Job as RJ in India is becoming redundant

Indian Rj's who were in vogue a few years back suddenly could be seen with no many takers and their antics are falling flat. In the year 2004 till 2012 the radio industry was totally into the mindset of Indian youth and most of them use to stick with their mobile phones radio set. Now, suddenly within the past 6 months, one could see that neither the radio jockeys have been giving the entertainment of a better kind nor they are much into the air with spreading better ways of entertainment.

It seems the industry is dying its own death and nobody has any takers for them which could be seen in their frustration. The likes of RJ Shatabdi are not to be heard and neither the popular Rj from Radio Mirchi or the Red FM could be seen or heard. Few of their antics over the video on the internet see them making people frustrated whether in the coffee shops or any such places where people could be seen them avoiding at any cost. If we see the prominent one such as RJ Sayema she could be seen teaching pronunciation and other ways of speaking English which does not make sense. The loss of revenue in terms of no advertisement along with the new way to explore the young generation's mind has given them a great setback. Also, the people associated with the creative industry could be seen moving towards the Indian Film Industry which is somehow getting good grosser although the new entrants could be seen promoting themselves through various ways such as staying near to people in common flats rather than staying in big bungalows which shows that now there is nothing uncommon about them. This could be a new trend which should be welcome or not is the other thing to say but it has bought cheapness in all kinds of mindset where people from less ordinary backgrounds could be seen fighting for them and it makes the air thick all around you.

All those who want to live a peaceful life and get some anxiety as in any case such people are given less importance and people try to avoid them because of their less intellectual level and less competence. Preferably, such people are nothing but more of a personality who could exploit you all according to your abilities and unless you are very near to them then only you can get something in return which is actually not needed by a person who is self-dependent.

Now, talking about the job as RJ in India is becoming redundant is because they are not into the mode of giving better thought-provoking ideas and most of the time it has become a Kapil Sharma Show where people are called to create a sense of giving less of importance and malign the image of a person. Whether you see any movie screening or anything similar to the interview of people from the creative background it seems that they are trying to pull the leg in the hard ways and also look as if they are adamant about making you feel lowly before them. In this way, one could say that reliability associated with the Radio broadcasting system is getting over and in the coming years it does not seem if the Radio industry is going to see any revival instead of the same cheap publicity which has governed the various shows of the likes of Shekhar Suman and Kapil Sharma will surely make this industry see the doomsday!

Holding on with life is the secret to success!

People are of many kinds in life as they could be differentiated in forms like a propagandist, atheist, mockers and many more. One could see people getting into the tormentor mode once you get up in the morning as it helps them to satiate their urge to overcome each other. The fact of the matter is that once a person gets destroyed he or she tries to pull others in the same thought and then the fight goes on for a long time. Also, most of the time it is your inner family system where you are slain and the people who are most of the time women take you in your stride in terms of sex and thus you are bondage forever.

In the worst-case scenario, the exploitation carries for many years without being noticed by many people and it turns many into a person who gets more involved into the families of each other becoming a woe for them and a time comes when he is slapped and could not feel more than a person who is just a mockery in life, If the things are to be seen the thoughts towards having sex with the woman who is always there to make you nerd without her throwing away the tantrum mode leads you to become a naught in front of society and it is difficult to recover with the pangs of women.  

If one could say that holding on with life is the secret to success and whether it is about overcoming your shortcomings and mending it on your own or becoming strong enough to fight back the evildoers without laying a hand on them makes you a better person in life. Thinking about the days when you were in school, college or office certainly whether you were a better person with your friends still it is obvious to gather many people as an enemy who could be carrying a veil and must be behind your thought either to overpower you or get over you in life. Also, the Indian caste system is one where many of the people carry the tag of being an enemy of each other for many generations to come and it adds to their frustration once you stand on your own. So, if the person in you wants to carry the life with much of the fruitful ways it is always good to not bow before many of the women who are within your home and avoiding a sexual relationship with them is the key to keep the head held high and thus flourish in life. On the contrary, once the relationship status gets sour then you are nothing more than a captive from where you become a person who is either always on the fag end with slangs coming up in multiple of numbers and also such person cannot fight back the Indian mockery system which carries on from early morning to late night in life making you feel worse in many possible ways!

Greed of a person destroys the innerself!

The greed of anything leads to destruction with no constructive sense of upbringing in life. Whether it is about earning money or having everything at once it has severe repercussions in life. It is very early thought which has been defined in the Indian mindset by many of the stories from Panchtantra to many other sayings by people who were known to be very much near to the terms of Being Mahatma including Sri Mahatma Gandhi jee. He said once that there is enough for the human's need but not for the human's greed.

Things have changed considerably in life as there are people who immediately take advantage out of a person who is greedy for anything whether power, money or sex. If a relevant Hindi movie or the Bollywood one which was very much near to the contrast then one could state the iconic Deewar where every character is not less than being immortal. The famous dialogue where Sri Amitabh Bacchan says mai aaj bhi pheke hue paise nahi uthata...literally means that I do not have greed for money but believe in doing the work with dedication and hard work. Although, this dialogue has been mocked by people and many times there are few who have tried to destroy the inner self of a person by creating insult as a measure for the person to destroy his thoughts and action.

If a person believes in himself and is ably guided by the mother nature along with many other forces including the woman, man and mother nature then there is no need to create all the cacophony to give oneself a superior image in life. The person in the thought of becoming rich instantly has to suffer if he has been destined to become bigger in life by true means which could be seen by his confidence and that is all about the aura surrounding him. One has to give back to the near one's the beautiful things in life and the most near to you is the one who has given you birth and also carried you throughout in life in spite of all the difficulties. It could be said his or her good deeds which has given much of the better things in life at every step for you and this is called the foundation or the "Buniyad" which makes you apart from others.

Now, thinking about the statement that greed of a person destroys the inner self is very true but it is also the worst thing where any such man, woman, boy or girl is tried to give a lift by the society as it is done to exploit him or her in the worst possible ways in the coming days. There is nothing called pre-defined success in life and one has to toil very hard in order to become something in life. There are many obstacles and people with or without any reason become your enemy once you start growing which could be seen easily either on their faces or deeds. Similarly, there is nothing called being weak immediately in the name of any person whether the person in question may be a very iconic personality or a  boy next door but the thought should come in mind that is she or he is going to be of any help in life. 

If not then there is certainly no need to stick with him or her as everybody in life apart from few do exploitative measures to get above each other rather than giving everything in return without getting something out from any person. To make it more clear one would like to state that the person should not become vulnerable for anything in life but give the best to your inner self and the one who deserves the most from you and once he is good enough to carry his life in his own measures one should set him free to lead his life with much of health and happiness which is bestowed to him by God without feeling the social pangs which is certainly the sense of a greedy person who believes in carving everything out of a moon and still could not reach there. So, the life is all about the needs rather than the greeds and the needs should never overpower but if there has to be  greed then it should be for increasing the will power and the knowledge which one carries with the soul for a long term in life but certainly the much necessary thing which is food, clothing, and shelter is the primary objective which should be fulfilled first and the rest comes with all the zest towards you without much of the obstruction in life!

Girls should not make herself a common element!

Indian Girls are said to be born weak where they are always within a  dependent factor. However, high their reach in life they are said to be totally under the person for whom they have done the entire sacrifices in their life. Even, in today's world scenario when one looks we feel that most of the time they are looking for that elusive Love factor which has neither ditched them nor is with her and the mirage in their life continues.

Also, in case if they find a loveable person then most of the time their wish to get into others arms either for money or for sex leads them to over explore the territory from where they are exploited and see themselves swapping the bed without any qualms about it for few bucks. In my personal opinion getting some money out of sex is not better and neither it gives you respect in your own eyes.

If everybody in us will emulate the Paro then who will be the real Chandramukhi in us should be the question or the thought they should keep in mind. Loyalty is a word which is the pride of the lioness and annexing someone's thought and mind in terms of captivating him and then ruining him does not take to any higher level but leaves the mind of the woman crippled after some time.

Although, life has become very easy for the educated woman who can get jobs easily and the Indian Government along with the private sector has opened numerous opportunities for the women, still their nocturnal traits and easy way to earn money keep them away from standing apart in life. Any job is easy rather than getting early in the morning with a person whom they would have never thought or imagined to sleep with and then washing his clothes and her own must be making her feel ashamed for the beauty she has got on her own. One must feel respectful for the lady who understand herself and believe the power of land, home and money after which she gets married to a person who may be stable in terms of money and property of any stable nature and at least stays away from social pangs of being called a whore or a prostitute as compared to the one who becomes a sex slave for others.

After all completing every responsibility in life how much money is required to complete the satisfaction of food, clothing, and shelter. With that captivating beauty which is just akin to any elf, one has to think that what makes them go whorish. The simple answer may be the elusive love and respect from the partner who must be governing her thoughts. If one looks at Hindu Mythology then one finds that Shiv has few women whom he uses to rely upon which were Kali and Parvati where Parvati use to transform as Durga Ji. In Muslim, multiple marriages are allowed until they are happy within themselves and the same could be said for other few religions.

For me, the women's respect certainly in her eye is all if they find the right person in their life and at least be loyal towards him in front of their eyes and for that, the girls should not make herself a common element rather than an elusive one which helps themselves to govern the mind of others and take them to a better prospect in career along with becoming a better person in life!

Roti or Bread is the biggest Debt in India!

India has remained a land of economic disparities and the people who are happy here are certainly those who earn the four-square meal. The person whether I, or any other who has got bread, butter, clothing and shelter of his own is the highest one above all and also is free of any kind of personal incompetence. If I remember my childhood I was never devoid of food and I use to carry good healthy tiffin every-day to my school which was the same with other classmates. Together, we the student of the Holy Cross were much privileged as we belong to better strata of people. The other thing was that our school picnic which use to happen once in a year we have to bring selected food items for the menu which were prepared by the students and teachers and we enjoyed each other tiffins without thinking about the caste, creed, and religion.

Now, getting back to the statement roti or bread is the biggest debt in India and one has to give importance to the person who has fed you. But what about those people who have stayed as a servant in the house of people like Mr. S.N. Srivastava who was less educated as he was just a contractor and not even a matriculate but has many servants just to give a show-off. The younger daughter who was a maniac in every possible way use to bun the children of the servants by the iron. The times I visited Dhanbad, Bartand I use to see the atrocities on the children and they were treated more or less like sex slaves. Also, his so-called jovial son Vicky or Jayant Manohar use to have sex with all the cousins and nephews and once or twice the same was repeated with the women servants in his house. But as it happens that at such places or homes the AAJ, AAWAJ OR JANSHATA never reaches and such things are always undercover by few rupees and the big thing which is of-course Roti.

Now, the same type of woman who feels low and embarrassed after seeing the treatment given by God and the role reversal when the people from many lower strata have grown in life and they do not get over the same kind of ryotwari thoughts about considering themselves to be a demon in life and style till date.

For me, if I know more about them they were a part of Amma- Bhagwan scandal which has been unearthed a few days back by the Income-Tax Department along with ABP News and millions of crores of Rupees has got back to South-Indian states which have added to their frustration. The trio of Tutu or Sapna Srivastava, Pammy and Dinki has found themselves to be a part of this racquet and must be certainly a part of the cauldron who must be feeling the pangs of Police getting into their helms and thus will feel the heat sooner or later.

I was never into their personal enemy but the superstition and the Godly demeanor which they showed certainly took them to the wrong path and also the various other scams which were the various cases of land dealings in Dhanbad certainly threw them out of gear and also the poor people who must have felt bad including those who get oppressed by them, GOD finally showed them the better of their evils to come-out in open and thus their dooms day was not less than losing the peace and prosperity forever. 

Easy to become a BAAP but difficult to be a "BETA"!

India is a country where Bapa is above all and after that, the Baap comes everywhere, somehow the word Beta has been very much demeaning by Anil Kapoor with the Dhak-Dhak karne laga and his antiques are more or less of a person with saliva dropping from the mouth and looking towards the girl with those notorious ways which cannot be explained rather than understood. On the contrary, the perfect image played by Sri Shashi Kapoor in various films from Waqt till Deewar reminded of the quintessential Beta who could go any miles to help the mother.

The problem is that Sri Shashi Kapoor Ji who was always in the heart of the millions could not come up as a better reminder because of his soft image but certainly is a man to be given much of the value in the system as he always tried to keep his image more of a cleaner one. Now, coming to the statement which is all about it is easy to become a BAAP but difficult to be a "Beta" as the samaj always tries to give a second hand thought to the beta however good he is towards his duty and responsibilities. It is said that the beta or the son's real thought comes in when he shows hos responsibilities towards the sasural or the wife's house rather than his own home which is not true.

In fact, the son has to set his home first in order and look after the own mother first rather than the sasural which has in many cases more of an image of a trouble maker in life. The sasural or the in-law's house is to be taken care of by the woman as prima facie she has seen the motives of the mother and behavior of her father which is to be better understood by her. The more a person gets attached towards the sasural the more difficult his life becomes. Most of the people in life has become a middle class these days and the others have shifted to the upper-class mode and the lower class exists much in the name rather than being called a class. So, life is all about rich and super-rich so most of the time the rich ones, when they try to become super rich, feels to annex the rich one's first in large numbers whether it is to get their homes, property or many other things in life.

So, with the families becoming micro in the context where the man becomes bore by earning his livelihood and by retirement by better and greener pastures the woman in homestays confined to be alone or the mercy of a son or daughter. Now, here comes the problem as a woman in her 50's and 60's are facing much of the difficulties as in earlier cases people use to marry an old man to get his property now the same has happened with the older woman. The wicked ones try to overpower the old woman and then loving ways are far easier to get into the mold to earn her ways to acquire the property and then take advantage of her life and money in every possible way.

So, here-in comes to the role of the beta in a bigger way where he has to understand that after serving the son for so many years the mother herself is the property of his for the first and the next one in life is the material possessions. So, it is his duty to protect the mother as well as her valuables and at times if he is strict towards her is not counted in the deeds of God but the supreme power understands it better about the internal relationship rather than the superficial ones. Everyone is not a Sainik or a Border Security force person that he has to defend his borders but every one of us has to defend not only our own existence but also of the mother who is more vulnerable these days rather than the young girls. The person in you has to understand the social and react rather than go in flow with the society who always try to demean you first by making mockery and once you are not into their limitations and a personality of your own drifts away from you by showing glances of respect and in certain cases talking positively after which you still do not have to slacken but the ruthless nature of yours becomes compassionate and you start loving others by remaining at safe distance!

Maine hamesha apne aap ko apne andar hi rehne diya!

With Dhanteras coming with all the festive fervor and India shining with all it's beauty where the Indians are known to do all worth shopping in terms of Gold and Silver to all other auspicious things to make the negativity go away in life and let the positive energy remain in life it is the time to give the pious celebration the same meaning of getting back into the helm.

Although, my Diwali never got sorrowful in spite of all the efforts of a few demonic personalities things started changing in life with broader meaning once I got into the groove of earning on my own since 2002. Ignorance was never bliss for me as I knew that a time will come in life when I will be asked for my capabilities and as soon as I reached my 40's I do not find myself anyways less than any of my peers who were reigning me at the time when I was although educated but with less of certification to display it with literary terms.

I do never feel proud about my achievements any as such because I do remember that before I give my best in any matter there are thousands of people in life who are there to point fingers on me as they may consider myself to be a tad above themselves and a person who is above is pointed figure by the samaj in every possible way. Although, my father always tried to keep my profile as low as possible and his own thoughts were all according to his own lifestyle where he was considered to be a better person as he was a visionary and most of the time behind every small and big deed he always uses to take my suggestions. His decision to educate the girl child bore better fruit and the only girl child in our home Miss Sweta Srivastava turned to be a good person at first and then helping her own beautiful socialites is always staying good in their heart which makes me feel proud.

For me it was more like the statement which is "maine hamesha apne aap ko apne andar hi rehine diya" without considering myself to be too bigger or too smaller but certainly with Miss Pretty Pruthi helping me to get into the marketing and then flourish within a few months at Shelters for consecutive two years helped me to get into the national capital with ease and from then on I never looked back with despair. Similarly, Miss Priya Deovanshi with all her positive antiques and friendly banter still helped me to get into I-Energizer for long more work and my job got proficient because of her which is never to be forgotten. Similarly, the women in my life such as my mother, sister, Barka amma( Dadi) and buas did enough from far and near to lift me up but the same could not be said about the mausi and maternal aunts i.e. Mami who put all the barricades to give me my every sort of problems which certainly got backfired on them as they remained in terms of mercy only by the society. 

So, hopefully, all my well-wishers including the true Lakshmi in today's context who are the women entrepreneurs will continue giving me blessings without getting into the groove as I changed my tracks like a Superfast train and planning to stay a good marathoner in my spirits as well as trying to be a Ph.D. which hopefully Lakshmi Jee and Saraswati Jee along with Sri Janesh ji will fulfill together and the man in me will do some great deeds for the society without getting into boastful ways.  

Samaj mein Hamesha ladke( Boyz) hi galat nahi hote!

The title is very bold and maybe awful for someone where one has to understand that in every type of crime, robbery, arsenal or rape there is a girl who may be the motive behind it. It is not necessary that the stomach is the mother of all problems but Akansha or Iksha may be the ultimate cause behind every root cause. Please do not take the name defined word here which is Akansha but maybe the man's ambition remains the elusive reason behind much of the modern-day crimes. Whether it is about becoming something bigger in life or to have lots of money along with keeping the thought of getting into some girl from the long lost days may lead to some crime which may turn ugly at times giving the life a new mold.

It is always good to suppress your feelings or if you see that the feelings are coming out then it becomes better to get engaged in some other ways of life without aggravating the situation and making a mockery of oneself. If one thinks about a childhood love in this context who has never got touched by you with or without any reason then it is good to stay away as the teaser remains better than film in some cases where one could have seen that there are many movies with bigger hype and once the movie starts either the picture quality is not good or maybe it has some cliches associated with it.

Also, at times Papi pet ka sawal hai kind of thought gives enough importance to life to carry on rather than kasamh paida karne wale ki theory which does not take you to any output and the baccha or the kid out of such kasamh do not become good enough in life to make your name bigger than anyone else. If one thinks about Bollywood being part of our lifestyle then it has entered into our veins and at times it is not that bad as it links up to our life in more than 100 possible ways. There are many instances where many of the people whether a guy or girl has been lifted by the bigger stalwarts like Shri Ashok Kumar jee or the Dilip Sahab and mold into bigger names from where they turned out to become a picture-perfect personality to defy the life system and then get into the mainstream with aplomb.

So, to get into the tearful mode and then tear apart the systematic way of life to become rebellious is not the way to do but just do it in the same way the thoughts were which was to be stubborn and feel that koi bada vyakti ayega jo iss chutiya ko sabak sikhayega...hamari gond koi khayega. The better is the best for you and getting back into life is the worst way to give the donkey's hind legs and then take out the shit from the man to make him pangu or paralytic in thought, mind, and action again does not make any sense.

Also, the person in the past of many beautiful ones by the name of maybe Mukesh Kumar may or may not have touched him or her personally but the saga continues to be happy with your love life and allow the person in me to stay in peace so that I can get a beautiful one in life who must be waiting for me and rather let me stay dedicated keeping me in my mind that "Samaj mein hamesha ladke (Boyz) hi galat nahi hote...kabhi kabhi uske smaajik mulya use jeene nahi dete or kabhi gaddi bula rahi hai seeti baja rahi" hai takes away to the new destination and from there he returns again to the village by becoming a Professor which could be made by the invisible love given by the vocal samaj which is of course by the girl and not is anyone else!

Today's Sansani by ABP News Kills two bird with One Stone-Amma bhagwan & Culprits!

With today's ABP News reporting in Sansani, the report about the most famous Amma- Bhagwan Scandal has come in open and much of the fake God-Bhakt dramatic scene is over. The crores or one could say multi-million of the amount in cash, jewelry and also land possessions are coming out in open and soon the many people who are associated with it will be seen getting arrested from various places all over India.

If anybody wants to get into a few more details my report on this false propaganda could be seen through my article dated on April 29th, 2019 and the people behind it who were in reality by the name of Uday Kumar Srivastava and Sapna Srivastava must get their fate which cannot be misjudged any more.

The link to the article is to be found here: https://silencejudgements.blogspot.com/2019/04/sunil-mathur-head-of-culprits-with.html

The Srivastava family which was neck-deep into this conspiracy along with many others will see the tight noose by the Income-Tax department and even if they get away from the scare the work has been done where they will lose much of their monetary benefits along with their prized possessions. It is to be noted that everyone among us in this time of information Technology is having a weapon in the form of Right journalism and the internet. The person in you should be aware of the people who create false propaganda and pull out the person by making him feel about his misdeeds instead of honking behind a person who is not behind demeaning your family along with the most prized possessions of your life which is your daughter and wife.

Think about such a person who takes out your money worth the weight of gold and with that start a life of some king type personality and you still believe that such awkward sense continues where a man could become a God.

Here, comes the difference between being educated and the real education which is based on understanding the scriptures rather than getting blindfolded and giving thumbs down to the person who has done not only matriculation on his own by taking tuition for mathematics and apart from that studying the entire other subjects on his own and then completing Xii, BBA and further M.A. in Sociology on his own.

All those people who are into the mode of being a culprit tried to pull me down still my fighting spirit never went away from me and as I become a Full-Time Marathoner then they are the one who is getting desperate to show my timing worth of Gold into considering it as Half-Marathon. This is the reason I particularly call such people a eunuch or hijra before me and my own believe makes me get into every particular mode of busting the own myth about the "HE CAN'T DO" and turning it into "YES I CAN AND I WILL" do every betterment in my life to defy all measures and get above all with the help of better people from society who may feel proud of my achievements rather than those who defy me and try to make me small in front of them by their slangs which do not make much of the difference in my life.

So, kudos to my first win in The Sriram Properties Bengaluru Marathon and also I would like to inform that I am never a part of any betting circuit in Marathon and neither favor such endeavors and for me, the marathon is all about achieving a milestone and make some great positive energy out of it.

Ladki ko tum izzat do tumhe wo apna izzat degi!

Ladki ko tum izzat do tumhe wo apna izzat degi!- This was an adage during our school days. It certainly turned out to be a bullshit for me. Abbey wo tumhe izzat nahi degi, wo dusre se uska izzat karwa legi or tumhare ga*** par laat marwa degi. This is quite an honest confession. When I was studying at Holy Cross one of my classmates Mr. Sudhir Sir use to say such one-liners and I was quite influenced by him. On the other hand, there were more of the macho ones like Mr. Praveen who use to sing Paav bhar lasha...and the whole girl fraternity use to stick to him. The other person in the picture was Mr. Nitin along with Mr. Ritesh who has been having their own fan following.
I was more of a timid guy whose best use to be seen during the "ab games" period and in spite of not being too tall or sturdy by the looks always fare well in every game except that I did did not have any idea about Kho-Kho. Miss Asha Pillai was quite a reckoning force in Kho Kho while Miss Alka Joseph was a stunner in Basket Ball.
The timid and quite along with at times vociferous was Miss Mridula Tirkey who was not into the observant mode as his entire clan use to study in the same school and she was known to have a father with very strict discipline measures due to which nobody has the daring approach towards her. Also, the students in senior classes were very much into the flaunt generation style and much of my roaming around was with seniors without my hands reaching their skirt or the pants of seniors. Somehow I was close to my seniors whether it was Bablu Bhaiya, Shasikant Chacha or the Lutru Bhaiya who was quite serious in character and was always into murmurs rather than speaking freely. The same behavior of mine about sticking to seniors was questioned once by Mr. Rewati Kant Raju who was quite athletic including Mr. Shinto, Mr. Sharad and at times Mr. Saurabh Kesari as he was good only into high jump and during games period was seen lurking around girls volleyball or basketball team and was considered a chamcha of Mr. Vikas Rastogi. I replied casually that there has to be someone for bridging the gap between seniors and juniors. I was quite good at keeping a harmonious relationship with girls and my famous ones were Miss Puja and Puma Katyal along with Miss Tanu and Manu and the Priyanka and her sister who were all pair of sisters still they were quite chaw-chaw with me which is called chirping at it's best minus again no touchy-feely substance involved.
My own classmates were a bit wary of me as my father has a very harsh looking image and he was not into a close relationship with any person in the school including teachers or classmates but whenever the class teacher used to be Miss Manjeet Kaur I was quite sure to get heavy beatings after third quarterly exams as she use to give the true character report to my father about the entire 8 months spent at the classroom and then it could be the same cane which use to take toll on my legs.
Anyways, I never use to mind beatings by parents and has the habit of forgetting the other day. Now, coming back to the point ladki ko tum izzat do tumhe wo apna izzat degi is quite a hilarious terminology as she never gives respect to the person during her primal days when she herself is a river which is always into the force to break all walls and move into the destructive mode.
At that point of time if the person in you wants to get respect for a long time in life your timid behaviour will stand out to be better as must have seen by the people that most of the times in schools a guy who does not break the social cauldron and keeps a soft instance gets more of respect from students and teachers rather than the one who portrays the image of being a kisser in the open as he certainly finds rejection in life. Also, school days' mistakes are remembered for a long time and apart from getting something good out of it society never leaves the person who was good, bad or ugly during school days.
Even if you are too good or too bad you are bound to get the problems in life and there are few girls of the likes of Miss Akansha Anupam, Miss Alka Joseph or Miss Mridula Tirkey who carried the behavior of a Christ where-in they forgive and carry on with the life in terms of small and big mistakes. But the same could be said for Miss Munmun Mitra who is termed as a bubbly character and a style icon but still is not liked by the students in senior and junior rank as she is more into feeling lovey-dovey with own classmates rather than getting or hanging around with seniors or juniors. The same could be said about Miss Neha Kejriwal who use to be very strict and studious and the common Agarwal blood which is more into calculative mode could be seen in her which could be said for the Bindu Ji and Miss Manisha Agarwal. The only person who is worth mentioning out of every classmate is Mr. Navneet Kumar Sinha and Mr. Sanjay Thakkar who use to be governed at times by Mr. Ranjit who was very serious by his looks and Mr. Ashutosh along with Mr. Vikas Chandra and Mr. Ashish Bhatnagar. For me, I would like to say that I was like the flower of Amaltash which use to flourish once the school session started and then remained in the eyes or rather be the cynosure of all eyes throughout my school terms but unfortunately could not carry with the same mode after leaving Holy Cross. Maybe the God wanted to get the Open Schooling mode out of me for the benefits of many such people who cannot complete their education after Class Xth but certainly can get into open schooling even after joining their jobs and get promotion in life rather than ruing about their education which is not as per because of monetary constraints.

A life well planned makes you a complete man!

Everybody speaks the same terminology that when life gives you lemons make lemonades out of it. That is easy to think but one has to understand that life always is not all according to your wishes and a life well planned makes you a complete man. One has to remember that life may be short or long but showing desperation in any single way creates a bigger backlash in life. If one thinks about being a person who is trying to get the most beautiful wife or girlfriend too soon without standing on his own feet which temporarily means a car or a bike, a house of his own and a stable career then that might be the very good approach towards life,

The other thing is that sometimes a man has to move all according to the society which is not visible with the eyes. The society which is not visible with the eyes means all those extra forces who are of the power of nature and they play apart from the outer cosmos who immediately become a part of your life by the prayers you do irrespective of your caste, creed or religion. One has to understand that animals, birds, and plants all are a part of this inner world and they are directly connected to the outer world rather than the human being who is always into the mode of passion, attitude, and arrogance.

The outer cosmos only helps the person when he defies certain things in life for which he must not be capable to some extent and people give him a thumbs down. If we consider that in today's world nobody will go for Tapasya to the forest to seek blessings. In the earlier era, Tapasya was done to get much out of the cosmos and to attract the superpower but in today's world, it could be yoga or marathon.

One could have seen people who do too much exercise and hardship into a layer of their own where they are a bit oblivious of their surroundings still they are working towards their goals. The superhuman concept is nothing but it is a way to find oneself and it could be done by not harming anyone physically and personally and rather give a soft thought for the person who has not done any particular harm to you whether physical abuse which is the biggest threat to one's life.

So, one has to understand that the days of Superego is almost over and that does not mean we have to interact with everyone but to beware is the key factor in life as after every possible progress in life there comes hordes of the enemy from here, there and everywhere and it leads to making one more cautious towards fighting the hidden ones rather than waiting for the life to become dangerous and giving an upper edge to the one who might be a problem in life!

MCC Singature Heights-A new property adjacent Ajnara Integrity, Raj Nagar Extension!

All those who love to stay at Ajnara Integrity or rather say Raj Nagar Extension can find a new address with the beautiful white color building which is recently made. I actually do not have any much idea about the dimension of the property but it certainly looks great with some modern and sophisticated look giving a resemblance to the song which is Suno na sangmarmar ki yeh minarein....kuch bhi nahi hai aage tumhare.

Such is the captivating style of the property which gives immense pleasure and also the entire area is abuzz with great people from all walks of fields. The village Morti is nearby which is going to have its own Cricket stadium and the Hindon river flowing nearby with the City Forest to get the best out of both worlds which is greenery and an affluent lifestyle. Also, the Metro station by the name of the Hindon River makes it the most beautiful of the township and also the Metro which is going to connect Merrut through Mass Rapid transit System may have another station in the vicinity.

To mention some of the food outlets the just opposite society which is the Landmark has given its own food and sweets outlet by the name of OM Sweets which serve all kinds of delicacies from jalebis to Indian Sweets and the same could be said about The Orchid market by Ajnara Integrity which has Chef Panda along with many other restaurants which gives the foodies a great delightful experience.

To add the Punjabi Flavor a new restaurant by the name of PB Punjabi Kulcha has amazing food at a lesser price and the Kulcha along with Paratha served here are very sumptuous as also the food is served immediately with a little seating arrangement which makes it cozy and comfortable. A food place that was missing in terms of "Authentic Punjabi Cuisine" has been almost fulfilled by this beautiful restaurant and the delicacies served here are made by Sardarjee who has the knowledge of making original Tandoori Cuisine. The Menu card is simple with the food giving original taste and the special flavor is of the Boondi raita which is very thick and fabulous to enjoy the flavor of jeera with the curd and the salt is added with proportionate taste. Also, the special chutney served is of Pyaj and the chole is very tasteful making the people enjoy the quick lunch or dinner. So, anytime people of all ages could enjoy the heartfelt food delicacies from here and thus enjoy the delightful food.

Now  coming back to MCC Signature Heights-A new property adjacent Ajnara Integrity, Raj Nagar Extension is the new address to get into the mode of the own home as the Ajnara Integrity has found it's houseful board to come-up sooner or later and the same could be said about the new societies as Raj Nagar Extension is now abuzz with activities as the VVIP PVR has completed the entire making of Raj Nagar Extension.

I would also like to mention the movie Lal Kaptaan here as I watched it at VVIP Raj Nagar Extension and the movie is amazing although it is a bit dark with a motive behind it. It showcases that anybody who follows his Dharm religiously is certainly guided by the Almighty and in case of any scenario the God comes through all the ways to help the person out in distress which could also be in the form of Naga Sadhus who have terrible power in them. The movie is worth watching and it is up to the mark with a great soundtrack and the picturization is complete with the great aesthetic sense which makes it a serious watch as it cannot be mentioned under any genre but the THRILL could be the best word to define it.

So, all those who dream for a home near and stay far from Ajnara Integrity, Raj Nagar Extension should come and get the best of the housing society near it for enjoying the pleasure of an affordable yet delightful RAJ NAGAR EXTENSION!

Thankful to GOD that I never exploited anyone in my life till date!

As a person, I have been very much meek in my home but very vociferous in School and also active in sports. My best of the moments have been during my school days and it helped me to rise during the time of distress. The childhood days taught me a lot to be self-dependent as when I was a child my father has kept a few home help but they use to feel awkward which I could understand in their eyes.

As soon as I reached Class II I asked my father not to keep any servant and a few of the chores which were cleaning my own plates and also using a broom to clean the courtyard which has a beautiful mango tree was taken care of by me. I never hesitated to take a broom in my hand where I stayed at Sector 3-C, House Number 45, at Bokaro Steel City and clean the courtyard on my own. So, thankful to God that I did not have any airs attached to me and when cousins brothers and sisters use to come during childhood they never paid any respect to me and neither I use to be concerned.

 Also, most of the time I was close towards my own family rather than anyone in the neighborhood and it did not deter me to ask for any assistance of any kind from the neighborhood guys but when I use to go by my school bus to school I use to feel very proud and my head was always held high with self-esteem. So, all in all, if I would like to say that I am thankful to God that I never exploited anyone in my life till date and neither I had the habit to behave badly towards anyone but certainly if anybody use to speak awkwardly then I use to give back by the mightiest of the tight slap which has made few of the friends to cry.

I did not feel awkward about it as that is the way I use to reply back instead of fighting or being abusive was not my forte. Although, I also took to some deadly blows on me till a few years back as the toughest of the upbringing makes you a person who is steel from the heart but also at times shed tears maybe of joy, sorrow or despair.

Now, for the past few days, I was on a visit to Bengaluru where I have joined Sriram Properties Bengaluru Marathon Edition 6, 2019 and I went on a 42.195 Kms race category and won medal while completing it within the required time frame. I also feel close more to nature these days and find a good amount of love and respect for the rivers which the trains pass during the long journey to any of the city. My life has become a better thought-provoking way since I am reaching 40 years of my age but I find myself to be with more of grace and charm in me which is from inside and rather than getting into the same thought of enjoying the conversation of people while traveling in the train.

So, all in all, I would like to say that satisfaction is the word which has been in my heart from a few days and the way things are going on is making me stronger which will help me to sustain my life towards better goals thus cherishing my dream to be a good runner for a lifetime!

I value my certifications and that helped me to stand aloft!

The world has certainly been a little bad with me and most of the time it was the same one wherein India people always keep their children first. For any issues, whether good. bad or ugly they carry their son or daughter ahead of every other entity and believe that their children are supreme and above all. In my case, it has been just opposite as my father and mother were irritably against me trying to overpower any other children and for every fight of mine during my childhood against anyone I got retaliation from the so-called Indian samaj and also from my parents.

The only two people in my family who stood as a formidable wall in front of me was my younger sister and my dog. I remember that in a neighborhood which was although having good people but the minor fights were not ignored and people were very much volatile before the 1990s. So, if any kind of fight use to occur my younger sister yes the younger one was there to defend me and the same could be said about my Dog "Moti" who use to appear immediately before any person who use to pelt stones on me and he once took a very deadly blow on his jaws but still protected me/

So, it could be said that my father and mother must have been a wise person as they understood the value of my life where a little deviation could have given them a difficult days for me but it did not make me rebellious and I at times when raised hands-on anyone it was totally a way to give them back at the fullest but never turned out to be weak from inside.

In this way, I could say that I avoided women from the near and far neighborhood as I knew that women are the main reason behind all conspiracy and started understanding the world from my own perspective where I also understood that ass-lickers and pussy lickers certainly enjoy few good days but do not get respect.

On the contrary, I was defied of studies at every step in spite of my parents at every step of life and the teachers were always there to help me stay afloat in terms of studies and most of my subjects weakness were resolved in the classroom and I was never a mediocre one as my answers were pulled out from the book rather than using any guide-book thus making me intellectually O.K. in my studies. In this way, I would certainly say that I value my certifications and that helped me to stay aloft and all those students who were with me especially at HOLY CROSS were in awe of me but without saying such words of praise about me. On the other hand, they also knew that a little bit of Mukesh mistakes could cost him a lot as during childhood my father used the cane once with all might for a little mistake which was all about spreading sand in my house courtyard which was kept by the maintenance workers to repair the colony road as I took to running over it and thus it got spread.

So, one could say that in India till you don't get big enough in terms of age the children have to be protected from all kinds of people and that is not an easy way to do. Also, if you make your children too much of the likes Ki beta uncle ko namaste Kaho and all such traits then he will never be able to lift himself up and once the society start suppressing a single person they do it for a long more time and life at times becomes burden for such kid who becomes a sandwich between the society and the family but on the other hand such person also keeps himself away from social crimes which is more of being offensive and the bud in him stays beautiful and flowery for a long more time rather than the one who does some criminal offense with women in the open and then payback with many obstacles which he cannot face on his own.

More the respect I have given to elders the more I got retaliation by them!

During the days of Navratra, I feel more to see God being very much oblivious of her surroundings and the idols look gives a thought of being perturbed. It seems if you visit with a pure thought of mind and give some time in the Durga Pandal then certainly you will understand that she does not care much about the world and is gently engrossed towards her own children.

It is not about condemning the Hindu Samaj but certainly the way things have changed and the more of blame game along with getting into each others it seems that after some year people will not come out of mother's womb but IVF will get more advanced where the entire birth process will be related to hatching of chicken and the humans will be coming out of certain kinds of incubators from where they will not carry any tradition.

I, do not want to tarnish anyone's image but I could remember that the more the respect I have given to elders the more I get retaliation from them along with their children and on the other hand their kids who got into each other's family and took advantage of fucking each other got long term respect even if they were found to be tarnishing each other's image by producing illegitimate child or further killing the womb and sometimes also killing the children.

Certainly, the vaginal traits along with land and home or the properties have become bigger than the intellectual knowledge and wisdom and if somebody talks about artificial intelligence along with the relative theory then very piercing words retaliate reminding "Dher tez mat bana" i.e. don't try to act over smart.

The money even if big or small rules the heart and making a mockery of life and death has become a ritual and people are overburdened by the antics of few people (who create unnecessary pressure by asking to die rather than lead the life to fullest) who do not believe in seeing themselves first but try to get over each other by showing themselves to be a bigger entity which shows their inner self which is malign to the core. There is no respect for the person who at least tried to be good towards their friends and relatives but the super-ego of humans has surpassed everything. If one thinks about a few of the clans like the Pandey's who have bought respect a shameless meaning and people like Raghu Ram along with his twin brother Rajiv Lakshman who did not belong to any category of scheduled caste tried to overshadow the presence of others by talking about issues not related to them.

The Person in me who is away from controversy without being controversial was dragged into various issues verbally and it did not make any much of the difference in my life but a virtual headache that did not create any financial or social problem for me. The person who could be of nothing much in terms of being Raghu Raj Rm and others raised issues without finding any importance from it. It shows that the people who are from the respected society which is the students and teachers could always stand better than the one who is the uneducated lot and are born culprits from the various sectors of Bokaro Steel City and other places should hang their heads in shame and thus do not deserve the right to get respect nor they should get any opportunity in life.

So, it is all about our time which is back again who has the knowledge to earn and not ruin the money in unnecessary laughter and giggles along with without pointing towards anyone raise the standard and value which should make them not only street smart but a well-behaved person from the better-educated society.

My school loved me as my mother!

My School which is Holy Cross, Bokaro Steel City has totally engulfed me with love and admiration. Although, I last visited my school before my class Xth board exams and after my result got declared I visited the school in the year 1996 but still the memories of my school days remained with me forever.

It was my privilege to study in such a big school and understand the nuances of studies so if I say that the biggest admiration for me remained my school it could not be the vague truth. I remember that during class IXth I was taking tuition from Lenca Sir who was a Maths teacher from Kendriya Vidyalaya and one day he started speaking some awkward words about my school. I immediately said, Sir, If you have to say something says to me rather than to my school as I am what it is all because of my school and then he could not reply back but praised me before Kendriya Vidyalaya students and said that this guy is the best as he loves his school more than anyone. So, it all becomes a blessing for me as a teacher of a different school praised me. After Class Xth, I joined another School of my City which is G.G.P.S but could not pass out with good numbers from there for Class XII and then continued my entire studies through C.B.S.E Open School from where I got 65% in Class XII exams which were based on arts. My last exam fOR C.B.S.E was from Tagore Garden, New Delhi and after that my life has continued till today with an M.A. in Sociology and further preparing for my Ph.D.

It is true that if you love your school along with your studies then the school nurtures you like a mother after all you spend half of your valuable days in school and keep in mind that any distraction at school along with getting into someone's entity in terms of opposite sex in form of copulation brings a bad name during schooling and apart from that every other small mistake are forgiven as school is the first step in learning and thankfully My school loved me as my mother thus helping me to grow in almost every aspect of life including Marathon running as I was an accomplished Cross Country Runner at school and was actively involved in almost every sport apart from academics!

The World has changed and so has Ram!

The World which was found during the Ramyug has changed drastically. If we compare ourselves with the work and worship of Ram one could achieve nothing but the only thought of over creating the hype of Being Purushottam. If one thinks about the Swaymvar of Sita Jee the very person who has the knowledge about the story of Dadhichi Muni or the sage who took out his bones to provide the weapon for destroying demons was the similar way to take the test of Ram who could not make the difference out of the Brahmastra by the vertebrae of Shri Dasrath ji which was turned into a bow. 

Such an Amogh Astra was broken by Shri ram who was having a lust for Sita and thus he lost the love of the entire humanity with this simple misunderstanding as he was overridden by the infatuation. On the other hand, Sri Ravana who could have been the best of the King still found quick enough to get back by bowing before the bow or the danush and thus gathered applause without much of the appreciation. In this way, one could understand that whether it is your father or mother they come first and if you consider yourself to be a human being then surely your God is the best of the protector and in any case, if it is the question of your parents then the Supreme power is there to protect under her umbrella rather than having a camouflage where you can give the substitute for your good or bad deeds and thus offer the entity under whom you are working or staying with.

If one thinks about the few people who could be seen taking advantage of their lifestyle by helping themselves with a greater cause of putting everything of theirs at stake and then throwing away their happiness which could be anything which can be termed as XYZ found to be without any laughter in life for a long more time. It is easy to be a better person by laughing off at times when you are passing through well managed natural paths or the fields as it reverberates the energy with giving back instead of asking anything from you. Also, the people who laugh at parks with much of the energy gets more in terms of blood circulation rather than getting it by playing or doing gym at places which are enclosed. Now, if we see that the people who belong to affluent with their state of mind are most of the time avoiding their surname or titles but only keeping it for the purpose to write their full name where it is needed. On the other hand, the people who have been hiding their names and titles by giving any particular surname which does not pull out any significance such as Kumar or Devi along with Sankrityayan could be seen fighting for the surnames. They are getting boiled over their surnames just the way as if they have got a lot more from their titles at the present decade and thus again losing the respect in their own eyes first and then the samaj which is always there to pull you out.

So, one has to understand that the world has changed and so has Ram who has become wiser and does not give much of the importance to the people who suggest what to do next and they are considered to be more of a fool who does not remember the reason for taking alms but get more by considering themselves to be a new way which could be better beg than get more through your own hardships and struggle which are a way of past and do not fetch you the desired lifestyle. So, today it is all about giving more to the soul and PAYBACK is not only confined to the company but to all those who have been with you during the thick and thin of times and the festivals are the best time to give back the gratitude and help with the kind gesture which could not be measured in words and deeds are always the best for the man or lady who knows how to press the hands in a right way!

Spreading of fake Hinduism and making money out of it making culprit!

During Navratri when India is reverberating with positive energy all over and the world also sees the beautiful Garba nights at different places all over the world then one could make out the best out of the powers of Devi Durga who has given back enough to the world. The best place to see the auspicious occasion is through the various Shaktipeeth and the shakti sthals of The Goddess Durga. 

One of the most important places to visit in North India is Maa Vaishno Devi shrine board where one could find the best of the Navratri festivals without the pomp and show and get the blessings out of the Goddess.

There are many sects in India which have come up on their own and propagate the worship of Human Goddess such as Amma Bhagwan along with many other such as Radha Mai who give their own stance overspreading of fake Hinduism and making money out of making culprit not only their own status but also the thought of Indians who join such groups. They are nothing in terms of giving or spreading anything to the Brahma kalin religion which has given much of the better aspects to life.

Giving a better way to reach the Mata Vaishno Devi Shrine Board is the Vande Bharat Express which is the newly designed high-tech train by Indian Railways which will be running from New Delhi to the Vaishno Devi railway Station and vice-versa.

The train will be connecting the two stations within eight hours and will provide the journey with the state-of-the high railway's train which gives services at better rates and the ride which is all about comfort along with the introduction of the in-house train hostess giving the facility of the likes of an air hostess.

Now, if one thinks the other comforts at the shrine board is the new path developed with a huge amount which has reduced the journey by at least 8 hours and the entire stretch which has given the best of the way as there is no chance of any mountains blocking the path. The entire stretch is covered up and there are no such obstacles that could occur with better sanitation along with food facilities and also the RO water facility throughout the stretch.

So, one could reach the Vaishno Devi temple with more ease and there is no need to splurge on chopper rides thus making the best out of the ride through the better facility and thus helping the devotees to gather around Navratri and thus make the best out of the trip which gives much in terms of blessings and less as trouble!

Lust for every man makes women feel degraded within her soul!

One must have seen or heard about the women lusts which have destroyed many kingdoms, fiefdoms and other such entities in life. The woman who is the center of attraction for everyone in life should have a limited lust which can be said to the sexual cravings. If she indulges in sex with every person which could be termed as nondescript then a time will come when she will feel bad in her own eyes and feel very awkward. 

If we say that such thoughts lead to giving her some mental disorder then it may not be false and after having sex a time comes when she gets into flesh trade from where nobody can pull her up. Now, one could say that if a person who may have too much sexual desire then before meeting his eternal lover she should have sex with the few whom she tries to keep as a consort. This is not my opinion but the thought process of the society which is governing these days. Now, if I personally think towards my own well being then I never tried to get desperate in terms of sex and had no sexual or personal relationship with anyone apart from the girl who got into my life and tried to make me emotionally weak and create havoc in my life to satisfy the urge of his friends.

Gone are those days when the women use to be vampish and her evil desires use to destroy the entire family or clan. Today, the family bondings are stronger than before and people can keep an eye on each other by staying far and near and most of the time their desire is to have well wishes for each other.

I am privileged to get born in a family that has a great grandfather in terms of Sh. Chittaranjan Prasad and my father Mr. Upendra Vidyarthi along with mother Kiran Bala Devi who has put all efforts to make me a better person in life and rise in my thoughts and action. I always learned from them to be loyal first and then be understanding which never allowed me to dare for sex and love without the consent of the society. So, as per my beliefs, lust for every man makes women feel degraded within her soul and her desire to fuck XYZ should not reach a crescendo which could destroy the friendship and family ties but the sex and marriage should always be done to improve the relationship between two families rather than becoming a hindrance for each other.