near to Roti, Kapda Aur Makan.

If one goes through the story of Bhura and Moti it is about the poor farmer working day and night to meet the food production for the household and how much his animals love him could be found in the story. The other story was Idgah in which the boy in the character buys a Chimta for the mother and she obeys to make roti on time and completely feels into understanding the needs of the son and vice versa. 

This particular story has influenced me since childhood and primarily my entire thought process revolves around this story and keeps me under dedication come what may. I always believed that my duty comes first and for me thinking about influencing someone is far from necessary and most of the time I remain into myself rather than running towards anything which could be called to be over modern.

I also do not believe much into being a show-off and most of the time my nearest of the detractors were just influenced by my thought along with changing his mind to be rude towards me and cherish the good moments in which he or she has spent with me.

Although, Premchand Ji has his own struggles in his life and the British Government has also put a ban on his literary works along with Soje Watan which was daily news read to inspire the Social revolutionaries and thus one could consider him the most important Socialist before any other person who got recognized as a Socialist in India in terms of pre-independence days.

My father at my adolescent age did not give too much of literary works of Sri Premchand ji and much of his way of thinking was to provide me books like Competition Success Review and Pratiyogita Drapan which still imbibed the sense of understanding the better article writing which is akin to writing for the competitive exams and also it helped to increase my mindset knowingly or unknowingly.

I was never influenced by books like James Hadley Chase or any poor novels by Sri Gulshan Nanda and if I was caught reading such books at times while visiting my Grandparents home as one of my uncle use to read such novels I immediately got beatings by my father in the most vehement ways.

So, I could say that for any mistakes in my life my father never spared me and that is the reason I still have the sense of understanding the patriarchal ways of life and giving at the most a better understanding of fatherhood rather than spoiling the child.

Now, getting back to the thought I was only influenced by Sri Premchand writings although I never went to Lamhi which is the ancestral village of the writer for me the iconic development of villages and the revival of the agriculture in India which was the dream of Sri Premchand ji along with food, shelter, and clothings for everyone gives me a kick and I believe the day has come when indians are understanding about having their own roti from their own piece of land which is the biggest transition for the Krishak and majdoor samaj!

In a Democracy nobody should be allowed to sit idle!

Being idle has become a phenomenon and most of the time it is propagated by our elders these days. People who laughingly say arrey bahut paisa hai hamare pass and could be seen working into various ways from where the life just gives back nothing but their head to be hung with shame just cannot carry with their lives in a proper way. Now, my mother who considers that before eating a morsel i.e. food one has to earn money but when it is time to understand the effect of a pandemic for me it is better to prepare for another good milestone in life.

Sometimes, the money should not be earned by those who are not directly into business or any other such activities but cautiously wait for the good sunshine to get back in life. If one understands how things are working these days the life is going through a big transition and certainly the few coming weeks which will declare to get back the life on wheels are to be declared by our leaders.

India is a country that firmly sits on a democratic way of life and the person who remains loyal towards the constitution and the Indian Flag understands the value of life in a better way. For me as a person, I remained stout throughout my life, and earning my own bread was my responsibility along with saving for the mother was a liability. Since early childhood, I stood by my mother's end and sticking to my father's chest which helped me to survive in every better way.

Now, considering the fact that in a democracy nobody should be allowed to sit idle but with the people who are getting back to their homeland or state may let anybody think that are the Government in their particular state ready to fulfill their life needs.

Suddenly, the extra pressure on people could lead to society crumbling under heavy pressure. But the fact of the matter is that we could not see the huge amount of rush at the railway station or bus terminals which shows that while the people who believe to create rumours are many the fact lies somewhere else.

People who believe in creating false implications just to make the country look small may find that earlier the various natural epidemic along with cyclones could wipe out an entire state of people during the various disease spread such as cholera or influenza. But nowadays the thoughts of remaining healthier could be more about carrying the synchronization with nature which I learned while getting more near to the River Hindon.

The entire ecosystem over there has bought a bigger way to understand the life cycle and how humans and animals along with birds co-exist together which was the way our primitive humans took to life. So, it is all about being afraid and losing the belt while people try to intimidate you but facing the life with an understanding of a grown person will make you feel to be at a certain way where challenges are not in the form of those who were saved by you but your own inner aspect which at times help you to run towards saving yourself and the near ones without being a leader or a holistic, spiritual leader!

Football still has a bigger charm in India!

Although, cricket is a game that has surpassed its popularity all over India within a limited time frame and matches like IPL along wth various World cups has always given the image of cricket as a bigger revenue-generating sport.

Still, when it comes to machoism and charisma along with a dedication of 90 minutes and more then nothing can surpass the popularity of football for any nation. The country has been primarily a sport centric nation and with people who have developed themselves in the agricultural fields and various labor-intensive industry which is considered as a heavy-duty labor love to get into sports which are more than a competition.

The badminton, chess along with lawn tennis and table tennis are more competitive as it has more or less single or a pair working against each other but when it comes to cricket and football then team sports is all one could understand where the competitive stance is less and people could be seen getting over each other too soon within few goals or wickets.

In this way, one could say that competition stays for long in life rather than a few achievements such as making into IIT or conquering any particular domain but with the ever-changing world, a competitor is one who competes within himself as the person himself is the biggest competitor rather than challenging another person to get into any duel in terms of studies or sports.

Knowingly or unknowingly every day a person is penalized on this earth for his deeds and his ability s somehow scrutinized by various planetary factors along with the various living things and beings such as plants and animals.

Any person who is into himself is the biggest in terms of being close to God as he leaves most of the time his happiness and being worthy on the God and since God himself is somewhere a part of the bigger society or the cosmos which includes plants, animals and humans the God charts his own destiny by scrutinizing his efforts and the kind of fruit he (She rarely gets punished) has borne in life.

Now, getting back to the point which says football still has a bigger charm in India is quite authentic because it does not need large stadia or a bigger number of spectators but every school field has two goalposts and the only thing which is needed is to buy a Rs 200 football and harness the young energy into the right direction for helping young players to become the stars of tomorrow!

In India most of the enemity is done with Children!

Indian Children have almost come up with terms about getting beaten in school, playfield, and anywhere else. They do not feel like fighting with each other these days and believe that someone else will beat them. Unfortunately, they cannot make themselves strong enough to cope with any unfortunate incident and believe that in any case if they will fight or raise their voice then their elder sister or younger sister may suffer.

This is the fact of life and anything done in zest by parents is also considered to be a mockery. Earlier our life was at peace and we during the '90s were aware of each other's presence in the life to a limited extent. That was the reason some of the very young artists flourished at some great levels in life whether in sports, athletics or even in the film industry.

There was a time when many of the artists have to increase their age just to get themselves eligible for working in the film industry but it was not known to them. On papers, they use to sign crores and were shown with flashy cars, great Bungla owners but in reality, they have nothing in their own name. 

Most of the time their name was confined to name and fame while many of their nearest friends were not aware of their social whereabouts as they were asked to be tight-lipped. The only thing which I feel bad is that in spite of entertaining us for many long years either into an aforesaid industry such as the Cricket or Film industry along with various other endeavors we expect much from them without putting our own efforts in life.

After all how much a person from the film industry can do for you or what else he or she can give you in return. She has her own way to look after her life and when it comes to reforms any good person who gives some better thought may meet with some uncertain fate from where he or she has difficulties in life to recover.

The cost of being in the limelight is a brunt and it is bear mostly by the children and it is a well-known fact that in India most of the enmity is done with children without understanding the social implications. If some of us have the privilege of a beautiful wife or a better lifestyle then it is all because of the hard work which one has done in life.

If a Kisan or an orchard owner gives a better harvest it is because he has put his wholehearted effort into it and the favorable weather conditions. I had the courage to face most of the issues in life during childhood and the reason was that my father uses to beat me instead of blaming other children or parents when any issues were found in my behavior. It is good that we should keep a check on our own children behavior so that he or she should not cross the limit and in case if they do they should have the courage to admit it before their father either by crying or by shouting instead of making fun of their household which may lead to making a mockery of their own and making the enemy in large numbers for their families!

We should not take our own trauma to the Children!

Has anyone ever wondered a society without the laughter of children? It is just bigger than a Criminal offense. Just think about a person who sweeps our floors in the society, dons the cap of a person over the bike in the evening, and asks us to stay indoors in the name of Corona.

Ask him how much he has an understanding of lung failure or it's symptoms. He will be unable to give back any of such answers. A person like him has a terrorized society. Unless and until we do not move in the open and let our children feel to do so such kind of limited thoughts will not get away from us. 

Remember during our school days when we did not have any wish about any particular subject we immediately use to rush towards the loo and the next day made excuses about going to school by saying that we are suffering from stomach ache.

The same is the situation that if we will not manage our own society by considering it as a Covid-19 free place devoid of Corona attack, then how we will consider our nation to be free of Corona attack. There is no such virus in the air that affects the person immediately and neither all of us are going to get affected by it on an immediate basis. It is just the thought of some superfluous minds who believe themselves to be small and consider us to be big and their way of thinking for suppressing us is through making the mockery of societal norms.

The journal by WHO tells that the Coronavirus is not an airborne disease that means it is not due to inhaling of air but going at places like Hospitals and other such places where people could find respiratory disorder people. Here, is the link to find the exact details:

https://www.who.int/news-room/commentaries/detail/modes-of-transmission-of-virus-causing-covid-19-implications-for-ipc-precaution-recommendations#:~:text=According%20to%20current%20evidence%2C,transmission%20was%20not%20reported.

If one goes through the details one could understand that moving in the open will neither put a dent in your spirit and nor it will take you to any kind of illness. So, blindly following anyone's verdict will make you feel more than traumatized and you will not reach any healthier point in life.

A day will come when you and your children's social behavior will be confined to the home and if I have to say in one line then it is more appropriate that we should not take our own trauma to the children.

There has been a time in life when we were more or less traumatized in the form of lakadsungha baba or the Bhediya baba coming to the household which was just a way to keep us indoors but now the time has changed and we can feel freer within our limits rather than staying indoors and thinking about getting the effects of Corona Virus on us!

Those who have devoid me happiness will carry curse forever!

I, personally believe that whether any animal or human or any other thing whether living or non-living has not got hurt from my end on a persistent basis. I tried most of the time to be all good for society. If during my youth I did not try to fall in love was the reason that I always thought about the girl's father and brother along with her family. Most of the time I tried to be good to people irrespective of their social status whether rich or poor and any other social being.

I never tried to raise voice against any public beatings done to me and did not complain to Police thinking that maybe such people must be suffering from any anxiety or depression along with any issues with their life. I always thought in one statement that agar mujhe maar kar aapko khushi milti hai to maar lijiye.

If I see the society all around people run over each other literally make fun of each other and then feel happy but most of my ways were to be confined within myself and at times when I blurt out people just made mockery for many years pertaining to my education or social status. I just could not feel O.K with their behavior during any office hours or my days of struggle but at most of the time tried to lift the people in every possible way. 

My way of life was to help and then move away without asking for any particular thing in return which could be in cash or kind. In this way, I could think that society, in general, has not given me any sort of happiness but for them, their own happiness was above all rather than thinking about a less ordinary guy like me.

I could say that my mother Kiran Bala Devi, stood through all the thick and thin in my life and helped me to become what I am today but for others, I could say that those who have devoid me happiness will carry curse forever and the God will decide their fate although I do not want any personal harm to anyone always feel like crying because of the taunts and trauma I have faced in life!

P.S: This is the very general thought of every person on this earth at any circumstances in life but for me, it is all about zest which makes me the man. I carry on with my life and never get personal with anyone and hopefully, none of the people took the offensive against me on the pretext of creating bigger harm to me for which I am thankful to GOD and Humans alike!

Advantages of farmers recruiting agricultural labourers on monthly basis!

With the large scale fisheries which work under various labels to provide fish and another inland hatching center for different kinds of fish and other such products, it is the right time to start farming as a company. It is easy to start an agricultural company these days and people who are getting into agriculture either on their own or through the ways of being labor both of them could benefit by this small but big way.

Most of the time we see that agricultural companies which buy your end products come up with their cartons with various labels and company name, take your products which you tie in a piece of the sari or any other clothes and send it to the wholesaler who further selects the product on the basis of its quality and from there on the various companies buy the product for further export or within the state distribution.

It is nothing but the work of a middle man which does not give benefit to the farmers and the laborers. Tell me who loves to work on a farm where he will get Rs 200 to 300 per day and by the end of the day he has to hear in a stern way, " Kal se mat aana....then he asks..kya hua saheb...!!!

Bol diya na ek baar..rsala haramkhor!!!

And then he moves away back to his home. On the other hand, if the farming will become organized not only a large tract of land will come under it but people will think it as an occupation who works at various companies as heavy-duty labor and gets the same amount from Rs 6000 to Rs 8000 at various places in Noida.

Think about the equation:  Rs 200*30=6000, or let's say Rs 300*30=Rs 9000, which is quite a decent amount to start with.

This is equivalent to what a Rickshaw puller earns in Noida or Ghaziabad and has semi skills of plowing the field or doing various other farm works. Now, various other people who are students love to put their efforts into farming and if taught the farming skills through the various workshops they can convert the land into a place that could help them to earn crores.

Various successful farmers across all over India could be seen becoming prosperous and with little effort, if they take a few steps, and if India understands the advantages of farmers recruiting agricultural laborers on monthly basis then the advantage will be on a great end.

If we think about Uttar Pradesh and Bihar it has an advantage as it has the highest number of agricultural land as compared to Himachal and Jharkhand as much of the lands in these states are under forests and hills.

P.S: Since agriculture is a full-time business with all the year-round aspect a little bit of responsive thinking could give higher benefits and huge returns by forming a company as it is always good to deal fair rather than keep the thoughts of stashing Black money into realty sector these days! 

India is a country of fluke cases and it's resolve!

Have you seen any country with case resolution agencies like CBI and CB-CID? Both of them look like residing in a fool's paradise. The cases of any kind of conspiracy, murder theory, and many bank scams could be resolved even by any kid who gives attention to the thief hideouts. Most of the time such agencies get the whiff of any incident before it happens but they give a blind eye and say let the case become bigger. 

Once things are said and done after which the case becomes something with the importance of international level the agencies come into action and all hues and cries take place making it just a matter of laughter. Any issues in India get resolved at either the Sub-Inspector or the level of Inspector but the cases are lauded by the Media by giving the name of top-brass which is Inspector General or Deputy Inspector General.

These things are portrayed in movies like Khaki and many other movies which gives the details of Police works but the general public has a fear of Police which is good as well as bad. If we will keep ourselves under our own scrutiny most of the time such as all the papers of the vehicle including Pollution, Insurance, and Driving license then we will never get caught by Police.

The intensity of a mind is understood during early childhood and whether the person will become good, bad, or evil is understood at the early stages of life, and once the person becomes youth he or she portrays the same character.

Many of us first become a little bad and then a better citizen for tomorrow but one factor should be avoided which is about having a fearful mind and the other is disrespect for the Indian Laws, rules, and regulations.

If one will cross the chart or the territory which is not meant for us then certainly one will get caught and in most the cases the public needs to be blamed who give enough importance to the people who are from the criminal background. See, the time is not of any Robinhood or Musa character but it is all about thinking about oneself and others who are near to us.

These days nearness is not among the defined relatives who are known to eat up your assets and create liabilities for you but it is more necessary to get into the mindest of like-minded friends who are known to give much importance to each other.

So, in the long run, one has to understand that India is a country of fluke cases and it's resolve but at least in terms of general public obedience one can obey the law and salute the Police to be good in their eyes and from there on the life will be better in every aspect as the term "getting afraid" will get over!

People in India give less value to the educated lot!

Although, education is the backbone of any economy in India people who are educated are either on the brink of leaving a less happy life or rather one could say flashy as compared to less educated. Since, India is a country where people give more emphasis to satisfying their needs of food, clothing, and shelter along with above all the sexual needs it gives a lesser effect on the mind of people to continue with education.

If I remember one of my teacher's sayings about Sri Ramanujam he after coming from the U.K. felt the same rejection by the community although he has given much theoretical resolution to many solutions in mathematics. The same happened with Dr. B.R. Ambedkar as most of the time rued about the kind of respect he got during his visit to foreign lands.

The only foremost reason for this particular way of the aspect which says that people in India gives less value to the educated lot is maybe because of the following reasons:

Women's education is not a priority: In India when it comes to higher studies women are not given priority and neither they are interested in making their career into education. Although, things have changed since the past 15 years but still the scenario is that the woman who gets educated does not give priority to the menfolk and considers themselves superior which makes their growth negligent and not worthy.

Ethnic factor: With much of the population who are into the categories of labor and other particular ways their tendency is to fulfill the needs of the stomach and they do not give emphasis on educating themselves or the upcoming generation and it hampers the growth of educating themselves.

Emulating the western world: The western world is less educated as compared to East but for many years when India and China were a part of the educated countries and still they just could not transform the country into the thought of education for prevailing in every part of society. On the other hand, India started emulating the Western world too soon where need-based education is the prime way to continue with life. 

Glamour world including Bollywood and Cricket destroyed the nation in terms of education: People like Kamal Hasan and many other South Indian actors who were found to be only educated till Class Xth continued with the legacy of crippling the thoughts of further educating the masses but turned them into a venomous society to create hatred against those people who are educated.

Jealousy factor: With jealousy being the main way to demean each other and many who love to continue with education no mater how are treated with bad vibes but those who love to sell themselves by flaunting their assets are given priority which leads to getting a defunct society devoid of education.

Now, hopefully with India getting back to a society of tillers and technicians along with the class which loves to use manpower in an extensive way all those small but the lovers of education may still continue to lit the lamp of education so that the person who may look different and understand the value of education may get the right path to carry on with better ways will rise the thought of education to the people and thus helping the country with vivid thoughts and expressions about "live and let live".

"Koi Nahi त्यागेगा अपना सर्टिफिकेट" !

                                                    "Koi Nahi त्यागेगा अपना सर्टिफिकेट"!

कहते है सर्टिफिकेट आदमी का चेहरा, मोहरा और मोहर देख कर नहीं मिलता है बल्कि वो अपने डैम पर उसको प्राप्त करता है। जब आप किसी को पढ़ा लिखा समझेंगे तभी वो पढ़ा लिखा लगेगा! नहीं तो सड़क पर चलने वाला हर वो व्यक्ति अपने आप में विद्वानन है जिसे समझ है की सड़क कब और कितनी गति से पर करना है।
यहाँ कही नहीं सोच से इंसान समृद्ध हुआ है जब भी हुआ है तो अपने कर्मो से! कितने लोग है आज जो भारत में महंगाई का रोना रटते है पर उनके पास कमसे-काम खाने पहनने के कपडे है।
अगर आज से पचास साल पहले के भारत के हालत देखिये तो पिछले पांच साल में काफी परिवर्तन आया है। अगर जीने की इच्छा ही छोड़ दे इंसान तो उसकी मृत्यु निश्चित है और अगर हल पल जदोजहद करे तो किस्मेट आपकी भरी है।।।
कोणवीरस -१९ का जो खौफ फैलाया गया उसकी वजह सिर्फ यही थी की कुछ लोग भारत को नंबर १ पोस्टिव पर आते देख कर सकते मेंन आ गए। उन्हें बर्दाश्त नहीं हुआ की जो भारत कभी अमेरिका और ब्रिटैन का मोहताज हो गया तहत आज लोगो की म्हणत से समृद्ध हो गया है।
अगर मीडिया ये दिखते है की लुधिअना में वो लोग सड़को पर जीने को मजबूर है तो उन्हें समझना चाहिए की वो लोग वापस अपने गर भी तो पहुंचे है जिन्होंने अपनी आधी जिंदगी झोंक दी दो वक़्त की रोटी कमाने के लिए।
एक कहावत है "का खाई का बचाई और का ले जय प्रदेश से एकरा से ाचा खत रही रोटी अप्पन देश में"!
नाउ, गेटिंग बैक तो थे पॉइंट िफ़ वे सी तहत इंडिया है बिकम ान नंबर इन एक्सपोर्टिंग ऑफ़ फ़ूड प्रोडक्ट्स एंड वेजटेबल्स व्हिच शोज की वे अरे नॉट बिकमिंग नंबर ओने इन टर्म्स ऑफ़ नौटंकी बूत बूत आईटी इस बिकॉज़ ऑफ़ आवर थॉट्स ऑफ़ जनरेटिंग आवर ओन ब्रेड एंड बटर।
ी रेमेम्बेर तहत वन्स ान अंकल साइड ात माय होम तो सेंड में ात नेतरहाट बोर्डिंग स्कूल, बूत नेक्स्ट वर्ड हे साइड वास् तेरा आंख बेच देंगे वह घाना हाट लगता है नेत्रों का"!
नाउ, व्हेन ी सी थे ब्यूटी ऑफ़ नेटर हाट ीफील तहत िफ़ ी ओल्ड हैवे गॉन तेरे ात नेटरहैट स्कूल व्हिच वास् नवोदय विद्याला ी वोउल्ड हैवे फेल्ट हैप्पी।
बूत ुंफोरटूनटेली इन इंडिया फर्स्ट वे मेक आवर चिल्ड्रन गेट अफ्रेड थें वे पूत थम ात टास्क व्हिच इस थे रॉंग वे तो दो सो।
नाउ, थिंकिंग थे वे इंडिया है के उप इन लास्ट तेन इयर्स आईटी कुड बे सीन इन थे लिंक गिवेन बिलो व्हिच इस थे डाटा बी मर। पियूष गोयल अबोयूट थे इम्पोर्ट्स एंड एक्सपोर्ट्स एंड व्हिच कुड तेल्ल हाउ इंडिया है बिकम थे बिग बॉस एंड विल रेमें दोंग सो िफ़ ओनली अफवाह अपने आप ख़तम हो जाये और इंडिया लॉजिकल थिंकिंग अपना ले!
हेरे इस थे लिंक तो अंडरस्टैंड थे डिटेल्स हाउ इंडिया इस वर्किंग थी डेज एंड थे फूल्स अरे स्प्रैडिंग थे थ्रेट ऑफ़ वायरस एंड इतर आस्पेक्ट्स:

India Inc Report: https://pib।gov।in/newsite/PrintRelease।aspx?relid=१९११७०

प।स: जो अपनी पढाई लगन और पैसे से पढ़ा है वो उतना ही वडवान है जितना सरकारी स्कूल में पढ़ने वाला छात्र। इसी लिए हसने वाली लोगो से न घबराता हुए अपनी विद्वता पर घमंड कीजिये पर इतराइए तो अपने वक्तव्य पर और अगर आप अपने आप में कमी खंगालेंगे तो दुनिया हासिये पर रखने के लिए तैयार रहेगी!

Private Sector emerges as the backbone during the lockdown!

When I think of the private sector in my earnings I totally was dependent on it and with companies from marketing to customer service and digital marketing put my entire efforts to run my home through earnings by the private sector. 

In my flourishing career of 18 years, my entire work theory was putting all my effort towards Private jobs, and whether company small, big, or even multinationals like IBM I did my work with ease without any hiccups as such which could create any bigger or smaller issues in life.

For me spending my time towards preparing for a Government job was a sheer waste of time and slowly along with gradually I, put my foothold on the career path entirely on my own efforts and the best thing which accompanied me was my education which is M.A. in Sociology till date.

Now, looking at the tough scenario of life where many people just could not get a salary at times even in the Government sector which comes under various state-level offices such as Bihar Electricity Board or Sales Tax Organization has been an example in my own household.

Few of my maternal uncles although need not be mentioned use to keep their family at our home and their children were well-fed by my father just because they do not have any source of income after putting their entire efforts into office as most of the time their salary was kept on hold.

One could think about whether lockdown or not the State Government machinery during the 1990s just could not produce enough to give salary to teachers, clerks and various other organization which use to work under the state government machinery.

Thankfully, with the private sector emerges as the backbone during the lockdown where grocery stores not only send necessary items at your doorstep but their executives are considering nation first and put their whole-hearted efforts to provide ration and necessary items.

In case if you see the various other sectors such as the Indian Railways, Airlines, and State Transport Organizations have just come to a halt which could make us understand that somewhere down the line the Government machinery is not going to be that effective for many years to come.

Although, it is not a matter of panic as much of the task force these days is being operated by the Private Sector Organization and thanks to the undying effort of the current working generation who has put all the emphasis to work first and then spend along with study which has given us smiles on our face as well as the parents who may feel proud about us at last without any big name to back us in life!

P.S: There was a time when Miss Mayawati did not allow Reliance Fresh to continue in U.P. and the same could be said for much other progressive work. Thankfully, now start-ups and the Digital Marketing change the concept and people earn by serving through the home as well.

I have special good thought for a fit woman!

A woman's fitness is more necessary than her being overtly beautiful. All those women who may be beautiful from skin whether brown, white, or black first need to be physically fit. Half of the nerdiness in women goes away when she is physically fit and that is the reason the policewomen who are young and athletic look great in her police dress. 

The moment you see a Policewoman who is young and beautiful you forget everything and the temperature in you starts rising up. The most beautiful women in Police leave behind any model who may be a dandy queen or any oversized model or maybe the fairest of them all but when it comes to Policewoman she may leave behind millions of others in her look and style. 

Her agile behavior and rustic charm are all which makes her different and she understands herself and the person in you better as she must have dealt with every kind of person in the society including her boss and other superiors.

For me, it is very much necessary to spend some alone time with the wife rather than she always catering to the needs of the child or the parents at home and then show too much to be a bahu who is always there to fulfill the duty of the parents and husband.

It is very much necessary for the husband and wife to feel nude before each other to stand themselves and feel at ease and not necessary to feel nude only at times during sex. To make one feel better as a companion first each couple has to feel their beautiful presence with each other and it leads to understanding and then it adds to more of the pleasure.

Any amount of chocolate or rose does not complete the love unless he or she in them feels naked for each other. It is an unnecessary thought that I will wear my perfect lingerie before any of my boyfriends and keep away the happiness away from the husband who is primarily your boyfriend along with every other thing in life.

If the thought of male or female is not to be for each other then it does not make sense to stick with each other and it is not easy to say that if you can't change the girl, change the girl. According to the primitive thought once a person sticks to one woman for many years he continues with the same woman until there is any other true promise to be fulfilled as it has also become a relevance these days.

The man needs to stay away from his beloved child after the boy himself regains adulthood as whether you believe it or not these days any special thought of in-laws does not create any flutter in the mind of man or woman although boy's mother has to stay with her family as it helps in keeping away various other opportunists who try to snatch away the happiness of the family.

So, getting back to the point which is "I have a special good thought for a fit woman" and my thought is to continue with the same woman who bears my child but unnecessary tantrums are something which I hated and hopefully any other beautiful woman in life will be more fulfilling as she will understand me better rather than the earlier one who was grudgingly not aware of me being a responsible person and rather a person with a rising thought of mind which is more necessary these days rather than only carrying a city-style guy with no substance! 

Nobody comes with a pre-defined purpose on the Earth!

The Earth which is a natural habitat for all primates including animals and every living and non-living things has been a part of the solar system. Now, not getting into the various thoughts all according to the religious and social aspect of life one thing is quite contradictory that nobody comes with a pre-defined purpose on the Earth.
We are certainly not sure that when we will become a part of the womb who will be taking us further into lives until we grow up to 1 year or let us say two years and then understand the world. Some of us have to face very cruel aspects of life while others may see all the beautiful ways to enjoy life.
Jealousy is a part of life and considering oneself to be superior is the way to govern our inner thoughts and get above others. Now, let us understand that all these aspects into life are put into us by our own thoughts rather than our parents and teachers. If we talk about our parents and teachers generally what we do is the just opposite of their teachings. 
Some of us could be said not to be raw with others but we find it a way to enjoy by giving all the better ways so that he or she may get angry to the brink or the other way is to get into putting all the butter through the words to govern his or her thoughts.
Any woman who says that I give you much love and try to get into your helm is always speaking her murderous instinct. The woman however naive she is never trying to get under any man across any age and if she speaks publicly to get into your stride then there is something wrong going in her mind.
Women since many years feel safe and loved under any woman first or her natural siblings and to the one who is the biological father. Apart from that once she gets married she tries to overrule the entire family and if it does not happen then she either becomes rebellious or leaves the family with ease.
According to me, there is nothing called a natural attraction between a man and a woman but it has only one thought of overpowering each other. A woman could find you attractive or she may be into a purpose which could only be understood by her and that is quite a reason I never tried to indulge into sex with anyone during any of my train or airplane journey and considered to be better safe than sorry in the long run!
Now, getting back again to the point that nobody comes with a pre-defined purpose on the earth is quite a sensible way to think as because one could mold oneself all according to our abilities rather than getting distracted by anyone else thoughts ( which is sermons in general) and gradually the mother nature along with all the forces guides you to the right path to make you the man or woman and make you successful in the long run.

P.S: For me, my guiding force was always my father, mother, sister, and my dogs who put me at first made me a better person but unfortunately the other half of my life could not help me to carry on with the momentum which I have gathered but still I believe in bouncing back!

The overgrown heads just do not prove superior!

The people which we see around us these days are not from the civilized mankind. Although, the societies all around have reached a point where it is nothing more than an economically weaker but the show-off bubbles which is always ready to explode. People who just do not remain flashy in life try to become venomous and their wishes are nothing but to make the people feel bad and stagnant for the remaining parts of life.

If one watches people closely people trust less on each other and it is natural to do so. They first try to take away small happiness and make the people unworthy in the eyes of society who try to stand on their own. Their wish to show unnecessary seriousness on the face does not prove themselves to be good enough. 

Although, the earlier people who were born between 1955-1965 still had the lifestyle all within their capabilities. They have seen much of the hardships in life and their children use to understand things quite easily as compared to those who were with the mindset of amassing great wealth through all the false means.

When I talk about myself I never tried to take advantage of any person's situation in life although proved worthy for my father in every possible way. On the other hand, there were few friends from my school along with the neighborhood who made insignificant propaganda about my lifestyle and ways so that I could remain a below-average person in the eyes of the law and citizens.

Although, it did not hurt me as all those who knew me from near were already aware that I keep very little interest in earning money through fast means, and neither I keep myself interested to stay in a women's company which may make my life difficult in the long run.

Now, if we see the earlier phase of my life when I was during my lower Kinder Garten classes a few of my teachers who jokingly tried to get against me were still treated with respect by me and my parents. Similarly, when I reached my middle school which was between 5 to 6 and 7th class my behavior was still to be attentive and argumentative. 

The same could be said till Class X where I did not indulge in any awkward relationship with any woman or class fellows and keep myself a serious person during the classroom but playful at times. 

Now, thinking about the same where all those people who did not admire me but still had the thought about mudslinging on me tried to give me a hard-fought life at every step whether in terms of studies, games, or during my jobs.

These were all such people who could not achieve much on their own but had the political as well as various ways to get their work done with the help of selling their flesh (which could be understood by the people who know this trade.)

Although, I do not get towards pointing finger on anyone but understand the way things work and how people persuade their own near and dear ones to carry on with their life and on the contrary, I feel privileged that I stayed away from such lifestyle which proves that the overgrown heads just do not prove superior.

P.S: Most of the time such people use to speak blatantly that first I will remove all your friends and then will see you, but unfortunately I did not insist on making friends and saw them be on the receiving ends!

Coronavirus Impact: India has fewer deaths as compared to other nation!

Indians are known to take things from disease to democracy in a much harder way and since the age of Ramayana are known to be at times fearful and their times with the ability to fight back. The country has it's own attitude of "Ki fark painda hai" which was an advertisement by the Pepsi during the early '90s.

The citizens here looking for an opportunity to demean and then get a positive note out of every issue where the words are more or less hanky panky and with less of good deeds in each other name just do not consider anything in terms of reputation. 

It is easy to stay in camouflage and any sort of reminding anything in the past or maybe present is just dealt with heavy hands. People are there to raise finger first on each other and the comparison is always with the neighboring nation.  

With this sudden talk about the Cornovairus epidemic or rather say as soon as the COVID-19 struck the world it took life springing thought where everyone started remaining inside the house. It was just similar to one Comics by the name of the Dracula series by Diamond Pocket Books. Although, the healthier people after understanding the situation took it easy, and thus the various good measures were adopted to resolve the issues.

If one talks about the Coronavirus it is just a chronic issue of lungs but then various other disease was connected with it and as one sees that once the life gets some raw measures people reach back to their home which is quite natural for anyone of us.

Thankfully, the Indian Government took better measures and the "Modi Government" took better ways by helping almost many people stranded at various places and arranged special trains called "Sramik Trains" to reach various cities.

Earlier, for any issues, if we see the reaction during the Mandal Commission in 1990 Mr. Rajiv Goswami set himself ablaze at Deshbandhu College just to protect the upper caste from the reservation. It was the most foolish step by any person and then the whole country erupted into various ways to take advantage of the political situation. All, the communities from Agarwal to Baniya, Kayastha, Kurmi, Bhumihar, Brahmin were fighting with each other for reserving their coveted seats.

This made the nation to get into a tizzy and many people lost their lives but if we see the situation for this particular epidemic then according to "Reuters" which is the prominent known news agency has given the country with a better future and the link states that with the generation builder changing all according to the change in their way of work barring a few who are known to be the rumor mongers the country has rise above all.

Here, is the link to understand the entire situation which makes the people understand the mindset of India as a nation:

https://www.reuters.com/article/us-health-coronavirus-india-casualties/mortality-rates-drop-sharply-in-parts-of-india-bucking-coronavirus-trend-idUSKCN2260WM 

Why does not a woman kisses and cuddle you as much?

If every man in this world who looks disgruntled after having sex and look for more sex with other women can feel satisfied with a few of them then the world would have been different. If we see through various blogs and questionnaires on sex and relationship everywhere the man talks the same reason that I am not being loved by the woman as much as I expected from her. 

On the other hand if a bit or whiff of woman perfume or any sign of a person reaching other woman makes your wife crazy and jealous for the first time and the next time she immediately takes a clue to set herself free in life and then you are on the mercy of those who eloped with your wife.

The fact of the matter is that the woman feels proud of her assets and she considers you all merely a person who could be pawns in your hand. The moment you discard her she understands the better and bitter truth of the world that how the world is governed and the ways of exploitative measures which could be seen across everywhere.

Certainly, I do not say that your wife needs to be exploited by you but somewhere being blunt towards women makes you very much happier from inside and you feel satisfied rather than being a meek personality who immediately lay down before her for sexual needs and then he is left on the mercy of a woman who can turn you to be a sex slave.

If I write such things it does not make me a macho personality or a person with great structure but it is all about understanding the woman psycho which is about demeaning you and you family first and then trying to make you a superhero which certainly you are not as you must have surrendered before her.

It is said that do as much as you can in terms of sex but when it comes to understanding the authoritarian ways then avoid doing it with your near and dear ones and also in your neighborhood where people immediately raise the question on your ethics and ways which could be termed as a womanizer in their own eyes.

Remember that every section of the society is made by us and people know us from one generation to another for a long time. They understand the past deeds and the present thought of ours and that leads to predict them with the future. Certainly, I am not a leader of a kind but when I have been raised in a society where at Bokaro Steel City, I have found the difference between the officers and the workers where the male who were officers use to show much of the arrogance which was not needed by them.

Although, it carried to their next-generation after getting onto the path of competitive ways and through studies since the city was an equal opportunity where the children of workers also got good education the table turned in favor of most of the workers.

On the contrary, those who considered themselves to be a higher-up could be seen lying flat down to have sex and there easy way to surrender for sex made them bitter people in their own thoughts. Again for this small issue, I would like to thank my managers and friends from the past who never made me feel exploited in terms of taking me towards the bed as I carried an image of a person with stern ways and that makes me feel happier and satisfied.

Now, if getting back to the point where the question comes in mind that why does not a woman kisses cuddles you as much? It is because they get easily satisfied by many others and consider sex as a duty. If only they will involve as much or rather say indulge with their husband by kissing and cuddling them equally across any age they will get a better response as the man however good he remains a kid from inside. He could certainly be tamed but for that, no false love or diktat could be found in her, and those who say that they have been a "sharif" throughout life turns out to be the best in terms of using a woman or to fulfill her sexually.

Multiple marriage system seems to be thing of past!

Multiple marriage system seems to be thing of past as when we were reading in history about polygamy and polyandry the thoughts were the same that at the other's end or receiving end rather either the rich woman or man must be keeping a big number of wives or husbands. Although, I was not ignorant in life I was a person always kept in mind that I am answerable to myself and if the deeds are to be weighed on a balance scale then it has to be well balanced where the pros should be in my favor and the cons for others.

If considering the wife for me I never looked for a super glamourous woman in life or the one with multiple affairs and if thinking back during the school days I was nowhere near to be romantic and avoided the company of girls and women. Although, I was not aware that why and how life becomes a little bit into the mud-slinging scenario but I tried myself to be with a clean image. 

I was liked by both gender the boy and the girl but my approach was rather very simple wherein the school after every three months the parents-teacher meeting was held and there on I was cautious so that my father should not be told about any kind of mischief so that I should remain spic and span which will help me to be known as a better person.

This clearly made to show me as a person who was cautious about his image although I was playful in my own ways only in the sports field and music was my passion as I was good at singing. Now, the fact of the matter is that for me life was all about learning as much as I can but if somebody thinks that I go on speaking about school then it was all because after schooling I did much of the education through Open Schooling rather than spending time at college.

For me, it was about earning my own pocket money rather than expenses which were at times send by my father when I use to be with less amount or was not into jobs. The various private organizations where I worked from selling personal loans to getting into call center whether inbound or outbound I earned my own money and then finally into digital marketing through which I earned till this COVID-19 or Coronavirus took the world to a storm.

Now, thinking about the fact that I avoided taking any step to get into any womanizing ways may have given me a secure future or a better image but somewhere women of different age group seems to be giving the same odd look which is neither sympathetic nor any person with begar outlook who may be looking to thrive on woman's money.

This made me a bit odd in the eyes of people and although I use to feel displeasure by few people's behaviors but made sure that people do not consider me unethical and rather going towards any women's household to ask for marriage.

If I see people around me they could be seen down the line with make-up to boost their image and sometimes found to be in the company of women who at last consider them nothing more than gigolos and in the long run are from a less moralistic background.

They could be seen exchanging bed and are somewhere inclined towards having group sex which does not fetch a good social image and in the long run, are discarded but when I see them with various people it seems nothing more than the kind of hypocrisy which they surrounded themselves and to an extent, their wish was nothing but to demean me.

This is the reason I remain at peace from inside but may feel to be appreciating all those people who consider themselves to use and throw mechanism and leading to any question on the institution of marriage which seems to be dumped in India and free sex has become a part and parcel of life and for that, I just cannot say "Koi Shaque...." as it is certainly not my matter of concern! 

 

Character and nature makes you better!

Character and nature make you better is not an adage but thinking which gives the person the utmost importance in life. It is just a way to think that character builds a man and he or she is known because of her flamboyance, attitude, and style. On the contrary, what makes a person a new way to develop his life is the elegance which he or she portrays in life.

With elegance comes nature which is serene and quiet and it leads to humble thoughts and that adds grace to live. It depends on how a person has been bought in this life. In spite of being scolded by my father for any misdeeds or any minor mistakes I never become a rebel where I could have become a person with bad thoughts and aggression which could be hurtful to my near and dear once.

At times I behave to be boisterous but when it comes to being wicked than I immediately pull myself away from such a situation. I keep myself to the limited thoughts when it is anywhere about women, girls, or in any case where having any relationship which may lead to making me look dirty in my own eyes. 

This behavior has given me only one thing in life which is the immense strength at least in my own eyes and thus has put me to some extent in a better position in my own age group. Also, if I looked back my career path has never been tumultuous and the natural progression which started from Marketing, Customer Service-ITES, and then to Digital Marketing has been quite a natural way to get my life to govern all according to the set principles and rules of life.

My city has made my character which was an industrial city i.e. Bokaro Steel City where people were hard-working with the social demeanor and they have a mind which was all about socially accepting. On the contrary, if we see people from the villages of Bihar like Arrah, they have the attitude to take away all from you and then reply with a stern way " Iska to yai haal tha.." or else in any other ways which are all about finding loopholes in the life which may lead to demeaning without any reason.

If I find the behavior of my father he was good in terms of personality and his thought-provoking ways where he has given us limited freedom has made me what I am today. 

So, one could say that the influence of Sri Upendra Vidyarthi has made me what I am today whose strict life ways towards me have made me stand in my life and the same could be said about my mother Mrs. Kiran Bala Devi.

I never feel that anybody should emulate me but the life which started in a small town was more fulfilling and the gradual progression towards Ghaziabad which helped me to complete my studies along with the jobs has bought a more of appreciation in my life and I also hope that my sisters love my writing skills and I must have been better in their eyes as well.

So, the thoughts of today must be looking a page out of a family saga which is quite true and hope that my friends love me equally without getting biased which is the reason I stand for being close without much of sexual acceptance!

Retaliation is the best answer by youth!

Retaliation has a meaning which is all about reacting to the situation in the same way which has been faced by him. Although, life is very much difficult these days and COVID-19 has bought back some gruesome ways but one can understand that life carries on after all the happenings.
Now, if somebody asks me why retaliation is the best answer by youth then the thought-provoking statement could be all about the way life is bought at them. Think about me as a person than in spite of being beaten at times hard by my colleagues and friends I never went into any kind of conspiracy against them. My sole aim was to collect them up and give them thought from where they could get back into life. 
If I remember a few names in my life who were totally against me to get the life on the right path they could be as follows:

1. Sailesh Kumar
2. Vibhor Kaushik
3. Sumit Sharma and other few.

It was just their bromance which could not get fulfilled at times and for fulfilling their lust they went all out or rather say berserk and with or without reason use to get into my path. My way of life was more or less helping them in one or the other way and if I remember during the year 2017 November before I went to Cambodia a few of them on insisting by some particular women tried to get on the same way which is akin to mob lynching.
In that particular fight, the likes of Mr. Thakur along with Mr. Verma and other few got involved but thankfully U.P. Police helped me thoroughly and I got saved on that particular threat. Thankfully, all those whom I consider being friends were just mocking shrew personalities and they just cannot reach much ahead in life.
Now, if we talk about retaliation then projecting your friend or mistress to get more out of any person could be the new trick of the trade although it has been an old formula which is often repeated in old movies.
Similarly, with the same pattern in life people try to use their women folks to get more out of any person but things seem to get topsy turvy these days. It is the woman who has to bear the brunt of such happenings and just like a  wild dog the man uses her and then the rest is on her to cope with it.
Thankfully, for me, as I stay with my mother and with no further longings towards any particular woman I understand that life has been fulfilling and not at all cruel towards me.
It is the mother nature apart from my mother who has helped me but certainly, I was not a Mowgli and anything which is bad on my friends hurt me because if I remember one of my friend Mr. Manish got badly hurt at Connaught Place during November 2017 and that leads to feeling very awkward as I have gone through enough up's and downs in life but always insisted to stick with my dear ones.!

P.S: I hope all my friends should come unscathed after this COVID-19 and start their life again on a happy note although for me Friendship is just a word although nearness to God has been more rewarding!