In life parents & Sisters still standby your end rather than teachers!

Teachers in today's world are an irony to the context when we remember Guru Dronacharya, but, one has to remember that even Guru Dronacharya got against Eklavya because he has learned all the vidya's on his own. Similarly, Nachiketa has to take all the bad vibes of Indian society because he argued from the mother's womb with the father. So, one has to understand that in India even if the country is very much patriarchal still a male boy has to face all the consequences in life until he proves himself in life to become as per the standards set by the Indian Education or Economic system.

 I, as a person, was born at a city which was Once upon a time The Jewel of Bihar and now in Jharkhand, i.e. Bokaro Steel City and feel privileged to born in a family which has given me enough of freedom apart from few beatings by father and mother along with younger sister which made me enough resistance in life to face the tortures of the world where even if I get beaten by odd people I stay firm as I have been doing exercise of a cemented kind where over-exerting is the word to explain.

Now, as I said that in life parents and sisters still standby your end rather than teachers is because in the private schooling system much of the time the teachers and their wards are studying and teaching at the same school. If your ward is bright then he has to face a thousand other students at the same time as the city and it is not necessary that everybody takes the same path of going for the Medicine or Engineering studies. Also, falling in Love during school was not my forte and as far as I remember with high regards to the girl whose name got associated with me I neither kissed her nor come close even to hug her and feeling good about myself to remain cheerful was my own way to deal with my life, so there was no question of proposing to any girl by the name of XYZ....which was just a part of rumour and propaganda by pranksters in the class.

Another aspect of life was that I have the habit of praying about other's people success rather than thinking about my own and if I think about cross-country or marathon after the football attracting me I was into kilometers racing where most of the time I was into top 15 as I treaded the unconventional long route which I have found on my own behind the railway colony at Bokaro Steel, once we were set free to run for School Cross Country. At that time during the year, 1992 I completed my run of 30 Kms in just 1 Hrs 15 minutes.

Now, the other aspect of my life which was about my sister Sweta Srivastava or Sweta Kumari, she joined Holy Cross in the year 1998 when I have left the school in the year 1996 after doing Class Xth and she was as zestful as me and quite a fabulous girl who did not fear anyone and was on her own in terms of matching every other person with fearless attitude. and now she is at a plum post at Bengaluru. Although, during this visit, I was
unable to meet her and it's nothing that she has kept me away from her life it's all because I was harsher on her to shape her career and which she did in every possible manner to make us feel proud.

I don't deny with the fact that I was mischevious but not to that extent like my classmates Mr. Navneet Kumar Sinha or Mr. Nitin but certainly I wanted everyone around me to be happy and forget the stress. I also sometimes got a beating from my father for not scoring well in maths and at times for not obeying the people in the neighbourhood but thankfully understood on my own that having Sex at childhood or adolescent which was not a norm during the year 1996-2000, I abstained myself from any sexual encounter and due to which I got no sexual life till the age 32 which is very true and till today with so  many women who think that they went over me or had orgy because of me is all of a different story as life goes "Kaput" at times and you enjoy the moment  without sexual penetration!