One should never share home cooked food to anyone!

These days when the food along with fuel is getting dearer one should keep in mind that less of the home food cooked food should be shared with anyone. Here, anyone means any XYZ person because the home food cooked gives another twist in the tell. The person never tries to forget the food and the food maker and from there-on, a never-ending conspiracy begins for a long more time.

Earlier, when there were fewer restaurants and people were confined to their nearby cities from villages they just use to have a family get-together for all those who were not even near to the home. After, eating the food all they could say is Bhabhi aapke hatth ka khana ka taste hi alag hai...but somewhere down the line it was always in mind that if the lady cooks such good food she must have a different aroma in her veins.

To be frank either you become a namak-halal which is the person loyal towards the food and salt or he becomes namak-haram which is disobedient towards the person or the salt. In this way, the person certainly does not get over the food and all the fuss gets into tormenting each other for a long time. Although, during my bachelorhood when my mother was not staying with me I at times use to visit some friend's house to have food, but all I could do is to talk some soothing words with the homemaker and without getting into the unwanted territory by drawing a line I never tried to get near to the womenfolks from their house.

In this way, I remained loyal towards the food and the food maker but the society is somewhat full of poison in one or another way. The more you keep yourself at a safe distance it becomes difficult for you to get into the helm. And, if you remain in Purdah then it is difficult for the man or woman to digest behavior. It gives them a suspicion in the mind and society starts keeping a good distance with them or becoming an obstacle is just a norm for such people.

Now, getting back to the point that Why one should never share home-cooked food to anyone?

The only reason is to keep something for those social beings who cannot reach you. If everybody is equal in the eyes of God, then there is certainly no need to make any difference. If, I cite my father's example he uses to feed even the gardener and the coal seller who use to bring coal to the house for helping in cooking the food.

I use to go overboard by asking them to sit on the chair and table to eat the food. 

The same behavior he uses to show towards his friends and relatives who were coming with their children on weekends to have food at our home. His unusual way of socializing was neither like by me nor my mother as she has to all alone prepare the food and I have to do errands that are bringing water for them and they actually use to see my sister who was getting younger day-by-day with greedy eyes full of lust.

The few such persons to be named were Mr. Chaubey, Mr. Giri Ji, Mr. T.N. Pandey, Mr. Radhe Shyam who were all known to be the bad and the worst people from the nearby society. To top it up to his entire "sasural" family (which is family on my mother's end) use to visit once in a year in circulation with four maternal uncles and also the Mausi and all of them were full of lust with less of laughter.

Although, I never saw any kind of unwanted behavior which is akin to having sex with each other as it was not like by my mother but certainly their behavior was not more than any untouchables. It made a thought of hatred in my life for the societal beings who eat at your home and then conspire for many years to come but thankfully, I saved myself from such act after getting young and almost prohibited any person to get into my home at any occasion. 

The reason is I understand the difference between feeding the poor and the needy while feeding the lusty and the greedy!