Saturday, 15 June 2019

Internal Mahabharat in family-Fighting & still surging in Career!

As a person who has seemingly seen friendship, love, betrayal, and happiness in the family along with the school friends who were smart at every level and supported me only with their presence felt around I feel that fighting against a few odd peoples from my own family just like the battle of Mahabharata has kept my life running at a notch above at least where my family is concerned.
Now, as every Indian family is concerned it has tow side just like the two sides of coins Maternal and paternal. While my family of four including a dog since childhood hailed from Bokaro Steel City and the education I got from Holy Cross School has helped me to reach what Ia m today which is an M.A.  Sociology and planning for a Ph.D. still the  maternal family members who were much deprived of money and fame as they were more or less a sort of vagabonds and after year to year use to come to our house  and to my surprise sometimes beg money from my father which of course my father vehemently denied, took to all rubbish ways to earn money and the set of four brothers from my mother's end were not that influential after their father;s demise who was at a plum post at Patna Secretariat. At that time when my mother got married to my father who was a SAIL employee and had a good source of earning did not have any wish to overburden himself by throwing money on the other half of the family as he inculcated savings from his salary since the joining of SAIL.
This helped me and my sister to get a good private school education but my sister surge ahead in career by joining IHM, PUSA-Bangalore and I somehow could not do well with my studies after class X, still, when my father sent me on the pretext of studies to Delhi I completed studies through Open Colleges on my own and with Bharati Vidyapeeth, School of Distance learning completed my studies while earning on my own through jobs at regular intervals in Customer Service and marketing Industry along with developing the acumen into Digital Marketing through NIIT, Imperia.
Since my father has inculcated a better thought process and the school which I joined during my childhood years was very strict due to a Christian Convent background I have much of the simpler ways to be argumentative, playful but not to indulge in any criminal ways lest along with even try to get into affairs as I compared myself to be in a different domain.
My thoughts were confined to the simple well being and I always use to think that if I will not become something better in my life will I be able to show my face to my childhood friends who were studying well. In the meantime my mother's family which is termed as a maternal family has many children and with their wayward ways of living few of them as mentioned above took to lowly works in Delhi and since I was easily recognizable to them but for me after their growing years I did not care ever to get back into their life to see how or on which path they are treading they took to wild ways and not only created obstacles in my life but become a nuisance for my only sister as well, which was well known only after few years due to which we took to the step of not having any kind of further relationship with them. 
Here, in question is the behavior of Sanjeev Ranjan Srivastav, harsh Srivastava and his family members, Alakh Deo Narain and Rajan Srivastava & Shivani who hails from Mango, Jamshedpur and Sourabh-Gaurabh Srivastava from Darbhanga along with their father and sister including one more from the Muzzafarpur by the name of Sinku and his parents. Another prominent person is Naval Kishore Prasad and Shushma and the son by the name of happy or Sahil being the person who are known to do mobbing and beating people for their own interest and twice they have attacked me vehemently once at Naraina during the year 2003 and the next at 2017 at my own society Ajnara Integrity.
So, their modus operandi is to do various kinds of heist and selling of illegal vehicles along with many other activities which are a part of anti-social background due to which they are known to be of nature pertaining to notorious activities. 
  So, I urge the public, in general, to beware of such people and understand that with their little bit of penetration into Bihari household they could create problems in other's life as well. In one way a person could understand that if they are harmful to one person they could be harmful to society as well because the people at Ajnara Integrity, Ghaziabad have seen me mercilessly getting beaten by them and there is no reason for the family feud but the love and accolades which I get is better as compared to the reprimand they get by the people who they know which leads to the Internal Mahabharat which I have to face and still I fight back and surge in career which is a never-ending saga of life for the better pastures at least for a person who tries to stand on his own!

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