Ladki ko tum izzat do tumhe wo apna izzat degi!- This was an adage during our school days. It certainly turned out to be a bullshit for me. Abbey wo tumhe izzat nahi degi, wo dusre se uska izzat karwa legi or tumhare ga*** par laat marwa degi. This is quite an honest confession. When I was studying at Holy Cross one of my classmates Mr. Sudhir Sir use to say such one-liners and I was quite influenced by him. On the other hand, there were more of the macho ones like Mr. Praveen who use to sing Paav bhar lasha...and the whole girl fraternity use to stick to him. The other person in the picture was Mr. Nitin along with Mr. Ritesh who has been having their own fan following.
I was more of a timid guy whose best use to be seen during the "ab games" period and in spite of not being too tall or sturdy by the looks always fare well in every game except that I did did not have any idea about Kho-Kho. Miss Asha Pillai was quite a reckoning force in Kho Kho while Miss Alka Joseph was a stunner in Basket Ball.
The timid and quite along with at times vociferous was Miss Mridula Tirkey who was not into the observant mode as his entire clan use to study in the same school and she was known to have a father with very strict discipline measures due to which nobody has the daring approach towards her. Also, the students in senior classes were very much into the flaunt generation style and much of my roaming around was with seniors without my hands reaching their skirt or the pants of seniors. Somehow I was close to my seniors whether it was Bablu Bhaiya, Shasikant Chacha or the Lutru Bhaiya who was quite serious in character and was always into murmurs rather than speaking freely. The same behavior of mine about sticking to seniors was questioned once by Mr. Rewati Kant Raju who was quite athletic including Mr. Shinto, Mr. Sharad and at times Mr. Saurabh Kesari as he was good only into high jump and during games period was seen lurking around girls volleyball or basketball team and was considered a chamcha of Mr. Vikas Rastogi. I replied casually that there has to be someone for bridging the gap between seniors and juniors. I was quite good at keeping a harmonious relationship with girls and my famous ones were Miss Puja and Puma Katyal along with Miss Tanu and Manu and the Priyanka and her sister who were all pair of sisters still they were quite chaw-chaw with me which is called chirping at it's best minus again no touchy-feely substance involved.
My own classmates were a bit wary of me as my father has a very harsh looking image and he was not into a close relationship with any person in the school including teachers or classmates but whenever the class teacher used to be Miss Manjeet Kaur I was quite sure to get heavy beatings after third quarterly exams as she use to give the true character report to my father about the entire 8 months spent at the classroom and then it could be the same cane which use to take toll on my legs.
Anyways, I never use to mind beatings by parents and has the habit of forgetting the other day. Now, coming back to the point ladki ko tum izzat do tumhe wo apna izzat degi is quite a hilarious terminology as she never gives respect to the person during her primal days when she herself is a river which is always into the force to break all walls and move into the destructive mode.
At that point of time if the person in you wants to get respect for a long time in life your timid behaviour will stand out to be better as must have seen by the people that most of the times in schools a guy who does not break the social cauldron and keeps a soft instance gets more of respect from students and teachers rather than the one who portrays the image of being a kisser in the open as he certainly finds rejection in life. Also, school days' mistakes are remembered for a long time and apart from getting something good out of it society never leaves the person who was good, bad or ugly during school days.
Even if you are too good or too bad you are bound to get the problems in life and there are few girls of the likes of Miss Akansha Anupam, Miss Alka Joseph or Miss Mridula Tirkey who carried the behavior of a Christ where-in they forgive and carry on with the life in terms of small and big mistakes. But the same could be said for Miss Munmun Mitra who is termed as a bubbly character and a style icon but still is not liked by the students in senior and junior rank as she is more into feeling lovey-dovey with own classmates rather than getting or hanging around with seniors or juniors. The same could be said about Miss Neha Kejriwal who use to be very strict and studious and the common Agarwal blood which is more into calculative mode could be seen in her which could be said for the Bindu Ji and Miss Manisha Agarwal. The only person who is worth mentioning out of every classmate is Mr. Navneet Kumar Sinha and Mr. Sanjay Thakkar who use to be governed at times by Mr. Ranjit who was very serious by his looks and Mr. Ashutosh along with Mr. Vikas Chandra and Mr. Ashish Bhatnagar. For me, I would like to say that I was like the flower of Amaltash which use to flourish once the school session started and then remained in the eyes or rather be the cynosure of all eyes throughout my school terms but unfortunately could not carry with the same mode after leaving Holy Cross. Maybe the God wanted to get the Open Schooling mode out of me for the benefits of many such people who cannot complete their education after Class Xth but certainly can get into open schooling even after joining their jobs and get promotion in life rather than ruing about their education which is not as per because of monetary constraints.
I was more of a timid guy whose best use to be seen during the "ab games" period and in spite of not being too tall or sturdy by the looks always fare well in every game except that I did did not have any idea about Kho-Kho. Miss Asha Pillai was quite a reckoning force in Kho Kho while Miss Alka Joseph was a stunner in Basket Ball.
The timid and quite along with at times vociferous was Miss Mridula Tirkey who was not into the observant mode as his entire clan use to study in the same school and she was known to have a father with very strict discipline measures due to which nobody has the daring approach towards her. Also, the students in senior classes were very much into the flaunt generation style and much of my roaming around was with seniors without my hands reaching their skirt or the pants of seniors. Somehow I was close to my seniors whether it was Bablu Bhaiya, Shasikant Chacha or the Lutru Bhaiya who was quite serious in character and was always into murmurs rather than speaking freely. The same behavior of mine about sticking to seniors was questioned once by Mr. Rewati Kant Raju who was quite athletic including Mr. Shinto, Mr. Sharad and at times Mr. Saurabh Kesari as he was good only into high jump and during games period was seen lurking around girls volleyball or basketball team and was considered a chamcha of Mr. Vikas Rastogi. I replied casually that there has to be someone for bridging the gap between seniors and juniors. I was quite good at keeping a harmonious relationship with girls and my famous ones were Miss Puja and Puma Katyal along with Miss Tanu and Manu and the Priyanka and her sister who were all pair of sisters still they were quite chaw-chaw with me which is called chirping at it's best minus again no touchy-feely substance involved.
My own classmates were a bit wary of me as my father has a very harsh looking image and he was not into a close relationship with any person in the school including teachers or classmates but whenever the class teacher used to be Miss Manjeet Kaur I was quite sure to get heavy beatings after third quarterly exams as she use to give the true character report to my father about the entire 8 months spent at the classroom and then it could be the same cane which use to take toll on my legs.
Anyways, I never use to mind beatings by parents and has the habit of forgetting the other day. Now, coming back to the point ladki ko tum izzat do tumhe wo apna izzat degi is quite a hilarious terminology as she never gives respect to the person during her primal days when she herself is a river which is always into the force to break all walls and move into the destructive mode.
At that point of time if the person in you wants to get respect for a long time in life your timid behaviour will stand out to be better as must have seen by the people that most of the times in schools a guy who does not break the social cauldron and keeps a soft instance gets more of respect from students and teachers rather than the one who portrays the image of being a kisser in the open as he certainly finds rejection in life. Also, school days' mistakes are remembered for a long time and apart from getting something good out of it society never leaves the person who was good, bad or ugly during school days.
Even if you are too good or too bad you are bound to get the problems in life and there are few girls of the likes of Miss Akansha Anupam, Miss Alka Joseph or Miss Mridula Tirkey who carried the behavior of a Christ where-in they forgive and carry on with the life in terms of small and big mistakes. But the same could be said for Miss Munmun Mitra who is termed as a bubbly character and a style icon but still is not liked by the students in senior and junior rank as she is more into feeling lovey-dovey with own classmates rather than getting or hanging around with seniors or juniors. The same could be said about Miss Neha Kejriwal who use to be very strict and studious and the common Agarwal blood which is more into calculative mode could be seen in her which could be said for the Bindu Ji and Miss Manisha Agarwal. The only person who is worth mentioning out of every classmate is Mr. Navneet Kumar Sinha and Mr. Sanjay Thakkar who use to be governed at times by Mr. Ranjit who was very serious by his looks and Mr. Ashutosh along with Mr. Vikas Chandra and Mr. Ashish Bhatnagar. For me, I would like to say that I was like the flower of Amaltash which use to flourish once the school session started and then remained in the eyes or rather be the cynosure of all eyes throughout my school terms but unfortunately could not carry with the same mode after leaving Holy Cross. Maybe the God wanted to get the Open Schooling mode out of me for the benefits of many such people who cannot complete their education after Class Xth but certainly can get into open schooling even after joining their jobs and get promotion in life rather than ruing about their education which is not as per because of monetary constraints.
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